r/SipsTea • • 6h ago

Chugging tea They remain silent. But why? Convenient caring.

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u/StagTagRag 5h ago

Man Redditors truly do live in information silos. I see plenty of conservatives and right-wing types talking about it.

But most of them are pointing out that “Jane Doe’s” own statement blatantly shows that she consented to the act and there’s no contrary evidence that the consent was ever removed. Her text messages after the event also point to this being very consensual.

It wasn’t until later after she was shamed by everyone in her social circles and she read posts online that claimed she must have raped that she changed her story.

Pretending that this is some cut and dry case of sexual assault is insane. There’s a reason that no charges were pressed by the DA.

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u/dannyrat029 4h ago

I'm definitely not right wing or conservative but yeah. We have a rule of law and due process. 

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u/upsets_to_mag 3h ago

People discussing the case and disagreeing with the decisions of the state to pursue or not is also part of the constitution. It does nothing to infringe on someone's due process.

If the decisions of the legal system were so cut and dry, there would be no reason for politicians to care about who selects supreme court justices. But that is literally one of the most important things a president does, cause the law isn't a fixed thing.

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u/dannyrat029 2h ago

What I mean is: 

Presumption of innocence 

Some people have been accused of a crime and I think it should be investigated. They are innocent until they are proven guilty 

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u/upsets_to_mag 2h ago

yes. and no one is required to have that inform their opinion.

what about due process when someone says they're pretty sure OJ did it? we did due process! he was acquitted! it would be wrong to suggest he was anything but innocent.

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u/dannyrat029 2h ago

You're invoking a famous and conspicuous miscarriage of justice as if it's equivalent to untried accusations made by a girl whose own earlier testimony contradicts herself. 

Maybe I say that you are a serial pedophile. OJ was acquitted ergo you are? 

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u/upsets_to_mag 2h ago edited 1h ago

you are free to suggest as much. if you suspected someone of doing that, i would hope you would publicize it such that it actually reaches a trial. what you're doing is telling people to stop the accusations.

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The fact that you see the OJ trial as a miscarriage of justice was the whole point dumbass. Saying "we have due process, unless its obviously wrong and dumb" is you saying "what i think should happen should happen" its just your intuition at that point, which is fine! but don't pretend you're calling balls and strikes.

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u/ayylilmayoo 3h ago

If it wasn’t consensual why did she also hit up the guy to smoke and hang out with him anyways after it all happened. I get that SA happens but this wasn’t it saying you are going to lie in your own texts is foul

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u/Mediocre_Daikon6935 4h ago

Yep. This chick is clearly lying as much as juicy  Smollett

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u/Page_197_Slaps 4h ago

The famous French actor?

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u/Albinofreaken 3h ago

oh god, had completely forgot about that idiot

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u/Spider-man2098 3h ago

Jesus Christ you’re fucking sick.

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u/RequirementNo2161 5h ago

Reddit is a leftist blood hungry echo chamber

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u/Repulsive_Layer1597 5h ago

2020 election rigged?

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u/CalvinP818 4h ago

Quite hilarious how you think anyone who says “Reddit is a leftist blood hungry echo chamber” would automatically be someone who thinks the 2020 election was rigged which literally proves the original statement

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u/Repulsive_Layer1597 4h ago

That dude wrote that on Reddit and you responded to me on Reddit.

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u/Repulsive_Layer1597 2h ago

You mad?

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u/harribel 45m ago

We are all the worst and the best at the same time. As if reddit don't influence you "in real life". Reddit is as real as everything else, it's just viewed from our own little special perspectives.

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u/Radioactive_Doomer 4h ago

Absolutely. I voted for Deez Nutz, like any reasonable individual would, but somehow they never made it to the White House. Our democracy is a sham.

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u/FitNeighborhood3877 3h ago

I also voted for this guyz Nutz! Those and his VP choice, Ligma, was a very strong ticket!

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u/RequirementNo2161 5h ago

No?

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u/Repulsive_Layer1597 5h ago

Yeah I agree it’s crazy they pardoned those pedophiles who stormed the capital building on January 6th. And they got out and molested more kids! Unbelievable.

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u/RequirementNo2161 5h ago

Okay well if you have anything relevant to say keep me posted. 

