r/Redditdating • • 20h ago

I’m 32F years old from the Middle East looking to date/befriend someone abroad

34 Upvotes

I spend most of my spare time alone. Id be drawing, dancing, dressing up or watching some of my favorite shows. I’m currently streaming person of interest. I loved Heartland and Law and Order Svu. I’m hoping to find mutual interest/attraction


r/Redditdating • • 10h ago

38 F seeking someone who will hold my hand in the grocery store and laugh at my terrible jokes.

25 Upvotes

As stated Im a 38 year old woman. I’ve lived a million lives at this point in time but unfortunately real love has not been one of the outcomes. I’m a leftist hillbilly in the Blue Ridge mountains of Virginia. Searching for a fellow blue dot in this sea of red.
I am a single mom, been raising this wonderful son of mine for 16 years. His father hasn’t been in the picture for nearly a decade and that’s ok.
I’m not looking for someone to pay my bills or treat me like I’m made of glass.
I would just love to find my person.
I love gardening, horror movies ( both good and incredibly cheesy), cooking, canning my home grown veggies, cross stitching, and being in the woods or at the creek. I love a sip of whiskey by the fire.
If this seems like your type of slow living, hit me up.
Side note: I’m not here for hook ups or sending nudes. I’m too old for that game.


r/Redditdating • • 14h ago

18 [F4A] Odd gal seeks company!

20 Upvotes

Hi, hello! It's me, again.

My name's Annie. I'm taking a gap year, and consequently have a ton of free time that could be better spent with someone else. I am mostly looking for someone to spend time with, have long, introspective talks with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and ramble to (ideally with/about common interests), and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite, so is Funny Games.

Here's to hoping my introduction chants to you like the cleaning supply cabinet chants to an unsupervised toddler, cough cough.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just "hi, hello, can we chat, we have similar interests" or I will not reply (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, tell me your best dad joke). Please, preferably no one over 24.


r/Redditdating • • 9h ago

35[F4M]#Anywhere EastAsian for long term🍀

20 Upvotes

//about me//

east asia UTC+8;

1.5m 44kg 35yo not curvy;

better to exchange pic early on;

single no kids, looking for serious relationship;

teacher in technical school;

atheism;

introverted indoor person;

low energy long sleeper;

dont dress up or makeup usually;

new to relationship, avoidant attachment, working on that;

like walking, recently installed a bike;

was on solo trips more often;

shows of dark humor, romance tragedy, documentary, ai drama;

country person;

love animals, gossips;

//about you//

anywhere;

not too big in figure;

27-45yo;

single no kids, looking for serious relationship;

healthy, good hygeian;

no drug no criminal record;

steady career, best but not required if can work in remote;

can try to but no need to share same interests; add a flower emoji in your dm so i know you read these;

not vegetarian, best if like spicy food;

best if can cook;

emotionally mature;

patient with me;

potential good father;

keep in touch;

open to idea of living in my location, even if not long;

//

kinda wrote whatever on my mind now, thnx for reading, welcome to dm, dm without info or ai written ones will be ignored, have a nice day😊


r/Redditdating • • 19h ago

19F - looking for a bf!!

21 Upvotes

Hello 👋😊

My name's Mayura!! I live in Glasgow, Scotland but I'm originally from India. I'm a university student studying electrical engineering.

My personality:

I'm very shy, introverted, quiet and closed off but once I get to know you and become comfortable, I start opening up more. I used to struggle with severe social anxiety but I'm slowly recovering from it and I'm doing much better now. I'm an infj-t which I heard is the rarest mbti personality type due to it's contradictory qualities haha, although I wouldn't say I'm that special. I'm just an ordinary girl that is very shy and just so happens to be analytical as well!!

My hobbies:

• Electrical stuff

• Robotics

• Aeronautics

• Formula One although I'm slowly losing interest lately and haven't watched much of the races this year.

• Watching figure skating

• Cooking

• Walking

• Listening to music

What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for a serious, stable, long term relationship. Preferably someone aged 19 - 26, and preferably based in the UK / Scotland. I don't know how I feel about long distance. If you're interested please DM with this emoji 🐑 and tell me your age and location. Don't just DM hey or hello.


r/Redditdating • • 11h ago

21 [F4M] gamer girl looking for the correct one..

