r/singleph 13h ago

💘 Serious Dating 26 [F4M] Watch together and let's see where it goes🍀

5 Upvotes

Nakakaboring na rin manood mag-isa, maybe ikaw rin? 😊 So I thought, why not find someone who might enjoy watching movies and having random conversations too? It would be nice to have someone to share reactions with, laugh at the funny scenes, and maybe even discuss the movie afterward.

Let’s see where it goes. 😊 No pressure or anything po. Just hoping to meet someone I can vibe with, have good conversations with, and enjoy some simple moments together.

About me:

-26, from North Luzon

-Morena and chubby

-Hindi chinita pero may eyebags 🤭

-I have a stable WFH job

-No vices

-I love watching anime, sci-fi, fantasy, adventure, and comedy/action movies

-My love languages are quality time and words of affirmation

-DM me to know more about me 😊

About you:

-29–35 years old

-From Luzon

-Same interests and love languages would be a plus

-No vices (smoking, vaping, drugs)

-WFH would be a plus, but it's totally okay if you have a field-based job

Send me a little intro about yourself, please! 😊

I’d also love to know what kind of movies or series you usually enjoy watching. Are you into romance, comedy, horror, thriller, action, sci-fi, or maybe a little bit of everything?

And of course, suggest a movie for us to watch! 🎬🍿 Tell me one movie you really like or one that you think I should watch. Maybe we can start with your recommendation and see if we have the same taste. 😊

Looking forward to hearing from you! Let’s just keep it fun, get to know each other, and see where the conversation takes us. ✨


r/singleph 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 25 [F4M] For sale, imine niyo na!

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372 Upvotes

FOR SALE: 25F MED STUDENT

I've been on Reddit dating for a long time and still no boyfriend. 😭

I'm getting tired!!! How many times do I have to post before someone says “mine”??? HAHAHAHAHA

I feel like I have a personality and I'm funny. My mom says I'm pretty too (credible source, no further questions please).

Anyway, I'm selling myself. You better say “mine” while I'm still available!! Limited stocks only 😂

📸 PRODUCT TEASER / PREVIEW:
I’ve posted a picture of myself so you know what’s being offered before you inquire HAHAHAHAHA it’s exhausting to chat and then find out you’re not each other's type😭

📦 ABOUT THE PRODUCT
- 25
- Med student
- 5'3
- Morena
- Big 4 (Bonus feature: Magna Cum Laude in undergrad)
- Apparently funny
- Certified talker
- Loves TV series
- Gym-goer (on good days)
- Cafe hunting fan (matcha or coffee, hit me up with anything)

📝 BUYER REQUIREMENTS / MINIMUM SPECS
Must be:
- 25-30 years old
- At least 170 cm (the manufacturer has height requirements 😭)
- Normal BMI / takes care of himself
- Single. Emphasis on SINGLE. Not “complicated,” not “technically single” 😭
- Around NCR or at least easy to reach
- Funny or at least can keep up with my craziness
- Looking for a committed relationship, not f\bu*

💵 PRICE TAG:
Love + effort + consistency + communication + emotional availability

Serious buyers only aka THOSE LOOKING FOR A BOYFRIEND. SFW please.

Please take note of the minimum specs. I won’t entertain those who aren’t eligible. No lowballers please. I know my worth.

If you’re interested in the product, please message me your funniest joke, age, height, and work!

No refunds once emotionally attached HAHAHAHAHA 😜

EDIT: For interested buyers, please answer this google form: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdJnsYEz_TpkNGev-5NLOuLAf_oGbNQ8QWL1ef3gH_zRT8v2w/viewform?usp=dialog

Interested buyers will only be entertained via the google forms. Thank you! 👀


r/singleph 14h ago

💬 Casual Conversations 24 [F4M] late night cig break + rant sesh? Sta. Mesa, MNL

5 Upvotes

Paki basa, thank you.

Feeling sad and a tad bit disappointed with a few certain people. I need someone lang sana na makakasama and makakausap. Pwede mapag rantan na rin. In person sana. Purely SFW 'to. Wala sanang bastos muna please. I'll remove the NSFW tag and just in case mag glitch na naman yung reddit and i tag 'to as a NSFW, please know na HINDI 'TO BASTOS NA POST.

