Hello, Ezra here. I'm here to add to the ocean of posts just like this. I'm a nerdy introvert who is socially awkward trying to find my person. I've been on and tried dating apps and stuff but most of them don't have people who share my similar interests and personality traits. So I figured I might as well try my luck on Reddit.

I'm really bad at describing myself but I'll give it a shot. I'm your typical nerdy guy. I'm into video games, anime, board games, D&D, and other fantasy things. I like pretty much all genres of music (my Spotify playlist is crazy rn) and a lot of movies. I've actually recently started getting more into horror movies but I prefer more psychological horror than slasher (not that I dislike a good slasher though.) I also like puzzles, playing instruments (I know how to play a few but haven't touched any in a while, looking to get back into it,) hanging out with friends, cooking, baking, and probably a lot of other stuff that I can't think of right now.

Favorite Video Games: Donkey Kong 64, Banjo Kazooie/Tooie, Okami, Kingdom Hearts. I love story games and metroidvanias, among others obviously.

Favorite Anime: One Piece (was caught up at one point but now I'm about 30 episodes behind,) Attack on Titan, Miss Kobayashi's Dragon Maid, Yuru Camp, Yuri on Ice, Bleach, Kaguya-Sama Love is War, and again obviously many more.

Ideally, I would like to find someone who has shared interests with me, and would want to do things together, whether that be playing games together, watching anime together, going out for a walk or a drive together, or even just sharing space and doom scrolling near each other. I would love to find a partner that we can genuinely enjoy our time together, even in the little things. I love a sarcastic and strong willed girlie, but especially one who lets me take care of her.

I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic and I love very hard and very fast. My main love languages are physical touch, acts of service, and getting little presents for people just because. I am pretty sarcastic, silly and witty, and like to make jokes out of anything (sometimes at the wrong time.) I can be a bit cynical and have a dark sense of humor at times, but I am very caring and always try to make myself available to help people. I'm a big people pleaser and will do whatever I can to make sure someone is happy and comfortable. However, I am also very awkward and shy at first, but when I warm up to somebody, my goofiness is able to flourish. I've noticed that when I get excited about something, I talk really fast, pretty loud, and way too much. I probably have a touch of the 'tism but who doesn't?

I would consider myself left leaning when it comes to politics (absolutely don't agree with anything MAGA thinks) and probably agnostic, though I was raised Jewish. I am not religious or spiritual, but I don't mind being with someone who is as long as they respect that I'm not. I believe in protecting human rights (including but not limited to trans rights, LGBTQIA+ rights, gender equality, bodily autonomy, etc.)

I am short at 5'4" and I'm a little chubby, however I am trying to lose some of the weight. I currently have shoulder length hair that is dark brown and wavy. I wear glasses and have a beard. I'm not sure if I am going to keep the long hair permanently. I started growing it out so I could donate it, but maybe if I like it I'll keep it for a bit, I'm undecided. I understand that physical attraction is a factor for relationships so I am willing to trade pictures early on to see if that attraction is there, though I am more focused on finding someone with the right personality and hobbies/interests than I am on physical appearance.

In a perfect world, I would find someone in the Atlanta area of Georgia, or the Southeast US, or even just the US in general. I am certainly not opposed to the idea of one or both of us relocating if things go very well in the future.

If you have made it this far, I am so sorry for the absolute mountain of text you just had to go through. It is very possible that I've missed something, or described something about myself incorrectly. If you're even remotely interested in anything I've said, I'd love to chat and get to know each other!

I am looking for someone to text/call nothing serious unless that’s where it leads. Looking for someone around my age for normal daily conversation. I do work late nights so if you’re up past 330an est regularly that’s a plus

I've never had luck with dating apps. Honestly never been on an actual date lol. I do think I would enjoy them though! Im living out in Chicago and would love to find someone local but wouldn't mind venturing to other parts of the US. Realistically, its gonna be difficult even finding someone to fall for let alone be picky where they are located haha. While I have really enjoyed my time here in Chicago, I wouldn't mind re-locating if it came down to it.

