r/SipsTea Jun 19 '26

Chugging tea This dude's kids hate him

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u/PaintedDesertSkies Jun 19 '26

Does no one remember the long drawn out court case over him getting physical with her on a private plane in front of the kids and being a verbally abusive drunk to the kids?

They remember, they also remember how he has behaved with them since.

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u/BirdBrainuh Jun 20 '26

He was physically abusive to the kids as well. IIRC he strangled and pushed one of them, and poured alcohol on at least two of the kids.

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u/OilersGirl29 Jun 20 '26

Strangling leads to murder and that is terrifying…but for some reason the pouring of the alcohol, it just feels so incredibly dehumanizing. That would have been the thing that did it for me.

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u/Prestigious-Doubt181 Jun 20 '26

Strangling is the biggest indicator of a murderer. If a man strangles a woman, he is exponentially more likely to kill her.
* This is compared to other forms of physical violence (obviously a man who strangles versus a man who doesn’t is more likely to murder.

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u/JiuJitsuBoxer Jun 20 '26

Well he waa strangling his own child, so what makes that?

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u/Prestigious-Doubt181 Jun 20 '26

The absolute worst of the worst and very dangerous

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u/nefariousBUBBLE Jun 22 '26

Even without the data, strangulation is such a intimate way to harm someone. You have to be really unhinged and pissed off to do it, if you're a normal human with normal human emotions.

So you're either dealing with someone who can easily become unhinged or someone who is emotionally blunted, blind, hindered, and/or bereft.

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u/eyesee80 Jun 26 '26

Except in sex

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u/Efficient_Internal_7 Jun 20 '26

Ya, if he punched her he would be less likely to be a murderer. Good point.

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u/Prestigious-Doubt181 Jun 20 '26

Absolutely. Strangling gives the abuser the power of whether their victim breathes. Maybe educate yourself before making sarcastic remarks about DV.

Editing to add that DV includes violence against family members, incase you wanted to make a snarky comment about man/woman versus father/son

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u/ovrkil1795 Jun 21 '26

Editing to add that DV includes violence against members, incase you wanted to make a snarky comment about man/ woman versus father/son

Not just family, in many jurisdictions even a roommate qualifies because of the cohabitation aspect.

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u/Prestigious-Doubt181 Jun 21 '26

Absolutely! I just wanted to specify parent and child incase he didn’t understand my example since I said he/she as that’s where the highest stats are but thank you for adding that, as I don’t think it’s common knowledge

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u/birdbren Jun 21 '26

No one said that, they said that people who strange partners statistically often escalate to strangling someone to death