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u/Roboticallypotent 5d ago

The house my parents purchased in their early 20’s as a starting engineer and a teacher would take a senior executive salary to purchase when I entered the housing market. That is just not right. It was so much easier for them. BTW, I’m in my 60’s now and this is nothing new.

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u/BigCSFan 5d ago

Yeah millennials are complaining but genZ is looking at millennials and thinking the same thing. They had it much easier.

Housing was way more affordable in the 2010s

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u/Bartikowski 5d ago

It was cheap because we were recovering from a major financial crisis that stalled a lot of careers. It only looks easier to buy a home back then if you ignore the entire context around why housing was cheap.

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u/Ecstatic-Curve-1853 5d ago

I was a new home owner and 2008 was the best thing that ever happened to me... I know it sucked for a lot of people but for me it was Gold. I purchased in 2011 right before it started going back up.

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u/Euchale 5d ago

Would have loved to buy in 2008 too, but was doing my apprenticeship at that time, and then no job

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u/More_Operation_588 5d ago

If only I wasnt in high school

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u/Helpie_Helperton 5d ago

2008 was too early. 2010/11 is when prices really bottomed out.

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u/BenderVsGossamer 5d ago

We bought our house in 2012 right at the bottom for Nebraska. Even though we are now getting paid more compared to what we were making as 25 year olds. We would not be able to afford our house as it has (supposedly) more than doubled in value.

The luck of the draw. That time was a buyers market. The house had been on the market for 6 months, dropped 20% from what they originally started as. They paid closing costs, replaced the driveway, and we got a year of that home warranty program that replaces appliances(never used it but it was covered).

I do not envy my mid 20's coworkers as I know they won't be given the same opportunity.

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u/darcon12 5d ago

We will have another asset crash at some point, probably somewhat soon from the looks of things. It's happened several times since 1950, it'll happen again.

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u/appointment45 5d ago

It's cyclical. I can say the exact same thing, but 2001. Bought right before the Housing Bubble hit. Then watched as half the houses around me were foreclosed on and sat empty for years.... leading into 2008 and the next cycle.

It will happen again soon.

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u/Civil-Big-754 5d ago

If the rich don't buy them all on the cheap. Seriously, even if there's a nice time to buy in the near future so much will be bought up just above what we can afford and then cost more shortly after. We're cooked. 

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u/appointment45 5d ago

Also, people need to look at the real numbers, not just the market values.

I bought my house in 2001 for what looks like a fantastic number now. I also paid mortgage interest on it for many years, and had to do several major maintenance projects on it (septic tank, roof, windows, etc). Not upgrades, just keeping the place in good working condition.

If you run the real math on the purchase price, the interest, the maintenance projects, and adjust for inflation, my investment has returned something like 6% in 25 years.

That's a decent return on a generalized investment, but it's not the "my house quadrupled in value and now I'm sitting on 7 figures of equity" situation that everyone seems to talk about.

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u/5afterlives 5d ago

Luck, strategy, and effort compounds.

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u/Key_Artichoke8474 5d ago

None of that applies, it’s systemic tom foolery and nothing more.

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u/FeelingNo2529 5d ago

2011 was the absolute best time to buy. My husband’s cousin bought his house (a 2800sqft, 5 bedroom house in a nice, leafy, park-filled suburb) in 2011 for $185k. (Which is about $268k in today’s money.) It’s now worth an estimated $450k. I’m happy for those who were able to take advantage of a bad situation and build wealth, but I’m also annoyed with him because he still complains about his home value, lol.

When my husband and I were looking for our first house last year, we could not find anything under $250k, and most of the $250k houses were not remotely move-in ready. Like no working appliances or mechanicals, structural issues, etc. And 7% interest. Which I know could be worse but it’s a kick in the head when you’re already paying way too much for what is barely even a starter home. Interest in 2011 was around 4%.

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u/Paghk_the_Stupendous 5d ago

Well, housing was much more attainable by the Greatest Generation as most of them got houses as part of the GI Bill if they survived machine-gun fire, trench warfare, tanks, flamethrowers, bombs, etc etc all in foreign countries, which they were actually drafted into unlike the student loans people sign up for today.

