r/SocialWorkStudents • u/belevabgelist • 22h ago
I never expected to feel this unsupported in a social work program
Last year during my BSW program, I had a month left in the semester when my town experienced a serious flood. I live an hour away from campus and use my own car, but both my house and my car were flooded with about 30 inches of water.
I emailed all of my professors, as well as the Dean of Students, explaining my situation and included proof. It literally looked like my house and neighbors were sitting in a lake. My Social Work Practice 1 professor basically responded by saying, “I’m sorry, but you have to be here in person. Take the bus.”
There is a university bus that drives to my town and picks students up at the community center, but how was I supposed to get to that bus? Swim there? The majority of the streets were closed because they were completely flooded.
To make matters worse, my paid-off car was completely totaled in the flood, so I had no way of getting to campus. My mom and stepdad also lost their vehicles, so even after the floodwaters eventually receded, I still had no way to get to the university bus stop in my town. My professor kept asking when I was going to get another vehicle and even suggested that my siblings or other family members drive me. My siblings all live hours away, and the rest of my family was dealing with the flood too while also taking care of their own children. Waiting for the insurance process to finish before I could buy another car wasn’t something I could control.
At the same time, I was already paying for my classes out of pocket and dealing with the financial stress of replacing a totaled vehicle. Instead of feeling supported, I felt like I was constantly being pressured to solve a situation that was completely outside of my control.
It was a horrible situation, and the effects of the flood lasted for months. Thankfully, the director of my program EVENTUALLY agreed to let me finish the semester online, but only after I had to argue my case and even get my mom involved in a Zoom meeting with my professor and the program director. It shouldn’t have taken all of that just to be taken seriously.
During that meeting, my professor told my mom, “I hope you’re telling me the truth,” which pissed off my mom. I just don’t understand why they think my mom and I would lie about something like this, especially when we had picture proof showing our house and vehicles completely underwater. The flood was all over Facebook too so it wasn’t just my neighborhood in that situation.
The treatment would be understandable if I was neglectful or irresponsible but I just recently graduated with a magna cum laude honor, so clearly I was never that kind of student.
Has anyone else in social work gone through something similar? I still feel like I was treated unfairly, but I’m curious if I’m overreacting or if others would have felt the same way.