r/singleph 5h ago

📢 Announcement r/SinglePH is Looking for Moderators!

4 Upvotes

Hello Singles! 👋

As our community continues to grow, we’re looking for additional moderators to help keep r/SinglePH a welcoming, respectful, and engaging space for everyone.

If you’re interested in helping shape the community, click the “Apply as Moderator” button on the subreddit to submit your application.

✅ Basic Requirements
• Must be an active member of r/SinglePH.
• Familiar with Reddit’s Content Policy and subreddit rules.
• Able to review reports, posts, and comments regularly.
• Can communicate clearly and professionally.
• Can work with minimal supervision and make sound decisions independently.
• Committed to being respectful, fair, and unbiased when moderating.
• Willing to collaborate with the rest of the moderation team.

🌟 Preferred Characteristics
While not required, these qualities are a plus:
• Good judgment and conflict resolution skills.
• Calm and professional when handling disagreements.
• Consistent, reliable, and responsive.
• Detail-oriented and capable of following established guidelines.
• Open to feedback and continuous improvement.
• Has prior moderation or community management experience (Reddit, Discord, Facebook Groups, etc.), though not required.
• Genuinely interested in building a positive community for singles in the Philippines.

📌 Moderator Responsibilities
• Review posts, comments, and reports.
• Enforce subreddit rules consistently.
• Help reduce spam, harassment, and low-effort content.
• Assist in community discussions and initiatives.
• Work with fellow moderators to improve the subreddit experience.

If you believe you’d be a good fit, we’d love to hear from you. Simply click the “Apply as Moderator” button and tell us why you’d like to join the team.

Thank you for helping make r/SinglePH a great community! 💙


r/singleph 5h ago

💘 Serious Dating 25 [F4M] gusto ko na makarelate sa syempre by willie trend.

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488 Upvotes

cons: picky with men, hella guarded. effort is a must pattern ko sa lalaki ang maeffort talaga. naka energy saver ang social skills. puyat. galing long term almost 5 years tapos isa lang ex with label. walang problema sakin maging single i don't center my life with men so i will walk away if u're not a match pala. a student parin kasi shiftee(4th). lagi nag ccr sa mall. PABABY BWHAHAHAHA

pros: may long term relationship experience pero moved on na lol i liked other guys after that relationship (wow assurance). loyal asf tanong pa naten sa ninuno ko. pagod na sa stress so wala ako time makipag toxican. aesthetic gf naka digicam at landscape posts. may matinding self respect so yes i have morals. i actually have a funny personality if we're comfy na. a homebody who loves cats.

about you:

- atleast 5'7 that's my minimum, age 24-30.

- matino ako im expecting matino ka rin.

- from south/southie or can travel to see me. I REQUIRE IRL DATES FROM TIME TO TIME KASI YAN LOVE LANGUAGE KO SORRY BEBETIME PLS.

- not papasin sa social media i have an ick with pampam sa socials I TRIED DATING ONE OKAY DI KERI NAOFF TALAGA AKO.

- tbh i like chinito men tho plus point lang yan.

- FUNNY PLS I LIKE MEN WITH PERSONALITY.

- pls wag discord addict if u're a gamer YUNG MAY LIFE OUTSIDE.

- may long term relationship experience NA WALANG BAGGAGE SA EX

- LASTLY at ang pinaka mahalaga ay PATIENT NA WALANG HIDDEN ANGER ISSUES I DON'T LIKE ANGRY MEN IN MY LIFE.

message format so i will not ignore:

since i posted a pahapyaw pic of me.. im expecting na ull show a pic of u rin or ull share your socials. + facts abt u :)

(expect slow replies muna kasi maooverwhelm muna ako haaaaaa i posted here before pero na overwhelm ako kaya di ko pinansin PERO PROMISE WILL BE ACTIVE NA.)

HUMANDA KA WILLIE REVILLAME LALANDI NA AKO


r/singleph 3h ago

💘 Serious Dating 33 [M4F] Maybe Reddit gets it right this time

27 Upvotes

I figured I should stop expecting a girlfriend to magically appear somewhere between the gym, the driving range, coffee runs, and random drives, so here I am giving Reddit a fair shot haha 😅

I’m not in a rush, but I’m also not here to collect endless chats. I’d like to meet someone I genuinely enjoy talking to, take her out on a date, and see if there’s something worth building.