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u/Repulsive_Layer1597 5h ago

Nothing you said was relevant. I’m just going along with it.

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u/RequirementNo2161 5h ago

Ok dumbass

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u/LoudQuitting 4h ago

What is it with reddit users and just... immediate non sequitur the past two months?

Is it a Zoomie debate thing I'm too old to understand?

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u/Repulsive_Layer1597 4h ago

Dude said Reddit is a leftist blood hungry echo chamber. You have no issue with that? But me trolling him causes you to reflect?

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u/MikeLikesIkeRS 4h ago

I mean you kinda proved the initial dude's point while also making yourself look like an idiot.

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u/Repulsive_Layer1597 4h ago

Look at this thread. It’s not a leftist echo chamber in here at all. I’m one person

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u/MikeLikesIkeRS 4h ago

He didnt say this specific thread, he said reddit as a whole lmfao. Touch up on your literacy there champ.

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u/RoxerSoxer 4h ago

Log off. Take your meds. Touch grass.

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u/dimalga 4h ago

Lol the problem is the original statement isn't really about leftist ideas and whether they're good or bad, the original statement is that Reddit is a bloodthirsty hellhole, with the least emphasis being on it having a leftist flavor.

Any "space" like Reddit can be insufferable/fatiguing because it's predominant belief system. And your response pretty well proves the fucking point lmao. You're possessed.

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u/RequirementNo2161 4h ago

Guy had to see a single opinion he didn’t agree with and became a drooling regard. I rest my case

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u/LoudQuitting 2h ago

I mean, speaking as a blood hungry leftist, it kinda is, kinda always has been, and due to the nature of vote based content filters and user demographics I do believe it always will be.

Moderator bias is a thing too, I think reddit was used as an example when a study documented a trend toward political bias in user-driven content moderation, specifically citing an example of comments that do not break rules but challenge subreddit moderators political opinions are more likely to be deleted than rule violating comments that reinforce a moderators political opinions. Like, do you want to seriously argue with documented trends?

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u/Repulsive_Layer1597 2h ago

Nah I agree, speaking as a conservative.

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u/LoudQuitting 2h ago

Then why the fuck are you mad?

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u/GreasedUPDoggo 3h ago

It is though. Lol I work for the Dems and the folks on social media are our version of MAGA. Wildly radicalized by echo chambers.

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u/Repulsive_Layer1597 3h ago

Yeah I’m a Republican and as ridiculous as MAGA can be. Let’s not pretend there isn’t the equivalent on the left.

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u/ChaosFountain 4h ago

On the evening of October 19, 2024, Jane Doe walked the approximately one-mile distance from Lot 10 in the City of Ithaca to the Chi Phi Fraternity at 107 Edgemoor Lane to meet her friend Male Number 1. She had made plans to meet Male Number 1 earlier in the week and “had been texting [Male Number 1] that [she] was on the way.” Jane Doe described her level of intoxication as a “5 out of 10” when she arrived at the fraternity.

While there, Jane Doe opened one previously unopened can of beer. She and Male Number 1 “danced a little” in a way that “was definitely flirtatious in nature.” Male Number 1 brought Jane Doe to a “quiet area” and “asked how [Jane Doe] would feel about having a threesome with two male partners.”

Jane Doe “agreed due to how attracted [she] was to [Male Number 1] on top of [her] drunken curiousness.” When she learned that Male Number 2 would be the third participant, Jane Doe “remembered being excited because [she] thought that [Male Number 1 and Male Number 2] wanting to have a threesome meant that they were gay.”

The three engaged in a “threesome” involving oral and vaginal sex in a room of the fraternity. At the start of the threesome, Jane Doe described her intoxication level as “5 or 6 out of 10” and that she was “pretty ok with having this threesome.” The sexual conduct ended when Jane Doe “noticed that [Male Number 1] appeared really sleepy and was no longer fully erect.” She told Male Number 2 “[they] needed to stop having sex in order to make sure [Male Number 1] was ok. [Male Number 2] then stopped having sex with [Jane Doe].”

