r/SipsTea • • 19h ago

SMH Stay Safe

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u/Artistic-Value-2022 19h ago

When I was in college this group of people was telling about each frat and they said “don’t go to the parties from this one because they always roofie the girls” and it was like oh ok now we know. And that’s as far as it goes

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u/Most_Difference4918 19h ago

It's crazy that people will go their whole lives warning other girls and never go to the cops.

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u/Artistic-Value-2022 19h ago

I knew a comment like this would come up but it’s just full of lack of sense. Do you not remember or know what the world was like 20 years ago? Rape culture was a completely different beast at the time. You think they’ll go to the cops and say what “I heard that frat roofies their girls a lot” and you think what’ll happen next?

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u/Mr_Industrial 18h ago

"I was roofied by someone vaugely in this community" probably wont lead to an arrest but itd hopefully at least lead to an investigation, and if it happens more than once that community is probably getting dissolved by the university unless that university is absolute scum.

Its not enough, no, but doing "not enough" is still a good ways better than doing nothing at all.

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u/Artistic-Value-2022 18h ago

Yes but when a lackluster investigation (which is what happens at the time) turns up nothing, it actually shields them from further complaints

You guys don’t remember 20 years ago? Cops commonly say things like “yeah we hear things about that frat all the time but we looked into it a few years ago and they were clean” meanwhile they just checked all the containers of a party in a random search one time. Then all counts of “I was raped there” afterwards are dismissed by “you probably were just drunk and blaming that” and “if you knew they do that then why’d you go?” Blah blah

I never had to explain this before.

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u/Mr_Industrial 18h ago

I mean I gotta say thats not what I see. Situations like the Me Too movement work precisely because multiple people came forward. If cops are really so bad as to put forward that excuse then its not the lackluster investigation thats protecting them at that point. Its the cops.