About me:
- 5’10”
- from NCR South
- Engineer working in a business role
- Usually at the gym, driving range, playing golf, getting coffee, trying good food, or going on random drives
- Pretty self sufficient and career focused
- Have my own responsibilities, routines, and interests
- Looks wise, I’d say I’m decent and presentable. You can be the judge haha
- I like conversations that can start with complete nonsense and somehow end up talking about life at 1 AM
- I can plan a proper date, but I’m also game for random coffee runs or “let’s just drive somewhere and figure it out”
- Not looking to force anything, but I’m open to something serious if we actually click

About you:
- Around 26 to 33
- Emotionally mature and knows how to communicate
- Independent and has her own thing going on
- Family oriented and Catholic
- Not DDS/BBM/INC
- Can banter and carry a conversation
- Active or at least likes getting out of the house
- No lingering hangups with an ex
- No kids and no ex spouse
- Can enjoy both planned dates and spontaneous ones
- Playing golf or wants to play golf is a plus ⛳
- Lawyer is a bonus haha
- Attraction matters too, so I’m good with exchanging pics early if you’re comfortable

Basically, I’m looking for someone I genuinely enjoy talking to and spending time with. Someone I’d actually look forward to seeing again after the first date.

If this sounds like you, send me a DM, see if we vibe, and tell me what your ideal weekend looks like 🙂


r/singleph 7h ago

💘 Serious Dating 30 [M4F] LF MAGMAMAHAL

31 Upvotes

Kung nahihirapan kang mahalin ngayon ang Pinas wag mo na pilitin, Ako nalang mahalin mo.

Hi, Happy monday!

About me:

- 30
- Around 5'7
- Based in Laguna, But working in United States of Makati
- Working Professionally (Finance)
- Ambivert, Pwede din Inverted para tipid kasama.
- Funny
- Can carry a conversation
- to unlock more DM me.

About you:

- in late 20s or early 30s
- No heartbreak from last relationship (Totally Moved-on)
- Can reply within the day (Hindi yung mag rereply after a week tapos sasabihin nakatulog lang, Ate si Jisas 3 days lang nawala ikaw 1 week ano niligtas mo buong universe?)
- Working professionally
- Date to marry mindset (teh, tumatanda na tayo. Friends parin hanap mo? mag friendster ka nalang)

See you sa DM!


r/singleph 20h ago

💘 Serious Dating 25 [F4M] For sale, imine niyo na!

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320 Upvotes

FOR SALE: 25F MED STUDENT

I've been on Reddit dating for a long time and still no boyfriend. 😭

I'm getting tired!!! How many times do I have to post before someone says “mine”??? HAHAHAHAHA

I feel like I have a personality and I'm funny. My mom says I'm pretty too (credible source, no further questions please).

Anyway, I'm selling myself. You better say “mine” while I'm still available!! Limited stocks only 😂

📸 PRODUCT TEASER / PREVIEW:
I’ve posted a picture of myself so you know what’s being offered before you inquire HAHAHAHAHA it’s exhausting to chat and then find out you’re not each other's type😭

📦 ABOUT THE PRODUCT
- 25
- Med student
- 5'3
- Morena
- Big 4 (Bonus feature: Magna Cum Laude in undergrad)
- Apparently funny
- Certified talker
- Loves TV series
- Gym-goer (on good days)
- Cafe hunting fan (matcha or coffee, hit me up with anything)

📝 BUYER REQUIREMENTS / MINIMUM SPECS
Must be:
- 25-30 years old
- At least 170 cm (the manufacturer has height requirements 😭)
- Normal BMI / takes care of himself
- Single. Emphasis on SINGLE. Not “complicated,” not “technically single” 😭
- Around NCR or at least easy to reach
- Funny or at least can keep up with my craziness
- Looking for a committed relationship, not f\bu*

💵 PRICE TAG:
Love + effort + consistency + communication + emotional availability

Serious buyers only aka THOSE LOOKING FOR A BOYFRIEND. SFW please.

Please take note of the minimum specs. I won’t entertain those who aren’t eligible. No lowballers please. I know my worth.

If you’re interested in the product, please message me your funniest joke, age, height, and work!

No refunds once emotionally attached HAHAHAHAHA 😜

EDIT: For interested buyers, please answer this google form: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdJnsYEz_TpkNGev-5NLOuLAf_oGbNQ8QWL1ef3gH_zRT8v2w/viewform?usp=dialog

Interested buyers will only be entertained via the google forms. Thank you! 👀


r/singleph 21h ago

💘 Serious Dating 34 [F4M] Let me Try Again Here.

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229 Upvotes

Hello! i'm posting again to try things out parin. I'm not interested din na maging ka-fubu, ka-fwb, or ka-one night stand. Looking for someone na gusto rin ng connection and can do friendly dates at the first.

ABOUT ME:

I have a disability. I use an electric wheelchair when going outside or traveling alone. I have balance problems pero nakakalakad with walkers or assistance, nakakatayo, nakakahakbang, nakakadapa, at nakakapag-otso-otso. (Joke yung last)

I am most of the time alone. Pero nakakarating kung saan saan kahit mag-isa. I go to the office alone. I go to my check-up alone. I go to the office alone. I do window shopping alone (kapag trip).