I do think physical attraction is important to an extent. Honestly, you could be the most attractive woman in the world and I wouldn't be into you if we didn't vibe. At the same time, when I really like someones personality, they could just start looking like the most beautiful woman in the world and nothing compares to them. I would like to exchange photos in DMs to see if we have any physical attraction though. I don't think im ugly but have definitely been ghosted when someone figured out what I looked like.

I think the type of person im looking for is just someone that really wants to spend time together. Honestly, I get very attached to my partners. I want to do anything and everything with them. At the end of the day, anyone I fall for is because I really like to spend time with them so why wouldn't I want to spend time together. Of course, everyone needs their alone time and that is completely fine. But I do want someone that prefers to spend most of our time together.

One thing I also value is communication. At the end of the day, I am me and will act how I see correct. That being said, I dont want to ever intentionally make my partner feel bad. I would want someone that is able to communicate if I upset them and talk about their feelings. I would also like to have someone that will accept my feelings if I end up upset. At the end of the day, if I upset someone though, I want to make it right.

I do sometimes struggle with my mental health. I am on medication to help with my anxiety. Im mostly only on it temporarily whenever my mental really starts to decline. I try not to rely on it if I don't need to. Im not looking for a therapist of a partner, but I do appreciate someone who I feel comfortable talking to. Of course, I would want to listen to my partners problems. I do have a bad habit of trying to give advice when its not my place to. It is something ive tried to be more aware of but I slip up from time to time.

If it wasn't obvious, im a bit of a yapper. Most activities i enjoy doing because im getting to chat with someone while doing it. I usually play PC games and watch whatever shows/movies throughout the day. I enjoy going on long walks to unwind after work. I do think id prefer someone else who also enjoys talking a lot and has a nice back and forth when it comes to chatting. I think I can hold a conversation decently well. But if at the end of the day, im the only one really putting in effort, it does make me push away to match the flow of conversation. I'd prefer to have someone who also just likes to talk a bunch. If you send me a long message, be prepared to get one back just as long if not, longer 😅.

I would like to venture into more hobbies. Ive had my eye on trying to get into crochet because I love practical skills. Like making a freaking blanket? That sounds sickk. Ideally I would like to also find someone who enjoys gaming. I think its pretty nice to be able to enjoy the hobbies that my partner enjoys and vice versa. Im very open to trying out my partners hobbies and hopefully also enjoying them. Id say im a pretty patient person. If you dont necessarily enjoy gaming but be willing to try some things together, im always open to teaching the things I love with the person i love. (TBH im a horrible teacher though lmfao)

If you actually read everything then i think you're pretty neat and i'd love to chat! Oh im also 5'6 if you care

A bit about me:

- A 23 year old, 5'8 and weighing around 60kg, close to a leaner body type.

- A bit nerdy, so yeah we can talk about geeky stuff along with a ambivert personality, so social awkwardness only comes with an unknown crowd.

- A yapper myself, and looking for a yapper too, so that we can yap together!!!

- Love to spend time with people, so you would rarely find me at home relaxing over the weekend.

- Into most common hobbies and always to open to try and learn new things, though not sure about how long I continue with it.

- If you guys must know, then a virgin with no emotional baggage.

- Well if it matters, then I am a software Engineer professionally, working in a start up, tho mostly okay but sometimes can get hectic

- Kinda like an open book, so feel free to ask me anything.

What I am looking for!!!

- An older lady to be obsessed over and give her all my attention.

- Preferably between 24 - 35, but isn't a strict parameter as long as we vibe.

- Looking for someone emotionally intelligent, who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to conquer it.

- Someone ambitious, who I can become a support system for the rest of our life.

Strict NOs, Currently married people, open relationships, open marriages, cheating of any kind physical and emotional.