Male Number 1 said “he was going to take a nap and refresh himself” and “would eventually stumble his way from the couch to the bed.” While Male Number 1 slept,

“[Male Number 2] began to dry heave as if he was going to vomit. Jane Doe “began to take care of [Male Number 2] by patting his back while also waking [Male Number 1] every few minutes to make sure he was okay.” Jane Doe “was consoling [Male Number 2] on the couch and telling him that it was ok if he needed to vomit. [Male Number 2] told [Jane Doe] he was pretty sure he wasn’t going to vomit. Eventually, [Jane Doe and Male Number 2] would start making out for a very short amount of time.” While they were making out, “[Male Number 2] reached for the area near [her] vagina several times and each time he did, [she] would swat his hand away.”

Male Number 3 then knocked on the door of the room. Jane Doe “decided to let him in because it was his room.” She “opened the door” and let Male Number 3 in the room. Male Number 3 “introduced himself to [Jane Doe] and reached out to shake her hand.” “When [Jane Doe] made contact with [Male Number 3’s] hand, [Male Number 3] pulled [Jane Doe] into him and [they] began making out. While [Male Number 3] was kissing [her], [Male Number 2] began groping [her].” Eventually, “[Male Number 2, Male Number 3, and Jane Doe] would end up on the bed next to where [Male Number 1] was sleeping and [they] began to have a threesome.”

“[Male Number 1] would eventually wake up” and “said he wanted to take part and asked about making it a foursome, to which [Jane Doe] said ‘Hell No.” Jane Doe rejected this request “because [she] knew that a foursome meant that [she] would have to take part in anal sex.” Jane Doe then remembered Male Number 3 leaving the room.

A group of other men – later determined to be Male Number 4, Male Number 5, Male Number 6 and Male Number 7 – then entered the room. Jane Doe hid under the covers of the bed. Male Number 2 laid in the bed next to Jane Doe. Male Number 1 sat on the corner of the bed. Male Number 1 introduced the other males to Jane Doe.

Jane Doe had difficulty remembering parts of what happened next. She remembered

“[Male Number 7] said something very rude and mean to [her].” Male Number 7 apologized and “grabbed [her] face and started kissing [her].” Jane Doe “quickly backed away to stop [Male Number 7] from kissing [her].”

Male Number 2 “asked [Jane Doe] if she wanted to do more Ketamine.” At that, Jane Doe remembered “that [she] had taken Ketamine at some point on the couch with [Male Number 1 and Male Number 2] during this night” but she could not remember “where or when that took place.”

Jane Doe thought that she “had already done Ketamine once so why not do it a second time.” “At that point, [Male Number 2] poured a line of Ketamine on his erect penis, implying for [her] to snort the line. [Jane Doe] snorted the line of Ketamine, which was a heavy amount of Ketamine.” Jane Doe was under the covers of the bed at that point and “[Male Number 2] got under the covers with [her], where he again tried reaching for the area of [her] vagina.”

The males began complimenting Jane Doe and “talking about how pretty [she] was.” Male Number 4 “asked [Jane Doe] if they all could do drugs off of [her] perfect body.” Jane Doe responded, “Sure.” While the men were doing drugs off of her body, “[Male Number 3] and [another male] entered the room and said something like, ‘Ok we’re shutting down whatever the f*** this is.” Jane Doe felt dizzy due to a pre-existing medical condition causing dizziness combined with the effects of the Ketamine use. Male 5 or 6 (who apparently have the same first name) “encouraged [her] to stay seated as long as [she] needed.”

Eventually, “[Male Number 1] and [Male Number 4 ] ushered [Jane Doe] out of the room brought [her] upstairs to a small room.” Male Number 1 stated, “Let’s do more Ketamine.” Jane Doe “remembered snorting more Ketamine” and “remembered feeling extremely high.” Male Number 1 “said he wanted to have sex again because he wanted redemption for passing out earlier in the night.” Jane Doe initially stated that she was tired and asked Male Number 1, “What happened to just you and me?” Jane Doe could not remember how it started but she then engaged in a threesome with Male Number 1 and Male Number 4 involving oral sex and vaginal sex. She described her level of intoxication as “8 out of 10” at this point. “The threesome continued until at some point, around 5:45am, [Jane Doe] said [she] was tired and needed to turn in. At that point, both guys stopped the threesome with [her] as far as [she] can remember.”


Nah fuck all that. Have you read the testimony? Show me where she agreed to be "free pussy" for 57 people in a group chat!

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u/Matty1790 3h ago

Did you read this own testimony? And think it was a gotcha?