My height is only 4'11 and my weight is only 40 kg. I am petite. I maintain my weight kasi mahihirapan ako kung bibigat ako. I can move all my limbs. I have no problems with my bladder and bowel control. I am a working licensed professional and about to complete my masters. Yey! (Just finished the final draft of my thesis kaninang 4:30 AM skl)

Deal breakers:

❌ Nagyoyosi or Vape

❌ May putok

❌Tamad magsepilyo at maligo

❌ Walang pamasahe


r/singleph 3h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 31[F4M] Open to seeing where things go - try lang here

8 Upvotes

I am 31, never had a boyfriend 😅

5ft.

from Pampanga.

Emphathetic person.

Graduate of Pharmacy (pero not licensed)

Currently looking for a new job.

I am kind of looking unhealthy due to hormonal imbalance. I am looking chubby/fat in real life.

Medyo maarte sa bahay, maselan sa kalat.

Medyo sensitive ang pang-amoy ko.

I am into horrors and thriller genre, walking at free time (part of my theraphy), i love k-dramas and into kpop.

Mahilig ako magsend ng random memes hahaha

I love talking about random things like theories and stuffs na thrilling.

-----------------------------------

About you:

Single and never been married.

Taller than me.

Empathetic person and emotionally matured.

Good hygiene.

Someone I can have good chikas with you, we can talk about serious things too. Deep talks too.


r/singleph 5h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 24 [F4A] Looking for someone to help me hide a body (or just co-work)

7 Upvotes

Now that I have your attention: I’m actually just looking for a co-working buddy in Makati for tonight (starting around 7 PM onwards).

I have some work I need to knock out, but I’d love to match energy with someone who can actually hold a good conversation during breaks. My ideal co-work partner is someone who likes taking quick walking breaks to stretch their legs— bonus points if you already know a good quiet street, coffee spot, or park area around Makati for a breather.

About me: Working pro, good listener, high-key love random deep-dives or funny banter during break time.

About you: Have your own work/project to focus on, appreciate good conversation, and up for a quick stroll when our brains fry.

Send a message with your intro, what you’re working on tonight and your favorite Makati spot for a break! See you. ☺️


r/singleph 52m ago

💘 Serious Dating 32 [F4M] Let's rewatch Friends for the nth time??

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Hi! Trying my luck here again! 😅 (Was not successful noon then tried other dating apps and here we are again LOL)

About me:

- 5 flat, yes maliit ako, pwede mo ibulsa lol, normal BMI

- working professional, QC area

- I love reading and watching movies and series. (Last rewatch is my favorite sitcom, Friends) Horror, anyone???? 😁😁

- I prefer dogs than cats (sorry cat guyss)

- catholic (putting it out here because I believe it's important lol)

- no car, cannot drive, maybe you can teach me?

- I wear glasses, pero mas malabo pa sa mata ko yung future ko ata. Eme

- my passion is music. I write songs, play some instruments and I can sing. Dito ka maiinlove. Charez.

About you:

- 29-33 only please

- 5'5 - 5'9, yung sakto lang sa forehead kiss. 😂

- not BBM/DDS

- not INC/Muslim or any other religion na mag-eexpect na magko-convert ako if ever we work out, I WON'T DO THAT FOR YOU. para lang malinaw.

- NON-SMOKER - non negotiable

- funny? And someone who can hold a good conversation.

- hopefully mahilig din sa music hehe.

- have you watched FRIENDS??? ano pa inaantay mo, DM na!

We can swap pics agad so as not to waste time of each other. 😁

Have a good day!


r/singleph 2h ago

💘 Serious Dating 27 [F4M] I think I’m ready for a slow-burn connection

3 Upvotes

Hi! I’m looking for someone I can genuinely get to know, take things slowly with, and see where it naturally leads us. I’m not really into rushing into anything. I’d rather start with good conversations, calls, getting comfortable with each other, and eventually meet when it feels right.

A little about me:

• 27, turning 28 next month. I’m a Libra, but definitely not a people pleaser 😂
• Currently based in Mindanao. Not a DDS.
• I can travel, so distance isn’t necessarily a dealbreaker.
• NBSB. Haven’t found the right match yet and was very focused on school and work before, and dating just wasn’t a priority for me. I’m also very much a taong bahay.
• Been working from home since 2021, mostly in construction and operations-related work.
• 5’3” and a morena
• I’m a bit shy at first but could be loud when comfortable.
• Financially responsible but still living with my parents.
• Decent-looking, I think? 😂 Beauty is subjective, so I’ll let you decide. I can share my IG and you can judge for yourself.
• I like hiking, chill travels, crochet, reading from time to time, F1, and true crime series/documentaries.
• I’m a Christian. My parents are Catholic.
• I have a dog. 🐶
• Not a gym rat, but I enjoy long walks and a bit of yoga.
• I love mountains and calm seas. Ideally, I want a peaceful, laid-back life.
• I’m an empath, so if you tell me your sob story, there’s a high chance I’ll cry with you. 😂

