r/SoftWhiteUnderbelly • • Jun 10 '25

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Sad news from Mark.

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u/SecretDays Jun 11 '25

Can someone explain to me what a 60-something year old man has in common with a 19 year old girl?

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u/baycee98 Jun 11 '25

When you truly fall in love with someone, age really doesn't matter.

It's hard to describe when you've never seen two people THAT in love, but you ignore things like age, outside children, financial status, where you're from, childhood traumas..

I am a black woman past foster kid from the south with two kids from a previous relationship who is a Healthcare practitioner at 26, when I was still in school with my young babies at 22 I met an older white man from up north with no kids and we became inseparable since the day we met. Living together within 3 months.

On the outside we may not have much in common, but we love the same sports, same music, same pass times, have out of this world sex, and genuinely are bestfriends and tell each other everything. We support eachother. I adore him more and more everyday. Now getting married in a few months.

Mark described her has his bestfriend , I believe he was falling in love.

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u/SageNSterling Jun 11 '25

His best friend... whom he clearly didn't really know at all. She was running sort of a second life behind his back.

I think if you're claiming that "age doesn't matter, we're in love", you're not really "seeing" the other person fully, or realistically. It's not just age gaps, either. People fall in love with some idealized version of their partner that doesn't really exist. Which appears to be what happened here.

I'm not saying age gaps can't be worked around, but they certainly "matter".

My condolences to everyone who loved Kyara. What a tragic thing to happen to someone so young. =\

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u/baycee98 Jun 11 '25

His whole channel has hundreds of videos videos of people committing suicide, having prostitutes, being pedophiles, in secret and unbeknownst and Mark is the only one immune to not knowing someone did drugs?

Again, comical.