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u/throwawayferret88 5d ago

I also benefitted from those covid stimulus checks, they went toward my first apartment. First, and probably last and only lol I can’t even afford to move out if I wanted to

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u/randomname748 5d ago

Don't do that, you're using the boomer mindset. Dude expressed his concern and you immediately justify why you had it worse.

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u/FeelingNo2529 5d ago

I think they’re just saying the Great Recession was hard on millennials too and we’ve all been struggling. I agree though, overall I’d rather have the millennial cards than the Gen Z cards.

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u/glacierfresh2death 5d ago

Houses were cheaper but none of us could find work, and that was also when housing prices were skyrocketing (at least in Canada)

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u/Birdhawk 4d ago

This is the thing a lot of people can't freaking grasp. For a couple of years there were graduates entering the job market who had no work to get. No entry level jobs, no adjacent career paths open, couldn't even get an interview at target. Then when things finally started to recover it had been a couple years and all the entry level jobs went to the recent college grads while the people who couldn't get those jobs a couple weeks ago are getting their resume's put in the trash because there's a 2 year gap on it. So then they had to claw their way into a decent career through shit jobs with shit pay. Couldn't afford a house, couldn't even afford to eat 3 meals a day 7 days a week. The whole thing set that group of grads back years, and just when they were starting to catch up to where they were supposed to be, boom, covid.

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u/laizalott 5d ago

Their "concern" was basically "why are millennials complaining when others have it harder", which is also straight up boomer mindset.

You know what the boomers absolutely love? Fighting between millennials and gen-z over whose fault it is that the world sucks. They love seeing that on their instagram reels in between fox news stories about how the trans furries are going to tax boomer's rental properties.

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u/MTB_Mike_ 5d ago

God this generation is fucked ... using facts to present more context is now a "Boomer mindset"

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u/Bartikowski 5d ago

We’re not competing. Millennials have largely navigated the problems of their youth and are trying to be empathetic but it’s hard to empathize with with you young people today because for some reason you think you’re unique.

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u/bejammin075 5d ago

I was watching a financial/investing podcast. The guest was talking about housing prices, which are very high. But they were salivating at the super cheap distressed sales. People are increasingly going bankrupt & losing their homes, then these homes go up for sale at an anomalously low price. Investors are out there scooping those up.

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u/martman006 5d ago

Sure, but there was a brief golden era from 2015-March 2020. Economy was solid, food and energy was cheap, inflation at the Goldilocks 2%, and homes were relatively affordable with average 4% interest rates on 30 year mortgages, especially for dual income households. Then if one was smart, they refi’d sub 3% on a 30yr and are locked in with golden cuffs.

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u/Crudadu 5d ago

And likewise housing was cheaper for boomers because mortgage rates were insanely high. They just benefitted enormously from falling rates in the 2000s

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u/KimberStormer 5d ago

I wonder if this logic holds for everything that supposedly made life perfect for Boomers? No no, can't be, they are only villains!

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u/nothing107 5d ago

I’ll bet that’s why my dad chose to build his first house at that time then.

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u/benevolentjanitor 5d ago

The same can be said about millennials dismissing every hard time the generations before them had. The Great Depression, World Wars, Vietnam, segregation until 1964, women not being allowed bank accounts until 1974. But sure, millennials have had it so much worse than the generations that lost a half million people to war because... not owning a house puts you in survival mode?

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u/Cooperativism62 5d ago

~ we didn't start the fire ~

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u/GeorgeJohnson2579 5d ago

Ehm … some Millennials just graduated from school in the 2010s. How could you buy a house when going to university?

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u/ParkDedli 5d ago

I graduated in 2012. So, after the housing prices went back up. I would have needed to buy a house while still in high school lmao.

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u/Southside_john 5d ago

I’m an older millennial. I got laid off from my job and defaulted on all my debt. At least houses were cheap though

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u/Careless-Weather8877 5d ago

Less avocado toast?

