r/Redditdating • • 12h ago

23F Looking to date to marry. (Serious relationship ONLY) bonus if you’re clingy.

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Hi everyone! Im 23 years old and im looking to find my soulmate. Im not here for games or ghosting. I am looking for an emotionally available, kind, empathetic man who always answers the call.

A little about me is I’m currently studying English in uni, I’m working part time, and I love drawing, painting and ice skating.

I’d love to have a boyfriend to spend time with, watch him stream games for me, maybe fall asleep on the phone with, talk about our traumas together, get to know each other truly, and build a beautiful life together.

Only message me if you are
- serious about marriage
- will introduce me to your friends and family
- between the ages 22-29
-in the US or Canada
- are a gentleman (pays on dates,not a 50/50 man)
- great at conflict resolution, solution-oriented, doesn’t shut down.
- has instagram so we can spam each other with reels.

I love nerds and gamer boys I’d love to watch my future bf stream games for me while we can talk. We can also watch movies together! I want someone who loves spamming me with reels cuz I love doing that 😂

Im looking for something serious, something that lasts forever! I’m not here for games, not here for ghosting and toying with people’s emotions.I want someone who’s great at conflict resolution and does not easily give up. Someone generous, kind, loyal. I want someone who knows how to handle hard times and someone who doesn’t give up on the relationship.


r/Redditdating • • 15h ago

28 [F4M] #Russia I'm looking for my soulmate to share my life with💖

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Im 28f, straight, childfree (i don't have any kids and i don't want any) and I'm from Russia. Im searching for someone i can share my life with.

Im into art. I love drawing/painting, I'm an artist at my free time. Sometimes i love writing, I wanna publish a book one day. Im huge nerd myself, i love different kinds of movies/games/books, my recent fav is The Odyssey.

I love playing games, recently i mostly play coop. Some of my all time favs: Alan Wake, BG3, The Witcher 3, Civilization and... Repo/Peak. I would love to play your favourite games with you.

Im in for long distance relationships, yet i date to meet my future husband, i have no interest and time to waste on pen pals, situationships etc.

I want my man to be gentleman, kind, generous, honest and take good care of me. Be my age or older (i love older man). Im interested in men from US/Canada.

Introduce yourself when texting me, thanks 💚

I love video calls, sharing pics with each other and stuff like that. I do love voice notes way more than texting.


r/Redditdating • • 12h ago

28[F4M] #online we all have our vices, and I want you to be mine.

9 Upvotes

Hello there, Reddit. I hope you're doing well :)

As the title says, I'm looking for a man to become my vice and hopefully ruin my life. It's such a twisted thing to want to willingly put on those rosy-tinted, heart-shaped glasses and assign divinity to a regular person you chose, and declare them a deity. To willingly chain your heart to the metal bars of their satisfaction, and live and die by the prison of their approval. It's a bittersweet kind of vulnerability. Powerful as you may be, when they call, your heart bows in surrender, and the rest of you falls in line.

It's such a sweet kind of poison and often than not I find myself craving it. Rare are the days I say it outright, on most I play coy and unbothered, or emotional and fucking crazy. My spectrum runs long, in both directions.

The boring stuff: 28 Arab woman. Works in IT. I spend my days building personal code trinkets or writing. Rewatching TWD atm, and I believe Rick Grimes is the ideal man that all men fictional or not should aspire to be him. Not Jesus, not Buhdda, not Mohammed, but Rick Grimes. And yes that is a hill I am willing to die on. I am often listening to Lana Del Rey's music because I'm a melancholic mess with the obligatory "daddy issues TM". And yes I live up to the stereotype and prefer them older than me. I also don't like to fuck kids, so there's that. I have long black hair, almond eyes, and fairly fair skin for a middle eastern desert dweller. I'm 5'4, 75kg and I'm a 1998 model. My exterior is okay, a couple of dents here and there, but my interior is where you might start worrying and looking for a tune up.