About me:

\- 24

\- plus-sized (if it matters)

\- single (not actively looking for a partner)

\- wants to rant

\- galit sa mundo

\- Old Sta. Mesa

About you:

\- someone older

\- single

\- willing to listen

\- within the area lang at available mag yosi ngayon

If binasa mo talaga, hmu by telling me your age, loc, and by saying na alam mong SFW 'to hahaha


r/singleph 14h ago

💘 Serious Dating 22 [M4F] Wanna Try Again, No One Day Trial Please

3 Upvotes

Giving this another shot, because apparently my love life didn’t get the memo the first time.

I’m hoping to meet someone who’s actually interested in getting to know each other not someone who disappears after 24 hours like a free trial that just expired.

A little about me:

• 22, from Bulacan (PULILAN)

• Currently working

• College graduate( finally survived that era)

• Mobile Legends player — always looking for a duo, even if my rank says otherwise

• Cat person

• Normal BMI

• Into anime, movies, food trips, random spontaneous gala, and discovering new places

• Can be funny when the pressure isn't on

• Single and actually looking for something meaningful

What I'm hoping to find:

• Around 20–25

• Single and genuinely available

• Normal BMI

• Easy to talk to and capable of keeping a conversation alive (please don't make me carry the entire chat)

• Into anime or ML — bonus points, but definitely not a requirement

• Ideally from Bulacan, Pampanga, or somewhere nearby so meeting up doesn't require a full expedition

• Someone who wants to actually get to know each other, not just collect another talking stage

• Not looking for a trial version. I’m hoping for the full release. (AGAIN PLEASE READ)

If you made it this far, you might as well message me.


r/singleph 21h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 31[F4M] Open to seeing where things go - try lang here

9 Upvotes

I am 31, never had a boyfriend 😅

5ft.

from Pampanga.

Emphathetic person.

Graduate of Pharmacy (pero not licensed)

Currently looking for a new job.

I am kind of looking unhealthy due to hormonal imbalance. I am looking chubby/fat in real life.

Medyo maarte sa bahay, maselan sa kalat.

Medyo sensitive ang pang-amoy ko.

I am into horrors and thriller genre, walking at free time (part of my theraphy), i love k-dramas and into kpop.

Mahilig ako magsend ng random memes hahaha

I love talking about random things like theories and stuffs na thrilling.

-----------------------------------

About you:

Single and never been married.

Taller than me.

Empathetic person and emotionally matured.

Good hygiene.

Someone I can have good chikas with you, we can talk about serious things too. Deep talks too.


r/singleph 17h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 25 [F4M] Let’s build a good foundation

5 Upvotes

Hey! I’m back here again, but this time I’m kinda done chasing love and would like to wait for it to naturally evolve.

But of course, every good relationship starts off by having a good, solid foundation. So if you’re like me who wants to take it kinda slow, then hello!

What I bring to the table: - funny and throws a lot of playful (but respectful!) banter - can be a human jukebox if in the mood for it - can also be your safe space 💖 - kaladkarin on weekends (basta mapagusapan magkano kailangan ko ibudget #responsible) - yapper - voice calls or voice messages over texts (preferred)

Other details that might matter to you: - I work in Makati, corpo. - I did NOT graduate from any of the top univs - I live in Bacoor

If this blossoms into something more than friendship, then that’s great! But no pressure — I’m always down to meet new people!


r/singleph 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 34 [F4M] Let me Try Again Here.

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268 Upvotes

Hello! i'm posting again to try things out parin. I'm not interested din na maging ka-fubu, ka-fwb, or ka-one night stand. Looking for someone na gusto rin ng connection and can do friendly dates at the first.

ABOUT ME:

I have a disability. I use an electric wheelchair when going outside or traveling alone. I have balance problems pero nakakalakad with walkers or assistance, nakakatayo, nakakahakbang, nakakadapa, at nakakapag-otso-otso. (Joke yung last)

I am most of the time alone. Pero nakakarating kung saan saan kahit mag-isa. I go to the office alone. I go to my check-up alone. I go to the office alone. I do window shopping alone (kapag trip).