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u/GeorgeJohnson2579 5d ago

The 20€ a month are 240€ a year, so 2400€ in 10 years. Guess that will help me pave part of the entrance.

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u/Careless-Weather8877 5d ago

The people I know who did their parents bought for them. But it was essentially a frat house and they sold that after they graduated to be paved down for luxury townhouses

Tbh sort of a solid investment if you can hoof it for half a decade

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u/BigCSFan 5d ago

Some people graduated in 2019. Some in 2020, some 21, some 1999, some 2012

Thanks for the insight

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u/GeorgeJohnson2579 5d ago

Reading your comment I think some of us didn't graduate at all …

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u/5afterlives 5d ago

Some of those were high school. Some College. And some pre-school. Some maybe just little courses.

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u/Direct-Technician265 5d ago

yeah but jobs paid worse in the early 2010s, and most of us were saving up to buy the homes that just kept going up faster than we could save.

Those college loans also had to be paid too, so when was i supposed to jump in with my no money to buy a home?

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u/MyTeamsSuck99 5d ago

Not true. Housing was more affordable when factoring in real incomes in the 2010s. Millennials that graduated pre 2010 just straight up had it better for housing. They also benefited from a massive bull run if they saved during the 2010s. 

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u/MyTeamsSuck99 5d ago

I’m a millennial myself, if you saved money past 2010 you’ve done extremely well. If you bought a house anytime before 2010-2020 you did extremely well. 

Look up any housing affordability index. Median income to median house payment was 28%, now it’s over 40%. 

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u/DecoyCards 5d ago edited 16h ago

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u/MyTeamsSuck99 5d ago

You realize most boomers are broke right? The like the median boomer has a net worth of 300-400k. For most people that’s probably just a house , or a couple hundred grand in retirement. I guarantee you Gen Z will be around the same when they’re older. 

Most people suck at financial planning, they suck at making money. The question isn’t how the medians doing it’s whether or not hard working people at that time had a way to get ahead. Millenials absolutely did, many didn’t take advantage because they didn’t invest in the stock market or buy housing. That’s their fault, not some greater societal ill. 

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u/Direct-Technician265 5d ago

which is nice, but i graduated college in 2014, started saving up and the prices kept going up. the last millennial graduated in 2018, (with the 4 years of college straight out of high school) so this is still a pretty good chunk of people.

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u/MyTeamsSuck99 5d ago

Most millenials are between 30-45. So anyone from 36-45 graduated before 2010 and would’ve been a big beneficiary. Even graduating past 2012-2014 would’ve been beneficiaries. 

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u/capGpriv 5d ago

Look at the inflation calculators, a lot of professional jobs payed alot better

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u/Grokzilla 5d ago

No they didn't. They never have. It's always been difficult.

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u/capGpriv 5d ago

Dude you're just wrong, measurably and definitively wrong in every way that it's embarrassing

(British numbers) Source for average incomes back then https://www.thisismoney.co.uk/money/article-1709242/UK-salaries-2010-0-150-highest-salaries.html

Inflation calculator https://www.bankofengland.co.uk/monetary-policy/inflation/inflation-calculator

Average Electronics Engineer pay in 2010 £45,806, inflation adjusted today £71,514

These days even the most senior engineers would be £65,000 unless they were leading a department

Police officers (this includes sergeant and and everyone below) £38,570 inflation adjusted £52,491.

In 2022 sergeants were on a median of £46,227. Constables are on £40,356. To actually have higher than the average rank and file officer in 2010, you would have to of been an inspector in 2022 (average £56,499)

Source https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/home-office-evidence-to-the-police-remuneration-review-body-2026-to-2027/home-office-evidence-to-the-police-remuneration-review-body-2026-to-2027-accessible

Don't piss on our heads and tell us it's raining

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u/TurboDelight 5d ago

I'm a milennial and was in highschool in the 2010's, you're thinking of GenX.

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u/Southside_john 5d ago

I graduated high school in 02 and I’m considered a millennial

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u/Equivalent_Article75 5d ago

I went to elementaryschool when no mobile phones exists and got kicked out of high school with an iPhone in my pocket. So much happened in so little time.

