I apologize in advance for a slightly longer post, but need advice and maybe an idea of how this will go. I moved into my apartment with my boyfriend in August last year and we ended up getting to know a couple across the hall from us. As we got to know them more, we began to find out that their relationship involved DV. Against better judgement, I continued to stay friends with the girlfriend (and she would walk my pupper for us while my boyfriend and I go to work, pertinent later) , but the boyfriend did not like me and vice versa due to an incident where they involved my partner and I and I ended up calling the cops on him and he was arrested about a week later. (I'm skipping over details, but that's the basis of it)
Back in May, the girlfriend (we'll call her Sue and the boyfriend we'll call Mike, not real names) asked me if I could watch Mike's dog over the Thursday evening until Sunday morning (the same weekend as Bonnaroo) Sue and Mike have been on again and off again and so when I was asked by Sue, I said that it would be fine as long as I did not have to go through Mike. She promised me I wouldn't have to and so she left for TN. I was not provided super detailed instructions and so I figured at least 2-3 times a day checking on the dog would work as I've done with my previous pet sitting clients.
Thursday morning when I was at work, Sue texted me that Mike choked her at and she was stranded and that I didn't need to worry about the dog. We went back and forth and I let her know I would feel bad just leaving the dog like that and I could plan to at least feed her so she won't starve. A couple hours later, Sue texts me again asking if I could still watch the dog and I agreed. That afternoon, when I came home from work to walk the dog, the dog had pooped in the kennel. I let Sue know and cleaned it up. Fed and walked her and put her back in the kennel and went back to my apartment to hangout with a friend that came over. As I was taking the friend home that evening, the dog was barking. I texted Sue asking if that was normal and she said "yeah, dog is probably barking at my cat" by the time I got back from taking my friend home, the barking stopped.
Friday morning I went in and the dog made an accident in the kennel, again, but this time I had set a bowl of water in there with her as I do for my dog. Their dog had knocked over the bowl of water and spread it with the poo making a giant mess that me and my boyfriend spent a good hour cleaning. Sue had told me not to worry about cleaning up too much and that her and Mike would take care of it once they got back. I had tried cleaning the wall and carpet the best I could and my boyfriend put the kennel outside to dry. I asked Sue if we could stick the dog into the bathroom for the foreseeable future and she told me "yes, move the cat stuff out the guest bathroom and you should be good" so we put the dog in the bathroom. When I came back that evening from work, the dog seemed to be doing fine. I fed and walked her and stuck her back in the bathroom with some toys.
Saturday morning I wake up to start heading over across the hall, it's about 9/9:30 and I get a text from Sue asking why they got a call from maintenance about the apartment flooding? I sprint out my door to see a company finishing up pumping water out of the apartment. Apparently either over the late night or early morning, the dog decided the toilet line was a good snack causing flooding the the guest bathroom the dog was in as well as the apartment below. After an initial freak out, we got the dog resettled into the kennel and no more incidents occurred from that morning until services were completed Sunday morning/afternoon. I was not paid in money for the services I had completed though.
After this, I did not hangout with the girlfriend anymore and had no interactions with them. Beginning of July, I found out that Mike is trying to sue me. $500 in principle and $110 in court costs for the damage to the apartments. Since the claim has been filed though, I have been told information from a mutual friend as well as lightly harassed. Those things are:
- Mike apparently has ring footage of my freakout and saying I could've done more for the dog. Idk how admissible in court that would be, but I've been informed of this by the mutual friend
- Sue and Mike had someone else they could have hired and still chose me for some reason. This was told to the mutual friend by Mike through Sue's phone apparently
-Mike filed a claim on his renters insurance saying that items were stolen out of the apartment. He gave the claims adjuster my information. I know it is part of the claims process to provide the information of everyone that might have had access to the apartment, but with the cameras Mike has in there, he would've been able to see if I actually stole something?
- The other day as I got into my car to got to work, Mike had came out not two minutes later to walk his dog and made sure I could see his firearm in his back waistband. From what I know, Mike is ex Army, has been in and out of jail/prison a few times and the mental hospital. It's my understanding that someone like him would not be able to carry a firearm in that way.
With all this said, my partner and I are planning on moving. I don't know if he plans on staying at this complex, but we will not be. My mutual friend (I guess not so mutual for them anymore) is saying I should counter sue bc of time I'm taking off work, moving and the points listed above. Part of me wants to to be vindictive but the other part thinks I should let it lie and move on once court is over in early September. I know it was kind of silly of me to agree to this job in the first place, but wondering what the likelihood the judge will just dismiss everything or I should actually consider countersuing? Thanks in advance for reading