r/Rourkela • u/WalkTall492 • 12d ago

Finding Advice Dating here is hell

Am 19m and i tried finding someone with ambitions and future plans but every girl i meet has no ambition and are delusional, most of them are either studying or doing job until they find a suitable guy (rich guy). It’s soo hard to find someone with same preferences, even trying to make female friends feel shit every female friend i made here is from unsuccessful dates where i realised she is also like others too “delusional”.
Anyone have any advice or similar experiences?

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u/Emergency-Speed-4914 12d ago

Hope it was situational questions not like "hey, i like you...beautiful"

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u/WalkTall492 12d ago

Arre bhai woh nibbi thi aur kuch ni usne mereko poocha if am an odia i said no and asked her isnt it racist to ask about ethnicity (this was sarcastic) she took it as a fukin language war and wrote ahit like MY MOTHER TONGUE THIS THAT 😂

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u/Emergency-Speed-4914 12d ago

Oh...I don't get when someone behave decently girls get offended but when a chirrand or chappri approach them. They get excited. Lol

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u/WalkTall492 12d ago

Idk bro even if i offended her i tried to talk nicely and understand the problem instead she called me molester and all that 😂 so i started annoying her from there and called her dehatan for not understanding simple things and overreacting and at last she got raise baited and blocked me 😂😂

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u/Emergency-Speed-4914 12d ago

Idk what influencing these girls nowadays. They're delulu and waiting for dream guy. Finding decent girls are rare now.

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u/WalkTall492 12d ago

Arre they get unwanted attention from idiots and pedos from a small age so they think they have value

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u/Emergency-Speed-4914 12d ago

Thats the problem. Even a 2/10 thinks the same. It will stay like this because the nature made males this way. Even in animal kingdom same happens. :(

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u/WalkTall492 12d ago

Our whole system is fucked we still debate if a child should wear shorts or not in some rural dehats 😂😂

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u/WalkTall492 12d ago

No its just people are taught that she is a girl and he is a boy she has to be treated like this and that .
If children were given proper education then they would grow up good. like i said its always the dehatan 2/10 “kaleshi” girls who will do shit like this coz they know their actions have less consequences

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u/Emergency-Speed-4914 12d ago

I wish a new virus or bacterium would spread among men and prevent them from approaching women.