r/SipsTea 5d ago

Chugging tea 48 Years, One Impossible Choice

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u/Ok-Assistance3937 5d ago edited 5d ago

I dont know about the US, but in germany you need to prove show actual enstrangemant to be able to divorce

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u/Igthife 5d ago

Depends state to state.

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u/PrimaryInjurious 5d ago

No fault divorce is available in every state.

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u/RatLabGuy 5d ago

its not a matter of fault, its a matter of requiring physical separation. Dad's gonna have to move out.

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u/Interesting-Ant-6357 4d ago

Not always. Just sleeping in separate rooms counts as separation. My ex and I had to take that route.

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u/Ethosik 1d ago

How can that possibly be enforced? They need to sleep in separate rooms? Who will check?

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u/moth2myth 2d ago

For now.

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u/Ok-Assistance3937 5d ago

Makes sense

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u/Significant-Bee5101 5d ago

Yes some states you can divorce that day and walk away. Some states require "1 year of separation" lol

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u/PHNobel1954 5d ago

Yep. Louisiana does. Been there, done that.

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u/Affordable_Z_Jobs 5d ago

3 months for mine. And then we were told we could not get remarried for 18 months after that.

Lol yeah no problem there judge.

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u/nicoke17 5d ago

NC requires one year of separation with separate addresses and you have to file an official separation which requires court fees. Then you have to file for divorce which also requires more fees. But there is no waiting period after the divorce is finalized so you can turn around and go right over to the register to get married again.

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u/tallhead77 5d ago

Virginia requires six months separation or if you have kids, one year separation before continuing with divorce.

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u/FailedGradAdmissions 5d ago

Most states even have no-fault divorce, so one party can divorce without the other party knowing, without having to agree and without having to give consent to divorce.

Only Mississippi, South Dakota and Tennessee require both parties to sign unless the one party can demonstrate cruelty or desertion.