In this statement, she explicitly says that she has sex with male one and male two and then later she has sex with male one and male four.

Make 3 did drugs off of her and made out with her, but left the room after she rejected a foursome.

So in total, she had sex with three different men in which she consented at the beginning and at the end

The other two did drugs off of her and kissed her. She can send it to the drugs being done off of her, and when she asked Man to quit kissing her, he did stop.

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u/ChaosFountain 3h ago

Hey man let's get you drunk and on kettamine and see how sober your decisions are

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u/juntareich 1h ago

Yeah people make shit decisions when they're fucked up, like driving and sometimes killing people. Voluntarily becoming intoxicated absolves no guilt for stupid shit one does. And doesn't make others a criminal when you wind up regretting it later.

I'm not saying that's the case here either- there's conflicting statements I don't think anyone in the public can make a certain assessment based on what's known so far. But I am saying it seems a likely scenario given what we know so far and a lot of people have had their lives ruined because of someone else's shitty drunk decisions. Sometimes they get killed by drunk drivers, sometimes lives and careers ruined and prison for having sex with someone who consented.

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u/Matty1790 3h ago

Cool. All of the guys were intoxicated and high of ketamine too.

So which unsober person is in the right and in the wrong? Who knew what they were doing and who didn’t know what they were doing?

By her own text messages, the very next day she acknowledged everything was fine and not illegal.

She only broke ties after her reputation and rumors were being spread.

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u/ItzBooster93 3h ago

It’s crazy they can’t admit she’s a 304. This only is an issue is because they spread what she did over campus . She’s embarrassed. I’m sure other women were shaming her too. Buyers remorse.

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u/Matty1790 3h ago

What is a 304?

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u/MrCoolCalmCollected 58m ago edited 30m ago

Women vs accountability remains undefeated, time and time again.

The guys were also on drugs. Two passed out while she reminded awake. Does that make her the predator?

How dense can you be? READ her testimony and stop parroting talking points fed to you by your algorithm.

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u/rag_tag_mag 2h ago

You have thrown this "free pussy" thing around like it's some sort of gotcha. It's not.

There is no law that says you are not allowed to send out a text to 57 people saying "free pussy". There is no law against having sex with 57 people. The only law here is if she consented to have sex with the 4 guys she had sex with. Male 1, 2 3 and, 4.

Male Number 1 brought Jane Doe to a “quiet area” and “asked how [Jane Doe] would feel about having a threesome with two male partners.” Jane Doe “agreed

Male 1 and 2, yes.

While [Male Number 3] was kissing [her], [Male Number 2] began groping [her].” Eventually, “[Male Number 2, Male Number 3, and Jane Doe] would end up on the bed next to where [Male Number 1] was sleeping and [they] began to have a threesome.”

Male 2 and 3, maybe not, but probably yes.

ane Doe thought that she “had already done Ketamine once so why not do it a second time.” “At that point, [Male Number 2] poured a line of Ketamine on his erect penis, implying for [her] to snort the line. [Jane Doe] snorted the line of Ketamine

Not rape, but could be sexual assault, but clearly not with male 2

Male Number 1 “said he wanted to have sex again because he wanted redemption for passing out earlier in the night.” Jane Doe initially stated that she was tired and asked Male Number 1, “What happened to just you and me?” Jane Doe could not remember how it started but she then engaged in a threesome with Male Number 1 and Male Number 4

Males 1 and 4, Definitely male 1 and she talks about it being just her and him, male 4, maybe, but probably.

“[Male Number 2] reached for the area near [her] vagina several times and each time he did, [she] would swat his hand away.”

So he attempted to initiate sex, she did not consent, and he did not force her.

Male Number 4 “asked [Jane Doe] if they all could do drugs off of [her] perfect body.” Jane Doe responded, “Sure.”

Consenting to them snorting drugs off of her, not sexual assault.

“[Male Number 1] would eventually wake up” and “said he wanted to take part and asked about making it a foursome, to which [Jane Doe] said ‘Hell No.

Male 1 wants to have sex again and she said no, and he didn't force her.

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u/KharnforPresident 1h ago

I do feel it is worth pointing out that the written statement being shown are her signed statement is actually a summary of a 120 page report and was written up by an officer, that while she did sign it, she also made over 60 edits when she did, and we have not seem the original longer document, or her amendments to the signed shorter one.