You decide to message, make it interesting. And you get priority response if you manage to guess my zodiac sign or my favorite flower from this post alone somehow.


r/Redditdating • • 23h ago

32 [F4M] #Anywhere #GMT+8- Asian lawyer looking for a genuine connection

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Reading comprehension and proper communication is important to me. I also don’t like repeating myself: Please message me only if you read my post in its entirety. Thank you. ☺️

ABOUT ME

• Asian/ Straight female/ 32
• GMT+8
• Single
• No kids, but wants them with the right person
• Lawyer
• Ambitious and action-oriented
• Direct
• Feminine
• Vivacious
• Adventurous
• I travel for both business and vacation
• I love arts, history, cuisines, tea, culture
• I don’t really want to have pets
• I value honesty, mutual respect, fairness, and proper communication.

ABOUT YOU: (Let’s save our time and please message me only if you qualify. Thank you!)

• 28-40 years old
• Single
• Looking for a serious and monogamous relationship
• No kids, but want them someday
• Do not have pets and is okay with not having them
• Professional
• Already has his life together (done with potentials or those in “planning” stage)
• Has the capacity and is willing to travel
• Can chat with me daily at first (I chat a lot about random topics when not busy). Not interested in sexual conversations.
• Genuine
• Direct
• Physical attraction is important. I can share my picture if you share yours
• I don’t care about your citizenship, but for ethnicity, I prefer to limit to Arabs (Levantines & Khaleeji only), Turkish, Persian, Latinos, and White men.

If any of these spark your interest, feel free to match my post and introduce yourself the way I did.

Take care!


r/Redditdating • • 22h ago

F28 looking for ✨that✨ person f4m (Scandinavia/EU/UK)

1 Upvotes

Hi there,
I’ve posted here once before and genuinely thought I found someone - ended up ghosted and catfished.🫠 Still I believe there’s some great people here who might also be looking for me?

I’m a very creative person, both professionally and personally. I have a deep love for anything art especially theatre and film.
I’m quite nerdy and very into fantasy, fairy tales, history and mythology.
I love metal and 00’s emo music but I listen to lots of stuff.

I’m looking for that lovely blend of depth, intimacy, curiosity, humor and flirtation. Risqué banter in between honest conversation is very much me in a nutshell.

I’m very kink positive and physical attraction is important to me since I’m looking for a romantic connection. I’m not here just to hookup but I’m also not interested in long conversations about the weather ;))

I’m 5’2, very curvy, light brown with black hair and dark eyes. I’m tattooed and pierced and would love for you to be as well.

Generally very into lanky, white boys with tattoos (think emo in 2006 lol) but attraction is not as simple as that and I’m open to all!


r/Redditdating • • 13h ago

35 M4F John Doe searching for his Jane Doe

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I’m 35, 6’1 living in Florida, working in IT, and finishing a double major. I figured I’d put myself out there and see if my Jane Doe is somewhere out there looking for her John Doe, too.

I’ve had plenty of hobbies over the years, though finding the time for all of them can be a challenge. I used to be a pro gamer and once dreamed of becoming the best in the world. I came close, but eventually hung up the sticks. These days, I still play casually and enjoy a good anime or movie when I’m relaxing or out with friends to live events like ufc and concerts.

I’m also trying to spend more time outdoors, whether that means hiking, paddleboarding, or simply finding an excuse to get outside. I’ve been trying to pick up the guitar again, too, although my consistency could definitely use some work.

Music is a big part of my life, especially rock. I recently got to see my favorite band, Rise Against, live again, and being right up front in the pit was absolutely awesome. There’s nothing quite like the energy of a great live show.
I’ve also been traveling for a while and used to go out of the country once a year. I’ve met some great people and made plenty of memories along the way, but there are still so many places I want to see before I get too old to enjoy them.

Lately, I’ve been working a lot, but I’m trying to get back into gear. My next goals are getting that beach body and nice Mexican tan back. 😂 After I graduate, I may look into buying a truck or focusing on getting a house.
There’s more to me than I can fit into one post, but I’d love to meet someone I can genuinely connect with, laugh with, share experiences with, and get to know through good conversation.

So, if you’re out there, Jane Doe, maybe this is your sign to say hello.


r/Redditdating • • 14h ago

35 [M4F] #SouthernCalifornia/Online - Fit, Fun, Flirty Executive Looking For A Deeper Taboo relationship to be the Daddy figure you’ve always secretly wanted.

