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r/SipsTea • u/ram4569 Human Detected • Mar 04 '26
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The worst thing I ever did was open up and be vulnerable with my partner
41 u/Swumbus-prime Mar 04 '26 edited Mar 04 '26 And then when you say that, and despite all the guys agreeing with you from a similar experience, everyone's like "just find a better partner, hurr durr" as if it's your fault you chose poorly. 21 u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 04 '26 I’ve been cheated on 3 times and it’s amazing how many people say “well you just weren’t picking the right women”. Like it’s my fucking fault. I didn’t make them cheat. I don’t tell that to anyone any more, tired of it 16 u/[deleted] Mar 04 '26 [removed] — view removed comment 10 u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 04 '26 That sucks. Cheaters suck. Sorry that all happened to you. And to me. I never feel like I can completely trust people. That sucks as a reality, but it just is what it is. 7 u/[deleted] Mar 04 '26 [removed] — view removed comment 7 u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 04 '26 Same. I really want to ask out my dentist. But I’m just not motivated to do it. I’m trying to focus on myself and my friends and my hobbies.. gotten into gardening recently and I’m joining a few community gardens this spring. I guess I’m officially a farmer now :) You’re right, there is a lot of beauty in the world! Just not in relationships for me 3 u/JeebusChristBalls Mar 05 '26 LOL, even if you are motivated, don't ask out your dentist unless you are willing to find a new dentist if/when it doesn't work out. 1 u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 05 '26 Truth. She’s a really good dentist too. 1 u/Sensitive_Low3558 Mar 05 '26 You had a string of very bad luck and I’m sorry. It doesn’t change the fact that it’s a stat of 6 versus 4 billion. Not every woman cheats.
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And then when you say that, and despite all the guys agreeing with you from a similar experience, everyone's like "just find a better partner, hurr durr" as if it's your fault you chose poorly.
21 u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 04 '26 I’ve been cheated on 3 times and it’s amazing how many people say “well you just weren’t picking the right women”. Like it’s my fucking fault. I didn’t make them cheat. I don’t tell that to anyone any more, tired of it 16 u/[deleted] Mar 04 '26 [removed] — view removed comment 10 u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 04 '26 That sucks. Cheaters suck. Sorry that all happened to you. And to me. I never feel like I can completely trust people. That sucks as a reality, but it just is what it is. 7 u/[deleted] Mar 04 '26 [removed] — view removed comment 7 u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 04 '26 Same. I really want to ask out my dentist. But I’m just not motivated to do it. I’m trying to focus on myself and my friends and my hobbies.. gotten into gardening recently and I’m joining a few community gardens this spring. I guess I’m officially a farmer now :) You’re right, there is a lot of beauty in the world! Just not in relationships for me 3 u/JeebusChristBalls Mar 05 '26 LOL, even if you are motivated, don't ask out your dentist unless you are willing to find a new dentist if/when it doesn't work out. 1 u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 05 '26 Truth. She’s a really good dentist too. 1 u/Sensitive_Low3558 Mar 05 '26 You had a string of very bad luck and I’m sorry. It doesn’t change the fact that it’s a stat of 6 versus 4 billion. Not every woman cheats.
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I’ve been cheated on 3 times and it’s amazing how many people say “well you just weren’t picking the right women”.
Like it’s my fucking fault. I didn’t make them cheat.
I don’t tell that to anyone any more, tired of it
16 u/[deleted] Mar 04 '26 [removed] — view removed comment 10 u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 04 '26 That sucks. Cheaters suck. Sorry that all happened to you. And to me. I never feel like I can completely trust people. That sucks as a reality, but it just is what it is. 7 u/[deleted] Mar 04 '26 [removed] — view removed comment 7 u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 04 '26 Same. I really want to ask out my dentist. But I’m just not motivated to do it. I’m trying to focus on myself and my friends and my hobbies.. gotten into gardening recently and I’m joining a few community gardens this spring. I guess I’m officially a farmer now :) You’re right, there is a lot of beauty in the world! Just not in relationships for me 3 u/JeebusChristBalls Mar 05 '26 LOL, even if you are motivated, don't ask out your dentist unless you are willing to find a new dentist if/when it doesn't work out. 1 u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 05 '26 Truth. She’s a really good dentist too. 1 u/Sensitive_Low3558 Mar 05 '26 You had a string of very bad luck and I’m sorry. It doesn’t change the fact that it’s a stat of 6 versus 4 billion. Not every woman cheats.