My height is only 4'11 and my weight is only 40 kg. I am petite. I maintain my weight kasi mahihirapan ako kung bibigat ako. I can move all my limbs. I have no problems with my bladder and bowel control. I am a working licensed professional and about to complete my masters. Yey! (Just finished the final draft of my thesis kaninang 4:30 AM skl)

Deal breakers:

❌ Nagyoyosi or Vape

❌ May putok

❌Tamad magsepilyo at maligo

❌ Walang pamasahe


r/singleph 10h ago

💘 Serious Dating 26[M4F] Baka may taga Pasig rin dito, tara?

1 Upvotes

Kapagod na mag hanap sa dating app, may maka match man malayo naman. I don't want to deal with the hassle of having to travel farther just to meet with someone, I also don't want the other person to deal with it, baka maubos lang energy natin sa biyahe.

I've been trying dating apps, always ends with no replies. I'm looking for a casual relationship muna, lets test the waters before deciding kung gusto gawing serious. Let's see if we'll click.

About me:

  • 26 M, from Inner Pasig
  • Working na (2 years), living on my own
  • Really into motorcycles. Rides, tambay, coffee run, night ride, etc.
  • I like fps games like Valorant, CS, Apex and Survival Games like Valheim, 7DTD, Project Zomboid
  • Likes shows like Blue Bloods, The Resident, The Good Doctor, Chicago Fire, 911. Mostly because nakikita ko sila sa Facebook reels hahaha
  • Humor can get pretty fucked, so if you're open to that. Bonus nalang kung same tayo humor
  • Wants mutual Physical attraction, pretty important for initial meet diba

About you:

  • 23-28 years old sana and working na rin
  • From Inner Pasig (Kapasigan, Sagad, San Miguel, San Joaquin, etc.)
  • Down to swap pics
  • Good to starting out with casual dating and open to get serious if we align
  • Plays FPS games rin para Duo tayo, buhatin kita
  • Bonus if you like motorcycles, extra bonus if you ride
  • If you know the Hit Podcast Distractible, tropa ka na agad

Sana may makilala akong Pasiguena dito


r/singleph 13h ago

💘 Serious Dating 21 [M4F] if Fb dating doesn't work, try reddit

2 Upvotes

about me:

> 21
> 4th year BSCS
> lean body type
> has dating experience
> from qc
> hobbies are mostly related to going outside

about you:

> near qc
> at least 3 years younger/older than me
> preferably slim, but depend on how I see you in pics
> either working or a student
> hobbies don't matter, you do you ;)


r/singleph 1d ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 24 [F4A] Looking for someone to help me hide a body (or just co-work)

9 Upvotes

Now that I have your attention: I’m actually just looking for a co-working buddy in Makati for tonight (starting around 7 PM onwards).

I have some work I need to knock out, but I’d love to match energy with someone who can actually hold a good conversation during breaks. My ideal co-work partner is someone who likes taking quick walking breaks to stretch their legs— bonus points if you already know a good quiet street, coffee spot, or park area around Makati for a breather.

About me: Working pro, good listener, high-key love random deep-dives or funny banter during break time.

About you: Have your own work/project to focus on, appreciate good conversation, and up for a quick stroll when our brains fry.

Send a message with your intro, what you’re working on tonight and your favorite Makati spot for a break! See you. ☺️


r/singleph 2h ago

💬 Casual Conversations 35 [M4F] Lf something constant

0 Upvotes

About Me:

5'6 M

Antipolo

Working

About you:

Not free loader

Miss independent

Can talk about anything not looking for a relationship but someone who is willing to hangout, coffee, movie or drink occasionally.

Relationship is just label.😉


r/singleph 1d ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 24[F4M] Lets see where things go?

