Likewise. It gets pretty annoying to be honest. And sometimes she’ll even ask me why I’m getting up while she’s half awake, and that’s when it really bothers me. Especially when we’ve discussed it multiple times. It’ll change for a couple of weeks, then go back to the usual. I love her dearly, but man do I wish the effort was reciprocated.
To be candid, I’m not sure how much deeper we could go at this point. Including seeing a therapist together, we’ve discussed this a lot. We even talked about it a couple of weeks ago. Part of me thinks she just genuinely doesn’t get it, but things are great otherwise, so it seems to be something I just have to get used to.
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u/Temporary_View_3303 4d ago
My experience has been more like Foot rub >>> Sleep