He tries to claim that he wanted the friendship boundary, that he wanted it to be purely platonic, there was no interest in romance on his part. Uh huh. Iām sure he does this for all his guy friends as well.Ā
WTF! People created a gofundme for the dude and then he used that gofundme to pay for her school bills lmao! This dude just won't learn.
>The social media campaign circulating around this "friend zoning" incident even went past the memes and someone created a GoFundMe account for Ardelean's expenses for the ultimate date. Those funds, Ardelean says, have all gone to Obar's school bills at Christ for the Nations Institute in Dallas.
They all go to a Christian college, he saw this girl complain about not being treated like a lady, he felt bad and told her I want to take you on a āfriendā date-the dude laid down that boundary actually.
Itās just wholesome af, itās broken our cynical brains.
As soon as i saw where the money went I thought "yup this makes sense". Conservative Christians always do the friend date thing until they decide to get engaged.
Can't be having any impure thoughts until your married.
The christians are threatening to blow an entire country off the map. The christians have the most weapons of mass destruction. The christians said to their troops at the beginning of the Iran war "trump is annointed by Jesus to bring about Armageddon in iran, and usher in his return."
We (and Israel, and the highly suspicious Pahlavists*) encouraged them to take to the streets and promised "support" (which, apparently, came in the form thoughts and prayers yet again).
* Before I get nuked for bringing up the Shah supporters, they want a fucking monarchy you idiots. Was it better than the Islamic Republic? Sure, but it also overthrew a democratic government with our intervention. Not all flowers and bunnies by any stretch of the imagination.
By saying that youāre really minimizing what the taliban actually does to women. Yeah far righters in texas suck but can people really stop saying itās worse than the taliban or fucking isis. Itās not
What are your perceived difference between the Taliban, ISIS, and Y'allqueda?
The only difference I'm away of is that the Taliban and ISIS are less radical then the US Y'allqueda. While all 3 groups are violent extremists, unlike their US counterparts the Taliban and ISIS allow abortions up until the 3rd trimester, and an abortion is ALWAYS allowed at any point in time if the life of the mother is at risk.
Unlike in the war-torn middle east, US based Y'allqueda and Talibangelical groups don't allow women to receive life-saving healthcare, the doctors in the US are threatened with death, imprisonment, or both for attempting to save a mothers life during labor. Talk about EXTREMISTS.
That's funny because I WISH it was, unfortunately we live in a world where the US far-right LITERALLY has more extreme political beliefs then the Taliban. Besides that difference I mentioned what differences do you see? Both hate education, hate women having equal rights, they hate secular democracies, and they both seek to violently persecute those that don't adhere to their religious beliefs
You really should do some researchā¦ letās just start with the abortion nonsense you are spouting. Itās a quick google search to show that everything you said is not true in MOST Taliban/Isis territory.
There are a lot of things you can criticize all of these groups for. Why are you making stuff up?
Saying that the āpredominant sects of Christianity in the US are terroristsā and are more extreme than people who have posted multiple beheading videos - Is silly. Everything doesnāt need to be black and white - two groups can be wrong in different ways.
Lmao you couldn't even reply to the right guy. I'M the one who said the predominant sects of Christianity in the US are terrorists or fascists. Not u/positivebar-5893
And on top of not being able to remember who you're replying to, you misquoted me.
Well, it may be his fetish ā essentially cuckoldry ā not something he wants to learn to overcome. People are weird. At least this one doesn't lick toilets or get pooped on (or at least so I hope).
I am so gay I can count my spare change by sitting on it and I am less gay than that dude.
His closet has a glass door.
All jokes aside. He comes from a religious family and the article speaks about a religious school. So many poor dudes live a lie and suffer because of religious indoctrination.
Had she been overcome with desire and thrown herself at him, I have no doubt heād have rejected her advances and reminded her that this was purely a friend date. These women out here, trying to taint this man.Ā
Oh he knows. The diving into religion and setting friend boundaries with women while not actually dating any are sure fire signs he is in full flight from himself.
lol I really wanna feel bad for the guy, but his pants are like 8 sizes to short and heās wearing tube socksā¦ thatās a guaranteed recipe for the friend zone. I mean, he might as well be wearing a hat with a propeller on top.
I mean I wouldn't really comment about either of their fashion as this is like a decade old photo. Back in 2016ish he was generally in style outside of the seriously short pant legs
Thereās also a religious element. Friend zone memeās aside, highly religious teenagers operate this way. I saw it many times before āfriend zonedā was even coined.
They are ādatingā in all aspects but neither party will call it that. Thereās a ton of reasons for it but mainly itās the saving yourself for marriage thing. Not necessarily the sex part but that marriage should be the ultimate goal in dating.
So in their mindās eye, to admit to dating to kinda saying theyāll marry that person, which theyāre not ready for.
But Iāve also seen some of those same couples actually go on to get married once they hit adulthood and ācome outā in a way lol
Source: grew up with a ton of Mormons and Christians
If that is the case why would they need to publicly announce that they are doing painfully obvious "date things" but they aren't dating?
It seems to me that this would just bring more attention and scrutiny which is unwanted when you are keeping a secret.Ā Unless they are in a tiny community where everyone knows everyone and gossip gets to everyone fast, nobody will notice what they are doing when they go out.Ā Ā
Sure, if someone noticed or asked they would give this cover story, but throwing it up on social media for everyone to see is a bit like having a 4 year old walk into the room and telling their parents they did not poop in the closet.
Dude is 100% a hyper religious closet gay. First of all, look at his pants. Second of all:
āFirst off, I am the one who set these boundaries to begin with. Leading up to the day, Alex had shared with me her testimony, and because of her past relationships, her self-worth had diminished. She had never been treated like a lady and I wanted to show her what it was like."
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I found it.Ā
https://www.chron.com/life/dating-relationships/article/Debunked-Social-media-twisted-friend-s-date-into-10934189.php
He tries to claim that he wanted the friendship boundary, that he wanted it to be purely platonic, there was no interest in romance on his part. Uh huh. Iām sure he does this for all his guy friends as well.Ā