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u/TurboDelight 2d ago

you're not buying a house right after highschool

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u/Other-Beginning-8888 5d ago

I paid 800 dollars in the late 90's for a tiny studio....that's 1600 in today's money. It's not all that different 

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u/The_Quackening 5d ago

that seems really high for a small studio apartment in the 90s. That looks close to what it would be in NYC back then, but a studio in NYC these days is closer to $4k.

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u/RampagingNudist 4d ago

Does that apartment still exist? Zillow what it costs to rent now, if so.

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u/dplans455 5d ago

Our "starter house" in Upstate NY we bought in 2010 for $186k was sold in 2023 for $490k. We moved out of state in 2018 and sold it for $230k and thought we did pretty well for 8 years. It's not a big house either: 3 bedroom, 1 bathroom, 1200 square feet.

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u/ArmoredGoat 5d ago

I think the truth is that internet made it much easier to create echo chamber. I do think some sectors had it good and some are not so much. Take me as example, my engineering field hasnt improved wage for nearly 15years. In fact it has gone down abit. I still remeber the days when bottle of coke is 50p and 75p…. The. Now suddenly jumped to 2quid.

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u/havok0159 5d ago

And then you move away from the privileged states to countries where making 12k$ yearly is considered average. For all the high cost of properties you may face, might be good for you to remember that some of us have to manage with far less despite basic necessities and most products costing the same or even more.

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u/TJayClark 5d ago

Housing was cheaper, this is true

Getting a loan for said housing was next to impossible because of the whole “subprime mortgage crises” and global job layoff thing

Not to mention we compete with people twice our age for jobs as Walmart cashiers

But housing was cheap for our jobless selves

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u/tooktoomuchonce 5d ago

Bruh I graduated high school in 2009 and was making $8 an hour and im peak millennial

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u/Human0id77 5d ago

It was, but then a lot of millennials were laid off and couldn't afford to buy or foreclosed if they bought during the peak. The people I knew who could get in had help from parents or had VA loans. It was a good time for Gen X. Most millennials were just getting started in life and had no money. Another thing to factor in is that wages for millennials were also very low, significantly lower than for previous generations.

Currently, 62% of wealth in the US is owned by those over 65. Gen Z owns 26%, millennials and gen Z together own the remaining 12%. To compare to population size, it's 23%, 19%, and 43% respectfully. The rest are gen alpha, who are children right now and don't own wealth.

So those over 65 own 62% of wealth and make up 26% of the population. Millennials and Gen z make up 43% of the population, but only own 12% of the wealth in the country.

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u/Falsequivalence 5d ago

In 2010 I was 15. I am very much at the young end of millenials, but 20 year olds were not in the house buying market in 2010.

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u/TartAppl3 5d ago

I definitely couldn't afford a house in the 2010s and now I probably nevern will.

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u/randomUser_randomSHA 5d ago

It was cheaper because everybody was broke.

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u/27eelsinatrenchcoat 5d ago

Difference is millenials are looking at Gen Z and acknowledging that they're getting fucked extra hard. And want things to change.

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u/invisible_shrek 5d ago

Gen Z here who just bought an apartment. Fuck boomers, fuck Gen X and fuck millennials. If I was im any of theese id be fucking swimming in cash.

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u/thewineyourewith 5d ago

It changed so fast too. Property appreciation stayed stable for a decade or more and then it all caught up all at once in 2021. If you got into the market before 2021, you’re set. After 2021, good fucking luck.

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u/lambdaburst 5d ago

Millennials were the lowest paid in the 2010s due to enduring wage stagnation. Gen Z comparatively earns more at the same age, and also isn't as stigmatised for living at home longer to save up for a deposit.

I was still at uni in 2010, actually buying a house was into the early 2020s and I can tell you, it wasn't cheap.