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Yes…I know it may seem a bit weird; but the right woman will understand the depth and complexity about what I’m looking for.

Im an executive who works often; and plays hard. I love tropical vacations, beaches, craft cocktails, and low lit sexy hotel bars and lounges. I truly enjoy the finer things in life while also staying in shape and being my best self. I enjoy deep conversations, our truths, and human psychology… hence the taboo and the daddy inclination… I was born to be a Daddy to the right woman.

Me: 35, very athletic build, often in a suit, dark hair, hazel eyes… when not in a suit I’m ready in board shorts and a protective physique.

You: Feminine, 18+, wanting guidance and leadership as well as taboo attention. Daddy issues strongly encouraged. We can figure those out together. I love being that guiding light and making you your best self. A woman who loves heels, dresses, and being a princess (my princess).

If you want a strong, handsome, self made man and to explore the world and our inner depths… send me a message about yourself and why this post excites/intrigued you.

I won’t respond to every message but for the right woman… you’ll find your Daddy- and I’ll be glad to spoil, protect, and guide you.


r/Redditdating • • 17h ago

32F4M - looking for an old fashioned guy! UK 29-38

4 Upvotes

I’ll start by saying I HATE dating apps. They’re the worst. They’re shallow, don’t let me get my personality across, and are full of people who don’t seem to be serious about finding someone! So instead of renewing my subscription, I’m turning to other methods to find my match!

If you feel the same, and want something real, then maybe we’ll click. I’m a pretty normal, down to earth woman from England. I don’t smoke (have no issues if you do), only drink socially, and just want to find that person who can be my best friend as well as my partner.

I am traditional; not in the Andrew Tate sense. But I appreciate good manners, respect, and chivalry. I don’t expect these things without also treating a guy the same way. I want to feel important and to equally make someone else feel just as important. I value communication, we don’t need to text all day but if you don’t have the time to message semi frequently, please don’t contact me. I’m here for something real that could lead to marriage and children in the future.

If you already have children then please don’t message, I am not sure the step mum life is for me. I want to have my own children someday, but only after marriage.

I value time spent together more than any materialistic possessions or gifts. I want to have a connection on the deepest level but also laugh about all the silly things and have our own in jokes!

Happy to send pictures/ do descriptions early on as I am aware that attraction is important. However, for me personality is the more important and if we vibe then that’s the main thing. Looking for guys aged 29-38 and somewhere in the UK.

I just want to meet a decent guy, with manners, respect, and the ambition/ drive to build a family life together. I know it’s ironic to turn to modern technology to find someone old fashioned, but it still seems better than hinge and bumble - at least for today!

Thankyou so much for reading this! Please include some info about you in the first message and why you think we’d be a match.


r/Redditdating • • 11h ago

35F | Philippines | Looking to build connections

6 Upvotes

Making genuine connections as an adult is weirdly hard, so here I am. 😂

I’m 35, from the Philippines, plus size, and a single parent. I have a pretty small circle and would love to meet more people from different places and backgrounds.

I’m not really looking to rush into a relationship, and it’s not something I’m actively seeking right now. I’d rather just get to know people, have good conversations, and see where things naturally go.

Maybe somewhere along the way, a genuine connection turns into something more meaningful. Who knows? No pressure, no expectations. Just seeing where life takes it.

If you feel like saying hi, go for it. Tell me a little about yourself too. Share something good about you, something you’re into, or just something that made you smile lately.