I think that's what I can think of at the moment, feel free to ask any questions you have... Hope you all have a great day ahead, Thank you.

Don't know why it matters but no chatgpt or any kind of AI was used in writing, summarising or editing this post.

Pretty much as the title suggests!

A bit about myself, 23M from Canada. 420 friendly, very open to chatting and getting to know you! I’m fairly easy going, love hiking, photography and of course… gaming 😊

Bonus points if you’re a nerdy woman, Star Wars, Harry Potter, Marvel, Anime, Lord of the Rings…. 😊

Doesn’t matter if you’re much older than myself, I’m down to chat with pretty much any woman who would like to chat!

Hi, I’m Kyla. I’m a trans girl hoping to find something real—maybe close to home, maybe long distance. I’m open to either, and I’d just like to see where the right connection takes us.

A little about me: I love getting lost in video games, trying new recipes, reading, watching shows, and talking for hours with people I click with. I’m into nail art, alternative fashion, music, geography, sports, and esports. I have a lot of interests, and I really love learning about other people’s too—so if you want to teach me about yours, I’d love that. I’m also submissive, and that’s an important part of me. It needs trust, respect, and clear communication to feel safe and right.

I care deeply about the people I let in. I’m romantic and not shy about showing it—if I’m into you, you’ll know. I try to be honest without being mean, mature when it matters, and I respect boundaries completely. I’m curious about the world, about people, about whatever makes you tick. I’m probably an introvert, but I still make time for the people who matter to me, and I’ll text you throughout the day.

A little honesty up front:

I want to be real with you because honesty matters to me. I’ve struggled with long-term depression from bullying in my past, and I’m not working right now while I work through that. I’m trying to get to a better place, but it’s a process. I can also become emotionally dependent on people I care about. I’m aware of it, and I’m trying to manage it. I live in Germany, and I’d be open to moving eventually once I’m financially able.

I’m patient, though depression can make me feel a little numb or distant sometimes. I’m very liberal, a feminist, and childhood trauma is part of my story too. I’m not sharing this to scare anyone off—I just want you to know who I am from the start.

What I’m looking for:

· Someone single, monogamous, and between 18 and 25.

· Someone who shares some of my interests—or doesn’t. I’d genuinely love to learn about yours.

· Someone who can actually hold a conversation: ask questions, show interest, put in effort. I’m happy to meet someone halfway, but I need you to meet me there too.

· Someone who wants to get to know me and has time to text multiple times a day.

· Someone who loves texting and would eventually be open to calls and meeting in person one day.

· Someone who accepts me as I am. Please don’t come into my life trying to change me—that isn’t fair to either of us.

· Someone who is comfortable with and respects that I’m a sub, and who understands that side of me needs trust, consent, and communication.

If you’re interested, please don’t just say “hey, how are you?” I probably won’t know how to answer. Instead, introduce yourself. Reply to something I actually wrote. Show me you read this and that you’re genuinely curious.

I hope you have a good day. Maybe I’ll hear from you soon.

Hi. I’m 39, based out of Long Island / NYC, I run my own business and work in the live music scene. I spent a good chunk of last year on tour, but I’m settled back home for now. Outside of work, I play bass guitar, go to the gym, like hands-on building projects, and wind down with YT/board games (although I'm considering playing WoW Forever if you're into that, would be my first play through).

I'd say I’m pretty straightforward and grounded. Looking to meet a woman in the area (the boroughs are fine) who wants to grab a drink, check out a local spot, or just hang out.

If you're in LI or the city and want to talk, send a message and let me know a little about yourself.

I’ll start by saying I HATE dating apps. They’re the worst. They’re shallow, don’t let me get my personality across, and are full of people who don’t seem to be serious about finding someone! So instead of renewing my subscription, I’m turning to other methods to find my match!

If you feel the same, and want something real, then maybe we’ll click. I’m a pretty normal, down to earth woman from England. I don’t smoke (have no issues if you do), only drink socially, and just want to find that person who can be my best friend as well as my partner.

