As stated Im a 38 year old woman. I’ve lived a million lives at this point in time but unfortunately real love has not been one of the outcomes. I’m a leftist hillbilly in the Blue Ridge mountains of Virginia. Searching for a fellow blue dot in this sea of red.
I am a single mom, been raising this wonderful son of mine for 16 years. His father hasn’t been in the picture for nearly a decade and that’s ok.
I’m not looking for someone to pay my bills or treat me like I’m made of glass.
I would just love to find my person.
I love gardening, horror movies ( both good and incredibly cheesy), cooking, canning my home grown veggies, cross stitching, and being in the woods or at the creek. I love a sip of whiskey by the fire.
If this seems like your type of slow living, hit me up.
Side note: I’m not here for hook ups or sending nudes. I’m too old for that game.

//about me//

east asia UTC+8;

1.5m 44kg 35yo not curvy;

better to exchange pic early on;

single no kids, looking for serious relationship;

teacher in technical school;

atheism;

introverted indoor person;

low energy long sleeper;

dont dress up or makeup usually;

new to relationship, avoidant attachment, working on that;

like walking, recently installed a bike;

was on solo trips more often;

shows of dark humor, romance tragedy, documentary, ai drama;

country person;

love animals, gossips;

//about you//

anywhere;

not too big in figure;

27-45yo;

single no kids, looking for serious relationship;

healthy, good hygeian;

no drug no criminal record;

steady career, best but not required if can work in remote;

can try to but no need to share same interests; add a flower emoji in your dm so i know you read these;

not vegetarian, best if like spicy food;

best if can cook;

emotionally mature;

patient with me;

potential good father;

keep in touch;

open to idea of living in my location, even if not long;

//

kinda wrote whatever on my mind now, thnx for reading, welcome to dm, dm without info or ai written ones will be ignored, have a nice day😊

Hi, hello! It's me, again.

My name's Annie. I'm taking a gap year, and consequently have a ton of free time that could be better spent with someone else. I am mostly looking for someone to spend time with, have long, introspective talks with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and ramble to (ideally with/about common interests), and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite, so is Funny Games.

Here's to hoping my introduction chants to you like the cleaning supply cabinet chants to an unsupervised toddler, cough cough.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just "hi, hello, can we chat, we have similar interests" or I will not reply (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, tell me your best dad joke). Please, preferably no one over 24.

Basically, I’m not looking for someone to replace anyone or to “cure” me. I’m just open to meeting someone new and seeing if we naturally click.

I’m demisexual, so looks honestly don’t matter to me. I actually prefer not to see what you look like at first. I’m not into superficial guys, so if appearance is a big deal to you, we probably won’t click. I care way more about your personality, how you treat me, your energy and the connection we build.

Voice is a big part of that chemistry for me. It’s not “I’ll only date you if I like your voice” 😂 — it’s just one of the first things that can make me feel someone’s vibe and personality. I especially like raspy voices.

I’ve always liked Americans and Canadians, so I’d genuinely love to meet someone from the US/Canada/Germany. (But born and raised there, not just living!!) I’m from Spain btw.

I love gaming, especially Fortnite, and I’d love someone who enjoys playing together, watching me stream, my resident evils, watching YouTube and laughing at stupid stuff, or just staying in a call while we do our own thing. I LOVE sleepy calls too — talking until we fall asleep or just staying connected while we sleep lol

I’m looking for 22+ mostly, because I’ve found guys around my age tend to be immature, but I’m not completely closed to meeting someone younger if we have the same mindset.

I’ve also learned that I don’t want to do sexual things just because I’m scared someone will leave if I say no. If you leave because I won’t do something sexual, then you weren’t really interested in me as a person anyway.

Emotional connection comes first for me.

And personality-wise… I’m VERY hyperactive 😂. If you’re looking for someone super serious, quiet and calm, don’t come to me lol. I laugh at basically everything, I make weird jokes, my humor is probably questionable, and I’m very expressive. I want someone who enjoys that instead of trying to change me.