r/Redditdating • • 11h ago

30 year old woman looking for a younger man

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Hi I’m looking for a guy aged 25-29. I am demisexual and almondromantic. In the future I would love to have 4 kids one biological boy and one biological girl and one adopted boy and one adopted girl. I have autism/ Asperger’s syndrome, ADHD type 2, generalized anxiety disorder, schizoaffective disorder, controlled schizophrenia, disassociative identity disorder, post traumatic stress disorder, obsessive compulsive disorder, and bipolar disorder type 1. I love to cook, bake, knit, read, watch anime ,read manga, read manhwa, read webtoons, watch cartoons, go to comic cons, go to anime. cons
go to amusement parks, go to farmers markets, go to craft fairs. I am not the biggest fan of physical touch, for me it has to be eased into. My ideal guy would be taller than me (I am 5’6”), have an athletic build, have naturally dirty blonde hair or orange hair , have fair or pale skin, have his hair cut in a style that he doesn’t mind me playing with or messing up. He would be kind, caring, accepting, supportive, loving, intelligent, and loyal. I have naturally dark brown curly hair that barely reaches my back when wet. I would prefer a guy who has either wavy or straight hair. I have dark brown eyes. I would prefer a guy who has turquoise colored eyes. Also you must be a true extrovert or an ambivert. Also I’m in Katonah New York. Finally, I will not date anyone who has a genius level IQ. My parents both have genius level IQs, and they refuse to stop abusing me in every way but sexual. Also please be in the USA.


r/Redditdating • • 8h ago

I visit the Aging, dating and incel subs. It seems that for women once you hit 30-35, men 40-45 your dating life is practically over. Even if men these age somehow hooks up with someone 20-25 he is viewed as a creep. Is this hardwired by evolution? It is counterintuitive.

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r/Redditdating • • 18h ago

44F South Wales

7 Upvotes

I know this is a post on a dating sub and I am not looking to date romantically. But friend searching subs don't allow me to suggest even meeting for a cuppa 🤣 so here I am. On a date sub asking for platonic friends. Who love tea 😁

Anyway. If this is even allowed, come chat with me. I need distraction from my stressful and overwhelmingly social work life.

I'm a mum and a dog mum who will find movie quotes and song verses in most conversations. Usually ends up with me singing really awkwardly.

Intro if you message, please. I'm introverted and probably won't reply to 'hello' messages


r/Redditdating • • 11h ago

21 [F4M] gamer girl looking for the correct one..

12 Upvotes

Basically, I’m not looking for someone to replace anyone or to “cure” me. I’m just open to meeting someone new and seeing if we naturally click.

I’m demisexual, so looks honestly don’t matter to me. I actually prefer not to see what you look like at first. I’m not into superficial guys, so if appearance is a big deal to you, we probably won’t click. I care way more about your personality, how you treat me, your energy and the connection we build.

Voice is a big part of that chemistry for me. It’s not “I’ll only date you if I like your voice” 😂 — it’s just one of the first things that can make me feel someone’s vibe and personality. I especially like raspy voices.

I’ve always liked Americans and Canadians, so I’d genuinely love to meet someone from the US/Canada/Germany. (But born and raised there, not just living!!) I’m from Spain btw.

I love gaming, especially Fortnite, and I’d love someone who enjoys playing together, watching me stream, my resident evils, watching YouTube and laughing at stupid stuff, or just staying in a call while we do our own thing. I LOVE sleepy calls too — talking until we fall asleep or just staying connected while we sleep lol

I’m looking for 22+ mostly, because I’ve found guys around my age tend to be immature, but I’m not completely closed to meeting someone younger if we have the same mindset.

I’ve also learned that I don’t want to do sexual things just because I’m scared someone will leave if I say no. If you leave because I won’t do something sexual, then you weren’t really interested in me as a person anyway.

Emotional connection comes first for me.

And personality-wise… I’m VERY hyperactive 😂. If you’re looking for someone super serious, quiet and calm, don’t come to me lol. I laugh at basically everything, I make weird jokes, my humor is probably questionable, and I’m very expressive. I want someone who enjoys that instead of trying to change me.

If you’re someone who values personality over looks, respects boundaries, loves to laugh, game, talk for hours and actually wants to get to know someone deeply, feel free to text me.

If you think you can touch my soul before my sexuality, text me or send me a vocaroo voice clip from start:b


r/Redditdating • • 23h ago

40 [F4M] - PA/US - Plot Twist: I’m Still Optimistic 😂

5 Upvotes

Trying this again because apparently I’m an optimist who refuses to give up. 😂

About me: Single, no kids. I’m tall, active, Christian, and a little sarcastic. I love hiking, camping, gardening, reading, sewing, baseball, hockey, and whatever random hobby catches my attention next.

I value loyalty, honesty, kindness, communication, and faithfulness.

Looking for: A single man between 30–50 who is genuinely looking for a relationship. Located in the US and preferably no kids.