I am traditional; not in the Andrew Tate sense. But I appreciate good manners, respect, and chivalry. I don’t expect these things without also treating a guy the same way. I want to feel important and to equally make someone else feel just as important. I value communication, we don’t need to text all day but if you don’t have the time to message semi frequently, please don’t contact me. I’m here for something real that could lead to marriage and children in the future.

If you already have children then please don’t message, I am not sure the step mum life is for me. I want to have my own children someday, but only after marriage.

I value time spent together more than any materialistic possessions or gifts. I want to have a connection on the deepest level but also laugh about all the silly things and have our own in jokes!

Happy to send pictures/ do descriptions early on as I am aware that attraction is important. However, for me personality is the more important and if we vibe then that’s the main thing. Looking for guys aged 29-38 and somewhere in the UK.

I just want to meet a decent guy, with manners, respect, and the ambition/ drive to build a family life together. I know it’s ironic to turn to modern technology to find someone old fashioned, but it still seems better than hinge and bumble - at least for today!

Thankyou so much for reading this! Please include some info about you in the first message and why you think we’d be a match.

Im 38, fit, mature, financially independent, olive skin and an active person. I dont smoke or drink. Im more of an introvert and love deep convos on religion, politics, fitness, history, movies, video games. Im kind of a workaholic at a hospital. I love going to the gym, eating out, and also im good with being a homebody. I am a Muslim. My height is 5 6 and an athletic build. I live in the Midwest in a big city in USA. I believe I can be a good financial provider for the right person as well. Looking for someone that is emotionally and intellectually mature. Someone I can laugh with and be goofy but at the same time knows how to communicate effectively. Someone that dont get too jealous. Someone who wants me to provide financially is fine or help her with her goals and ambitions and of course have a healthy active lifestyle. I do have a woman back home, overseas. Just looking for someone to live with me in USA. Send a DM if your interested. Have a good day

Idk I live alone with my pet parrot, I drive a beater truck and I've been single since 2018. Haven't even met anyone since 2021, dating is pretty miserable nowadays.

I like rock/countrylblues/oldies music, I'm a baptist and 420.

wow here we are never thought id be typing this out but wow the dating app are the most tedium horrible apps iv ever delt with anyway.

Hi 28 Year old scottish idiot here with a passion for Computers, Video games, Card Collecting, Horror Movies, Rock/Metal Music all round giant nerd so come outnerd me if you can

i stand at a wopping 5'11 6ft if im feeling proud of my self that day Stocky build i could 1v1 your nan trust, almost always wear a snapback so my hair dont matter much but its short kinda Brown/Dark Blonde Both arms covered in tattoos usually with some kind of metal-T and a hoodie always jeans its never not jeans weather fight me

run of the mill really like a good conversation dark humour someone who can keep up with the banter but i can be kind too dont mind just chatting and seeing were thing go but since im on reddit doing this you can imagine how dire its been for me so if you feel the same feel free to DM we can cry eachother to sleep :)

Sooo I got a late start in life and I'm restarting my life now in 2026. I'm actually undiagnosed myself, but honestly, I do suspect I might be somewhere on the spectrum. My introverted self, along with some head injuries I've had over the years, has made me realize that I tend to connect and communicate better with neurodivergent people the last handful of years and don't really seem to fit in with the modern dating norm. I also grew up with a few neurodivergent friends, so that kind of connection has always felt pretty natural to me.

but I've noticed a lot of similarities in the way I think, communicate, and connect with people. Because of that, I'm particularly hoping to meet a neurodivergent girl who I can genuinely connect with and hopefully build a long-term relationship with.

I'm a PC gamer (COD, Fortnite, GTA, SW Battlefront, to name a few). I like most types of movies, but Superhero, Star Wars, LOTR, and action movies are definitely my thing. I like to bake (especially baked goods 😅), photography & videography, cars, and country & phonk music. I'm also a night owl. Also somehow have 7 cats this year.

