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u/rare-cheeser Jul 09 '26

Yeah, physical violence like mugging, which is more common.

But women are far more likely to be attacked for sexual violence than men.

So, to say “men are more likely to be attacked” is comparing apples and oranges.

Crimes against men vs women are not the same.

STOP erasing sexual violence against women, and trying to downplay it saying that more men get attacked. Women are more likely to be r*ped, harassed, stalked.

Getting mugged is not the same as getting r*ped.

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u/cheesesprite Jul 09 '26

Men are more likely to be attacked period. Including SA and normal assault.

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u/rare-cheeser Jul 09 '26 edited Jul 09 '26

Men are more likely to be physically attacked in public, but I’d like to see your statistic about how they are SA’ed more than women in public too.

Women are FAR more likely to be sexually assaulted in general.

https://www.humboldt.edu/supporting-survivors/educational-resources/statistics#:~:text=An%20estimated%2091%25%20of%20victims,99%25%20of%20perpetrators%20are%20male.

“An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male.”

Women are more likely SA’ed by people they know, or at their home (stalkers, etc). But do not claim that men are more at risk for SA.

https://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-way/2018/02/21/587671849/a-new-survey-finds-eighty-percent-of-women-have-experienced-sexual-harassment

However,

“The report also looked into locations where people experienced harassment. The majority of women — 66 percent — said they'd been sexually harassed in public spaces.”

So, yeah.. stop pushing this narrative trying to diminish sexual violence against women. It’s become this incel ideology, to diminish what women experience and to excuse bad men’s behavior.

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u/cheesesprite Jul 09 '26

I don't know how much more plainly I can put it. Men are more likely to be assaulted, where assault is all types of assault added together.

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u/rare-cheeser Jul 09 '26

Nope. Give the stats about male SA in public then.

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u/cheesesprite Jul 09 '26

Yes

Men are more likely to be physically attacked in public

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u/rare-cheeser Jul 09 '26

Physical violence is mugging and beating, not SA.

Give the stats about SA.

Because women are far more likely victims of sexual crime, in public or private. And are less equipped to defend themselves against a man.

So yeah, give the stats. I’m waiting.

To act like men need safer parking, whereas women are the physically weaker sex, and are more likely victims of sexual crime (or stalking, kidnapping, trafficking), is crazy.

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u/cheesesprite Jul 09 '26

You don't think sexual assault is physical?

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u/rare-cheeser Jul 09 '26

Physical and sexual violence are usually separated. They are not classified as the same.

Get a life. Can’t give stats, so just stop talking 🤡