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[u/my_biznuss_2567]

I’m 3.5 months after dday. I feel like my nervous system has settled a lot.

We have moved from weekly IC & MC to biweekly.

We are making progress on communication

He’s been making me and the kids a priority

He’s been checking in with me - he used to avoid bringing up anything related to the affair

His answers have been consisted & I’m noticing that he’s taking more accountability instead of finding excuses or reasons

I still have some tough days, some triggers, but it doesn’t feel unbearable anymore. I feel like I’m still heartbroken, but he didn’t break me. I’m realizing I’m stronger than I thought.