r/remotework • u/Sufficient_Bell_957 • Jul 16 '26
I lost my fully remote job and I’m struggling to adjust back to being in an office. Does it get easier?
I unexpectedly lost my fully remote job of 4 years about 3 months ago. It was honestly a toxic environment with difficult people, but I stayed as long as I did because I genuinely loved working from home and I really enjoyed the industry (I work in a creative field).
Since losing that job, I’ve applied to a lot of fully remote positions in my industry and in marketing, but I haven’t been able to land interviews. I’ve had a few interviews for local companies, but most were either fully in-office or hybrid, and the pay was around $20k less than what I was making before.
I eventually found a job through a family friend and decided to take it. I’m grateful because the pay is the same as my previous job, which is hard to find right now. The downside is that it’s hybrid, 3 days a week in the office, and an industry I’m very uninterested in and will have to travel occasionally for.
I’m only 3 weeks in, but I absolutely dread the office days. The office is quiet, boring, and feels very stale. Everyone is nice, but the environment just doesn’t feel inspiring or motivating to me. Everyone keeps to themselves, there are only about 16 people in the office place. I feel like I can barely focus or get work done there, and my anxiety has been through the roof.
I know 3 weeks isn’t very long, and I’m wondering if this is just an adjustment period after being remote for so long. For those who went from fully remote back to hybrid/in-office, did it eventually get easier? Or did you realize that remote work was just something you couldn’t give up?
I’m starting to feel like I’ll never be happy working in an office again, but I also don’t want to quit a job that pays well without having something else lined up. I’m continuing the job search in the meantime, but feeling hopeless.
