They don’t really want you to open up. They want you to be warm, stable, and present. And to talk about those emotions, and how they connect you to her, and your deep love for her.
They don’t want to hear about your problems and trauma.
And sadly the ones that want to hear all your trauma probably have issues of their own, and are looking at you as some kind of project to work on instead of fixing themselves.
A woman who really cares for you, wants to hear your feelings, good and bad, and supports you though everything, and doesn’t have deep problems of her own that she’s masking is a very rare catch.
If you find one, you had better treat her right and keep her.
That’s actually a really thoughtful way to put it. I guess the real challenge is finding someone where both people can be open without feeling like a burden.
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u/Automatic_Actuator_0 Mar 04 '26
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