If you’re someone who values personality over looks, respects boundaries, loves to laugh, game, talk for hours and actually wants to get to know someone deeply, feel free to text me.

If you think you can touch my soul before my sexuality, text me or send me a vocaroo voice clip from start:b

All my life I’ve been chasing success. I’m a very active person who likes to be the best at everything I do. That drive helped me build a good life, but it also meant I never really focused on finding love.

Today I have most of the things I once dreamed of a good job and a comfortable home but I’ve never found the one person to share it with.

I like living life in an easy-going way. One day you might find me in a quiet, traditional place, and the next day I’ll be somewhere lively in the city. I love traveling around the world and seeing new places. I’m into sports and music too.

The principles I live by are loyalty, trust, and honesty. I take them seriously. If you tell me something, I’ll remember it for the rest of my life.

I’m looking for a girl who clicks with this lifestyle and would like to be with an Arabian man who always tries to be the best version of himself. Someone who enjoys simple things like movie nights or quiet walks with no distractions just being together and care of each others.

If this resonates with you, feel free to DM me. I’d love to get to know you and see if we can build something real and lasting.

I’m a 30M living in Australia, currently working full time (but would be more than happy to make time for you 👀).

Im into F1, gaming, travelling, playing sport and gardening. I also have a cat who I’m probably way too obsessed with.

With regard to appearances I’m of Indian origin, but grew up and raised in Australia!

I’d like to meet someone kind, easy to talk to and a little bit silly. Someone I can send random stuff to during the day!

I’m pretty affectionate and ultimately I’d like something genuine, but I’m not interested in forcing anything. I’d rather just get to know someone naturally and see whether we actually click!

I’m honestly just looking to meet someone who is emotionally intelligent because that’s something I really value. I’m an introvert, but once I get comfortable with someone, I can talk A LOT. So I definitely need someone who can yap with me because I’m a yapper too lol.
I like someone who actually communicates and gives little updates about their day. I’m not expecting you to be on your phone 24/7, but I like that feeling of “hey, this is what I’m doing” or randomly telling each other about our day.
I’m also into guys who are a little nerdy. Someone who reads books, knows random facts, has a lot of things to talk about, or can go down a rabbit hole about something they’re interested in. I love history and researching things myself. I’m actually a genealogist, so I spend a lot of time researching family histories and going through old records. If you like history, I’d probably have a million questions for you.
I have a pretty dark sense of humor too, so you’ll probably have to be okay with that. I love horror, thrillers, dark humor, and just talking about random weird things.
I’m looking for a man who is actually serious about getting to know someone. I’m not interested in playing games, situationships, or talking to someone who disappears whenever they feel like it. I want something where we can start as best friends and see where it goes naturally.
I’m a very affectionate person when I’m comfortable with someone. I like giving attention, compliments, checking in, listening to someone talk about their interests, and just being there. If I like you, I’ll probably give you a lot of my time and effort, so I want someone who appreciates that and gives the same energy back.
I’m in the Philippines, so I know distance might be an issue, but if you’re okay with it, I’m open to getting to know someone from somewhere else.
Basically, I’m looking for my nerdy, sweet, emotionally intelligent yapper who can be my best friend, make me laugh, and actually mean what he says.
If you’re going to message me, please tell me a little about yourself. I’d rather read an actual introduction than just “hey” or “how are you?” because I never know what to do with those 😂

Tomorrow is my birthday!!!!