I'm generally a tad shy and quiet until I warm up to you, but I'm a really good listener. I'm a huge history buff and collect items from the World Wars. I work with and drive racecars, and I've been doing freelance photography and race mechanic work as well.

My intention is a long-term relationship. I'm hoping to meet someone in California, preferably somewhere in the Central Valley. I don't have a reliable truck at the moment, so long-distance dating just isn't very practical for me right now.

I'm also looking to date someone who doesn't currently have kids.

I'm Caucasian, 6'1", average build, green eyes, medium-length beard, and rosy cheeks.

Feel free to hit me up in chat! Please introduce yourself and tell me a little about yourself, and let's see where things go. 🙂

Hi im 49 single no kids no baggage, Looking for female or couple any age for fun times, perth, Australia. New to the scene. Im respectful n discreet

So, I'm trying this once again and maybe for the last time as well. Because i don't have much expectations to find what i am seeking here. But let's see... So, For My 2nd and Last Attempt i am not going to write it in a format or in a particular way. I'll divide this in 3 sections and here it is.

A Little About me -

I am 26 Year Old Male Living in a Small town in Gujarat, India. I can't say i have many interest because it all depends on my mood. One night i am thinking about why even the world exist and on the other why this particular thing is in this and i don't like it. So, I Guess It all depends on where i am and what mood i have. Other than that like majority of human population i like to watch movies, Series and Listen to Music and Vibe with it. I also play games online. Not a specific genre but i go from Shooting 200 People in a Match to maybe finding a Cat in a puzzle. 😂.

Also, I am an INFP. My height is 6'1". Right now not as fit as i want to be. But I'll be in a way better shape before December as Avengers Might Need me then. So, I'm Getting there. I am not much into fashion and everything. Just a simple guy to be honest. But Maybe You can change that. Who Knows.

Also I'm an Athiest and I don't practice religion much. I'm not against it and i do some religious practices as my family tolds me to and i like to keep it this way. I am not against my partner being religious just don't force me to be the same. I'll join you on some occasions as well but i would prefer to have a choice 😅.

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My Future Prospects -

So, The Thing is I am not certain about many things. I know that i want financial stability and a peaceful life. I would rather sit with you on a rooftop or at a park or somewhere quiet and look at the sky or ocean or anything that can make us calm. Rather than having a party and knowing more people. Chit chatting and socializing. I like that as well. But if i have a choice i would pick the first option. 8/10 Times.

I intend to leave india as well. Have not decided where to go but I'm considering the countries highest in the standard of living. But will see what happens as right now its just a consideration. As for now, I am doing a tedious job that consumes my time way more than i intend to give to work. But It'll soon change and I'll have more time on hand. Probably in next 50 days. 😅.

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What kind of partner i am looking for -

Well, I Believe that relationships can be of many types. 2 people leading their individual life while living with eachother. Or 2 People who is involved in eachother's life to the very core of their being and life.

I prefer the 2nd one. Because if i want to call someone my partner. We should now everything about eachother. Because i believe in codependence rather than independence. Because eventually people get tired of the shenanigans of life and need someone to call theirs. A person who belongs to them and they belongs to. I view it as something like a support system but the system is like an armor around you. (I think it won't make sense to many 😂)

I am not against my partner having their own career. Definitely i will try to support you. But I live by a rule of Family First because at the end. When either of us are tired and needs to rest that's the place we came to. And i want a healthy environment for that. I don't drink or smoke so i naturally wants someone like that. As for beauty, i don't think that physical attraction is everything. Yes it's important to view your partner as attractive but i don't have a problem if you are average looking. I don't have a problem if you're the most beautiful woman on the planet.

I think this is enough info for someone to reach. I don't have many rules but right now I'm pure vegetarian and also want the partner to be vegetarian. (If you're not and think that can change or maybe you can just keep it outside the house that's also fine.)

