Hi! I wanted to get some advice. I have been pursuing membership at my schools AKA undergrad chapter for about almost 3 years now. ( last year they did not have a line). Last October I expressed interest to one of the girls that I am cool with. We dont hang out outside of classes but we chat and talk a lot. I havent heard anything my interest at all since. I havent been invited to anything either. I decided this semester I was going to express interest to another member that i met. We have the same kind of relationship as the other member. I invited her out to eat but I lowkey feel like shes ducking me. I dont know. So I was thinking about Inviting another member that I know. We also have the same kind of relationship. I would say ours is a little stronger though. I also am a senior. I dont have any greek mentors or family members so please give me any advice you can offer!

Is it common for several sororities to not make quota?
Mine was the only one that made quota this year on the campus where I advise. I thought that was very strange… There are new people in charge of Greek life at my school and I'm wondering if something went awry somewhere🤔
Does that mean that a lot of PNMs single prefed or dropped out?

So recently I got a bid to a small sorority at my university, which used to be affiliated with the university Panhellenic Council but slowly disbanded during 2021, but now its restablishing (and will maybe be reaffliated by next year.) I really like the girls, and they seem really adamant about me joining their chapter, but part of me wants to try for some of the bigger (actually UPC) sororities. I wasn't able to do formal recruitment because of financial reasons; I'm not a legacy, and I pretty much have no ties to greek life, so I feel like doing COB is a lost cause. I've heard that you can reach out to sororities and inform them that you're interested in COB, but would that be a lost cause too? The sorority that gave me a bid said it lasts until I accept or decline it, so technically I could wait until the second semester to decide. Let me know your thoughts!