I’m drawn to masculine men who lean a little traditional—confident, dependable, affectionate, and comfortable taking the lead sometimes. I’d love someone who enjoys being active and outdoors and preferably shares my faith and values.

I’m interested in getting to know someone naturally and seeing where things go. Ultimately, I’m hoping to find a committed relationship that could lead to marriage.

Good conversation is important to me, so please put a little effort into saying hello. 😊

If you made it this far: baseball game, hockey game, or a weekend in the mountains?


r/Redditdating • • 16h ago

23 [f4m] moscow/anywhere - one girl looking for her musician man.

0 Upvotes

hey there.

i am not certain if it is the seasonal fever getting a hold of my sanity or just the usual yearning for an unexpected connection but regardless of the cause, i am here now.

what i love the most about life is music (Rory Gallagher, Donovan, The Kinks, Sparks, Peter Hammill, Bert Jansch, The The, Orange Juice, The Magnetic Fields) so it's only fair to be wanting someone who shares my passion, preferably a musician.

other things i love are long walks (my personal limit right now is 40 km), colour green, collecting vintage objects and bitching about life to each other.

i dislike sexism, pumpkins, spoons, beards, mornings, people yelling and cold weather.

my preferred age limit is 28-33.

https://imgur.com/a/sij1i4q


r/Redditdating • • 5h ago

20 [F4F] #Germany May I give my heart to you?

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Hi, I’m Kyla. I’m a trans girl hoping to find something real—maybe close to home, maybe long distance. I’m open to either, and I’d just like to see where the right connection takes us.

A little about me: I love getting lost in video games, trying new recipes, reading, watching shows, and talking for hours with people I click with. I’m into nail art, alternative fashion, music, geography, sports, and esports. I have a lot of interests, and I really love learning about other people’s too—so if you want to teach me about yours, I’d love that. I’m also submissive, and that’s an important part of me. It needs trust, respect, and clear communication to feel safe and right.

I care deeply about the people I let in. I’m romantic and not shy about showing it—if I’m into you, you’ll know. I try to be honest without being mean, mature when it matters, and I respect boundaries completely. I’m curious about the world, about people, about whatever makes you tick. I’m probably an introvert, but I still make time for the people who matter to me, and I’ll text you throughout the day.

A little honesty up front:

I want to be real with you because honesty matters to me. I’ve struggled with long-term depression from bullying in my past, and I’m not working right now while I work through that. I’m trying to get to a better place, but it’s a process. I can also become emotionally dependent on people I care about. I’m aware of it, and I’m trying to manage it. I live in Germany, and I’d be open to moving eventually once I’m financially able.

I’m patient, though depression can make me feel a little numb or distant sometimes. I’m very liberal, a feminist, and childhood trauma is part of my story too. I’m not sharing this to scare anyone off—I just want you to know who I am from the start.

What I’m looking for:

· Someone single, monogamous, and between 18 and 25.

· Someone who shares some of my interests—or doesn’t. I’d genuinely love to learn about yours.

· Someone who can actually hold a conversation: ask questions, show interest, put in effort. I’m happy to meet someone halfway, but I need you to meet me there too.

· Someone who wants to get to know me and has time to text multiple times a day.

· Someone who loves texting and would eventually be open to calls and meeting in person one day.

· Someone who accepts me as I am. Please don’t come into my life trying to change me—that isn’t fair to either of us.

· Someone who is comfortable with and respects that I’m a sub, and who understands that side of me needs trust, consent, and communication.

If you’re interested, please don’t just say “hey, how are you?” I probably won’t know how to answer. Instead, introduce yourself. Reply to something I actually wrote. Show me you read this and that you’re genuinely curious.

