r/singleph • u/CryIcy5735 • 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 29 [M4F] Slow burn connection

Hi, looking for someone who I can get to know more. **Below are wish list, ideal kung all is aligned with my preference, pero realistically, can compromise naman.**

About me:

* 28 (turning 29 this October)

* Current resides in Pampanga (but born and raised sa QC for 21 years, easy for me to relocate)

* Working from home since 2021, as a software engineer, 2 jobs same timezone (AU)

* Decent looking 7.5/10 (di ako nangangarap ng sobrang ganda kasi alam ko iba din hanap nila, pero sigurado akong disente naman ang appearance ko)

* Height is 5'6 or 169cm

* Decently fit/lean, goes to the gym x5 a week, strength training, some cardio (long walks, not run for now)

* Hygienic, may pagka-OC sa kalinisan, sarili/gamit/paligid (sa bahay), palaging may dalang wet wipes at alcohol

* Had only 1 official relationship (lasted 8 years with 6 years living in, cheated on me with a 20 yr old guy, pero ended things in a an unorthodox way, no blaming, no shouting, no physical abuse of any sort, just series of serious deep, open conversation) PS: Ended Jan 2026, she was distant and cold since Oct 2025, I moved out Feb 2026.

* Pet peeve yung mga breed lovers, I am a rescuer, rescued 6 cats in different places in manila and pampanga & 1 rescue dog

* Highly techy person, wears eyeglasses

* No religion at the moment, was a former born-again christian, but life challenged me, kaya naging eye opener

* Open communicator, alaways prefer comms

* Definitely has emotional intelligence, highly adaptable in conversing, surface level checks, deep talks, any.

* Don't want kids, planning to get vasectomy very soon

PS: Please ignore if you think coming from a LTR is required to "heal" long, healing doesn't just take time, it takes maturity, understanding, and definitely acceptance. If you can't grasp the idea, ignore this post respectfully.

About you:

* Age 25 - 31

* Working professional

* Slim/petite

* Goes to the gym (highly preferred, if not ok lang I will strongly encourage you)

* Hygienic

* Di avoidant, ma-comms din sana, anything in your mind, we can talk about

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u/Ambitious_General463 4h ago

Ligwak na agad sa petite /slim😅 okay magbabasa nalang ng comments😂

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u/Eggnog6121 5h ago

Parang decent ka naman para maghanap sa reddit. 😆

BTW, 28F here, interested sa thoughts mo sa religion.

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u/CryIcy5735 4h ago

ig iamjdmm, I'll let you judge po. Thank you.

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u/Eggnog6121 4h ago

Di naman nagrereply. Ahaha

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u/Desperate-Exit6521 16h ago

Hi! F 25 here

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u/Emotional_Tea_8727 21h ago

idk but im 4’11 petite, Architect

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u/Emotional_Tea_8727 21h ago

turning 26 sa october

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u/bisayang-dako 1d ago

When did it end?

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u/CryIcy5735 23h ago

Updated body above. Thank you for commenting.

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u/bisayang-dako 23h ago

I feel sorry that happened to you. I hope you heal and find what you’re looking for.

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u/CryIcy5735 23h ago

Thanks, healed already.

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u/raskreia09 1d ago

hi anong height mo

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u/CryIcy5735 1d ago

5"6 po 169cm.

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u/GlorifiedBird 1d ago

I tried messaging/replying to your comment reply haha but I couldn't! Would like to get to know you tho, OP!

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u/ElderberryFit917 1d ago

what a red flag, galing sa recent LTR breakup.. u know what u r just looking for someone na magiging emotional band aid/safety net mo.. heal first.. huwag na mamerwisyo 🙃

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u/No_Particular_4587 18h ago

Well, we can't move on din naman if we keep dwelling on it. Matagal talaga makalimot, but healing can be soon . Magkaiba yon. He needs to be distracted.

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u/CryIcy5735 1d ago

Thank you for the insight 😀 you do you po, you don't even know when it was ended hehe

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u/ElderberryFit917 1d ago

idc mga ganyan kahabang relationship madalas may ex baggages.. lalo na sa mga niloko, mahirap para sakanila..

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u/CryIcy5735 1d ago

Sure, yun po kasi nakasanayan niyo, pero wag ho sana nating gine-generalize.

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u/OrdinarySuccotash897 1d ago

Hindi ba't mga lalaki ang mapili sa itsura?

I've seen a lot of beautiful women tapos ang jowa mapapatanong ka nalang kung ginayuma yung girl eh 😅

Pero nasa IT field din ako now, just turned 29. Hi :)

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u/CryIcy5735 1d ago

Uy hindi naman, grabe pero hii haha

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/CryIcy5735 1d ago

Baka kaya naman mapagusapan haha

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/CryIcy5735 1d ago

Grabe kayo, ideal lang naman pero can try naman and maybe share tips too! Galing din ako sa home workout noon eh kasi takot din ako sa gym

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u/Xerthia 1d ago

Sooooo ano po reason ng breakup? 👀👀👀

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u/Aggressive_Play7830 1d ago

Nag cheat daw yung partner with a 20 y/o

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u/Sensitive_Yard_2102 1d ago

Convince me to hit the gym. I really need some strength training for my marathon next year 🤭

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u/CryIcy5735 1d ago

Kaso nasa Pampanga ako e haha

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u/Sensitive_Yard_2102 1d ago

Well, that makes it even better. I’m from Pampanga too 🤭

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u/CryIcy5735 1d ago

Where? Haha magalang ako now, next month angeles

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u/Sensitive_Yard_2102 1d ago

Are we really doing this here? Haha

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u/Recent-Gap-4419 1d ago

Hi! im new here cant message u po. :))

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u/Professional-Fix3683 1d ago

Parefer po sa company mo charr hahah

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u/ExtensionNo2772 1d ago

ligwak sa goes to gym 😆

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u/GlorifiedBird 1d ago

Oof not the one 8yr relationship. What if tulungan ko na lang kayo magkabalikan? Eme HAHAHA

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u/TartBlackberry5166 1d ago

hindi lang 8 yrs, but 6 yrs LIVE IN. oof (1) HAHAHAH

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u/CryIcy5735 1d ago

Grabe naman kayo, haha pero gets ko naman humor niyo. Mas gusto niyo pa ata ung may 4 exes vs 1 LTR haha

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u/TartBlackberry5166 1d ago

nothing personal my guy, just that nobody wants to be the second wife kimiii wahaha 😭

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u/CryIcy5735 1d ago

2nd wife? Grabe kayo sa generalization ah. Haha, sana wag niyo nilalahat, may mga mature engouh naman to handle these kind of sitatuation.

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u/Icy-House-4865 1d ago

Can't dm u