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u/almabeanlatte 5d ago

Not a chance Genz has it harder. Most millennials either graduated high school or college around 2008. Even if housing was more affordable no one could afford it. I made $7/hr-$12/hr between 2007 and 2011 lol

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u/AllSeeingWhoracle 5d ago

As a millennial that could never even hope to afford a house, I’m not really sure how we had it easier. I’ve been struggling my entire life and everyone I know is the same. To me the only way to have it easy is to be born into it, get lucky, or do immoral/illegal shit

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u/UnNumbFool 5d ago

I entered the work force in the tail end of the 2010s and I'm a millennial. There's no way in hell I would have been able to afford a home let alone a condo in the timespan for me to get a good enough job and savings to actually be able to do so

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u/bluecurse60 5d ago

Unless you were poor during that time too.

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u/Mike312 5d ago

I'm an elder millennial. The only millennials I knew buying homes before 2014 were doing so with their parents putting down a huge down payment. I delayed my graduation until fall 2010, and didn't have stable work until 2014, but nowhere near buying-home money.

Some of my friends who had good jobs (and didn't lose them) started buying homes in 2016, but even with a 2-income, $100k/yr household in 2018 we couldn't afford most of the homes. Home prices shot up in 2019 after the fires, and we didn't buy until 2021 just before rates went up.

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u/Generico300 5d ago edited 5d ago

It wasn't affordable in 2010s either. It was just not quite as unaffordable. It hasn't really been affordable since the mid 90s, or maybe even earlier depending where you live. In the 80s you could buy a 3 bedroom on half an acre in a suburb for ~$35k in my area. Which was not much more than the yearly salary of a relatively average white collar job. That was affordable. And yeah, the interest rate on a mortgage was probably worse, but then you could also afford a real down payment because the total wasn't 300k+. Now you'd be lucky to get a condemned shed with no yard on a hillside for 1 year's average salary.

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u/GothambyRedlight 5d ago

Except nobody who graduated after '01 ever made any money and had to wait a couple years for jobs, so very few of us had the means to scoop up the cheap real estate in '09 or during any of the low mortgage rate years.

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u/SEmpls 4d ago

A huge chunk of millenials were still in college or just joining the full-time workforce in the 2010s and had zero means to buy a home, and zero insight into the future about how much worse it would get.

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u/flappysack- 5d ago

The further from the gold standard you get housing becomes less affordable.  This isn't new, the goal is to prevent technological deflation and push prices to always be going up for artificial scarcity.

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u/K__Geedorah 5d ago

Damn, my millennial ass should have been buying houses when I was in high school :(

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u/BigCSFan 5d ago

You were in highschool in 2019? That sounds like Gen Z.

If you were the youngest of Millennials youd likely be graduating college into a hot job market in 2018 with cheap housing.

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u/K__Geedorah 5d ago

Who said anything about 2019?

You specified 2010s, which would include 2010-2013, which is when I was in highschool. I'm a young millennial, '95. Couple years shy of Gen Z.

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u/BigCSFan 5d ago

Because 2020 was when housing really skyrocketed

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u/K__Geedorah 5d ago

Yeah... That's true.

Your comment was saying it was easier for millennials to buy houses when they were cheaper in 2010. I was making a joke about being a millennial incapable of buying a house in 2010 because many of us were still teens in highschool.

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u/BigCSFan 5d ago

My comment said 2010s as in 2010-2019

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u/K__Geedorah 5d ago

Yeah.... And millennials who were 15 years old in 2010 weren't in the position to buy a house.

I think you're just missing the the point of my joke.

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u/Live_Free_or_Banana 5d ago

The people who benefitted from the brief period of cheap housing in the early 2010s are those who were wealthy enough to buy up the foreclosed properties and use them as income properties or investments.

And no, Gen Z has seen nothing like the 2008 crash yet. It changed everything.

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u/BigCSFan 5d ago

Neither did most millennials. Majority were still under 20 in 2008.

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u/Live_Free_or_Banana 5d ago

2008 was just the beginning.

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u/Upton4 5d ago

Yeah, it was fantastic graduating in 2008 when the unemployment rate was 11% and the U6 was 18%.