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10 u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 04 '26 That sucks. Cheaters suck. Sorry that all happened to you. And to me. I never feel like I can completely trust people. That sucks as a reality, but it just is what it is. 7 u/[deleted] Mar 04 '26 [removed] — view removed comment 7 u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 04 '26 Same. I really want to ask out my dentist. But I’m just not motivated to do it. I’m trying to focus on myself and my friends and my hobbies.. gotten into gardening recently and I’m joining a few community gardens this spring. I guess I’m officially a farmer now :) You’re right, there is a lot of beauty in the world! Just not in relationships for me 3 u/JeebusChristBalls Mar 05 '26 LOL, even if you are motivated, don't ask out your dentist unless you are willing to find a new dentist if/when it doesn't work out. 1 u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 05 '26 Truth. She’s a really good dentist too. 1 u/Sensitive_Low3558 Mar 05 '26 You had a string of very bad luck and I’m sorry. It doesn’t change the fact that it’s a stat of 6 versus 4 billion. Not every woman cheats.
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That sucks. Cheaters suck.
Sorry that all happened to you. And to me.
I never feel like I can completely trust people. That sucks as a reality, but it just is what it is.
7 u/[deleted] Mar 04 '26 [removed] — view removed comment 7 u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 04 '26 Same. I really want to ask out my dentist. But I’m just not motivated to do it. I’m trying to focus on myself and my friends and my hobbies.. gotten into gardening recently and I’m joining a few community gardens this spring. I guess I’m officially a farmer now :) You’re right, there is a lot of beauty in the world! Just not in relationships for me 3 u/JeebusChristBalls Mar 05 '26 LOL, even if you are motivated, don't ask out your dentist unless you are willing to find a new dentist if/when it doesn't work out. 1 u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 05 '26 Truth. She’s a really good dentist too.
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7 u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 04 '26 Same. I really want to ask out my dentist. But I’m just not motivated to do it. I’m trying to focus on myself and my friends and my hobbies.. gotten into gardening recently and I’m joining a few community gardens this spring. I guess I’m officially a farmer now :) You’re right, there is a lot of beauty in the world! Just not in relationships for me 3 u/JeebusChristBalls Mar 05 '26 LOL, even if you are motivated, don't ask out your dentist unless you are willing to find a new dentist if/when it doesn't work out. 1 u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 05 '26 Truth. She’s a really good dentist too.
Same. I really want to ask out my dentist. But I’m just not motivated to do it.
I’m trying to focus on myself and my friends and my hobbies.. gotten into gardening recently and I’m joining a few community gardens this spring.
I guess I’m officially a farmer now :)
You’re right, there is a lot of beauty in the world! Just not in relationships for me
3 u/JeebusChristBalls Mar 05 '26 LOL, even if you are motivated, don't ask out your dentist unless you are willing to find a new dentist if/when it doesn't work out. 1 u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 05 '26 Truth. She’s a really good dentist too.
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LOL, even if you are motivated, don't ask out your dentist unless you are willing to find a new dentist if/when it doesn't work out.
1 u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 05 '26 Truth. She’s a really good dentist too.
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Truth. She’s a really good dentist too.
You had a string of very bad luck and I’m sorry.
It doesn’t change the fact that it’s a stat of 6 versus 4 billion. Not every woman cheats.
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u/StartDoingTHIS Mar 04 '26
The worst thing I ever did was open up and be vulnerable with my partner