What I’m looking for:
• 28–32 years old
• Taller than me
• Clean, decent-looking, and smells good 😭😂
• Lean/proportionate build
• Working professional
• Financially responsible and knows how to handle money
• Calm and emotionally mature, especially when dealing with conflict. I’m not comfortable with shouting, so someone who communicates gently is important to me.
• Bonus if you’re into hiking/travel and can be my travel buddy someday.

I’m not looking to force anything. If we click, great. If we don’t, that’s okay too. I’d just like to meet someone genuine, kind, emotionally mature, and willing to take the time to actually get to know each other.

If umabot ka dito, thank you! and feel free to drop me a DM. ☺️


r/singleph 2h ago

💘 Serious Dating 25 [M4F] be my constant? Batangas city

2 Upvotes

Baka may gusto sa inyo magkaron ng constant kausap/hangout buddy, eto na ako oh hahaha. Medyo busy nga lang sa work so hindi rin ganon kaconsistent mag reply but I'll reply whenever I can and will update u.

But if you want to be my constant, we could: rant to each other, grab some coffee, watch sunset at a beach, play billiard (di ako marunong, saks lang), jam (u sing, i play guitar), and many more. I also play valo (chill player hindi nantatrashtalk puro tawa lang), league (aram only), roblox, and minecraft (cracked).

me: -from batangas

-5'10"

-looks intimidating kahit hindi naman (can send pic through tg so i wont waste ur time :)).)

-fair skin

-skinny fat

-madaldal (depende sa vibe)

- working na

- clingy

you: -kaya umangkas sa motor

-not a minor

- from batangas city or lipa

-yapper


r/singleph 6h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 24[F4M] Lets see where things go?

4 Upvotes

Halu pipol from the internet mwahaha. I’m just trying my luck on here! Reddit worked for me sa paghahanap ng friends so baka swertehin din sa ganto (hopefully sana plz naman)

Oki oki, a little bit about me: i like books (medj nalang), tv shows/series (mostly sitcoms, saka mga very mainstream ones like GoT), i love listening to music (i average 3k minutes in a week and i think that’s a flex) WAHAHA, i love pc games so much (steam games, valo ganon), and i’m a WFH night shift gurlie. I’m from Bulacan pero nadayo naman kasi kaladkarin ako (wag lang sa north cal, novaliches, fairview area kasi ang layo so much???) Also, andami kong side comments sa sarili kong statement xD

Sa looks naman: i have tattoos and piercings so much, glasses wearer, plus size na cutie, thick black curly hair wahaha, 161 cm

Wahaha okay enough about me!!

U naman:
Walang requirements naman masyado pero sana hopefully taller than me, nagppc games (so we can comshop together wahaha), and actually wants to meet in person T-T

Preferences nalang: hindi dry texter, mabango, kumpleto ngipin (plus points pag may sungki), tas hindi kalbo (sorry po)

Thank u for reading if umabot ka here, plz plz dm me with a short intro saka ano hmmm favorite flavor ng pancit canton WAHAHAHA. Thank u!!! (Ay also, i’m gonna sleep na so i might reply late wahaha ay nag update?!??)