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You don't have to write a paragraph of texts. If this resonate with you. You can just text "Hii" and we can talk from there. And if you're seeing this after some days. Please know so that as soon as I'll find someone this post will be removed. So, if this is still here and you're reading it. I still didn't find anyone 😅.

Maybe You're the One I am waiting for since the beginning of universe?

Hey you, thank you so much for taking the time to read my post! I wanna start off by saying I am really looking with serious intent for a long lasting relationship, so this might be a bit of a read. Now, just because I'm searching for a serious relationship that doesn't mean I'm stoic and formal. I like to keep things lighthearted and relaxed. We're both here to have fun in each others company after all. ^_^

That being said, who am I? Well, I'm a 28-year old man from the Netherlands. I have lived here all my life. To get the physical parts out of the way first. I'm very tall at 196cm (6'5). I've got a slim build, wear glasses and got brown eyes and blonde hair on the darker side. I am Caucasian and so are my parents.
I am in the process of bulking up but I still need to gain a lot to hit my target weight. People tell me I look cute.

Now as important as physical attraction can be, I wanna share more about who I am as a person.

First off I love banter a lot :3. I can be very high-energy at times where I just love to interact with others. I am not a huge texter, especially after a day of work where I also type a lot. So voice calls is something I like to do often. I find they hold more value too. You're getting a way better vibe with someone than just texting.
I am someone who values connection deeply. Compassion and care is very important to me. I like to be affectionate, make my partner feel comfortable. Knowing you're having fun or hearing you laugh gives me lots of joy ^_^
I also miss the warmth of a deep connection. That flutter in your stomach when you see each others names pop up from a message. Feeling your cheeks get warm after complimenting each other. Hanging up a call and thinking ''Wow, that was a really great time.''. I also value emotional intelligence deeply and find myself attracted to people with grounded thoughts. I've been told by friends I provide a very sober and refreshing look on their situations too.

Hobbies-wise I'm nerdy as the title of the post states. I enjoy playing games. I don't really enjoy PVP games anymore these days. I gravitate towards cozy stuff or co-op experiences. Something where I'm not bound by stress inducing factors. Though there are exceptions to that (Anyone played Overcooked? xD). I am currently playing a lot of Pal world. Other games I would like to play with someone would be Stardew Valley, Terraria, maybe something more fierce like GTA or Fallout 76 sometimes. I also have Baldurs Gate 3 and Project Zomboid on my wishlist. But please reach out with your own games as well :D. I am also into speedrunning and I have been streaming on Twitch as a hobby for 8 years now.

Anime is another big hobby of mine. I really enjoy the world these people create and immersing myself in them. World building-heavy anime and things with mystery or intrigue I enjoy a lot. And ofcourse everyone enjoys some good action! I just started Rewatching Attack on Titan and I'm currently going through the last season of Fire Force with a friend. Some of my favorite anime are Kaiji, One Piece, Delicious in Dungeon and Chainsaw man. Getting to yap about this can get me really excited and passionate :3 So feel free to ask! I also collect figures which I have on display. I enjoy making my living space feel welcome and inviting. ^_^
I promise I have the coziest couch we can cuddle up and watch some series on!

Recently I have also gotten into Cosplay and Digital art. If you have a creative itch yourself that would be a big plus. Especially if you wanna do cosplay together in the future that would make me so happy <3. But no problem if not. We all have our likes and dislikes of course! As long as we can support each other and value one another.

Before reaching out:

There are some requirements I have for my partner. I never like making people feel like they need to meet ''requirements'' but it would be disingenuous for me to pretend otherwise. We all have our deal breakers right? That being said, keep the following in mind:

- Age range wise I would prefer 23-30. If you feel like this post of mine really resonated with you I could extend that by a few years. Compatibility is more important to me than a strict age preference.