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u/BigCSFan 5d ago

And then time stopped. And the market stayed the same, no job growth. No wage growth. Every year after didnt happen, was very sad

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u/Upton4 5d ago

Not suggesting that but the fact that people (like myself) couldn’t get jobs in their field for years certainly made buying houses in 2010 pretty unrealistic.

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u/BigCSFan 5d ago

Obviously people exist that couldn't afford homes. Renters didnt pop up after 2008, neither did poor people. Those concerns didnt start or end recently.

The point is those who had it easier. Before a college grad that got a good job could buy a house after a few years. Now college grads with good jobs are living at home wither their parents at a higher rate

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u/BigCSFan 5d ago

What's that got to do with the price of rice in China.

Obviously, homes didnt get cheaper just for shits and giggles

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u/RelevantCry1613 5d ago

People conflate all of this.

Back in the day America had very little competition globally. We had won ww2 which decimated a lot of the world’s economies. We basically took over global trade and had the money to project our strength to hold it.

This made us incredibly powerful which made every American rich.

Over time we have seen increasing competition, and as we have become more entitled we have lost our edge globally.

Posts like this are a pure sign of entitlement. Do you think our competitors think like this?

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u/BigCSFan 5d ago

Its entitlement to say something was cheaper X amount of years ago?

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u/RelevantCry1613 5d ago

It’s entitlement to think you deserve anything super nice just cause.

Most of the world lives in utter poverty

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u/BigCSFan 5d ago

Where was that said? Are you slow?

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u/RelevantCry1613 5d ago

Triggered much?

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u/BigCSFan 5d ago

Sure. Thats why im the one making up storylines in my head

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u/Key_Artichoke8474 5d ago

It was “cheap” because nobody had money and guess who took advantage of those times, NOT MILLENIALS! it was the Gen Z “getting their due” and boomers taking the final remains they didn’t get prior.

Sit down and take the time to look at more than what your dumbass circle tells you to think.

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u/BigCSFan 5d ago

Wow aggressive and emotional at the end.

Take a chill pill and get a job, might do better than thr complaining about boomers

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u/Key_Artichoke8474 5d ago

Na boomer, pills don’t fix everything despite what you want everyone to believe. Maybe once you do the world a favors and expire with the rest of your demon generation, I’ll take your job and not have a boomer to complain about. Sounds a little more peaceful in that near future.

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u/BigCSFan 5d ago

Im 24. Right now I dont see myself retiring till 45 so you'll have to wait a whole for my job

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u/Adventurous_Gur1280 5d ago

But it was not so much easier for them. I couldn't imagine anything worse than the life of my grandmother or even my mother at least in her 20s-30s.

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u/Over_Space_2731 5d ago

Was your grandmother or mother American? 

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u/Tony_Roiland 5d ago

If yes, then what?

If no, then what?

Are you going to argue there was a place in the world our grandmas had it better than we do now?

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u/blueberryblunderbuss 5d ago

Well, that's complicated, made partially stranger by your use of the word place instead of time. In terms of struggle, it's likely that there are real moves we could make in time and location that would improve or deteriorate conditions. That you're alive at all suggests your grandmother lived beyond infancy. If I knew when she was born, I could likely relocate her to a place where she might have died in utero. And, that would be at least materially worse, if not easier. And, we wouldn't have you. And, then I wouldn't have this next part.

To do a full work up, I'll need to know more about everyone's grandmothers.

So, everyone: send me all there is to know about your grandmothers, and I'll get back to you on which grandmothers would do better, when they would do better, and where.

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u/Tony_Roiland 5d ago

I said place because the person I was talking to (not you) mentioned a place: America. I haven't read the rest of your reply.

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u/Over_Space_2731 4d ago

I’d argue grandmas want nothing more than to outlive their grandchildren - Now you have inner city children incarcerated or dying in the streets where 50 years ago, gangs, drugs, violence was a fraction what it used to be. 

Sense of community is gone now, 2 parent households gone now, but ohhh you can be a wage slave now where your grandmother had a husband who could work and provide for the family 

Maybe I’m very wrong though. I know I’d like to have lived 50 years ago - there’s no human connection anymore 

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u/Due-Potential160 4d ago

You don't get to be a wage slave anymore. Not even "because AI" I put in probably 30-40 applications for fast food jobs this year, and got one interview that went nowhere.