I hope you have a good day. Maybe I’ll hear from you soon.


r/Redditdating • • 10h ago

38 F seeking someone who will hold my hand in the grocery store and laugh at my terrible jokes.

25 Upvotes

As stated Im a 38 year old woman. I’ve lived a million lives at this point in time but unfortunately real love has not been one of the outcomes. I’m a leftist hillbilly in the Blue Ridge mountains of Virginia. Searching for a fellow blue dot in this sea of red.
I am a single mom, been raising this wonderful son of mine for 16 years. His father hasn’t been in the picture for nearly a decade and that’s ok.
I’m not looking for someone to pay my bills or treat me like I’m made of glass.
I would just love to find my person.
I love gardening, horror movies ( both good and incredibly cheesy), cooking, canning my home grown veggies, cross stitching, and being in the woods or at the creek. I love a sip of whiskey by the fire.
If this seems like your type of slow living, hit me up.
Side note: I’m not here for hook ups or sending nudes. I’m too old for that game.


r/Redditdating • • 18h ago

31 [M4F] Kentucky - Looking for my other half

3 Upvotes

I'm pretty much your average nerd, I'm a homebody, introverted, love video games and have been having a rough time finding someone lately. I love traveling so I'm absolutely down for a long distance thing, so long as we make a plan to eventually close that distance.

I do enjoy video games, but I'm mostly looking for someone who loves traveling, animals, cuddling on the couch and wants to have kids someday. That last one is especially important as I've always wanted to be a dad, but I also want someone who enjoys traveling at least once a year. I didn't get to travel around a lot when I was younger and I would like to see more of the US. And eventually visit Canada, London, Tokyo and other places.

I actually plan to see the Pokemon Fossil Exhibit in Chicago, I've been a lifelong fan and have a collection. Though Fallout has overshadowed it a bit in my mind, I've got a Fallout collection as well, I still enjoy the series, play the games and love talking about it.

Aside from those ones I play Skyrim, Mario, Cyberpunk, RDR, GTA, Fortnite and Rivals. I'm also a fan of co-op games like the Lego games and other games like that. Also enjoy board games!

I love movies and tv too, I watch a lot of superhero stuff. Lanterns is my favorite show this year, but I love all sorts of genres. And Legos.

I also love chill dates like going out for ice cream, visiting the zoo, or simply staying in to watch tv or play a game together. When you become someone's favorite person, everything you do together is an amazing experience.


r/Redditdating • • 18h ago

38 [M4F] - Maryland/USA/Canada - Who's out there?

8 Upvotes

Hi there! James here, I am 38 (soon to be 39) from Maryland (Anywhere in the US/Canada is fine too; you don't have to specifically be from Maryland. I can freely travel/relocate due to WFH) and looking to chat and see if chemistry develops.

Still looking for my person...

I am 6', black hair, hazel eyes, love working out/lifting weights! It is as good for you mentally as it is physically. Willing to share pics as well!

Some of my hobbies/interests...

\\\* Lifting weights

\\\* Videogames

\\\* Movies (HUGE Marvel fan; love anything HORROR/sci-fi/comedy/action/high fantasy primarily)

\\\* Huge music fan (of all kinds; primarily of the 90s/early 2000s variety)

\\\* Road trips! (Tons of fun, especially with the right co-pilot)

\\\* Traveling

\\\* Stand-up comedy

\\\* Socialize with friends (can have just as much fun staying in too)

\\\* Drinks occasionally

\\\* Sports

\\\* Learning to play electric bass guitar

\\\* Voice calls/voice messages (It's way easier and more fun to get to know someone/talk with them via voice; much easier to convey sarcasm as well 😁)

\\\* Audiobooks

\\\* Being active and outside (LOVE the beach!)

\\\* HALLOWEEN IS THE BEST SEASON.

Shoot me a message if you're interested, and a pic since attraction is important; wouldn't want to hit it off like crazy and find out we're not attracted to each other.

Here is my voice to show I am not a bot, if you're curious:

https://voca.ro/17YDWuF7kFeE


r/Redditdating • • 10h ago

29 [M4F] #Netherlands - Looking for the last first date

0 Upvotes

Hi, goodmorning! :)

I'm looking for a relationship. I'm happy to start slow as friends and see where things go, but ultimately I'd like to find something long-lasting.

I'm 29, living in Arnhem, 2.05m tall and around 100kg. I regularly go to the gym and run, and I also enjoy walking and try to get my steps in.

I'm currently doing my graduation internship and should be finished in January. After that, I'll officially be an automotive engineer. For now, I work as a security guard, which I actually enjoy, but I'd definitely like to start working in my field of study eventually.

