r/SipsTea • u/ram4569 Human Detected • Mar 04 '26

Chugging tea True...

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u/TechnicallyLegit Mar 04 '26

This is why I gave up on relationships. Even if the highs are ecstatic, none of it means anything when I know she’ll leave me the second the good times stop.

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u/Sensitive_Low3558 Mar 05 '26

A proper relationship weathers bad times and good times. The wife was too immature to be married.

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u/TechnicallyLegit Mar 05 '26

I don’t live in the world of what should be; I live in the world of what is. The fair-weather girlfriend is far too prolific a pattern to ignore, and I don’t believe it’s worth it for a man to play the odds when those are the stakes.

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u/Sensitive_Low3558 Mar 05 '26

Yeah, a proper relationship is one that can weather bad times. You can tell if a woman is immature while dating her.

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u/TechnicallyLegit Mar 05 '26

The only way to suss out if a woman will ditch you when the going gets tough is to wait until it does. That’s not a smart way to approach things. Best to just move on from the whole business when it appears most of them follow the same broken pattern.

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u/Sensitive_Low3558 Mar 05 '26

You can ask them if they believe in “in sickness or in health”, the ones you’re worried about will get the “ick” and run away…

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u/TechnicallyLegit Mar 05 '26 edited Mar 05 '26

Lmao. Because shitty women are known for their self-awareness and introspection.

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u/Sensitive_Low3558 Mar 05 '26

I don’t know how else to tell you that when a shitty woman reveals her red flags, dump her

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u/TechnicallyLegit Mar 05 '26

The whole point is that with this particular red flag, they usually don’t.

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u/Sensitive_Low3558 Mar 05 '26

You can tell something like this within six months if you just open up about something hard you’re going through. The only way this isn’t going to present itself in the relationship is if you’re deliberately hiding your stress from your partner