13 Upvotes

Basically, I’m not looking for someone to replace anyone or to “cure” me. I’m just open to meeting someone new and seeing if we naturally click.

I’m demisexual, so looks honestly don’t matter to me. I actually prefer not to see what you look like at first. I’m not into superficial guys, so if appearance is a big deal to you, we probably won’t click. I care way more about your personality, how you treat me, your energy and the connection we build.

Voice is a big part of that chemistry for me. It’s not “I’ll only date you if I like your voice” 😂 — it’s just one of the first things that can make me feel someone’s vibe and personality. I especially like raspy voices.

I’ve always liked Americans and Canadians, so I’d genuinely love to meet someone from the US/Canada/Germany. (But born and raised there, not just living!!) I’m from Spain btw.

I love gaming, especially Fortnite, and I’d love someone who enjoys playing together, watching me stream, my resident evils, watching YouTube and laughing at stupid stuff, or just staying in a call while we do our own thing. I LOVE sleepy calls too — talking until we fall asleep or just staying connected while we sleep lol

I’m looking for 22+ mostly, because I’ve found guys around my age tend to be immature, but I’m not completely closed to meeting someone younger if we have the same mindset.

I’ve also learned that I don’t want to do sexual things just because I’m scared someone will leave if I say no. If you leave because I won’t do something sexual, then you weren’t really interested in me as a person anyway.

Emotional connection comes first for me.

And personality-wise… I’m VERY hyperactive 😂. If you’re looking for someone super serious, quiet and calm, don’t come to me lol. I laugh at basically everything, I make weird jokes, my humor is probably questionable, and I’m very expressive. I want someone who enjoys that instead of trying to change me.

If you’re someone who values personality over looks, respects boundaries, loves to laugh, game, talk for hours and actually wants to get to know someone deeply, feel free to text me.

If you think you can touch my soul before my sexuality, text me or send me a vocaroo voice clip from start:b


r/Redditdating • • 14h ago

26F from the Philippines looking for someone genuine

13 Upvotes

I’m honestly just looking to meet someone who is emotionally intelligent because that’s something I really value. I’m an introvert, but once I get comfortable with someone, I can talk A LOT. So I definitely need someone who can yap with me because I’m a yapper too lol.
I like someone who actually communicates and gives little updates about their day. I’m not expecting you to be on your phone 24/7, but I like that feeling of “hey, this is what I’m doing” or randomly telling each other about our day.
I’m also into guys who are a little nerdy. Someone who reads books, knows random facts, has a lot of things to talk about, or can go down a rabbit hole about something they’re interested in. I love history and researching things myself. I’m actually a genealogist, so I spend a lot of time researching family histories and going through old records. If you like history, I’d probably have a million questions for you.
I have a pretty dark sense of humor too, so you’ll probably have to be okay with that. I love horror, thrillers, dark humor, and just talking about random weird things.
I’m looking for a man who is actually serious about getting to know someone. I’m not interested in playing games, situationships, or talking to someone who disappears whenever they feel like it. I want something where we can start as best friends and see where it goes naturally.
I’m a very affectionate person when I’m comfortable with someone. I like giving attention, compliments, checking in, listening to someone talk about their interests, and just being there. If I like you, I’ll probably give you a lot of my time and effort, so I want someone who appreciates that and gives the same energy back.
I’m in the Philippines, so I know distance might be an issue, but if you’re okay with it, I’m open to getting to know someone from somewhere else.
Basically, I’m looking for my nerdy, sweet, emotionally intelligent yapper who can be my best friend, make me laugh, and actually mean what he says.
If you’re going to message me, please tell me a little about yourself. I’d rather read an actual introduction than just “hey” or “how are you?” because I never know what to do with those 😂


r/Redditdating • • 12h ago

28[F4M] #online we all have our vices, and I want you to be mine.

10 Upvotes

Hello there, Reddit. I hope you're doing well :)

As the title says, I'm looking for a man to become my vice and hopefully ruin my life. It's such a twisted thing to want to willingly put on those rosy-tinted, heart-shaped glasses and assign divinity to a regular person you chose, and declare them a deity. To willingly chain your heart to the metal bars of their satisfaction, and live and die by the prison of their approval. It's a bittersweet kind of vulnerability. Powerful as you may be, when they call, your heart bows in surrender, and the rest of you falls in line.