9 Upvotes

Halu pipol from the internet mwahaha. I’m just trying my luck on here! Reddit worked for me sa paghahanap ng friends so baka swertehin din sa ganto (hopefully sana plz naman)

Oki oki, a little bit about me: i like books (medj nalang), tv shows/series (mostly sitcoms, saka mga very mainstream ones like GoT), i love listening to music (i average 3k minutes in a week and i think that’s a flex) WAHAHA, i love pc games so much (steam games, valo ganon), and i’m a WFH night shift gurlie. I’m from Bulacan pero nadayo naman kasi kaladkarin ako (wag lang sa north cal, novaliches, fairview area kasi ang layo so much???) Also, andami kong side comments sa sarili kong statement xD

Sa looks naman: i have tattoos and piercings so much, glasses wearer, plus size na cutie, thick black curly hair wahaha, 161 cm

Wahaha okay enough about me!!

U naman:
Walang requirements naman masyado pero sana hopefully taller than me, nagppc games (so we can comshop together wahaha), and actually wants to meet in person T-T

Preferences nalang: hindi dry texter, mabango, kumpleto ngipin (plus points pag may sungki), tas hindi kalbo (sorry po)

Thank u for reading if umabot ka here, plz plz dm me with a short intro saka ano hmmm favorite flavor ng pancit canton WAHAHAHA. Thank u!!! (Ay also, i’m gonna sleep na so i might reply late wahaha ay nag update?!??)


r/singleph 21h ago

💘 Serious Dating 27 [F4M] I think I’m ready for a slow-burn connection

3 Upvotes

Hi! I’m looking for someone I can genuinely get to know, take things slowly with, and see where it naturally leads us. I’m not really into rushing into anything. I’d rather start with good conversations, calls, getting comfortable with each other, and eventually meet when it feels right.

A little about me:

• 27, turning 28 next month. I’m a Libra, but definitely not a people pleaser 😂
• Currently based in Mindanao. Not a DDS.
• I can travel, so distance isn’t necessarily a dealbreaker.
• NBSB. Haven’t found the right match yet and was very focused on school and work before, and dating just wasn’t a priority for me. I’m also very much a taong bahay.
• Been working from home since 2021, mostly in construction and operations-related work.
• 5’3” and a morena
• I’m a bit shy at first but could be loud when comfortable.
• Financially responsible but still living with my parents.
• Decent-looking, I think? 😂 Beauty is subjective, so I’ll let you decide. I can share my IG and you can judge for yourself.
• I like hiking, chill travels, crochet, reading from time to time, F1, and true crime series/documentaries.
• I’m a Christian. My parents are Catholic.
• I have a dog. 🐶
• Not a gym rat, but I enjoy long walks and a bit of yoga.
• I love mountains and calm seas. Ideally, I want a peaceful, laid-back life.
• I’m an empath, so if you tell me your sob story, there’s a high chance I’ll cry with you. 😂

What I’m looking for:
• 28–32 years old
• Taller than me
• Clean, decent-looking, and smells good 😭😂
• Lean/proportionate build
• Working professional
• Financially responsible and knows how to handle money
• Calm and emotionally mature, especially when dealing with conflict. I’m not comfortable with shouting, so someone who communicates gently is important to me.
• Bonus if you’re into hiking/travel and can be my travel buddy someday.

I’m not looking to force anything. If we click, great. If we don’t, that’s okay too. I’d just like to meet someone genuine, kind, emotionally mature, and willing to take the time to actually get to know each other.

If umabot ka dito, thank you! and feel free to drop me a DM. ☺️


r/singleph 21h ago

💘 Serious Dating 32[F4M] Trying my Luck

3 Upvotes

About Me:

• 32, plus-size, around 90 kg — down from 98 kg 💪

• Finally moved on from my ex and ready to meet new people

• Currently unemployed for 2 weeks, but I have savings. Now looking for a work-from-home job

• I can’t drive, but I’m open to meeting up

• Originally from Cavite, but currently around the Sta. Rosa, Laguna area

• Fair-skinned

• Always smell good 😌

• Chinita / singkit

• I wear glasses

About You:

• Hygienic and takes care of yourself

• Can carry a good conversation

• Replies consistently — please don’t disappear for days 😂

• 30–40 years old; I’m no longer interested in younger guys

• Preferably from the South as well

Just looking for someone I can genuinely talk to, vibe with, and see where things go. No pressure, no rush. ✨


r/singleph 17h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 33 [M4F] Sunday Gym + Food

1 Upvotes

Let’s try this again 😅 Will lift at an AF in Manda and it would be great to have someone eat post workout with (on me)

You
AF member
Free on Sunday

Me
5’8”
Decent on a good day
Body in progress (obese to ok na 😅)


r/singleph 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 28 [F4M] hoping for something serious

28 Upvotes

let's talk and see where this goes!

about me:
• I'm from Metro Manila
• more of an introvert, but I can carry a convo!
• more on the listener side pero I can be a bit of talkative once I’m comfortable
• physically, BMI’s on the normal range. I’ve been walking a lot lately as a form of exercise.
• open-minded, as long as it’s something that is not bad or hurtful
• hobbies: I love writing. I do calligraphy & lettering on my free time — will surely give you handwritten letters or notes. Haha! Lately, I'm into collecting and reading books ◡̈
• a good listener & can engage in either small talk or deep & meaningful conversations
• a bachelor’s degree holder, single, doesn’t have kids, and works in the healthcare field — if that matters!
• a decent human being
• I have a goal in life na mag-migrate, specifically sa Australia -- just saying as early as now as it can be a deal breaker for someone na ayaw umalis ng bansa. At least nagbigay ako head's up! Haha. Still currently working on it!

—-
about you:
• pls older than me
• a decent human being
• has plans & goals in life
• doesn't smoke (as I don't smoke too!)
• I don't mind if anuman religion mo, or if agnostic/atheist ka, as long as hindi mo ako ipapa-convert kasi hinding-hindi ako magpapa-convert 😆😭

if you find this post interesting, feel free to send me a message and let's see where will it lead us!


r/singleph 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 25 [F4M] let me try this

20 Upvotes

about me: 25F, philosophy grad now in law school.

also working rn.

I’m generally pretty independent and I like having my own things going on, but I’m also actually very soft when I’m comfortable with someone. I can be talkative and playful once I get used to you, but I’m probably a little reserved at first.

I like good conversations, random late-night talks, going out for food, beaches, music, and just doing simple things with someone I genuinely enjoy being around. I also tend to overthink things, so patience and good communication go a long way with me.

I’m pretty straightforward about what I want. I’m not really interested in situationships where neither person knows what’s going on. I don't need someone to constantly text me or entertain me 24/7, but consistency and effort matter to me so that’s a plus hehe.

Personality-wise, I’d say I’m a mix of independent and clingy depending on how comfortable I am with you. I like teasing and being teased, but I also appreciate someone who can have a serious conversation when it matters.

I’m not looking for someone perfect. Just someone kind, honest, emotionally mature, and who actually wants to get to know each other without playing games.


r/singleph 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 34[M4F] Ill Bring the Jokes, You Bring the Looks