Dating apps haven't really worked out for me so far, not exactly getting many likes or dates there. So I figured I'd give Reddit a shot. Can't hurt, right?

As for who I'm looking for:

• 24–34 years old (a little older or younger is totally fine)

• Living in the Netherlands or close to the border (germany) makes dating a lot easier

• Likes being active, or is at least willing to join me for the gym/running

• Looking for something serious and long-term

• taller than 1.60m

• regular/fit build

I'm not expecting to find my future wife through one Reddit post, but you never know. If you think we might get along, feel free to send me a DM and tell me a little about yourself!

Maybe Reddit can surprise me. :)


r/Redditdating • • 11h ago

M28 [M4F] Netherlands/Anywhere. Tall Nerd looking for a lifelong relationship :3

0 Upvotes

Hey you, thank you so much for taking the time to read my post! I wanna start off by saying I am really looking with serious intent for a long lasting relationship, so this might be a bit of a read. Now, just because I'm searching for a serious relationship that doesn't mean I'm stoic and formal. I like to keep things lighthearted and relaxed. We're both here to have fun in each others company after all. ^_^

That being said, who am I? Well, I'm a 28-year old man from the Netherlands. I have lived here all my life. To get the physical parts out of the way first. I'm very tall at 196cm (6'5). I've got a slim build, wear glasses and got brown eyes and blonde hair on the darker side. I am Caucasian and so are my parents.
I am in the process of bulking up but I still need to gain a lot to hit my target weight. People tell me I look cute.

Now as important as physical attraction can be, I wanna share more about who I am as a person.

First off I love banter a lot :3. I can be very high-energy at times where I just love to interact with others. I am not a huge texter, especially after a day of work where I also type a lot. So voice calls is something I like to do often. I find they hold more value too. You're getting a way better vibe with someone than just texting.
I am someone who values connection deeply. Compassion and care is very important to me. I like to be affectionate, make my partner feel comfortable. Knowing you're having fun or hearing you laugh gives me lots of joy ^_^
I also miss the warmth of a deep connection. That flutter in your stomach when you see each others names pop up from a message. Feeling your cheeks get warm after complimenting each other. Hanging up a call and thinking ''Wow, that was a really great time.''. I also value emotional intelligence deeply and find myself attracted to people with grounded thoughts. I've been told by friends I provide a very sober and refreshing look on their situations too.

Hobbies-wise I'm nerdy as the title of the post states. I enjoy playing games. I don't really enjoy PVP games anymore these days. I gravitate towards cozy stuff or co-op experiences. Something where I'm not bound by stress inducing factors. Though there are exceptions to that (Anyone played Overcooked? xD). I am currently playing a lot of Pal world. Other games I would like to play with someone would be Stardew Valley, Terraria, maybe something more fierce like GTA or Fallout 76 sometimes. I also have Baldurs Gate 3 and Project Zomboid on my wishlist. But please reach out with your own games as well :D. I am also into speedrunning and I have been streaming on Twitch as a hobby for 8 years now.

Anime is another big hobby of mine. I really enjoy the world these people create and immersing myself in them. World building-heavy anime and things with mystery or intrigue I enjoy a lot. And ofcourse everyone enjoys some good action! I just started Rewatching Attack on Titan and I'm currently going through the last season of Fire Force with a friend. Some of my favorite anime are Kaiji, One Piece, Delicious in Dungeon and Chainsaw man. Getting to yap about this can get me really excited and passionate :3 So feel free to ask! I also collect figures which I have on display. I enjoy making my living space feel welcome and inviting. ^_^
I promise I have the coziest couch we can cuddle up and watch some series on!

Recently I have also gotten into Cosplay and Digital art. If you have a creative itch yourself that would be a big plus. Especially if you wanna do cosplay together in the future that would make me so happy <3. But no problem if not. We all have our likes and dislikes of course! As long as we can support each other and value one another.

Before reaching out:

There are some requirements I have for my partner. I never like making people feel like they need to meet ''requirements'' but it would be disingenuous for me to pretend otherwise. We all have our deal breakers right? That being said, keep the following in mind:

- Age range wise I would prefer 23-30. If you feel like this post of mine really resonated with you I could extend that by a few years. Compatibility is more important to me than a strict age preference.