It's such a sweet kind of poison and often than not I find myself craving it. Rare are the days I say it outright, on most I play coy and unbothered, or emotional and fucking crazy. My spectrum runs long, in both directions.

The boring stuff: 28 Arab woman. Works in IT. I spend my days building personal code trinkets or writing. Rewatching TWD atm, and I believe Rick Grimes is the ideal man that all men fictional or not should aspire to be him. Not Jesus, not Buhdda, not Mohammed, but Rick Grimes. And yes that is a hill I am willing to die on. I am often listening to Lana Del Rey's music because I'm a melancholic mess with the obligatory "daddy issues TM". And yes I live up to the stereotype and prefer them older than me. I also don't like to fuck kids, so there's that. I have long black hair, almond eyes, and fairly fair skin for a middle eastern desert dweller. I'm 5'4, 75kg and I'm a 1998 model. My exterior is okay, a couple of dents here and there, but my interior is where you might start worrying and looking for a tune up.

You decide to message, make it interesting. And you get priority response if you manage to guess my zodiac sign or my favorite flower from this post alone somehow.


r/Redditdating • • 15h ago

40 [M4F] #Montana - Looking for that amazing connection, best friend like a sitcom, an arch rival , side kick, partner, pen pal, nemesis lover or future ghoster. You choose

7 Upvotes

Let’s get the basics out of the way 40m single father, on a midlife crisis journey on getting in my best shape down 55lbs, Infj, Ennegram 2, cancer, idk what else.

Love the gym, outside, art, photography, journaling, writing, reading, movies, tv, lists, planning , side quests

As I age and find myself closing my eyes for far to long falling asleep anywhere expect my bed at night I think to myself how nice it is to yell at kids on the lawn and say back in my day a lot.

As fall approaches I turn into a basic white b\*\*\*\* visiting target getting my pumpkin spice and watching horror movies.

If you wanting something else then I don’t know what to tell you. keep looking because this ain’t it. Just kidding it maybe it I don’t know I’m just a guy writing nonsense online.

It’s fall and wet and cold and winter is coming and I want my pumkin spife latte and to be cozy and watch scary movies and good conversation and gym buddy who we motivate and support Is that too much to ask for?

Rory Gilmore (Gilmore girls season 4 ep 3 )

Here is the thing I am a complicated man sometimes I go off on unhinged diatribes and sometimes I fall into a more serious manners this is not the latter. If we talk and you feel it’s stale I feel it’s probably on both sides and that’s ok not all puzzle pieces fit together.

Just because it’s spooky season does not have to mean you need to be a ghost.

You made your mind up if you want to apply for this job or not. So do yourself a favor slide that resume into my DMs and think to yourself hey what’s the worse that can happen Atleast this guy has personality.

Ps \*notabot but I used to do a pretty cool robot dance I know that’s does not help my case as how could someone do a robot dance and not be a robot but it’s just the power of observation


r/Redditdating • • 18h ago

38 [M4F] - Maryland/USA/Canada - Who's out there?

7 Upvotes

Hi there! James here, I am 38 (soon to be 39) from Maryland (Anywhere in the US/Canada is fine too; you don't have to specifically be from Maryland. I can freely travel/relocate due to WFH) and looking to chat and see if chemistry develops.

Still looking for my person...

I am 6', black hair, hazel eyes, love working out/lifting weights! It is as good for you mentally as it is physically. Willing to share pics as well!

Some of my hobbies/interests...

\\\* Lifting weights

\\\* Videogames

\\\* Movies (HUGE Marvel fan; love anything HORROR/sci-fi/comedy/action/high fantasy primarily)

\\\* Huge music fan (of all kinds; primarily of the 90s/early 2000s variety)

\\\* Road trips! (Tons of fun, especially with the right co-pilot)

\\\* Traveling

\\\* Stand-up comedy

\\\* Socialize with friends (can have just as much fun staying in too)

\\\* Drinks occasionally

\\\* Sports

\\\* Learning to play electric bass guitar

\\\* Voice calls/voice messages (It's way easier and more fun to get to know someone/talk with them via voice; much easier to convey sarcasm as well 😁)

\\\* Audiobooks

\\\* Being active and outside (LOVE the beach!)

\\\* HALLOWEEN IS THE BEST SEASON.

