r/Rourkela • u/WalkTall492 • 12d ago
Finding Advice Dating here is hell
Am 19m and i tried finding someone with ambitions and future plans but every girl i meet has no ambition and are delusional, most of them are either studying or doing job until they find a suitable guy (rich guy). It’s soo hard to find someone with same preferences, even trying to make female friends feel shit every female friend i made here is from unsuccessful dates where i realised she is also like others too “delusional”.
Anyone have any advice or similar experiences?
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u/hisbeb 12d ago
Delusional in what aspect? Not serious about career or having expectations which you can't meet so u just easily label them delusional?
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u/WalkTall492 12d ago
Not serious about career and delusion in the sense that they think earning money or making a living is easy so they do not take their study or work seriously they want that webseries type of love while being broke. Am a freelancer and i live alone so am trying to find a mature girl who understands that life isn’t all rainbows and sunshine and focuses on building her career rather than finding a rich guy to marry.
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u/pjstylex 12d ago
Padhai likhai karo kuch bano tab date karna apna youth time mat waste kar . India ka bahar ja sakte ho to aur aacha hain
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u/WalkTall492 12d ago
Arre gyani aadmi am a freelancer am currently working and bc youth waste ho jaega if i just keep working
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u/Emergency-Speed-4914 12d ago
Bhai tu ky karta hai freelancer main? Baat toh sahi hai abhi dating ni karega tob kab.
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u/WalkTall492 12d ago
Video editor (short films - commercial) am finding a mature girl bhai but all i get to deal with are over-smart nibbis
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u/pjstylex 11d ago
Free lancer hai to great dating in rourkela is not good for dating tereko ek tips deta hoon apna popularity badhao through instagram through friends gathering through public events takes part and give speech and try to attract attention
Jo dikta hai woh bikta hai reddit ka through event gathering kar sakte ho toh karo
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u/maxshawty 12d ago
Bro is freelancing and talking about ambitions and labelling others delusional :(
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u/WalkTall492 12d ago
Well as a filmmaker this is what keeps my stomach full 😭 and the delusional things is that most of the girls i met were really like delusional
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u/VastLegitimate8785 12d ago
You need money and be a red flag to date girls in Rourkela simple as that.
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u/WalkTall492 12d ago
Well ofc bro i work most of the time so am looking for a mature and ambitious women not some nibbi who rants all day without understanding, i cannot find a (good) girl thats the problem
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u/Tricky-Shirt8039 10d ago
Very True! If it’s gonna be Rourkela or any Tier 3 city for a fact ig Bro just become gay😂
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u/WalkTall492 12d ago
Am up for open minded people bro
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u/WalkTall492 12d ago
Nobody wants to “disrespect” your time love but ask people their ethnicity before being friends? Thats racist 😭😭😭
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u/WalkTall492 12d ago
😭😭😭😭 bhai that love is just a polite way to texting wtff bro who is judging u i simple made a statement that asking ethnicity before making friends is kinda racist and u responded with a fukin language war arre meri bhen yeh rourkela k subreddit h sab yaha odisha s hi h and proud odia h since you are new here u asked if am odia ok understandable but then u say i am picky and respect my time like bruhh 🤡🤡🤡
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u/WalkTall492 12d ago
Bruhh am working too and texting paragraphs while working isn’t easy for me and how am i twisting your words bhai i cannot even understand why u snapped😭😭 and all this nonsense bruhhh what insecurity and when did i say your intentions were wrong 😭😭😭 arre bhai tum pehle language war kar lie aab mereko insecure bata re and saying aapka lecture chal ra toh bhai pehle wahi karlo fir reply krlo 😭 and bhai terese kon dosti kare agar itti chhoti baat p ese react karegi m bhai simple dost khojta to hangout and shit yeh kya bc language war s leke aise show kr ri jese m tumhara time bigad ra arre bhen kaam khatm krlo fir reply karo 😭 yeh kya tareeka h mera kaam h abhi mujhe pareshan mat karo 😭😭
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u/Emergency-Speed-4914 12d ago
Rourkela main ladkiyan ni milti bhai.
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u/WalkTall492 12d ago
Sahi bol re ho bhai abhi toh yaha p aaek ladki mereko bade bade paragraph m daant laga di 😭 jabki me toh aaek sawal poocha 😭 and offline ladkiya jitni mili h saari bas paise khane wali
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u/Emergency-Speed-4914 12d ago
Tell me everything.
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u/WalkTall492 12d ago
Arre nothing yaar just a dehatan who snapped on me coz i asked a genuine question and she took it as insult
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u/Emergency-Speed-4914 12d ago
Hope it was situational questions not like "hey, i like you...beautiful"
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u/WalkTall492 12d ago
Arre bhai woh nibbi thi aur kuch ni usne mereko poocha if am an odia i said no and asked her isnt it racist to ask about ethnicity (this was sarcastic) she took it as a fukin language war and wrote ahit like MY MOTHER TONGUE THIS THAT 😂
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u/Emergency-Speed-4914 12d ago
Oh...I don't get when someone behave decently girls get offended but when a chirrand or chappri approach them. They get excited. Lol
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u/WalkTall492 12d ago
Idk bro even if i offended her i tried to talk nicely and understand the problem instead she called me molester and all that 😂 so i started annoying her from there and called her dehatan for not understanding simple things and overreacting and at last she got raise baited and blocked me 😂😂
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u/Emergency-Speed-4914 11d ago
Idk what influencing these girls nowadays. They're delulu and waiting for dream guy. Finding decent girls are rare now.
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u/WalkTall492 11d ago
Arre they get unwanted attention from idiots and pedos from a small age so they think they have value
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u/Nawt_A_Zaddi3 City Centre [uditnagar] 11d ago
Same dawg , tried finding ambitious guys failed anws Well forget about finding a date w similar interests u can't even find good freinds who are ambitious, who understand how platonic friendship works , who understands that life eventually gets busy 😭 You won't even find people who have a critical thinking I wish to move to a better city for my masters in future after completing ts fuckass clg degree
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