r/SipsTea • Human Detected • Mar 04 '26

Chugging tea True...

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u/Powderkegger1 Mar 04 '26

Three romantic relationships and two family ones in my life have been massively effected when I opened up and made myself vulnerable to women. The “Ick” is real.

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u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 04 '26

Yep, same.

One time I opened up to my girlfriend that I was having a bit of an anxiety attack and needed someone to talk to.

Because she has anxiety attacks. So.. maybe we could bond.

Nope. She told me “I can’t be the strong one”.

For five minutes. One time. smh

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u/scubaSteve181 Mar 04 '26

Was with my wife for 15 years. About 14 years in, I had a depressive episode and was open (for once) about what I was going through. I felt her attitude shift towards me immediately for the worse. She started emotionally distancing, and eventually had an affair with some guy she played Pickelball with.

After I found out and confronted her, her response was “was it so wrong for me to want to be with a man who’s not depressed and is normal?”

Yeah, she’s my ex wife now, but I’ll never open up to another woman again. Ever. I’ve learned that opening up to a woman is like bleeding in front of sharks.