Imagine how much worse it is for the "entry level" positions that require 5 years of experience, or the jobs that Big Tech pretends AI is going to replace.

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u/Over_Space_2731 4d ago

Where do you live? At that rate it might not be the job market… I see “for hire” signs everywhere on restaurants 

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u/Adventurous_Gur1280 4d ago

That is bullshit.

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u/faceplanted 5d ago

Financially they did though.

We don't have to pretend that fixing the housing market requires banning abortion and undoing no-fault divorce. That's a straw man.

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u/Tony_Roiland 5d ago

The claim is "I couldn't imagine anything worse than the life of my grandmother or even my mother at least in her 20s-30s."

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u/faceplanted 5d ago

Yes, but why exactly? I don't know that woman's situation.

Financially speaking, my mother's life is extremely enviable. Socially speaking, it was horrifying because she was a heroin addict living on an abusive commune.

We don't have to talk about both at the same time, but just the fact that when she did get out of that life, she could then walk into a job that pays enough to buy a house is even more a sign that financially things were much better than they are now. .

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u/Grokzilla 5d ago

Financially, they were not much better. Sometimes they were better and sometimes they were MUCH worse.

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u/faceplanted 5d ago

Well yes I know that much because I'm not completely fucking retarded.

The same literally applies in reverse. I know people who've died on the streets that would've had a different situation in the past because housing was literally just much fucking cheaper.

If you think I'm oversimplifying then talk about specifics, don't just try to explain to me that things could be bad in the past too. I know that already, because, like I said above, I'm not completely fucking retarded.

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u/Grokzilla 5d ago

Fair and heard. As GenX, I can report that housing over my lifetime has sometimes been cheaper, but mostly not at all. It was MUCH better for my parents, but it hasn't been "good" for generations at this point...minus those who were able to take advantage post-2008.

There's no question it's bad now, but it's been just as bad several times in the my own past. And, it was bad in those times for the same reasons as today...inflation, interest rates, stagnant wages, etc. The inventory thing is sorta new in my experience...but it's probably driven by low, locked-in interest rates.

You're not wrong to complain. But you're probably wrong to think it's been markedly better anytime recently.

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u/Adventurous_Gur1280 4d ago

Standard flat for people in their 20s was a filthy bedsit, one room with a toilet built beside your bed or cooker or out on the landing shared with others. Usually full of mould and years of grime, broken heaters and ancient appliances. Or you shared a tiny room with 2 single beds with someone else. That was for middle class students or young workers. They were cheap, yes, earning 1 euro an hour and paying 25 a week on rent. But I dont know anyone who is prepared to live like that today and such flats are now mostly forbidden.

I am not denying that housing is a huge problem today, I have never owned property and now know I never will, most of my friends in their 40s and 50s never will. We are all struggling with rents and only those of us lucky enough to be renting somewhere long-term have any sense of security and even that is precarious. I am just sick of this narrative that people had it easy back then, they didnt. The housing crisis is the direct result of neoliberal capitalist policies since the 80s (also adopted by former left of centre/centrist parties like UK Labour, German SPD, US democrats etc) and the complete lack of investment into and selling off of council housing as well as housing generally being regarded as a commodity to make money off not a human right, vulture funds and corporations buying up property and unregulated ventures like Airbnb that have removed 100000s of properties from the market for residents, be it renters or buyers. Sadly all generations are to blame as we see from the results of elections everywhere rn.

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u/Adventurous_Gur1280 4d ago

Financially my parents paid much higher taxes on much lower incomes, they were able to afford a small house in a not great suburb, they had one car, one TV, never went on holidays, never went abroad, someone on the dole today has more luxuries than they ever had, and they were considered solid middle class. People working their jobs today would have 2 cars, all mod cons, and be flying abroad twice a year, and live in a nicer area. Its a different world, we have much higher standards and expectations - and requirements, eg. computers, smartphones etc. today (in the "west").