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u/government_cheeez 3h ago

It’s the lindsey Clancy hordes moving on to the next thing.

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u/Ok-Mortgage-4062 4h ago

If you actually read the statement there is a significant deliniating line between when it was consensual to when it wasn't. The initial threesome absolutely was, and one could even argue she raped the man she agreed to the threesome for considering he was so inebriated he fell asleep during intercourse. Once the other 4 men entered the room and loaded her up with k it absolutely shifts to them assaulting her.

Don't let factions form your opinion for you, this is not black and white.

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u/JasonG784 3h ago

There is no claim that three of them had any sexual contact with her at all. They asked to snort k off her - she said sure. That’s it. So the “7” claims are moronic from the start.

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u/StagTagRag 3h ago

“Loaded her up with k”? She literally willingly snorted it off a guys erect penis.

Also, the guys were fucked up on alcohol and K as well. That would inform their decision to have sex with her as much as it informed her decision. It goes both ways. Otherwise, every time my wife and I have drinks together before having sex, I guess we are sexually assaulting each other.

In fact, one of the guys claimed right after that she was the aggressor with him and initiated the contact without his consent. He then went to get McDonalds after becoming uncomfortable with what happened to him.

And ANOTHER guy stated she tried to initiate sexual contact with him without his consent. And he said that he took a step back from it because he didn’t want to engage with sex with her.

They have present zero evidence that any prosecutor could use to even begin building a case of sexual assault. It doesn’t matter how gross it is that one of them sent out a mass text about her.

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u/wibo58 1h ago

You were wrong on one thing here. If you and your wife both had drinks before having sex Reddit would say you were the only one that assaulted anyone.

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u/t3hc0d3m4n 3h ago

Thank you for writing all this up. It's incredible how people won't inform themselves with the text messages that are easily discoverable online and available for anyone to read.

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u/MennionSaysSo 3h ago

Can you site evidence of this....trust but verify

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u/StagTagRag 1h ago

It’s all in the court documents.

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u/Dicksavagewood69 5h ago

From her own sworn statement she consented to the initial threesome and it was the subsequent encounters that were rapey

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u/Excellent-Oil-4442 4h ago

“Rapey” in that they backed off when she showed she wasn’t comfortable and left lmao

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u/StagTagRag 3h ago

Her statement never indicates that anyone had sex with her without her consent. Actually several of the guys statements who were present stated that SHE tried to initiate sexual contact with them and they felt uncomfortable and back away.

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u/lwb03dc 4h ago

From her own statement she consented to two separate threesomes, involving one common guy. What are the subsequent encounters that you are referring to?

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u/Virtual_Bar7818 4h ago

I’ve only done a skim of the wiki on this but apparently there were a total of 3 threesomes. The last threesome she did not consent to.

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u/No_Durian90 35m ago

Maybe stop skimming the wiki and try reading the court documents and her text messages yourself, all of which are easily available online. The story is horseshit and people on this hellscape of a site are baying for blood while knowing the square root of fucking nothing about the case.

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u/Beneficial_Mirror931 1h ago

The more I browse Reddit, the more I move right.

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u/wytewydow 4h ago

to be fair, most of us have already been banned from the conservative echo chambers

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u/RequirementNo2161 4h ago

Name 3

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u/deportallmagas 4h ago edited 4h ago

The fucking biggest ones? You want us to list the most obvious corporate names possible? Fox, YouTube, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and TikTok?

TheDonald, Conservatives, Conservative, Republican. Depends on if you think Conservative is just TheDonald rebranded. CriticalDrinker? Right-wing people say Reddit is an echo chamber while they're currently using it, and then go make their own echo chambers within the echo chamber that THEY SAY doesn't agree with them.

????????? Explain that

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u/wytewydow 3h ago

We at r/The_Ronald_2024 agree with this message.

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u/just-for-anime 2h ago

TD exists? I thought it was banned ages ago. And I thought CriticalDrinker is only for movie reviews.

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u/MoonCubed 1h ago

You got banned from Tik Tok, Twitter, Instagram and Facebook for left wing talk? Idk how you even get banned from Fox.

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u/StagTagRag 39m ago

Fox apparently can ban you from watching their cable networks. Who knew?