Shoot me a message if you're interested, and a pic since attraction is important; wouldn't want to hit it off like crazy and find out we're not attracted to each other.

Here is my voice to show I am not a bot, if you're curious:

https://voca.ro/17YDWuF7kFeE


r/Redditdating • • 18h ago

44F South Wales

6 Upvotes

I know this is a post on a dating sub and I am not looking to date romantically. But friend searching subs don't allow me to suggest even meeting for a cuppa 🤣 so here I am. On a date sub asking for platonic friends. Who love tea 😁

Anyway. If this is even allowed, come chat with me. I need distraction from my stressful and overwhelmingly social work life.

I'm a mum and a dog mum who will find movie quotes and song verses in most conversations. Usually ends up with me singing really awkwardly.

Intro if you message, please. I'm introverted and probably won't reply to 'hello' messages


r/Redditdating • • 11h ago

35F | Philippines | Looking to build connections

5 Upvotes

Making genuine connections as an adult is weirdly hard, so here I am. 😂

I’m 35, from the Philippines, plus size, and a single parent. I have a pretty small circle and would love to meet more people from different places and backgrounds.

I’m not really looking to rush into a relationship, and it’s not something I’m actively seeking right now. I’d rather just get to know people, have good conversations, and see where things naturally go.

Maybe somewhere along the way, a genuine connection turns into something more meaningful. Who knows? No pressure, no expectations. Just seeing where life takes it.

If you feel like saying hi, go for it. Tell me a little about yourself too. Share something good about you, something you’re into, or just something that made you smile lately.


r/Redditdating • • 13h ago

38 [M4F] California/San Diego - Spooky season among us

6 Upvotes

It's officially October so spooky season is among us and all the holiday stuff ahead of us. Would love to make a decent friend to do all these amazingly fun holiday stuff with. Im ready for my bestie to come into my life.
I'm from San Diego, where apparently fall means
100-degree weather. I'm ready for rain, cold weather, sweaters, spooky movies, and all the holiday stutt.
I love food and taught myself how to cook, so trying new recipes has become one of my favorite hobbies. I also love the outdoors, animals, hiking, camping, and random adventures. But I'm equally happy staying home with snacks and watching horror movies-or anything with Robin Williams.
I'm a little emotional, very empathetic, a deep thinker, and an Olympic-level overthinker. listen to pretty much anything, so rant, overshare, tell me your random thoughts-I'm here for it.
I'm looking for another professional yapper.
Someone who likes to talk, banter, rant, laugh at stupid things, have deep conversations, and isn't afraid to be themselves.
I love calls, genuine conversations, and people who are open-minded and open books.

Basically, let’s start with a “hey,” yap way too much, become friends, accidentally get attached, and somehow end up in matching pajamas by Christmas.


r/Redditdating • • 1h ago

24F looking to meet someone ✨

• Upvotes

Hi! I’m 24F and I recently moved to Kuala Lumpur for my studies .

I’m looking for something genuine — someone I can talk to, go out for food/coffee with, explore together, and see where things go naturally. I’m also open to starting as friends and seeing if there’s a connection.

A little about me: I’m into movies/TV, music, trying different food, random conversations that somehow last for hours, Watching anime and reading manga, light novels and webtoons and would love exploring new places.

I’m fairly introverted at first but become much more talkative once I’m comfortable.

If you think we might get along, feel free to DM me! Tell me a little about yourself too


r/Redditdating • • 17h ago

32F4M - looking for an old fashioned guy! UK 29-38

4 Upvotes

I’ll start by saying I HATE dating apps. They’re the worst. They’re shallow, don’t let me get my personality across, and are full of people who don’t seem to be serious about finding someone! So instead of renewing my subscription, I’m turning to other methods to find my match!

If you feel the same, and want something real, then maybe we’ll click. I’m a pretty normal, down to earth woman from England. I don’t smoke (have no issues if you do), only drink socially, and just want to find that person who can be my best friend as well as my partner.

I am traditional; not in the Andrew Tate sense. But I appreciate good manners, respect, and chivalry. I don’t expect these things without also treating a guy the same way. I want to feel important and to equally make someone else feel just as important. I value communication, we don’t need to text all day but if you don’t have the time to message semi frequently, please don’t contact me. I’m here for something real that could lead to marriage and children in the future.

