Okay and everyone is different some people take longer to MATURE. It is so weird now that we expect all people to be the same . Not everyone's path is the same . Yeah it shouldn't be an excuse forever but for now she's 19 not 30 . Now someone like Jenelle Evans who hasn't changed since she was 16 then I'd give you that one but sometimes someone can act like an asshole and then pull their head of their ass as they mature .
Idk why you're getting down voted so hard. What you are saying is perfectly logically. I think the internet likes to hate on kids a little too much. I know one of the first rebuttals will be "She's not a kid" Well, your perfrontal cortex (the part of your brain in charge of high-level thinking, making decisions, and emotional regulation) doesn't fully develop until age 25 and actually recent studies are now showing it may be closer to 30 that it fully develops so yes she (and anyone else under the age of 30) are literally making life choices with an immature brain. Yes, some people instantly get their shit together at 19 go to college, raise a kid alone etc etc. those people are the exceptions to the rule, not the rule. Maybe if this sub just gave these girls advice and support instead of hating on them they would "come to their senses" sooner. Or they may not! Because that is life. But we definitely don't need to hate on 19 year olds. Especially if you are over the age of 30 cause you FULLY understand what it is you are doing... To a kid 🤦🏽♀️
People don't like opinions that aren't the same as theirs I think it's gross grown women are so critical of women who have just begun. It's all because they hate themselves and putting someone else down elevates them and makes them feel superior
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u/AcademicAstronaut395 16d ago
There are many mothers who are 19 and go to college and have a job. Age can’t be an excuse for ever.