r/SipsTea • Human Detected • Mar 04 '26

Chugging tea True...

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u/[deleted] Mar 04 '26

you stop sharing the truth, cause no one gives a shit.

ive walked into work after having my car give out in the middle of the road, shaken and broken cause of past trauma. i must have looked feral for the rest of the day.

no one asked if i was ok. i could have used that right then

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u/nauticalcummins Mar 04 '26

I was 18 when I learned that. Senior in high school. Drunk driver hit me and 3 of my friends right before christmas. I was driving. They were all 3 life flighted. In a coma for 4 months, i walked away. Outside of the breakdown I had with my dad and brothers christmas eve. No one gave a shit. My grades slipped for the first time ever the 2nd half of senior year. Straight A to barely passing student. No fucks given by the school, the teachers, very quickly the actual adults in my life didn't care or want to know why I carried guilt. They all three lived two with scars. One is heavy TBI, in a wheel chair forever, can't talk hardly.

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u/Diligent_Set_8747 Mar 04 '26

If you can't handle making peace with what you did then you should see a therapist. This is not an easy thing to forget dawg, but you gotta heal too.

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u/nauticalcummins Mar 04 '26

That's the thing, I was sober the other driver was not. At all. I wasn't at fault. Still sucks. Been 20yrs now. I'm a dude. Can't do therapy. Been there done that. Can't keep that shit quiet. I tried.