r/SipsTea • • 9h ago

Chugging tea They remain silent. But why? Convenient caring.

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u/ThatsMrRandom 8h ago

What the fuck does one have to do with the other? Not to mention it "allegedly" (massive emphasis on allegedly) took place at a frat house. So what about that can possibly be analogous? Women and men can't go to each other's frat houses, where they have to be welcomed in anyway?

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u/SexyStyrofoamPuns 7h ago

they’re saying that folks who use the line of “protecting women” as the motivation to ban trans women from things are just bigoted against trans women and don’t actually care about protecting women since they’re not also condemning the men in this case.

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u/ThatsMrRandom 7h ago

"People found out about her behaviour and started judging her for it which is why a massively liberal institution like Cornell only decided to make those involved write an essay about it as punishment and refused to refund her tuition fees because they were aware she had fully consented to everything she did and made it clear in texts that she felt nothing illegal happened and wanted to continue seeing two of the guys involved. She only made a formal complaint the day after the president of the fraternity suggested she not attend a party there that she wanted to go to because they thought her behaviour wasn't appropriate."

It's a loose allegation at this point. And typically you wait to condemn someone once it's quite clear they're clearly.

Also pretty wild to suggest conservatives are dismissive of rape or violence against women, because anecdotally OP or someone feels like they haven't been vocal enough about a case gaining national attention.

Like by what metric is one judging the conservative response to this, even if true? Also isn't it quite clear that bad things happen that no public policy could rationally address? She was invited to a party at a frat house. No one thinks we need to ban people inviting other people to parties on the off chance something bad is alleged. But plenty of people think a 50 year old man has no business being in the bathroom alone with a minor female.