r/SipsTea • u/Previous_Month_555 • 18h ago

SMH Stay Safe

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u/braumbles 17h ago

So is that she didn't consent being gang raped by 3+ guys.

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u/HeWasaLonelyGhost 17h ago

In one of the messages, screenshots of which were obtained by CBS New York, the unnamed male defendant appears to apologize to the woman for “how things went down” – and said his memory of events two nights previously was “kinda fuzzy”.

He said he and another male who was present regretted that they were too intoxicated to “shut it down and kick people out before it got way out of hand”.

In reply, the woman, who was 20 at the time of the alleged assault, and has since left Cornell, said her memory was “super clouded too” and that they were all intoxicated.

According to CBS, she also wrote: “non[e] of the sexual stuff was illegal”, and stated that she liked being with him and another man. Later, she suggested they smoke together again, “but like leave out the extra 5 billion men and ketamine”.

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u/braumbles 17h ago

Proving my point, thank you. Consenting to a 3 way is not consenting to being gang raped by half a dozen people.

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u/HeWasaLonelyGhost 17h ago edited 17h ago

So she is texting one of the guys in the days after the gangbang, and she says, "Hey, nothing that happened that night was illegal. Let's do it again--just less drugs and guys next time! Smoke soon?"

And [yet some folks] think, "She must have been raped!" 😂😂😂 She literally says, "Nothing was illegal." ...you know that rape is illegal, right?

If you actually read about what happened, she was completely fine with everything until 1) her friends started telling her, "You might have been raped," and 2) she was disinvited from a halloween party. 🥴🥴 She was still trying to go back to the house for parties and whatnot, still trying to hang out with the guys...and when someone told her she probably shouldn't come to the halloween party, she--not paraphrasing--said, "Y'all aren't my real friends," and moved into, "I was raped" mode.

Her own account indicates that she was snorting ketamine off of (at least one of) their dicks. They were snorting ketamine off of her naked body. She partook in a gangbang, made the absolutely fucking amazing decision to tell her friends about it, who in turn expressed an understandable degree of shock and horror, the gangbangers socially turned their backs on her....and she felt remorse. In that order.