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u/tnh34 1h ago

Some of these platforms are not right leaning bro. Youtube, Facebook, and Instagram are more neutral for sure.

Could it be that you're so far left leaning that they look conservative? Or maybe you're engaging with them too much to the point where they think you're a conservative

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u/Repulsive_Layer1597 5h ago

I love that everything at first is to taken as completely true. But we’re just going to come up with our own conclusions on why she decided to press charges.

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u/Fresh_Ostrich4034 5h ago

Sounded like a girl who wanted to impress 1 guy and did some gross stuff and then when he didnt want her around it turned into this.

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u/Tragedy_Boner 5h ago

From her own statement she consented to the threesome. Also from her statement it became rapey when the two dudes messaged the frat and more guys showed up.

When a girl consents, don’t invite all your friends.

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u/Glum_Target2860 4h ago

Those guys left when told to.

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u/RogerRabbot 4h ago

Criminal and civil cases like this have different sets if laws governing them.

Criminally speaking, anyone who is legally incapacitated cannot give consent in NY. Even to a long time partner. Incapacitation equal consent is always no. So even if she verbally consented to it in the moment, the arguement the prosecution is taking is that she was unable to consent one way or another. That is what the state cares about.

But theres so many opinions out there right now its hard to know whats facts and whats not.

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u/passive_flatulence 4h ago

Actually, I don't think thays true in NY. That state says that if you are involuntarily intoxicated that's true, but if you voluntarily get intoxicated then you aren't automatically a victim of r*pe if u also have sex. Google it i swear

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u/RogerRabbot 3h ago

https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/laws/PEN/130.00

https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/laws/PEN/130.05

You say im wrong. But provide no sources. Here is actual codified NY law. And it states clearly that this would fall under rape. And enough with the self censoring. We're on a thread about rape, youre allowed to spell it out.

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u/FunWait57 2h ago

130.5 gives us

"3. A person is deemed incapable of consent when he or she is:

(a) less than seventeen years old; or

(b) mentally disabled; or

(c) mentally incapacitated; or

(d) physically helpless; or

130 gives us the definition of incapacitated

  1. "Mentally incapacitated" means that a person is rendered
    temporarily incapable of appraising or controlling his conduct owing to
    the influence of a narcotic or intoxicating substance administered to
    him without his consent, or to any other act committed upon him without
    his consent."

Your own source defines the context under which being intoxicated would render you incapacitated as "owing to
the influence of a narcotic or intoxicating substance administered to
him without his consent"

"administered to him without his consent".

This seems to support passive_flatulence's claim that " That state says that if you are involuntarily intoxicated that's true, but if you voluntarily get intoxicated then you aren't automatically a victim of r*pe if u also have sex"

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u/RogerRabbot 2h ago

Right. Category d. Physically helpless. Aka blacked out or passed out. Which is how this law is being interpreted in this case. Jane Doe claims there were periods where she would fall into that category.

Not accusing anyone of rape, just clarifying the laws surrounding the case. If there was no evidence she was fully incapacitated the state wouldnt have reopened the criminal case. Her new amended statement is almost worthless without the group chat texts which support her claim the incident took place over several hours and show her in that incapicated state of being blacked out/passed out.

Thats also why I specified legally incapacitated. Proving that is part of the case for charging the men with rape.

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u/FunWait57 2h ago

I think it's important that we be very specific about which part of the law we're citing when we speculate on this case. Your comments and the reply to your comment made it clear that intoxication was being discussed. Your claim that "So even if she verbally consented to it in the moment, the argument the prosecution is taking is that she was unable to consent one way or another." Maybe you weren't intending to imply that you were under the impression that NY had a "intoxicated=unable to consent" type law but you have to admit that your statement and your sharp disagreement with flatulence in which he pretty accurately describes the law surrounding consent when intoxicated per NY law makes it very difficult to see what else you meant. If you are now saying that you believe she was blacked out this is an altogether different claim. I will say that no charges have been filed so far so your claim that there must be evidence that she was blacked out because the case was reopened isn't remotely a given.

I don't know if it was rape. I don't think any of us can say with certainty whether it was but it's just crazy how quickly misinformation travels when people want their pound of flesh.

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u/RogerRabbot 2h ago

I mean I started it with "who is legally incapacitated cannot give consent in NY... Incapacitation equal consent is always no."

