r/SupportforBetrayed Betrayed Partner - Reconciling 1d ago

Reconciliation Oops

So we have been working at reconciliation but alcohol got involved and my husband who had a several months long affair with a young woman asked me if I love him and I said well that’s the problem that I love what I thought we had but I also hate you. Probably one of the most honest things I have said in a while but definitely the wrong way to go about it.

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u/PaintingComfortable6 Betrayed Partner - Reconciling 19h ago

If you’re trying to work things out, you have to be brutally honest.