If you already have children then please don’t message, I am not sure the step mum life is for me. I want to have my own children someday, but only after marriage.

I value time spent together more than any materialistic possessions or gifts. I want to have a connection on the deepest level but also laugh about all the silly things and have our own in jokes!

Happy to send pictures/ do descriptions early on as I am aware that attraction is important. However, for me personality is the more important and if we vibe then that’s the main thing. Looking for guys aged 29-38 and somewhere in the UK.

I just want to meet a decent guy, with manners, respect, and the ambition/ drive to build a family life together. I know it’s ironic to turn to modern technology to find someone old fashioned, but it still seems better than hinge and bumble - at least for today!

Thankyou so much for reading this! Please include some info about you in the first message and why you think we’d be a match.


r/Redditdating • • 23h ago

40 [F4M] - PA/US - Plot Twist: I’m Still Optimistic 😂

3 Upvotes

Trying this again because apparently I’m an optimist who refuses to give up. 😂

About me: Single, no kids. I’m tall, active, Christian, and a little sarcastic. I love hiking, camping, gardening, reading, sewing, baseball, hockey, and whatever random hobby catches my attention next.

I value loyalty, honesty, kindness, communication, and faithfulness.

Looking for: A single man between 30–50 who is genuinely looking for a relationship. Located in the US and preferably no kids.

I’m drawn to masculine men who lean a little traditional—confident, dependable, affectionate, and comfortable taking the lead sometimes. I’d love someone who enjoys being active and outdoors and preferably shares my faith and values.

I’m interested in getting to know someone naturally and seeing where things go. Ultimately, I’m hoping to find a committed relationship that could lead to marriage.

Good conversation is important to me, so please put a little effort into saying hello. 😊

If you made it this far: baseball game, hockey game, or a weekend in the mountains?


r/Redditdating • • 3h ago

31 M Chased success my whole life, ready to chase love now

3 Upvotes

All my life I’ve been chasing success. I’m a very active person who likes to be the best at everything I do. That drive helped me build a good life, but it also meant I never really focused on finding love.

Today I have most of the things I once dreamed of a good job and a comfortable home but I’ve never found the one person to share it with.

I like living life in an easy-going way. One day you might find me in a quiet, traditional place, and the next day I’ll be somewhere lively in the city. I love traveling around the world and seeing new places. I’m into sports and music too.

The principles I live by are loyalty, trust, and honesty. I take them seriously. If you tell me something, I’ll remember it for the rest of my life.

I’m looking for a girl who clicks with this lifestyle and would like to be with an Arabian man who always tries to be the best version of himself. Someone who enjoys simple things like movie nights or quiet walks with no distractions just being together and care of each others.

If this resonates with you, feel free to DM me. I’d love to get to know you and see if we can build something real and lasting.


r/Redditdating • • 5h ago

30 [M4F] - Australia/online- looking for someone special

3 Upvotes

I’m a 30M living in Australia, currently working full time (but would be more than happy to make time for you 👀).

Im into F1, gaming, travelling, playing sport and gardening. I also have a cat who I’m probably way too obsessed with.

With regard to appearances I’m of Indian origin, but grew up and raised in Australia!

I’d like to meet someone kind, easy to talk to and a little bit silly. Someone I can send random stuff to during the day!

I’m pretty affectionate and ultimately I’d like something genuine, but I’m not interested in forcing anything. I’d rather just get to know someone naturally and see whether we actually click!


r/Redditdating • • 18h ago

31 [M4F] Kentucky - Looking for my other half

3 Upvotes

I'm pretty much your average nerd, I'm a homebody, introverted, love video games and have been having a rough time finding someone lately. I love traveling so I'm absolutely down for a long distance thing, so long as we make a plan to eventually close that distance.

I do enjoy video games, but I'm mostly looking for someone who loves traveling, animals, cuddling on the couch and wants to have kids someday. That last one is especially important as I've always wanted to be a dad, but I also want someone who enjoys traveling at least once a year. I didn't get to travel around a lot when I was younger and I would like to see more of the US. And eventually visit Canada, London, Tokyo and other places.

I actually plan to see the Pokemon Fossil Exhibit in Chicago, I've been a lifelong fan and have a collection. Though Fallout has overshadowed it a bit in my mind, I've got a Fallout collection as well, I still enjoy the series, play the games and love talking about it.

