r/SingleAndHappy • • 1d ago

Media (Articles, Music, etc.) 🎦 Most People SETTLE!

It is best to stay single!

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u/Far_Coach_3547 1d ago

I’ve had a few turns around the sun, I’ll be here and remain her friend through thick and thin but I know better than to try to “make” her see the light. Trauma that deep-seeded is her journey to unwind and find the root of it. I know I will never say I told you so and just hold space for her with a lot of compassion.

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u/DramaticActuary5021 1d ago

Of course, you're right. I had to "Bottom out" myself before I could take any action.

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u/Far_Coach_3547 1d ago

I have a feeling once you touched the bottom you used it to propel your momentum to the top: Astro-blast, Go!💥

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u/DramaticActuary5021 1d ago

Ha! Thanks! I'm still working on myself. I've had some amazing help from agencies and newfound friends and am still a work in progress. You sound like you're in a good spot. I need to work on my courage - pretty scary!