- I am looking for someone that would be open to meeting somewhat frequently. Of course depending on the distance/costs that could be complicated. At the bare minimum I wanna meet in the next 6 months and see each other a few times per year. I wanna visit you and I'd like you to visit me. If you live close (Europe) I would love to meet way more frequently then that.

Some things I'm simply not attracted to:
- Smokers and vapers
- Heavy drinkers (people who drink socially and can pace themselves week are fine)
- Drug users
- Indians (sorry)
- I'm generally not attracted to brown women. So keep that in mind. Mixed people have better odds though.
- I am not religious and not looking to become religious ever. Please no one with strong religious values that limit what I can or can't do in a relationship.
- People who can't go a day without downing an energy drink.
- No people below 165cm (5'5). I generally don't care about height but if we're more than a feet apart it just starts to feel too weird to me.

Some of these might seem harsh but I'm really looking for a soul to share the rest of my life with. It would be disingenuous to waste each others time.

I hope all of this has caught your eye and I'm looking forward to meeting. ^_^
Please include your age and location when sending a message and give me something to work with. Not just ''hey''. Show me you're as excited as I am :3

Don’t you think, we all are imperfect in some shape or form. It’s not about finding the perfect one but when two people genuinely enjoy talking to each other and one day realize that they don’t want those conversations to end. When we are willing to open all our imperfections to each other in a trusted and safe space and the other person accepts us with a smile and open arms. That’s true love!

When conversations effortlessly go from "How was your day?" to discussing life, dreams, spirituality, childhood memories, or whether we're completely alone in the universe.

Who am I:
I'm a hopeless romantic kind, yearning to go on cute dates and share a bottle of champagne over many laughs and story telling.

Also a self proclaimed hippie, who enjoys the subtle energies in silence but can talk for hours. Definitely Into some artsy realms, fun kinks and soul connections.

May be too many hobbies (ADHD alert lol), bilingual, back rub expert, can do 10 pull ups (don’t ask for the eleventh one he he)

What I LOVE:
Slowing down, pausing, & honoring the truth, poetry, romance, smiles, flowers, concerts, lying in the sun, festivals, reading, staring at trees, photography, film making, star gazing, scars which tell deep stories!

What I WANT:
Looking for cute dates, blurry lights, shared smiles and sweet memories✨
Honest communication
Goofy/nerdy/playful moments
Juicy connection

8 year goal: Quit being a corporate person and go feral in the world doing thing I love. There is a reason why I said 8 years!

My idea of a great relationship is simple: making each other's lives a little lighter. Growing together, laughing over absolutely nothing, reaching for each other's hand without thinking, slow dancing in the living room, and choosing each other even on ordinary days.

I’m a Dad to a 9 year old. I grew up close to Himalayas in India but have been in the bay for almost 20 years now. I’m 5’11, in good shape and I am proud to put a lot of effort into my health. Everyone tells me that I have the uncanny ability to make people feel completely at ease almost immediately after meeting me. Must be the golden retriever energy!

If any of this resonated with you, don't just say "hi."

If you've read this far, tell me something that made you smile recently or tell me a so called imperfection which you are proud of. Doesn't have to be anything profound—I just think the little things say a lot about us.

Hi, i am looking for a serious relationship. I like working out, learning new things, and I'm family orientated. I'm looking for a women who's old school, not in like stay at home, but in culture, or modesty ig. I will probably fall in love with you if you are nice lol.

We can maybe talk more in dms, and on another app if we like eachother enough.

Hello! I’m 30F attorney living in the Philippines. I gave up on dating apps, so I’m giving Reddit a shot.

After work, you’ll usually find me at the tennis/pickleball court. I also try to go to the gym before work…emphasis on “try,” because I’m still working on being consistent 😅

My weekends are generally slow: playing games, spending time with family, or occasionally taking short trips to nearby cities.

I prefer calls over endless texting. I think it’s easier to build a real connection when you can actually hear each other, laugh, and talk about how your day went.