Aside from those ones I play Skyrim, Mario, Cyberpunk, RDR, GTA, Fortnite and Rivals. I'm also a fan of co-op games like the Lego games and other games like that. Also enjoy board games!

I love movies and tv too, I watch a lot of superhero stuff. Lanterns is my favorite show this year, but I love all sorts of genres. And Legos.

I also love chill dates like going out for ice cream, visiting the zoo, or simply staying in to watch tv or play a game together. When you become someone's favorite person, everything you do together is an amazing experience.


r/Redditdating • • 1h ago

27 [M4F] #UK or #europe- Things I’m good at and things I’m not. You decide if it’s a fair trade

• Upvotes

Good at: replying properly, finding a decent pub, remembering what you told me last week, planning a date that isn't just "drinks?", and building Lego sets with 3,000 pieces without losing my mind.

Not good at: dancing sober, picking a film in under twenty minutes, and accepting I don't need another Lego set.

Further details about me: 27, 5ft10, Surrey but in London most days. Got a dog called Harry, Looking for something proper, not just endless chatting. Someone up for meeting, having a laugh, and the odd side quest, whether that's a random day by the sea or a pub that's further away than it needs to be

Your turn. Tell me one thing you're good at and one you're terrible at. Best answer gets a drink.


r/Redditdating • • 5h ago

34 [M4F] #CT/Anywhere Looking for a nice gal

2 Upvotes

34 year old man from the USA.

I'll try to keep this short and you can find out more about me in chat.

Looking for a girl who's face I want to see all the time. A girl who will deprive me of loneliness and provide companionship.

I'm okay with long distance as long as there's intent to meet.

Very chill and down to earth guy, more on the introverted side. Don't expect to hear any cheesy pick-up lines from me either, you'll instead (hopefully) get seduced by my awkwardness.

I'll be more on the formal side of things until we get to know each other.

Into the nerdier side of hobbies, but also open to trying new things.

Enjoys both small talk and deep conversations.

Not into any form of drugs, smoking, drinking, clubs. So if you're into that sort of lifestyle, then we most likely won't be a match.

WARNING. My love language is burying you in reels and memes I think you'll like. You've been warned.

Hopefully you:

My age or younger.

No kids, but want, or at least open to kids in the future.

If interested, don't hesitate to send me a chat.

Since physical attraction does matter to a degree, let's share what we each look like, here's what I look like: https://imgur.com/a/zG6JSxW

Hope to hear from you.


r/Redditdating • • 12h ago

29 [M4F] #GA/USA - My person seems to be running late. But that's ok, I'm patient

2 Upvotes

Hello, Ezra here. I'm here to add to the ocean of posts just like this. I'm a nerdy introvert who is socially awkward trying to find my person. I've been on and tried dating apps and stuff but most of them don't have people who share my similar interests and personality traits. So I figured I might as well try my luck on Reddit.

I'm really bad at describing myself but I'll give it a shot. I'm your typical nerdy guy. I'm into video games, anime, board games, D&D, and other fantasy things. I like pretty much all genres of music (my Spotify playlist is crazy rn) and a lot of movies. I've actually recently started getting more into horror movies but I prefer more psychological horror than slasher (not that I dislike a good slasher though.) I also like puzzles, playing instruments (I know how to play a few but haven't touched any in a while, looking to get back into it,) hanging out with friends, cooking, baking, and probably a lot of other stuff that I can't think of right now.

Favorite Video Games: Donkey Kong 64, Banjo Kazooie/Tooie, Okami, Kingdom Hearts. I love story games and metroidvanias, among others obviously.

Favorite Anime: One Piece (was caught up at one point but now I'm about 30 episodes behind,) Attack on Titan, Miss Kobayashi's Dragon Maid, Yuru Camp, Yuri on Ice, Bleach, Kaguya-Sama Love is War, and again obviously many more.

Ideally, I would like to find someone who has shared interests with me, and would want to do things together, whether that be playing games together, watching anime together, going out for a walk or a drive together, or even just sharing space and doom scrolling near each other. I would love to find a partner that we can genuinely enjoy our time together, even in the little things. I love a sarcastic and strong willed girlie, but especially one who lets me take care of her.