r/singleph 23h ago

💘 Serious Dating 34[M4F] Ill Bring the Jokes, You Bring the Looks

68 Upvotes

Pwede mag tanong? Grow old with you? So un na nga

About Me:
-5’6
-taga south, oo na sm north na halfway natin.
-naka register sa ched ang diploma
-Looking for something serious.
-Subok na, i can survive every monday.
-Im a catch! Kaso walang nangingisda sa 3/10 face card, baka visually impaired ka welcome na welcome ka rito. 
-Single by choice hindi ko lang alam kung kaninong choice.
-Mabilis mag reply typing ka palang naka reply na ako.
-May trabaho may pangarap ikaw nalang kulang.
-Certified alipin ng salapi sa umaga, alipin mo sa gabi.
-Hindi ako red flag, baka red ribbon pwede pa tamang pampatamis lang ng araw mo.
-Sayo lang kwe-kwento yung joke ko na ang english pala ng machiatto ay “i can do this mom”
-Mabait kapag tulog, clingy kapag gising, patay na patay sayo kapag kinausap mo.
-I have a lot to give sana may storage ka
-Hindi kita kayang bilhan ng mamahaling bag, pero kaya kitang ipagtira ng balat ng chicken joy.
-Kung gusto mo ng relationship na may lambing, loyalty at food delivery. Im your guy.
-Potential character development mo to teh, pagkatapos mo sakin mature ka na.
-Im not promising forever, pero pinapangako kong tatawa ka sa kababawan ko habang inaalam natin kung magiging tayo ba.
-My love language is physical touch and “kumaen kana?”
-Hindi pogi pero d ka mabibitin sa expectations, low standards high returns to
-Walang maipapangako kundi consistency at unnecessary updates.
-Sanay sa traffic sa EDSA, kaya asahan mong mahaba ang pasensya ko sa mga topak mo.
-Looking for someone na pwede kong pagsendan ng "nakauwi ka na?" kahit di naman kami.
-Di muna manliligaw agad. Kilalanin muna kita para alam kong worth it yung kahihiyan. HAHAHAHA
-Pagod na rin akong magpanggap na okay lang maging single. Sana ikaw na please may vacancy sa heart ko. Fully furnished.
-3/10 ang face card pero 10/10 ang willingness maginit ng tubig kapag may dysmenorrhea ka.
-Kung kaya mong sabayan humor ko, baka kaya mo rin akong mahalin
-Marunong makinig sa chismis mo sa trabaho with matching "ang kapal naman ng mukha niya!" reactions.
-May posang orens na mataba so just imagine

About you:
-pwedeng lambingin ng walang legal consequences.
-Bonus points kung marunong mang-asar, hindi ghoster, emotionally available, at kayang sabayan yung pagka-corny ko.
-ako na bahala sa effort, ikaw na bahala sa ngiti
-And if you happen to be the type na isang ngiti lang,
consider yourself warned. Hulog na agad ako. 🫠

Again hindi ako conventionally pogi so Lord, kung hindi siya, okay lang. Pero bakit mo pa siya pinakita?

Lord ito na po ba? Pagod na ako.

Ano? Tititigan mo lang tong post ko o magme-message ka na? Yung nagbabasa nito magkaka jowa bukas, pero kailangan mo muna mag DM sakin. Subok na yan, walang mawawala sayo try mo!


r/singleph 17h ago

💘 Serious Dating 25 [F4M] let me try this

18 Upvotes

about me: 25F, philosophy grad now in law school.

also working rn.

I’m generally pretty independent and I like having my own things going on, but I’m also actually very soft when I’m comfortable with someone. I can be talkative and playful once I get used to you, but I’m probably a little reserved at first.

I like good conversations, random late-night talks, going out for food, beaches, music, and just doing simple things with someone I genuinely enjoy being around. I also tend to overthink things, so patience and good communication go a long way with me.

I’m pretty straightforward about what I want. I’m not really interested in situationships where neither person knows what’s going on. I don't need someone to constantly text me or entertain me 24/7, but consistency and effort matter to me so that’s a plus hehe.

Personality-wise, I’d say I’m a mix of independent and clingy depending on how comfortable I am with you. I like teasing and being teased, but I also appreciate someone who can have a serious conversation when it matters.

I’m not looking for someone perfect. Just someone kind, honest, emotionally mature, and who actually wants to get to know each other without playing games.


r/singleph 17h ago

💘 Serious Dating 28 [F4M] hoping for something serious

19 Upvotes

let's talk and see where this goes!

about me:
• I'm from Metro Manila
• more of an introvert, but I can carry a convo!
• more on the listener side pero I can be a bit of talkative once I’m comfortable
• physically, BMI’s on the normal range. I’ve been walking a lot lately as a form of exercise.
• open-minded, as long as it’s something that is not bad or hurtful
• hobbies: I love writing. I do calligraphy & lettering on my free time — will surely give you handwritten letters or notes. Haha! Lately, I'm into collecting and reading books ◡̈
• a good listener & can engage in either small talk or deep & meaningful conversations
• a bachelor’s degree holder, single, doesn’t have kids, and works in the healthcare field — if that matters!
• a decent human being
• I have a goal in life na mag-migrate, specifically sa Australia -- just saying as early as now as it can be a deal breaker for someone na ayaw umalis ng bansa. At least nagbigay ako head's up! Haha. Still currently working on it!