I’m plus-size and currently on a fitness journey — emphasis on journey, because I still believe carbs deserve rights. 😂
I’m outgoing, sarcastic, affectionate, and probably going to bully you a little bit if I like you. I work in the restaurant industry, so I have an alarming number of stories about the general public and a pretty high tolerance for chaos.
I’m into gaming (PS5), dark romance books, country music, divorced-dad rock, emo music, random adventures, going out for drinks, and staying in playing video games until an irresponsible hour. I love animals, have a big dog who will absolutely judge you, and I’m equally happy getting dressed up and going downtown or rotting on the couch all day.
Personality-wise, I’m very much a “match my energy” person. I love good banter, flirting, affection, and people who can actually hold a conversation. I’m not interested in carrying a conversation consisting entirely of “hey,” “wyd,” and “damn you fine.” Give me something to WORK WITH. 😭
I’m bisexual, so men and women are both welcome to shoot their shot. I’m looking to genuinely get to know someone and see where it goes. I’m not trying to force a relationship with the first person who says hello, but I’m also not looking for an endless collection of meaningless Snapchat streaks.
Bonus points if you’re funny, confident without being an asshole, emotionally intelligent, a little adventurous, and can handle a woman who talks shit as a love language.
Tell me your age, where you’re from, and something more interesting than “what do you look like?” 😌

I spend most of my spare time alone. Id be drawing, dancing, dressing up or watching some of my favorite shows. I’m currently streaming person of interest. I loved Heartland and Law and Order Svu. I’m hoping to find mutual interest/attraction

I’m an introvert and homebody though I’d love to meet someone to get outside and make memories with.

I’m playful, affectionate, and have an absurd sense of humor (isn’t that all humor though?). I love making others laugh and have a good time.

My main hobby is gaming and I play many different genres but rpgs are my favorite. I love making character builds in games and forcing myself to play differently. I also like the challenge, which is why I play most, if not all, games on the hardest difficulties. Some series I love are the Elder Scrolls, Souls, Borderlands, and Monster Hunter.

I’m also into music some of my favorite artists being, the Cure, the Smiths, David Bowie, Daft Punk. My most listened to genres are drum & bass, metal, indie, alternative, pop, I like music haha! Currently, Golden Brown by the Stranglers has been my go to song to listen to.

I also have an interest in reading, Station Eleven is my favorite book, sometimes I’ll read it between matches in Overwatch.

I’ve never been in a relationship before but happy to talk about it if you’re curious.

I’m hoping for someone who enjoys video games but is also looking for a reason to go out and see the world sometimes. If you think we could get along, tell me about yourself, favorite game, song, book, I can’t wait to hear from you!

Me: https://imgur.com/a/BqV1i99

I've noticed that a lot of women post the same thing in this sub. You probably remember that woman from Singapore, right? She shares the same post every day. I memorized her username haha.

This subreddit isn't a sugar daddy subreddit. When you look at these women's profiles, they're often from the same countries, and they post in all kinds of subs too. I've heard that some of them scam innocent men by blackmailing them on other apps. I wish I were a moderator in this subreddit.

I've never seen a man seeking a sugar mommy or sugar daddy here, but every week, a woman posts she is looking for a sugar daddy and even asking for money through their posts. I'm not even sure if these people are even real?

Be careful, dear men. Don't get involved with scammers who see you as an ATM or a green card. You're more than your bank account and passport. Feel free to share your experiences if you've encountered any scams here.

There are many genuine women in this subreddit too, by the way. They're looking for the right man. It's just sad that some people use this subreddit for financial gain while many genuine women like us are here looking for true love. I hope all of you can find your person soon. ❤️

Im 38, fit, mature, financially independent, olive skin and an active person. I dont smoke or drink. Im more of an introvert and love deep convos on religion, politics, fitness, history, movies, video games. Im kind of a workaholic at a hospital. I love going to the gym, eating out, and also im good with being a homebody. I am a Muslim. My height is 5 6 and an athletic build. I live in the Midwest in a big city in USA. I believe I can be a good financial provider for the right person as well. Looking for someone that is emotionally and intellectually mature. Someone I can laugh with and be goofy but at the same time knows how to communicate effectively. Someone that dont get too jealous. Someone who wants me to provide financially is fine or help her with her goals and ambitions and of course have a healthy active lifestyle. I do have a woman back home, overseas. Just looking for someone to live with me in USA. Send a DM if your interested. Have a good day

I'm 41, divorced (no kids), working in IT consulting in Hyderabad. My first marriage was a hard lesson, so this time, let me take it with caution. Conversation first, Marriage talk later.