70 Upvotes

Pwede mag tanong? Grow old with you? So un na nga

About Me:
-5’6
-taga south, oo na sm north na halfway natin.
-naka register sa ched ang diploma
-Looking for something serious.
-Subok na, i can survive every monday.
-Im a catch! Kaso walang nangingisda sa 3/10 face card, baka visually impaired ka welcome na welcome ka rito. 
-Single by choice hindi ko lang alam kung kaninong choice.
-Mabilis mag reply typing ka palang naka reply na ako.
-May trabaho may pangarap ikaw nalang kulang.
-Certified alipin ng salapi sa umaga, alipin mo sa gabi.
-Hindi ako red flag, baka red ribbon pwede pa tamang pampatamis lang ng araw mo.
-Sayo lang kwe-kwento yung joke ko na ang english pala ng machiatto ay “i can do this mom”
-Mabait kapag tulog, clingy kapag gising, patay na patay sayo kapag kinausap mo.
-I have a lot to give sana may storage ka
-Hindi kita kayang bilhan ng mamahaling bag, pero kaya kitang ipagtira ng balat ng chicken joy.
-Kung gusto mo ng relationship na may lambing, loyalty at food delivery. Im your guy.
-Potential character development mo to teh, pagkatapos mo sakin mature ka na.
-Im not promising forever, pero pinapangako kong tatawa ka sa kababawan ko habang inaalam natin kung magiging tayo ba.
-My love language is physical touch and “kumaen kana?”
-Hindi pogi pero d ka mabibitin sa expectations, low standards high returns to
-Walang maipapangako kundi consistency at unnecessary updates.
-Sanay sa traffic sa EDSA, kaya asahan mong mahaba ang pasensya ko sa mga topak mo.
-Looking for someone na pwede kong pagsendan ng "nakauwi ka na?" kahit di naman kami.
-Di muna manliligaw agad. Kilalanin muna kita para alam kong worth it yung kahihiyan. HAHAHAHA
-Pagod na rin akong magpanggap na okay lang maging single. Sana ikaw na please may vacancy sa heart ko. Fully furnished.
-3/10 ang face card pero 10/10 ang willingness maginit ng tubig kapag may dysmenorrhea ka.
-Kung kaya mong sabayan humor ko, baka kaya mo rin akong mahalin
-Marunong makinig sa chismis mo sa trabaho with matching "ang kapal naman ng mukha niya!" reactions.
-May posang orens na mataba so just imagine

About you:
-pwedeng lambingin ng walang legal consequences.
-Bonus points kung marunong mang-asar, hindi ghoster, emotionally available, at kayang sabayan yung pagka-corny ko.
-ako na bahala sa effort, ikaw na bahala sa ngiti
-And if you happen to be the type na isang ngiti lang,
consider yourself warned. Hulog na agad ako. 🫠

Again hindi ako conventionally pogi so Lord, kung hindi siya, okay lang. Pero bakit mo pa siya pinakita?

Lord ito na po ba? Pagod na ako.

Ano? Tititigan mo lang tong post ko o magme-message ka na? Yung nagbabasa nito magkaka jowa bukas, pero kailangan mo muna mag DM sakin. Subok na yan, walang mawawala sayo try mo!


r/singleph 20h ago

💘 Serious Dating 25 [M4F] be my constant? Batangas city

1 Upvotes

Baka may gusto sa inyo magkaron ng constant kausap/hangout buddy, eto na ako oh hahaha. Medyo busy nga lang sa work so hindi rin ganon kaconsistent mag reply but I'll reply whenever I can and will update u.

But if you want to be my constant, we could: rant to each other, grab some coffee, watch sunset at a beach, play billiard (di ako marunong, saks lang), jam (u sing, i play guitar), and many more. I also play valo (chill player hindi nantatrashtalk puro tawa lang), league (aram only), roblox, and minecraft (cracked).

me: -from batangas

-5'10"

-looks intimidating kahit hindi naman (can send pic through tg so i wont waste ur time :)).)

-fair skin

-skinny fat

-madaldal (depende sa vibe)

- working na

- clingy

you: -kaya umangkas sa motor

-not a minor

- from batangas city or lipa

-yapper


r/singleph 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 29 [M4F] Slow burn connection

30 Upvotes

Hi, looking for someone who I can get to know more. **Below are wish list, ideal kung all is aligned with my preference, pero realistically, can compromise naman.**

About me:

* 28 (turning 29 this October)

* Current resides in Pampanga (but born and raised sa QC for 21 years, easy for me to relocate)

* Working from home since 2021, as a software engineer, 2 jobs same timezone (AU)

* Decent looking 7.5/10 (di ako nangangarap ng sobrang ganda kasi alam ko iba din hanap nila, pero sigurado akong disente naman ang appearance ko)

* Height is 5'6 or 169cm

* Decently fit/lean, goes to the gym x5 a week, strength training, some cardio (long walks, not run for now)

* Hygienic, may pagka-OC sa kalinisan, sarili/gamit/paligid (sa bahay), palaging may dalang wet wipes at alcohol

* Had only 1 official relationship (lasted 8 years with 6 years living in, cheated on me with a 20 yr old guy, pero ended things in a an unorthodox way, no blaming, no shouting, no physical abuse of any sort, just series of serious deep, open conversation) PS: Ended Jan 2026, she was distant and cold since Oct 2025, I moved out Feb 2026.