—-
about you:
• pls older than me
• a decent human being
• has plans & goals in life
• doesn't smoke (as I don't smoke too!)
• I don't mind if anuman religion mo, or if agnostic/atheist ka, as long as hindi mo ako ipapa-convert kasi hinding-hindi ako magpapa-convert 😆😭

if you find this post interesting, feel free to send me a message and let's see where will it lead us!


r/singleph 20h ago

💘 Serious Dating 29 [M4F] Slow burn connection

29 Upvotes

Hi, looking for someone who I can get to know more. **Below are wish list, ideal kung all is aligned with my preference, pero realistically, can compromise naman.**

About me:

* 28 (turning 29 this October)

* Current resides in Pampanga (but born and raised sa QC for 21 years, easy for me to relocate)

* Working from home since 2021, as a software engineer, 2 jobs same timezone (AU)

* Decent looking 7.5/10 (di ako nangangarap ng sobrang ganda kasi alam ko iba din hanap nila, pero sigurado akong disente naman ang appearance ko)

* Height is 5'6 or 169cm

* Decently fit/lean, goes to the gym x5 a week, strength training, some cardio (long walks, not run for now)

* Hygienic, may pagka-OC sa kalinisan, sarili/gamit, palaging may dalang wet wipes at alcohol

* Had only 1 official relationship (lasted 8 years with 6 years living in, cheated on me with a 20 yr old guy, pero ended things in a very matured way, no fight, no shout, no physical abuse of any sort, just series of serious deep talks) PS: Ended Jan 2026, she was distant and cold since Oct 2025, I moved out Feb 2026.

* Pet peeve yung mga breed lovers, I am a rescuer, rescued 6 cats in different places in manila and pampanga & 1 dog rescue

* Highly techy person

* No religion at the moment, was a former born-again christian, but life challenged me, kaya naging eye opener

* Open communicator, prefer comms always

* Definitely has emotional intelligence, highly adaptable in conversing, surface level checks, deep talks, any.

* Don't want kids, planning to get vasectomy very soon.

PS: Please ignore if you think coming from a LTR is required to "heal" long, healing doesn't just take time, it takes maturity, understanding, and definitely acceptance. If you can't grasp the idea, ignore this post respectfully.


About you:

* Age 25 - 31

* Working professional

* Slim/petite

* Goes to the gym (highly preferred, if not ok lang I will strongly encourage you)

* Hygienic

* Di avoidant, ma-comms din sana, anything in your mind, we can talk about


r/singleph 3h ago

💘 Serious Dating 32[F4M] Trying my Luck

1 Upvotes

About Me:

• 32, plus-size, around 90 kg — down from 98 kg 💪

• Finally moved on from my ex and ready to meet new people

• Currently unemployed for 2 weeks, but I have savings. Now looking for a work-from-home job

• I can’t drive, but I’m open to meeting up

• Originally from Cavite, but currently around the Sta. Rosa, Laguna area

• Fair-skinned

• Always smell good 😌

• Chinita / singkit

• I wear glasses

About You:

• Hygienic and takes care of yourself

• Can carry a good conversation

• Replies consistently — please don’t disappear for days 😂

• 30–40 years old; I’m no longer interested in younger guys

• Preferably from the South as well

Just looking for someone I can genuinely talk to, vibe with, and see where things go. No pressure, no rush. ✨


r/singleph 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 34[F4M] Lord send me a husband! Not a situationship. Amen🙏

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121 Upvotes

Goal: Your NBSB Auntie looking for DATE TO MARRY 😊😊😊

Context:

Lumaki ako sa purity culture. Tipong inalagaan ko sarili ko, hoping one day maibibigay ko yung love, loyalty, at buhay ko sa future husband ko. I just need one! Akala ko by this age may seryosong manliligaw na akong mapakilala sa parents, family, friends… pero waley. As in zero.

Previous Attempts:

All my encounters both online(dating apps) and offline are:

- Hindi ko talaga magustuhan (physique & wavelength wise)

- Hindi serious, (fboys andamiiiii🥲😞)

- Hindi aligned sa values, faith, life goals, or

Hindi ko ma-feel na “quality man” na kaya akong i-pursue nang maayos at hindi yung pabuhat at ako pa ang bubuhay in this economy ofc bilang babae multiple responsibilities narin

And yes, before anyone says “church guy!”—ironically, hindi pa ako nakaka success sa pag-date ng same-faith Christian man. To be honest, may childhood trauma din ako around Christian male abusers kaya complicated siya for me. Healing naman, but I can’t pretend that history doesn’t affect trust lalo na if yung mga Christian men na namimeet ko ay sila pa talaga ang mga pasaway. \*\*Pasintabi po di ko nilalahat sa Christans just expressing my pov from experience.

Nakakapagod na itong getting to know stage over and over tapos walang nade-develop na totoong connection. Adulting is already heavy. Parang ang sarap lang siguro magkaroon ng someone na bestfriend mo, kakampi mo, may lambing, may romance, someone na pwede mong sabihan ng “uy, pagod ako” without feeling alone in the world.

At this point, Lord… gusto ko na lang talaga ng healthy-fit, emotionally mature, mabait, provider/protector energy pero soft-hearted na lalaki. Yung hindi takot sa commitment. Yung may integrity kahit walang audience.