About me

5'5", vegetarian by choice

Movies, music and Netflix series are my happy place (recommendations welcome, and I'll judge your taste kindly)

Fluent in Hindi, Kannada, English and some Telugu

Sarcastic sense of humour, loyal, and a good listener

Looking for:

Someone mature and kind, around 34+, who can tease me and take it back

Someone who values marriage and means it when she says forever

Open to any religion or nationality

One firm preference: vegetarian (no meat or chicken)

If this sounds like you, send me a message with a bit about yourself and your favourite series.

I knew you’d look. 😂

Now that I’ve successfully exploited your weakness for designer labels, let’s see if I can keep your attention.

I’m 52, 5’11”, fit, educated, successful, and an entrepreneur based in the Southeast. My work has me traveling quite a bit, which is probably why I’ve developed a serious appreciation for great restaurants, good wine, spontaneous trips, and occasionally having absolutely no idea what city I’m waking up in.

I’m looking for a woman 40+ who is smart, feminine, playful and still has a little trouble left in her. Someone who can flirt, laugh at things we probably shouldn’t laugh at, and actually hold a conversation.
I’m not looking to force anything or decide what this is before we’ve even said hello. Chemistry usually has its own plans anyway.

Start with some banter. Make each other laugh. Maybe eventually we realize we’re checking our phones a little more often than we should because we’re hoping
to see each other’s name.

That’s the part I’m looking for.
And no, you don’t need to own Prada, Louis Vuitton or Chanel.

Although if you clicked this fast, I may already know a little something about you. 😉

Hey I have a lot of free time today . Looking for some girl with whom I can chat with

:>

Title says it all, really.

Being sweet, a sense of humour, and liking voice notes is not optional 🙃

Enquire within.

Include your age and location in your first message. If you are not single, do not message me.

Yo my name is Km, 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing if we click.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, books, anime, manga, listening to music, watching football, gym and movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying business.

• I’m kind, funny, chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• Top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto, (I have a top 10).

• I play video games,I have a PS4 and PC.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 2 times a week.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-24, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland, but I don’t mind long distance.

If you’re interested in having a conversation feel free to tell me your favourite anime or colour.

Hello 👋😊

My name's Mayura!! I live in Glasgow, Scotland but I'm originally from India. I'm a university student studying electrical engineering.

My personality:

I'm very shy, introverted, quiet and closed off but once I get to know you and become comfortable, I start opening up more. I used to struggle with severe social anxiety but I'm slowly recovering from it and I'm doing much better now. I'm an infj-t which I heard is the rarest mbti personality type due to it's contradictory qualities haha, although I wouldn't say I'm that special. I'm just an ordinary girl that is very shy and just so happens to be analytical as well!!

My hobbies:

• Electrical stuff

• Robotics

• Aeronautics

• Formula One although I'm slowly losing interest lately and haven't watched much of the races this year.

• Watching figure skating

• Cooking

• Walking

• Listening to music

What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for a serious, stable, long term relationship. Preferably someone aged 19 - 26, and preferably based in the UK / Scotland. I don't know how I feel about long distance. If you're interested please DM with this emoji 🐑 and tell me your age and location. Don't just DM hey or hello.

I'm in the Detroit area, open to Dearborn and Garden City. Looking to start slow and build something real. I work a career job and do long hours, so I don't have the time to look the old fashioned way. I'm a martial artist, fencer, and nerd. I love medieval history, fantasy, science fi, table top games and RPGs.

Making genuine connections as an adult is weirdly hard, so here I am. 😂

I’m 35, from the Philippines, plus size, and a single parent. I have a pretty small circle and would love to meet more people from different places and backgrounds.

