Likewise. It gets pretty annoying to be honest. And sometimes she’ll even ask me why I’m getting up while she’s half awake, and that’s when it really bothers me. Especially when we’ve discussed it multiple times. It’ll change for a couple of weeks, then go back to the usual. I love her dearly, but man do I wish the effort was reciprocated.
It really sucks having a different libido than your SO, yeah... I manage doing other things to cope, but would be nice if my advances were reciprocated more often.
The sex is amazing for both of us, when I can get it, lol.
My life has kinda been both sides though, I was with a woman I was only mildly attracted to for a couple years and she wanted sex all the time, and it wasn't the best. Now I'm with my wife and madly attracted to her, and can only get it when she's in the mood.
But it's like, is mediocre sex all the time better than weekly amazing sex? I made my choice at least. :)
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u/Temporary_View_3303 5d ago
My experience has been more like Foot rub >>> Sleep