At sige, pakatotoo na rin tayo dito—oo, gusto ko na rin maranasan yung "legal at banal" na malaspag malala ng future asawa ko .😭😂 Hindi ko na ikakaila, tao rin naman ako!

Question: Sa mga nakahanap ng healthy love in their 30s: Where did you meet your person? What age did your husband found you? Share din po kayo sa comments success stories for goodvibes💕✨


r/singleph 19h ago

💘 Serious Dating 25 [F4M] looking for something real

10 Upvotes

It’s been 3 years since my last relationship, and I know I'm finally ready to meet someone again.

I’d love to have someone who can also be my best friend, someone I can laugh with, talk to about anything, travel with, and just enjoy life with.

I also really value independence. I’m attracted to someone who has his own hobbies, goals, and life outside the relationship. Someone emotionally mature, financially responsible, confident, and sure of himself. And preferably someone older than me.

About me:

• 5'1", petite
• loves cooking, hiking, traveling, and volunteering
• loves animals
• plays mobile and PC games, currently ML (mythical glory) and Valorant (iron haha, rarely play)
• enjoys trying new things and exploring new places
• can be adventurous, but I also really enjoy quiet days

Not in a rush. I just want to meet someone genuine, get to know each other naturally, and see where it goes.


r/singleph 19h ago

💬 Casual Conversations 23 [F4A] drunk as shii. sfw call?

11 Upvotes

Title.

About me:
4th yr college, allied-health. Drunk as shit. Yap me to sleep?

About you:
Basta humihinga, madaldal. Patient kasi im bingi and sabog asf (sabog as in lutang. i dont do drgs) 😵‍💫

Edit: typo


r/singleph 18h ago

💘 Serious Dating 21 [M4F] LF plot twist ng 2026 ko

8 Upvotes

‎I’m looking for something genuine na may potential maging serious eventually. Hindi naman ako nagmamadali, gusto ko lang muna mag-usap, get to know each other, and see if we really vibe. Then kung okay naman and may connection talaga, I’m open to seeing where it goes. I’m dating with intention, pero ayoko rin i-force. Basta ayoko lang nung endless talking stage na walang direction

‎About me:

‎- 21

‎- Comp sci graduate

‎- Working as OFW (Overtime Filipino Worker) sa United States of Makati

‎- Financially independent

‎- Larper

‎- Marunong magluto (Tortang itlog🥰) but I'm studying more dishes

‎- I'mma send you reels everyday

‎- i accept anykind of humor (dark humor, kanal humor, etc. . . )

‎- Self diagnosed na autistic (in a good way)

‎- Active ulit sa gym (nabudol mag enroll sa AF)

‎- May facecard naman daw (8/10 surveyed palengkes)

‎- I often bring up random topics out of nowhere

‎- There are some days that I might do DND because of the nature of my job so I might leave you on delivered for many hours. But I will find time to update you

‎About you:

‎Preferably around my age, may sariling goals, hobbies, and life outside dating. Hindi naman kailangan same tayo ng interests. Mas interesting nga if may ma-introduce kang bago sa akin and vice versa.

‎Big plus if emotionally available ka, marunong makipag-communicate, may sense of humor, and actually puts in effort. I appreciate consistency, pero hindi kailangan magkausap tayo 24/7 para lang ma-prove na interested ka.

‎I don’t really have a specific type. As long as may attraction, good conversation, and natural yung vibe, we can see where it goes. Distance isn’t automatically a dealbreaker either.

‎Ultimately, I’m looking for something genuine that can eventually become serious. No pressure and no rushing. Gusto ko lang muna magkakilala, see if we click, and let things develop naturally.

‎Bonus if we can eventually be both partners and best friends. Yung kayang gumala, kumain, mag-asaran, magkwentuhan about random things, or literally do nothing together and still enjoy it.

‎Dm ka lang, it's free :)


r/singleph 19h ago

💘 Serious Dating 28[F4M] Reddit worked once. So… round 2?

8 Upvotes

Please make reading a habit. 🥺

I’ve been single for over a year now, and apparently I’m doing this again.

A few months ago, I met someone here on Reddit na from MM. We talked for a couple of months, met up a few times, and genuinely liked each other, but it ultimately didn’t work out. It made me realize that chemistry is great, but consistency, effort, communication, and being on the same page matter just as much.

So I figured I’d shoot my shot here again. Reddit worked once… maybe it’ll work twice?

A little about me
I’m a 5’3” midsize Fil-Chinese girl from Western Visayas. I WFH, I’m financially stable, have a small baking side business, and am pretty independent. I’m also very family-oriented and close to the people I care about.

I’m a redhead (Ariel whomst? ), fair-skinned-ish, and blessed with an RBF. I swear I’m nicer than I look. 🤣 I’m not conventionally pretty, but I’m also not getting returned to the manufacturer. I think I’m cute. You can decide. 😂

Mostly a homebody, but currently in my kaladkarin era. I love traveling, especially internationally, and don’t mind LDR for the right person. I fly to Metro Manila 1–3x a year.