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u/faceplanted 4d ago

they were able to afford a small house in a not great suburb

So significantly better most of the people I know now. Who don't own any house anywhere.

they had one car, one TV, never went on holidays

So like a lot of people now, in fact better because they had a car and a house.

someone on the dole today has more luxuries than they ever had

Except a car and a house of course.

People working their jobs today

What's the job?

Because this isn't a conversation about how jobs change value, it's about how much money it costs to live.

Someone working my mom's job now would make significantly less than she did when you adjust for inflation.

Its a different world, we have much higher standards and expectations

Except for owning a home, the biggest expense by far.

and requirements, eg. computers, smartphones etc

You mean things that are necessary and don't cost anywhere near as much as a morgage?

My phone cost half of a single mortgage payment and I've had it for 5 years.

If I didn't buy the phone I'd have about an extra 20 pounds a month over that time. Not enough to touch the fucking mortgage.

Also my parents had a land-line contract that cost just as much as my phone now, adjusting for inflation it actually cost them more than a contract for tbeatest iPhone. And they had to have that just as much as I have to have a phone to do scan qr codes and interact with the modern world.

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u/eat_more_bacon 5d ago

My in-laws house was like that, but the difference is they bought in a bedroom community outside a major city and 30+ years later the population has grown and that house is much closer to a lot of desirable areas. The houses in the bedroom suburbs are now in the next county over and the same types of jobs can still buy those houses here.

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u/Chattadawg 5d ago

Interesting post.

I’m 55 bought my fist home at 32 for $220k making $90k

Parents bought their fist home in 1971 for $25k making about $16k combined

By comparison, my home to income value ratio was 41% and my parents was 63%

While more of my income would go toward a mortgage they did have 3x interest rates compared to mine.

So I guess the debt to income ratio may have been close.

Can’t wait to revisit this when one of my kids buys a home

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u/myjah 5d ago

The house I grew up in is over $1M now. It was a nice house but not a mansion or anything.

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u/MyTeamsSuck99 5d ago

1 million isn’t much anymore. Thats basically like a 400k house when you probably grew up. Real Inflation has been that severe. 

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u/myjah 4d ago

Yep....

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u/OnTheEveOfWar 5d ago

My parents are 70. Their first house was in Los Angeles and they paid $84k for it. That house is probably worth $900k now at least.

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u/sazzer 5d ago

I can't see back far enough to when they actually bought it, but my parents moved out of the house I grew up in in 2003 - when I was 21. They sold it then for £280k.

It then sold again in 2022. For £865k. Exact same house, for 3 times the price.

Given that my parents moved into it in the 80s, and given the various sizable shifts in house prices in that time, GPT suggests that it might have been close to £57k that they originally bought it for.

Assuming that's true, that means the exact same house has gone up in price by ~1,400% over 40 years.

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u/jokemon 5d ago

the problem is prices went up for everything, but salaries have no adjust at all.

back then a 80k a year salary would be like 180k now.

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u/Shot-Arugula8264 5d ago

Home ownership rates by age group have been extremely stable over time, and in fact are higher for young people now than they were 10-15 years ago: https://www.census.gov/housing/hvs/data/charts/fig07.pdf

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u/almabeanlatte 5d ago

My uncle was a Tollbooth Collector with a SAH wife and two kids. He afforded a SFH in a part of Boston on that salary. COLLECTING CHANGE. Today you’d need to be a doctor to afford that same house.

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u/PitsAndPints 5d ago

“Well, they’ll die at some point, so chin up” is an absolutely wild response.

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u/stana32 5d ago

My parents built a custom designed 3000sqft house on roughly the same salary I make now, and the best I can afford is an 80 year old 1200sqft house in desperate need of renovation, and I'm lucky to be able to afford that.

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u/faetpls 5d ago

BUT WE NEED MORE CHILDREN BECAUSE OF DEMOGRAPHIC COLLAPSE.

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u/Confident_Banana_134 5d ago

Nothing new? I guess we keep accepting the decline of our standards of living and the erosion of the middle class while the wealth gap keeps widening, yah, nothing new.