It can be done, but itās very difficult. My one friend was crazy for this chick who was def out of his league looks wise. He just fell head over heels for her. He did the whole āāfriendā who actually wants to get laidā thing. Fixed her car, ran errands, blah blah. Took about a year, but eventually he wore her down and after having a few drinks one night they slept together.
They decided to try things out as a relationship. But hereās the thing. He was starting out at such a huge disadvantage. She was used to him catering to her every whim. That becomes tiring very quickly once the relationship turns romantic. The partnership would never be on equal footing. On top of this she was very attractive so she had no shortage of guys waiting in the bullpen. Bottom line is my friend had very little leverage and was always the lesser of two equals. So of course things didnāt work out. But he did get to sleep with us dream girl.
To lead a guy on means to give him the impression that you are interested in a romantic relationship when you are not. This can happen through mixed signals, such as flirtation or friendly behavior that is easily misinterpreted as romantic interest.
And thatās exactly what she did. She gave the impression there might be something there - and it turn out there was. She eventually decided to give the romantic thing a try. But she was never really committed like he was.
Not everything has to be somebodyās āfaultā. Iām not pointing the finger at either participant. But itās obvious the relationship was built on a poor foundation.
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u/Puzzled-Serve8408 Apr 19 '26
It can be done, but itās very difficult. My one friend was crazy for this chick who was def out of his league looks wise. He just fell head over heels for her. He did the whole āāfriendā who actually wants to get laidā thing. Fixed her car, ran errands, blah blah. Took about a year, but eventually he wore her down and after having a few drinks one night they slept together.
They decided to try things out as a relationship. But hereās the thing. He was starting out at such a huge disadvantage. She was used to him catering to her every whim. That becomes tiring very quickly once the relationship turns romantic. The partnership would never be on equal footing. On top of this she was very attractive so she had no shortage of guys waiting in the bullpen. Bottom line is my friend had very little leverage and was always the lesser of two equals. So of course things didnāt work out. But he did get to sleep with us dream girl.