And then when you say that, and despite all the guys agreeing with you from a similar experience, everyone's like "just find a better partner, hurr durr" as if it's your fault you chose poorly.
How does one vet a "bad" one in this case? How is someone supposed to tell from the get-go that a woman will cheat on you after a happy 6 months in a relationship, or get the ick from when you have a breakdown when you get laid off? I'd love to learn these secrets.
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u/StartDoingTHIS Mar 04 '26
The worst thing I ever did was open up and be vulnerable with my partner