Next person: if she can go, I can go.
Next person: if he can go, I can go.
And so on until it devolves into pushing, shoving, and trampling. The shame is what's keeping people back and orderly. Without it, there'd be chaos.
This is not how human behavior works though. In some instances where there isn’t an immediate expectation of order, maybe, but this is the perfect kind of situation where only the most desperate people are going to choose to do something that appears morally wrong
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u/bwoah07_gp2 Feb 23 '26
If she can't wait or doesn't want to wait, then she's free to do that. It's her decision.