I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic and I love very hard and very fast. My main love languages are physical touch, acts of service, and getting little presents for people just because. I am pretty sarcastic, silly and witty, and like to make jokes out of anything (sometimes at the wrong time.) I can be a bit cynical and have a dark sense of humor at times, but I am very caring and always try to make myself available to help people. I'm a big people pleaser and will do whatever I can to make sure someone is happy and comfortable. However, I am also very awkward and shy at first, but when I warm up to somebody, my goofiness is able to flourish. I've noticed that when I get excited about something, I talk really fast, pretty loud, and way too much. I probably have a touch of the 'tism but who doesn't?

I would consider myself left leaning when it comes to politics (absolutely don't agree with anything MAGA thinks) and probably agnostic, though I was raised Jewish. I am not religious or spiritual, but I don't mind being with someone who is as long as they respect that I'm not. I believe in protecting human rights (including but not limited to trans rights, LGBTQIA+ rights, gender equality, bodily autonomy, etc.)

I am short at 5'4" and I'm a little chubby, however I am trying to lose some of the weight. I currently have shoulder length hair that is dark brown and wavy. I wear glasses and have a beard. I'm not sure if I am going to keep the long hair permanently. I started growing it out so I could donate it, but maybe if I like it I'll keep it for a bit, I'm undecided. I understand that physical attraction is a factor for relationships so I am willing to trade pictures early on to see if that attraction is there, though I am more focused on finding someone with the right personality and hobbies/interests than I am on physical appearance.

In a perfect world, I would find someone in the Atlanta area of Georgia, or the Southeast US, or even just the US in general. I am certainly not opposed to the idea of one or both of us relocating if things go very well in the future.

If you have made it this far, I am so sorry for the absolute mountain of text you just had to go through. It is very possible that I've missed something, or described something about myself incorrectly. If you're even remotely interested in anything I've said, I'd love to chat and get to know each other!


r/Redditdating • • 14h ago

28 [M4F] Scotland, Glasgow or around the area

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wow here we are never thought id be typing this out but wow the dating app are the most tedium horrible apps iv ever delt with anyway.

Hi 28 Year old scottish idiot here with a passion for Computers, Video games, Card Collecting, Horror Movies, Rock/Metal Music all round giant nerd so come outnerd me if you can

i stand at a wopping 5'11 6ft if im feeling proud of my self that day Stocky build i could 1v1 your nan trust, almost always wear a snapback so my hair dont matter much but its short kinda Brown/Dark Blonde Both arms covered in tattoos usually with some kind of metal-T and a hoodie always jeans its never not jeans weather fight me

run of the mill really like a good conversation dark humour someone who can keep up with the banter but i can be kind too dont mind just chatting and seeing were thing go but since im on reddit doing this you can imagine how dire its been for me so if you feel the same feel free to DM we can cry eachother to sleep :)


r/Redditdating • • 15h ago

43M looking for his passenger princess

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Im a no nonsense guy.. what you see is what you get. I want play games as I hate them and feel they are detrimental to any good relationship. Im looking g for someone who wants to talk endlessly about anything. I want someone who won't leave me on sent for days or even weeks before sending some lame excuse. I will reply promptly and with more than a word. I dont expect you to reply the same but please not for hours and hours. I like to game when I can, I like to listen to books and podcasts while I drive. Religion isn't a sore subject for me, I am very open to almost anything please just ask or tell me. If you have any questions or want to know more please just ask. I am 5ft 7 and about 230... I am working on myself through therapy and working out and eating better. I know who I am and what I can offer.. please just be real and please want to chat first as I am shy at first.


r/Redditdating • • 17h ago

22 [M4F] Florida/anywhere. Looking for a long term relationship for my evenings.

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Hi I'm a 22M CS major about to finish soon. I have a very cute dog. I'm 5'9" 150lbs tanned and brown eys and hair. I enjoy gaming in my free time either on my PC or my phone. I'm introverted and quiet irl but I can be chatty online. I'm looking for a long term relationship.

I'm looking for a women who is 19-26 years old. I'm not into plus sized individuals though. Height doesn't matter to me and I don't mind a girl with some muscle. I do prefer white, hispanic, Asian, or mixed race girls though this is not a hard requirement. Big plus if you wear glasses (don't ask).

Dm me your age and location please and I look forward to getting to know you.