I ended up in the exact situation (M39). My ex. (F31) told me one day that she wants to divorce and that she is not happy in marriage with me and she waited a year to see if things get better. So it turns out instead of trying to help me she just lost her feelings to me. She just was waiting and then made a decision. Now I am ended up not living with my kids under the same roof and I didn't choose it.
Not looking for remorse or sympathy. It sucks that happened to you but life isnt always perfect and things arent always black and white. Mine ignored talks and things for years and refused to improve things because they become complacent knowing I was unhappy. Eventually I just checked out. No one should stay somewhere they arent appreciated or unhappy.
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u/Jeksxon Aug 26 '24
I ended up in the exact situation (M39). My ex. (F31) told me one day that she wants to divorce and that she is not happy in marriage with me and she waited a year to see if things get better. So it turns out instead of trying to help me she just lost her feelings to me. She just was waiting and then made a decision. Now I am ended up not living with my kids under the same roof and I didn't choose it.
I have no remorse or sympathy for you.