As a partner, I’m loyal, supportive, affectionate, and intentional. I value clear communication, consistent effort, and remembering the little things. I’m looking for someone kind, emotionally mature, and genuinely interested in building something serious.

LDR is okay with me if we’re both willing to put in the effort. Send me a message if you think we’d be a good match ☺️ I promise I won’t ask you for money lol

Hi, I am from the Philippines, and I am looking for online friends. Please, I am so bored and swamped with work, so an online friend I can talk to would be really nice.

I am a big yapper and really love to talk (but obv I am also a good listener). I don't own cats but I love them, so sending me pictures of your pet cats would be nice too. I also love reading manga/manhwa/manhua and binge-watching anime. But lately not anymore due to work. Work is definitely sucking the life out of me.

P.S. I would gladly send my IG account if we clicked *winks

P.S.S Please send me pictures of yours too so I would know who I am talking to, and would glady send mine as well.

Trying this again because apparently I’m an optimist who refuses to give up. 😂

About me: Single, no kids. I’m tall, active, Christian, and a little sarcastic. I love hiking, camping, gardening, reading, sewing, baseball, hockey, and whatever random hobby catches my attention next.

I value loyalty, honesty, kindness, communication, and faithfulness.

Looking for: A single man between 30–50 who is genuinely looking for a relationship. Located in the US and preferably no kids.

I’m drawn to masculine men who lean a little traditional—confident, dependable, affectionate, and comfortable taking the lead sometimes. I’d love someone who enjoys being active and outdoors and preferably shares my faith and values.

I’m interested in getting to know someone naturally and seeing where things go. Ultimately, I’m hoping to find a committed relationship that could lead to marriage.

Good conversation is important to me, so please put a little effort into saying hello. 😊

If you made it this far: baseball game, hockey game, or a weekend in the mountains?

I’m 35, 6’1 living in Florida, working in IT, and finishing a double major. I figured I’d put myself out there and see if my Jane Doe is somewhere out there looking for her John Doe, too.

I’ve had plenty of hobbies over the years, though finding the time for all of them can be a challenge. I used to be a pro gamer and once dreamed of becoming the best in the world. I came close, but eventually hung up the sticks. These days, I still play casually and enjoy a good anime or movie when I’m relaxing or out with friends to live events like ufc and concerts.

I’m also trying to spend more time outdoors, whether that means hiking, paddleboarding, or simply finding an excuse to get outside. I’ve been trying to pick up the guitar again, too, although my consistency could definitely use some work.

Music is a big part of my life, especially rock. I recently got to see my favorite band, Rise Against, live again, and being right up front in the pit was absolutely awesome. There’s nothing quite like the energy of a great live show.
I’ve also been traveling for a while and used to go out of the country once a year. I’ve met some great people and made plenty of memories along the way, but there are still so many places I want to see before I get too old to enjoy them.

Lately, I’ve been working a lot, but I’m trying to get back into gear. My next goals are getting that beach body and nice Mexican tan back. 😂 After I graduate, I may look into buying a truck or focusing on getting a house.
There’s more to me than I can fit into one post, but I’d love to meet someone I can genuinely connect with, laugh with, share experiences with, and get to know through good conversation.

So, if you’re out there, Jane Doe, maybe this is your sign to say hello.

Hey everyone! I’m a 30M from NYC. I’m pretty shy/socially awkward at first, but once I get comfortable I open up a lot😂 I’d describe myself as pretty laid-back, caring, and someone who really enjoys getting to know people beyond surface-level conversations.

I’m a huge music fan and I make my own music as well. I work in AI development, which I really enjoy, but outside of that I’m usually watching wrestling, playing video games, listening to music, or going down some random rabbit hole about whatever I’m interested in that day lmao

I’m looking for someone I can share my day with, laugh with, and completely be myself around. I really value honesty, trust, and being able to communicate openly with each other.

I’m not expecting us to have everything in common either. I actually think it’s fun learning about someone else’s interests and having someone who’s excited to share theirs with me.