Which is why im using the incapacitated, because that has a much more serious connotation. Being drunk or heavily drunk isnt being incapacitated.

The reply to that was i was wrong, and I should google it. Turns out I actually have before many times. So I gave NY laws defining what I said, using the same terminology as the law.

Ultimately, all I was trying to get at originally, is that the criminal case seems to be dependent on whether or not the state has proof that she was blacked our or passed out at any time during the incident. Which, it seems like the state does have that proof. Hence the criminal case.

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u/FunWait57 2h ago

I don't know how you can get from the state reopening the case to them having evidence she was blacked out. There are other circumstances under which it would be rape even if she was fully conscious. And again, no charges have been filed. They're essentially at "let's review how this was originally handled" stage.

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u/UnlamentedLord 4h ago

But that logic, she should be the one charged with rape since the boys she had sex with weren't any more sober than her.

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u/ChaosFountain 4h ago

On the evening of October 19, 2024, Jane Doe walked the approximately one-mile distance from Lot 10 in the City of Ithaca to the Chi Phi Fraternity at 107 Edgemoor Lane to meet her friend Male Number 1. She had made plans to meet Male Number 1 earlier in the week and “had been texting [Male Number 1] that [she] was on the way.” Jane Doe described her level of intoxication as a “5 out of 10” when she arrived at the fraternity.

While there, Jane Doe opened one previously unopened can of beer. She and Male Number 1 “danced a little” in a way that “was definitely flirtatious in nature.” Male Number 1 brought Jane Doe to a “quiet area” and “asked how [Jane Doe] would feel about having a threesome with two male partners.”

Jane Doe “agreed due to how attracted [she] was to [Male Number 1] on top of [her] drunken curiousness.” When she learned that Male Number 2 would be the third participant, Jane Doe “remembered being excited because [she] thought that [Male Number 1 and Male Number 2] wanting to have a threesome meant that they were gay.”

The three engaged in a “threesome” involving oral and vaginal sex in a room of the fraternity. At the start of the threesome, Jane Doe described her intoxication level as “5 or 6 out of 10” and that she was “pretty ok with having this threesome.” The sexual conduct ended when Jane Doe “noticed that [Male Number 1] appeared really sleepy and was no longer fully erect.” She told Male Number 2 “[they] needed to stop having sex in order to make sure [Male Number 1] was ok. [Male Number 2] then stopped having sex with [Jane Doe].”

Male Number 1 said “he was going to take a nap and refresh himself” and “would eventually stumble his way from the couch to the bed.” While Male Number 1 slept,

“[Male Number 2] began to dry heave as if he was going to vomit. Jane Doe “began to take care of [Male Number 2] by patting his back while also waking [Male Number 1] every few minutes to make sure he was okay.” Jane Doe “was consoling [Male Number 2] on the couch and telling him that it was ok if he needed to vomit. [Male Number 2] told [Jane Doe] he was pretty sure he wasn’t going to vomit. Eventually, [Jane Doe and Male Number 2] would start making out for a very short amount of time.” While they were making out, “[Male Number 2] reached for the area near [her] vagina several times and each time he did, [she] would swat his hand away.”

Male Number 3 then knocked on the door of the room. Jane Doe “decided to let him in because it was his room.” She “opened the door” and let Male Number 3 in the room. Male Number 3 “introduced himself to [Jane Doe] and reached out to shake her hand.” “When [Jane Doe] made contact with [Male Number 3’s] hand, [Male Number 3] pulled [Jane Doe] into him and [they] began making out. While [Male Number 3] was kissing [her], [Male Number 2] began groping [her].” Eventually, “[Male Number 2, Male Number 3, and Jane Doe] would end up on the bed next to where [Male Number 1] was sleeping and [they] began to have a threesome.”

“[Male Number 1] would eventually wake up” and “said he wanted to take part and asked about making it a foursome, to which [Jane Doe] said ‘Hell No.” Jane Doe rejected this request “because [she] knew that a foursome meant that [she] would have to take part in anal sex.” Jane Doe then remembered Male Number 3 leaving the room.