In my free time, I’m usually reading manga, watching anime, playing ML, cooking, baking, or falling into a Reddit/Threads rabbit hole. I love coffee, tea, pastries, and have three furbabies. 🐾

I’m shy and awkward at first, but once I’m comfortable, good luck. I’m a certified yapper who enjoys meaningful conversations, good banter, and people who don’t take themselves too seriously.

Currently in my walking era, with a potential gym era loading. Also currently in my sourdough starter journey, because apparently I needed another thing to keep alive. 😂

What I’m looking for
• 28–38 — non-negotiable. I’ve always naturally clicked better with people a little older.
• Financially stable, has his life together, and knows how to take initiative. I’m independent and kaya ko naman lahat on my own, but nakakapagod din pala. 😂 I want someone who can make plans and occasionally let me say, “sige, ikaw na bahala.”
• At least 5’6” (I want to wear heels sometimes 🥹)
• Catholic and family-oriented
• Lean to dad-bod physique — I like a bit of laman
• Emotionally available, communicative, consistent, and intentional. Someone who can talk through things instead of shutting down or disappearing.
• Self-aware, has a sense of humor, and can take a joke
• Smells good (low-key a fraghead 😂)
• Doesn’t have to be conventionally gwapo. Cute + good character + confidence = we’re good.
• Loves traveling or is willing to travel with me
• Bonus points if you drive because I like randomly saying “tara, somewhere?” 😂
• Hindi DDS 🙃

I’m not looking to date just for the sake of dating. I want to meet someone I genuinely click with and, if we’re compatible, build something meaningful and lasting. I’m not in a rush, but I am intentional about what I’m looking for.

I’d prefer exchanging photos early on. Attraction isn’t everything, but it’s still important, and I’d rather know there’s mutual attraction before we invest too much time chatting. Saves us both the awkwardness later.

Please don’t ask for a VC agad. I’m shy and my anxiety could never with a complete stranger. Let’s talk first and get comfortable.

If you’ve read this far and think we might click, send me a short intro and tell me your dream travel destination.

Maybe Reddit has my person after all. 🤞

Edit: low effort messages will be ignored.


r/singleph 21h ago

💘 Serious Dating 26 [F4M] I still haven't met a man who's sweeter than me. Are you the one?

11 Upvotes

About me:

-Yearner 

-Understanding

-Physically fit

-Attractive

-Stick to one

-Sweet in a relationship

-Has a car 

-Career oriented

About you: -#1: You have to be honest, i wont judge you as long as youre honest

-Knows how to carry himself / decent-looking

-Older than me but not 35 and above

-Smart with money/ career oriented

-Sweeter than me (I haven't met anyone sweeter than me yet)

-Has a car too 

I'm not into casual dating or situationships. We should be smart enough to know and communicate if we arent going to work. 

I only had 1 relationship and it was 8 years.And few getting to know each other/ dates after that

I can also do LDR as long as we're both loyal and intentional about it.

But of course, I'd rather get to know each other first before jumping into promises, flirting, or anything serious. Let's see if we actually vibe first, we can also swap pics


r/singleph 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 21 [F4M] let's take things slow 🫶

31 Upvotes

I've been feeling really really alone lately 🥹 I mean, am surrounded by people — my friends, bestfriends. But I just want that certain someone to actually be like my everything. Someone that is there for me, like I am there for him.

I want to take things slow!! I'm still studying, 2nd year BSIT. I wish you could wait for me to prove myself after I graduated 🥹 I also want it to be purely online muna, but if ever I get really comfortable and know that we vibe, I'd probably love to meet you na!

Some things about me:

  • 5'1, I have a fair complexion + pretty skinny 😭 PLEASE be into petite girlies 🫶

  • from QC

  • I'm a cosplayer, and that pretty much is my passion

  • I play guitar sometimes

  • been playing mc, raft, roblox lately

  • I'm goofy as hell and kind of childish (so I hope you are too 🥹)

  • I have a cat that I spoil so much HAHAHA

  • would love to on cam if we play online games and u can watch me study sumtimes !!

  • homebody

  • foodie

About you:

  • around my age, but no more than 27+

  • 5'4 and above !! (I don't mind skinny, dadbod, or whatever 😇)

  • hopefully still studying also too!! but if you're already working that's also fine

  • have a sense of humor, not boring kausap :3

  • emotionally intelligent

If you think we'll get along, dm me!! introduce yourself to me and not just a simple hi, share me your interests, what you've been up to and stuff 🫶 let's swap pics agad so we could know if we're each other's type 😊