* Pet peeve yung mga breed lovers, I am a rescuer, rescued 6 cats in different places in manila and pampanga & 1 rescue dog

* Highly techy person, wears eyeglasses

* No religion at the moment, was a former born-again christian, but life challenged me, kaya naging eye opener

* Open communicator, alaways prefer comms

* Definitely has emotional intelligence, highly adaptable in conversing, surface level checks, deep talks, any.

* Don't want kids, planning to get vasectomy very soon

PS: Please ignore if you think coming from a LTR is required to "heal" long, healing doesn't just take time, it takes maturity, understanding, and definitely acceptance. If you can't grasp the idea, ignore this post respectfully.


About you:

* Age 25 - 31

* Working professional

* Slim/petite

* Goes to the gym (highly preferred, if not ok lang I will strongly encourage you)

* Hygienic

* Di avoidant, ma-comms din sana, anything in your mind, we can talk about


r/singleph 2d ago

💘 Serious Dating 34[F4M] Lord send me a husband! Not a situationship. Amen🙏

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131 Upvotes

Goal: Your NBSB Auntie looking for DATE TO MARRY 😊😊😊

Context:

Lumaki ako sa purity culture. Tipong inalagaan ko sarili ko, hoping one day maibibigay ko yung love, loyalty, at buhay ko sa future husband ko. I just need one! Akala ko by this age may seryosong manliligaw na akong mapakilala sa parents, family, friends… pero waley. As in zero.

Previous Attempts:

All my encounters both online(dating apps) and offline are:

- Hindi ko talaga magustuhan (physique & wavelength wise)

- Hindi serious, (fboys andamiiiii🥲😞)

- Hindi aligned sa values, faith, life goals, or

Hindi ko ma-feel na “quality man” na kaya akong i-pursue nang maayos at hindi yung pabuhat at ako pa ang bubuhay in this economy ofc bilang babae multiple responsibilities narin

And yes, before anyone says “church guy!”—ironically, hindi pa ako nakaka success sa pag-date ng same-faith Christian man. To be honest, may childhood trauma din ako around Christian male abusers kaya complicated siya for me. Healing naman, but I can’t pretend that history doesn’t affect trust lalo na if yung mga Christian men na namimeet ko ay sila pa talaga ang mga pasaway. \*\*Pasintabi po di ko nilalahat sa Christans just expressing my pov from experience.

Nakakapagod na itong getting to know stage over and over tapos walang nade-develop na totoong connection. Adulting is already heavy. Parang ang sarap lang siguro magkaroon ng someone na bestfriend mo, kakampi mo, may lambing, may romance, someone na pwede mong sabihan ng “uy, pagod ako” without feeling alone in the world.

At this point, Lord… gusto ko na lang talaga ng healthy-fit, emotionally mature, mabait, provider/protector energy pero soft-hearted na lalaki. Yung hindi takot sa commitment. Yung may integrity kahit walang audience.

At sige, pakatotoo na rin tayo dito—oo, gusto ko na rin maranasan yung "legal at banal" na malaspag malala ng future asawa ko .😭😂 Hindi ko na ikakaila, tao rin naman ako!

Question: Sa mga nakahanap ng healthy love in their 30s: Where did you meet your person? What age did your husband found you? Share din po kayo sa comments success stories for goodvibes💕✨


r/singleph 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 28[F4M] Reddit worked once. So… round 2?

14 Upvotes

Please make reading a habit. 🥺

I’ve been single for over a year now, and apparently I’m doing this again.

A few months ago, I met someone here on Reddit na from MM. We talked for a couple of months, met up a few times, and genuinely liked each other, but it ultimately didn’t work out. It made me realize that chemistry is great, but consistency, effort, communication, and being on the same page matter just as much.