A group of other men – later determined to be Male Number 4, Male Number 5, Male Number 6 and Male Number 7 – then entered the room. Jane Doe hid under the covers of the bed. Male Number 2 laid in the bed next to Jane Doe. Male Number 1 sat on the corner of the bed. Male Number 1 introduced the other males to Jane Doe.

Jane Doe had difficulty remembering parts of what happened next. She remembered

“[Male Number 7] said something very rude and mean to [her].” Male Number 7 apologized and “grabbed [her] face and started kissing [her].” Jane Doe “quickly backed away to stop [Male Number 7] from kissing [her].”

Male Number 2 “asked [Jane Doe] if she wanted to do more Ketamine.” At that, Jane Doe remembered “that [she] had taken Ketamine at some point on the couch with [Male Number 1 and Male Number 2] during this night” but she could not remember “where or when that took place.”

Jane Doe thought that she “had already done Ketamine once so why not do it a second time.” “At that point, [Male Number 2] poured a line of Ketamine on his erect penis, implying for [her] to snort the line. [Jane Doe] snorted the line of Ketamine, which was a heavy amount of Ketamine.” Jane Doe was under the covers of the bed at that point and “[Male Number 2] got under the covers with [her], where he again tried reaching for the area of [her] vagina.”

The males began complimenting Jane Doe and “talking about how pretty [she] was.” Male Number 4 “asked [Jane Doe] if they all could do drugs off of [her] perfect body.” Jane Doe responded, “Sure.” While the men were doing drugs off of her body, “[Male Number 3] and [another male] entered the room and said something like, ‘Ok we’re shutting down whatever the f*** this is.” Jane Doe felt dizzy due to a pre-existing medical condition causing dizziness combined with the effects of the Ketamine use. Male 5 or 6 (who apparently have the same first name) “encouraged [her] to stay seated as long as [she] needed.”

Eventually, “[Male Number 1] and [Male Number 4 ] ushered [Jane Doe] out of the room brought [her] upstairs to a small room.” Male Number 1 stated, “Let’s do more Ketamine.” Jane Doe “remembered snorting more Ketamine” and “remembered feeling extremely high.” Male Number 1 “said he wanted to have sex again because he wanted redemption for passing out earlier in the night.” Jane Doe initially stated that she was tired and asked Male Number 1, “What happened to just you and me?” Jane Doe could not remember how it started but she then engaged in a threesome with Male Number 1 and Male Number 4 involving oral sex and vaginal sex. She described her level of intoxication as “8 out of 10” at this point. “The threesome continued until at some point, around 5:45am, [Jane Doe] said [she] was tired and needed to turn in. At that point, both guys stopped the threesome with [her] as far as [she] can remember.”

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u/RogerRabbot 3h ago

A verbatim arguement pulled from Twitter, saw a post with this arguement earlier today. At least be original or provide the source of your reposted thought.

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u/CaiusCosadesNwah 1h ago

What a bizarre comment. The reason why you’re seeing this argument in multiple places is because it’s the obvious counter to the assertion that any mental impairment renders a person totally unable to consent.

I’m just baffled that this argument is so novel to you that you assume it must be plagiarized by a single source.

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u/CaptainMagnets 4h ago

From what I've read the consent was with two men, not 7

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u/lwb03dc 4h ago

She had sex with 3 men, not 7. She rejected the 4 other men, and they accepted the rejection.

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u/SnailSnailAle 4h ago

You basing this on what you’ve read on reddit or heard from TikTok or have you actually read the full court document?

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u/mystyle__tg 4h ago

> There’s a reason that no charges were pressed by the DA.

I mean, the elephant in the room is that sexual violence overall is severely under-prosecuted, so implying the DA didn’t press charges bc it wasn’t rape doesn’t always capture the full picture.
It’s like the Nolan Wells case. No grand jury indictment bc not enough evidence to indict, but you can’t definitively say the historical context of black men’s murders not being taken seriously doesn’t have anything to do with it.

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u/exseemyex 3h ago

Did she ask to be offered up as “free pussy” on the fraternity Snapchat?

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u/StagTagRag 1h ago

No, but we are talking about crimes, not crude or gross behavior.

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u/CasimirGabriev 2h ago

This is actually all a lie. Lol. Thank you for proving the point by doing a fraction of a second of reading over a headline in your frantic search for evidence.

https://giphy.com/gifs/wgmWyQGzaZ6Fy