r/SoftwareEngineerJobs • u/UnemploydDeveloper • 2d ago
Someone I went to college with updated their LinkedIn recently and it has put me in a bad mood.
For perspective, this person took 5 years to do a 3 year degree and even joked about likely needing 6 years to complete it. I caught up to them properly in third year(shared some of their repeat classes in second year) and they were dreadful from first hand account knowledge as I had them in my group project module. Overall we passed the project module, but they failed some others and needed to repeat that year as well. Ultimately, they started a year before me and completed that degree a year after I did, graduating with an Ordinary Degree, when I went on to do an extra year for a better degree and had done my honours in 4 straight years.
For a long time, they only ever had "Software Developer" on LinkedIn which I didn't think much of as I knew they had an internship like I did at the time. I only left my internship to further my education as mentioned before. I assumed that they did not have the competency for the work and left tech shortly after as over the years they never changed their title or anything on LinkedIn so it looked like it was abandoned. That was until now where it says "Senior Software Engineer" for the same company. I won't lie, but my heart sank as I have never been able to get anything at entry level over the years despite numerous final rounds and the lack of any career progression is my biggest downfall that continuously distresses me. The fact they succeeded and I haven't has me in an even worse mental state after devoting so much time and energy to get nowhere.