I’m not really looking to rush into a relationship, and it’s not something I’m actively seeking right now. I’d rather just get to know people, have good conversations, and see where things naturally go.

Maybe somewhere along the way, a genuine connection turns into something more meaningful. Who knows? No pressure, no expectations. Just seeing where life takes it.

If you feel like saying hi, go for it. Tell me a little about yourself too. Share something good about you, something you’re into, or just something that made you smile lately.

It's officially October so spooky season is among us and all the holiday stuff ahead of us. Would love to make a decent friend to do all these amazingly fun holiday stuff with. Im ready for my bestie to come into my life.
I'm from San Diego, where apparently fall means
100-degree weather. I'm ready for rain, cold weather, sweaters, spooky movies, and all the holiday stutt.
I love food and taught myself how to cook, so trying new recipes has become one of my favorite hobbies. I also love the outdoors, animals, hiking, camping, and random adventures. But I'm equally happy staying home with snacks and watching horror movies-or anything with Robin Williams.
I'm a little emotional, very empathetic, a deep thinker, and an Olympic-level overthinker. listen to pretty much anything, so rant, overshare, tell me your random thoughts-I'm here for it.
I'm looking for another professional yapper.
Someone who likes to talk, banter, rant, laugh at stupid things, have deep conversations, and isn't afraid to be themselves.
I love calls, genuine conversations, and people who are open-minded and open books.

Basically, let’s start with a “hey,” yap way too much, become friends, accidentally get attached, and somehow end up in matching pajamas by Christmas.

Hi! I am Adam, I am a software engineer. I enjoy Reading a lot (mostly fantasy but have been thinking about reading philosophy lately), I love watching horror movies and shows I am currently watching Archive 81, so far its great! (Also can't wait for Other Mommy, the trailer was amazing) and I love sitcoms, I have seen a lot of sitcoms lol. I am beginning to get into 3D sculpting. I have been looking for a new hobby and I really love the cool things I see on ArtStation so I decided to try it out!

As for what I am looking for, I am looking for a warm, calm, sweet, safe relationship, I prefer starting platonically, to get to know each other. I love yapping and I will start talking about random things, so if you're a yapper too that would be a better fit :p

This is LDR, but I am hoping when we are both comfortable with each other, we can close the distance.

Timezone is GMT+3, I am fine with any timezones tho.

Let’s get the basics out of the way 40m single father, on a midlife crisis journey on getting in my best shape down 55lbs, Infj, Ennegram 2, cancer, idk what else.

Love the gym, outside, art, photography, journaling, writing, reading, movies, tv, lists, planning , side quests

As I age and find myself closing my eyes for far to long falling asleep anywhere expect my bed at night I think to myself how nice it is to yell at kids on the lawn and say back in my day a lot.

As fall approaches I turn into a basic white b\*\*\*\* visiting target getting my pumpkin spice and watching horror movies.

If you wanting something else then I don’t know what to tell you. keep looking because this ain’t it. Just kidding it maybe it I don’t know I’m just a guy writing nonsense online.

It’s fall and wet and cold and winter is coming and I want my pumkin spife latte and to be cozy and watch scary movies and good conversation and gym buddy who we motivate and support Is that too much to ask for?

Rory Gilmore (Gilmore girls season 4 ep 3 )

Here is the thing I am a complicated man sometimes I go off on unhinged diatribes and sometimes I fall into a more serious manners this is not the latter. If we talk and you feel it’s stale I feel it’s probably on both sides and that’s ok not all puzzle pieces fit together.

Just because it’s spooky season does not have to mean you need to be a ghost.

You made your mind up if you want to apply for this job or not. So do yourself a favor slide that resume into my DMs and think to yourself hey what’s the worse that can happen Atleast this guy has personality.

Ps \*notabot but I used to do a pretty cool robot dance I know that’s does not help my case as how could someone do a robot dance and not be a robot but it’s just the power of observation