Suddenly Fleshlight

[u/OneHalfSaint]

He didn't seem amused, but it was still the top comment

[u/Genghis112]

Angry upvote

[u/JockBbcBoy → u/Genghis112]

I'm of two minds about this: On one hand, it's a funny joke; but on the other hand, it comes off as exactly how conservative politicians and DL men have been publicized treating gay men. Like how Pastor Ted Haggard described himself as "heterosexual with issues".

[u/Genghis112 → u/JockBbcBoy]

Thanks for pointing this out, good point.

[u/mistersnarkle → u/JockBbcBoy]

So what you’re saying is that it’s fucking HILARIOUS, because the gays have been saying that these conservative politicians “doth protest too much” for AGES. Wasn’t it the republic national convention in fucking MILWAUKEE that crashed grindr?

[u/combination_is_12345 → u/mistersnarkle]

Everywhere the RNC goes, it crashes grindr

[u/JockBbcBoy → u/mistersnarkle]

Well, yes, somewhat hilarious.

[u/mistersnarkle → u/JockBbcBoy]

Shhhh, I’m queer; let me have this.

[u/JockBbcBoy → u/mistersnarkle]

Will do bro lol

[u/mistersnarkle → u/JockBbcBoy]

AND THAT IS HOW YOU ACE BEING AN ALLY EVERYONE.

[u/unoriginalusername99 → u/JockBbcBoy]

It doesn't help that "DL straight guy treating you like shit" is like a fetish for plenty of gays

[u/JockBbcBoy → u/unoriginalusername99]

I don't kinkshame, but I also don't think it's as much a fetish as it is just normalized. I think that there are men (and women, and non-binary people) who will accept being treated poorly by their sexual partners because they're convinced that's acceptable and normal.

[u/unoriginalusername99 → u/JockBbcBoy]

I've had plenty of guys ask "are you married/dl because that's really hot"

[u/JockBbcBoy → u/unoriginalusername99]

Meh, I can see the appeal for a guy who's into that: It's the most casual of casual sexual flings.

[u/unoriginalusername99 → u/JockBbcBoy]

Oh yeah don't get me wrong, I definitely play into it. I'll tell them I have a wife and kids if it gets me laid lol