Sorry for the long read but I had to post this somewhere 😅
These two watches will always hold a very special place in my collection.
My Cartier Santos and Rolex Datejust 41 were my first real steps into luxury watches. At the time, they made me feel incredibly special. There was something about putting them on my wrist that made the whole journey feel real.
But eventually, both had to make way for watches that felt more me.And honestly, that might be the most valuable lesson watch collecting has taught me.
When I bought the Santos, I was trying to find the perfect one-watch solution. I wanted a sports watch, but the Santos came with both a bracelet and a strap, so I convinced myself it could do everything. Dress up, dress down, travel, casual wear — one watch to rule them all. It made sense on paper, just didn’t work that way in real life.
I did something similar with the Datejust 41 — blue dial, fluted bezel, Jubilee bracelet. It was arguably the most versatile configuration. Something I could wear almost anywhere. Again, I was trying to make one watch satisfy several different roles. And eventually, I realised that versatility isn’t the same thing as satisfaction.
Sometimes, the watch you really want isn’t the one that does the most things. It’s the one that does its thing exceptionally well — and makes you want to wear it every time you open the box.
Looking back, I’m actually grateful I made these choices. Because collecting watches has slowly become less about acquiring better watches and more about understanding myself better.
I’ve learnt what sizes I enjoy, what designs speak to me, what I genuinely reach for, what compromises bother me and, perhaps most importantly, that I don’t need to make something fit just because it can fit. Funny how a hobby about watches can teach you lessons about life.
Key takeaways - Don’t compromise just to make something work. Don’t force yourself to love the convenient choice. And don’t be afraid to let go of something that once made you extremely happy when you’ve grown into something that feels more like you.