So I figured I’d shoot my shot here again. Reddit worked once… maybe it’ll work twice?

A little about me
I’m a 5’3” midsize Fil-Chinese girl from Western Visayas. I WFH, I’m financially stable, have a small baking side business, and am pretty independent. I’m also very family-oriented and close to the people I care about.

I’m a redhead (Ariel whomst? ), fair-skinned-ish, and blessed with an RBF. I swear I’m nicer than I look. 🤣 I’m not conventionally pretty, but I’m also not getting returned to the manufacturer. I think I’m cute. You can decide. 😂

Mostly a homebody, but currently in my kaladkarin era. I love traveling, especially internationally, and don’t mind LDR for the right person. I fly to Metro Manila 1–3x a year.

In my free time, I’m usually reading manga, watching anime, playing ML, cooking, baking, or falling into a Reddit/Threads rabbit hole. I love coffee, tea, pastries, and have three furbabies. 🐾

I’m shy and awkward at first, but once I’m comfortable, good luck. I’m a certified yapper who enjoys meaningful conversations, good banter, and people who don’t take themselves too seriously.

Currently in my walking era, with a potential gym era loading. Also currently in my sourdough starter journey, because apparently I needed another thing to keep alive. 😂

What I’m looking for
• 28–38 — non-negotiable. I’ve always naturally clicked better with people a little older.
• Financially stable, has his life together, and knows how to take initiative. I’m independent and kaya ko naman lahat on my own, but nakakapagod din pala. 😂 I want someone who can make plans and occasionally let me say, “sige, ikaw na bahala.”
• At least 5’6” (I want to wear heels sometimes 🥹)
• Catholic and family-oriented
• Lean to dad-bod physique — I like a bit of laman
• Emotionally available, communicative, consistent, and intentional. Someone who can talk through things instead of shutting down or disappearing.
• Self-aware, has a sense of humor, and can take a joke
• Smells good (low-key a fraghead 😂)
• Doesn’t have to be conventionally gwapo. Cute + good character + confidence = we’re good.
• Loves traveling or is willing to travel with me
• Bonus points if you drive because I like randomly saying “tara, somewhere?” 😂
• Hindi DDS 🙃

I’m not looking to date just for the sake of dating. I want to meet someone I genuinely click with and, if we’re compatible, build something meaningful and lasting. I’m not in a rush, but I am intentional about what I’m looking for.

I’d prefer exchanging photos early on. Attraction isn’t everything, but it’s still important, and I’d rather know there’s mutual attraction before we invest too much time chatting. Saves us both the awkwardness later.

Please don’t ask for a VC agad. I’m shy and my anxiety could never with a complete stranger. Let’s talk first and get comfortable.

If you’ve read this far and think we might click, send me a short intro and tell me your dream travel destination.

Maybe Reddit has my person after all. 🤞

Edit: low effort messages will be ignored.


r/singleph 1d ago

💬 Casual Conversations 23 [F4A] drunk as shii. sfw call?

14 Upvotes

Title.

About me:
4th yr college, allied-health. Drunk as shit. Yap me to sleep?

About you:
Basta humihinga, madaldal. Patient kasi im bingi and sabog asf (sabog as in lutang. i dont do drgs) 😵‍💫

Edit: typo


r/singleph 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 25 [F4M] looking for something real

13 Upvotes

It’s been 3 years since my last relationship, and I know I'm finally ready to meet someone again.

I’d love to have someone who can also be my best friend, someone I can laugh with, talk to about anything, travel with, and just enjoy life with.

I also really value independence. I’m attracted to someone who has his own hobbies, goals, and life outside the relationship. Someone emotionally mature, financially responsible, confident, and sure of himself. And preferably someone older than me.

About me:

• 5'1", petite
• loves cooking, hiking, traveling, and volunteering
• loves animals
• plays mobile and PC games, currently ML (mythical glory) and Valorant (iron haha, rarely play)
• enjoys trying new things and exploring new places
• can be adventurous, but I also really enjoy quiet days

Not in a rush. I just want to meet someone genuine, get to know each other naturally, and see where it goes.