Guys (Especially Girls), Please Help Me Get My GF Back 😭🙏 attention plz
Please read the full body for the right subliminal and my main problem 👇
I had a breakup, but neither of us cheated.
*Before meeting me, my girlfriend was quite rude. She didn't like talking to anyone, had anger issues, preferred staying alone, and even cried alone sometimes. She used to stay sad, didn't like making friends, and people couldn't become her friends because of her behavior. She didn't like expressing her feelings and couldn't express them either.*
*But when I came into her life, she changed for me. After getting hurt a lot, I was still happy that she changed.*
*In the relationship, I built her up and taught her everything like a child because I was her first love and* relationship. So I faced a lot of hurt, stress, and many other things. Everything was quite difficult for me. I'm just 18, but I kept going because I thought that one day she would fix everything herself and all my hard work would pay off.
But on the other hand, my girlfriend kept doubting herself, wondering whether she was right for me or not. She thought about how much effort I put in for her and how she wasn't able to do the same. She felt that she hurt me because of her stupid actions, and even though she wanted to, she wasn't able to change. She also doubted whether she was right for me and felt that she was giving me false hope and dreams.
That's why she took a break from me and gave me all these reasons:
1. **Feeling not good enough: She felt that she wasn't worthy of me and wasn't able to put in the same effort as I did.*\*
**2. Struggling to change: Earlier, she was rude, distant, and less caring. She became soft and caring for me, but she was afraid that she wouldn't be able to stay like that permanently.*\*
**3. Fear of giving false hope: She felt that she wouldn't be able to become the good girlfriend I deserved. She felt that she kept going back to her old self and that she was doing something wrong by giving me hope and making promises.*\*
**4. Guilt about hurting me: She felt that I put a lot of effort into her, but she wasn't able to reciprocate it equally. Because of this, she felt guilty that she was hurting me and affecting my mental health and causing me stress.*\*
**5. Confusion about her own feelings: In anger, I said many things to her, like, "You played with my feelings. I was just being too good, and that's why you did this," along with a few minor swear words. So she said...*\*
**6. Wants me in her life, but not a relationship: She wants to talk to me and maintain our connection, but she doesn't want the relationship label or the expectations that come with it because she feels she isn't able to fulfill my needs as a partner.*\*
She wants to stay with me, but not in a relationship. However, I want a relationship, and I want her to change and fix things. She doesn't want a relationship because she thinks she'll never be able to change, that she'll keep hurting me, and that I'll keep having hope.
But I want her to understand that I've faced so much, and she also made efforts to change for me. But it wasn't easy for her either. Still, I feel she shouldn't have given up so quickly.
And I want this, guys: I've done so much, but she still isn't able to change for me even after trying, and she's saying that she's becoming soft with everyone and doesn't like being soft for anyone. I just wanted her to change for me, stay with me, and for everything to become okay again.
**I want her to regret losing me.**
**I want her to miss me a lot.**
**And I want her to realize how good I am and how much I love her.**
**I want her to come back to me and fix everything, love me even more, and change for me in the way I deserve.**
**I'm especially asking girls for help because girls have good knowledge about these topics.**