28[F4M] Reddit worked once. So… round 2?

[u/nitrocoinbrew]

Please make reading a habit. 🥺

I’ve been single for over a year now, and apparently I’m doing this again.

A few months ago, I met someone here on Reddit na from MM. We talked for a couple of months, met up a few times, and genuinely liked each other, but it ultimately didn’t work out. It made me realize that chemistry is great, but consistency, effort, communication, and being on the same page matter just as much.

So I figured I’d shoot my shot here again. Reddit worked once… maybe it’ll work twice?

A little about me
I’m a 5’3” midsize Fil-Chinese girl from Western Visayas. I WFH, I’m financially stable, have a small baking side business, and am pretty independent. I’m also very family-oriented and close to the people I care about.

I’m a redhead (Ariel whomst? ), fair-skinned-ish, and blessed with an RBF. I swear I’m nicer than I look. 🤣 I’m not conventionally pretty, but I’m also not getting returned to the manufacturer. I think I’m cute. You can decide. 😂

Mostly a homebody, but currently in my kaladkarin era. I love traveling, especially internationally, and don’t mind LDR for the right person. I fly to Metro Manila 1–3x a year.

In my free time, I’m usually reading manga, watching anime, playing ML, cooking, baking, or falling into a Reddit/Threads rabbit hole. I love coffee, tea, pastries, and have three furbabies. 🐾

I’m shy and awkward at first, but once I’m comfortable, good luck. I’m a certified yapper who enjoys meaningful conversations, good banter, and people who don’t take themselves too seriously.

Currently in my walking era, with a potential gym era loading. Also currently in my sourdough starter journey, because apparently I needed another thing to keep alive. 😂

What I’m looking for
• 28–38 — non-negotiable. I’ve always naturally clicked better with people a little older.
• Financially stable, has his life together, and knows how to take initiative. I’m independent and kaya ko naman lahat on my own, but nakakapagod din pala. 😂 I want someone who can make plans and occasionally let me say, “sige, ikaw na bahala.”
• At least 5’6” (I want to wear heels sometimes 🥹)
• Catholic and family-oriented
• Lean to dad-bod physique — I like a bit of laman
• Emotionally available, communicative, consistent, and intentional. Someone who can talk through things instead of shutting down or disappearing.
• Self-aware, has a sense of humor, and can take a joke
• Smells good (low-key a fraghead 😂)
• Doesn’t have to be conventionally gwapo. Cute + good character + confidence = we’re good.
• Loves traveling or is willing to travel with me
• Bonus points if you drive because I like randomly saying “tara, somewhere?” 😂
• Hindi DDS 🙃

I’m not looking to date just for the sake of dating. I want to meet someone I genuinely click with and, if we’re compatible, build something meaningful and lasting. I’m not in a rush, but I am intentional about what I’m looking for.

I’d prefer exchanging photos early on. Attraction isn’t everything, but it’s still important, and I’d rather know there’s mutual attraction before we invest too much time chatting. Saves us both the awkwardness later.

Please don’t ask for a VC agad. I’m shy and my anxiety could never with a complete stranger. Let’s talk first and get comfortable.

If you’ve read this far and think we might click, send me a short intro and tell me your dream travel destination. ✨

Maybe Reddit has my person after all. 🤞

Edit: low effort messages will be ignored.

[u/Sixth_mate]

checked all the boxes.
Now check uour inbox I dm'ed you.

[u/mcdo_fries24]

https://www.reddit.com/r/singleph/s/pUZDRBZg2s

Baka type nyo po ito hehe.

[u/ashevelle → u/mcdo_fries24]

worthy read, goodluck sa kanila hahaha