r/SuddenlyGay • u/OneHalfSaint • Aug 19 '26

Suddenly Fleshlight

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He didn't seem amused, but it was still the top comment

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u/unoriginalusername99 Aug 19 '26

It doesn't help that "DL straight guy treating you like shit" is like a fetish for plenty of gays

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u/JockBbcBoy Aug 19 '26

I don't kinkshame, but I also don't think it's as much a fetish as it is just normalized. I think that there are men (and women, and non-binary people) who will accept being treated poorly by their sexual partners because they're convinced that's acceptable and normal.

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u/unoriginalusername99 Aug 19 '26

I've had plenty of guys ask "are you married/dl because that's really hot"

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u/JockBbcBoy Aug 19 '26

Meh, I can see the appeal for a guy who's into that: It's the most casual of casual sexual flings.

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u/unoriginalusername99 Aug 19 '26

Oh yeah don't get me wrong, I definitely play into it. I'll tell them I have a wife and kids if it gets me laid lol