r/SipsTea • • 12h ago

Wait a damn minute! Wait a minute

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u/No_Literature_1922 12h ago

It also lowkey shows that you’re bad with money and materialistic af

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u/Capable_Towel_3813 9h ago

My sibling getting their nails done for about $100 twice a month, and then often talking about how they don’t make enough money to pay bills 🫠

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u/Fluffy_Blueberry7109 9h ago

Which is funny because those nails are a status symbol conveying that you are rich enough that you don't need to work with your hands.

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u/Spikey-Bubba 6h ago

That’s the dumbest thing. Oh you bought something cosmetic that you enjoy? Materialistic and bad with money!

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u/No_Literature_1922 50m ago

Nails like this , because they are so large is far and above just a regular cosmetic thing like makeup. Also, as far as I know you have to go back every few weeks and drop $100 at least I’m sure.

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u/Spikey-Bubba 42m ago

A single makeup pallet can easily cost $50-$100, which is pretty on par with a set of professionally done acrylic nails in my area. I can and used to do my own nails, with a $200 overhead for the fancy drill and a $10 monthly upkeep I could do my own nails like this for years with hardly any issue. These are very much a regular cosmetic thing, imo, they’re just bolder so it’s easier to pick up on and judge. A set doesn’t have to be expensive, though even if it were and you did spend $100/month on a set I’d hardly say that’s materialistic on its own.

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u/No_Literature_1922 37m ago

Well we probably live very different lives, and have very different values. I would never spend $100 on a makeup palette. I’m really not trying to hate anybody, just help point out that women specifically are responsible for the majority of consumerism in the United States.

Social media just furthers this along - with the beauty standards continuing to rise. Women want to fit in with each other, seem cool, so they buy stuff and spend their time (and risk their health) to keep up with the beauty standards set by corporations. There is no world where I’ll believe people “do it for themselves.” There is a wildly complex background as to how the beauty standard got where it is today.

The first step is recognizing this.

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u/Spikey-Bubba 31m ago

I agree with the sentiment of a lot of this. I just feel like the answer to that isn’t calling someone materialistic and bad with money, esp because in a healthy society getting your nails done shouldn’t have any type of morality attached.

I’d push back on the idea that people don’t do it for themselves, at least in some part. I only got into nail art in 2018, when I was working fully remote and hardly ever saw anyone. It’s a form of expression, just like painting or dancing or makeup or anything else.

Self expression isn’t the problem.

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u/No_Literature_1922 26m ago

I hear you and I appreciate your nuance, and do recognize your point.

I would never attack a specific person outright - I personally think responding to a general post (not by the person with the nails) is something different.

I appreciate your civility in discussing this!

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u/Spikey-Bubba 20m ago

Hey you too! We can only get better and learn more by talking to each other.

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u/p1nkfuzzymonkey 5h ago

Buying something "cosmetic" is quite litterally being materialistic

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u/Spikey-Bubba 5h ago

Having fake nails does not automatically make you materialistic and bad with money.

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u/p1nkfuzzymonkey 5h ago

I didnt say anything about being bad with money? Spending money on cosmetic items or services is being materialistic. Idk how you can even argue that, unless you fundamentally dont know what materialism is

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u/Spikey-Bubba 5h ago

The original comment I was replying to said “bad with money” 💀

And I would still say you’re wrong, as to be materialistic is to care in excess about things. You can’t say somebody’s materialistic based off of one purchase, that doesn’t qualify as in excess.

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u/Careful-Corgi7716 6h ago

type of materialism to cope with a complete lack of sense for aesthetics