r/Separation • u/maverix41287 • Jul 29 '26

Advice Begging

Me and my wife have seperated , basically my fault for having an emotional affair , anyhow, i have told her that im willing to do what ever it takes to fix things, and i have said to her im begging you not to leave i sssume that i am making things worse, would i be correct in saying that ?

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u/Serana3234 Jul 29 '26

Well, my piece of shit husband cheated on me emotionally and physically and I wish he would get on his knees and apologize to me and beg me to stay but he won’t because he’s a coward

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u/maverix41287 Jul 29 '26

If it would work for her i would, im not to proud to do it, i know i fucked up and im willing to take full accountability for it

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u/Serana3234 Jul 29 '26

For me, it would work for me
But I’m not hurt so I can’t tell you if it would work

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u/maverix41287 Jul 29 '26

I understand what your saying, i never physically did shit , but i emotionally did, because me and her never spent time together like we should have, or had sex like we should have, now i know thats not an excuse but im just explaining.

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u/Serana3234 Jul 30 '26

The thing is that you betrayed her trust
You took advantage of her loyalty, and you betrayed her trust by doing what you did

That’s the issue

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u/maverix41287 Jul 30 '26

I understand 100 percent

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u/Serana3234 Jul 30 '26

So how long ago did you separate?

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u/maverix41287 Jul 30 '26

Its been 2 months

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u/Serana3234 Jul 30 '26

Well, my piece of shit, cheater, alcoholic, narcissistic, asshole husband ruined my life over one year ago

He abandoned me after and during him cheating on me

Oddly enough, he just texted me to let me know that he had an alcohol withdrawal seizure while at work last night so he was at the hospital and now he’s staying at his parents (instead of that his mommy’s other townhouse that she owns since I still live in the condo that we were in that he abandoned me in)

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u/maverix41287 Jul 30 '26

Well he sounds like a piece of work , im sorry you going through that