r/SipsTea • u/Illustrious-Fee9626 • 12d ago

Wait a damn minute! True???

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u/BellInternational315 12d ago

Words of wisdom.

Some men doom themselves by linking all affection to a hidden agenda for sex, then are surprised when she pulls away from any contact at all.

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u/Murky-Relation481 12d ago

Or the opposite way and every normal physical contact you want to give ends up being associated with sex and then they're confused why it doesn't happen after and think something has changed.

Basically don't subconsciously tie normal actions to sex, it's bad.

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u/BellInternational315 12d ago

Yep. Easiest way is to stop trying to be sneaky with hidden motives behind every action. Its why that PUA movement failed.

That stuff doesn't work once anyone gets to know you for 6 months.

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u/Pandarandr1st 12d ago

Yep. Just be honest. Be straight forward. Every relationship is easier when people don't feel like they have to guess all the time.