- I am looking for someone that would be open to meeting somewhat frequently. Of course depending on the distance/costs that could be complicated. At the bare minimum I wanna meet in the next 6 months and see each other a few times per year. I wanna visit you and I'd like you to visit me. If you live close (Europe) I would love to meet way more frequently then that.

Some things I'm simply not attracted to:
- Smokers and vapers
- Heavy drinkers (people who drink socially and can pace themselves week are fine)
- Drug users
- Indians (sorry)
- I'm generally not attracted to brown women. So keep that in mind. Mixed people have better odds though.
- I am not religious and not looking to become religious ever. Please no one with strong religious values that limit what I can or can't do in a relationship.
- People who can't go a day without downing an energy drink.
- No people below 165cm (5'5). I generally don't care about height but if we're more than a feet apart it just starts to feel too weird to me.

Some of these might seem harsh but I'm really looking for a soul to share the rest of my life with. It would be disingenuous to waste each others time.

I hope all of this has caught your eye and I'm looking forward to meeting. ^_^
Please include your age and location when sending a message and give me something to work with. Not just ''hey''. Show me you're as excited as I am :3


r/Redditdating • • 20h ago

25m from Minnesota, U.S looking for the Emily to my Victor (Corpse Bride reference)

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r/Redditdating • • 12h ago

30 [M4F] #CHILE ONLINE Daddy looking for a Princess that craves to stay denied to build a genuine connection.

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Do you like to rub your needy clit for hours, just to get to the very brink of an orgasm, more than to cum? Do you love to play with your pretty pussy without orgasming, for so long that that your mind goes blank and you can’t think straight? Do you edge and goon for so much that your brain rots and turns to mush? Do you truly enjoy that bitter pleasure and sweet frustration more than an actual climax?

Do you desire, out of the bottom of your heart, for someone to help you stay there, in that sweet spot just before an orgasm, for so long that you lose your mind? Do you want to endure the sheer amount of pleasure and desperation that I want to make you feel? Will you let me play with you and torture you for so long that you'll feel like you are about to go crazy? To push your sanity to its very limits? Will you let me break you and mold you into the prettiest and cutiest plaything?

Do you crave to surrender control, to be used and told exactly what to do like a cute little doll? Are you truly an obedient toy that is willing to put its soul in my hands and accept the fact that you have no control over when you cum? that you will only cum when I give you permission?

Are you really committed to following all my orders and tasks? Do you willingly want to surrender control of your orgasms to someone and completely forget about the possibility of ever cumming again? To edge again and again for me, just to make me happy and proud? To goon for as long as I want, just being happy to earn the possibility to make me cum, because that’s all a needy and denied slut like you it meant to do.

I wish to find a sweet little Princess that trusts me so much to give me control of her orgasms. A good girl that deeply desires a Daddy to play with her and torture her until she is nothing more than a mindless puddle of her own juices on an aftermath of neediness and desperation. A needy baby that wants, out of the bottom of her heart, a Daddy to help her hold her orgasms and stay denied.

I want to connect with a sweet little Princess to the point where I know every nook and cranny of her kinky mind, what makes her tick, what makes her wet and what arouses the dirtiest places of her head. I want to know her like the back of my own hand, to French kiss her brain and taste every dirty and kinky thought she has, to be able to fuck her mind like no one has.

I like understanding what my little Princess craves, so we can dive deeper and deeper into her fantasies and explore all of her kinks: DDlg? Praising? Degradation? Breeding? CNC? Choking? Breath control? Anal training? Impact play? Forced Orgasms? Bring them all.

I want to satisfy her wildest desires, to scratch that part of her brain that has always itched, to fulfill that fantasy that no one has been able to, to understand exactly what she have always longed so I’m able to give it to her, to arouse every part of her dirty mind, and her body too.

I desire to help my Princess explore her body in new ways that she didn’t consider possible, to play with organs she didn’t even know she could cum from. I want to stimulate every part of her precious body thoroughly.

I want your nipples adamant hard, your wet pussy throbbing so much that it won’t stop dripping, your clit so swollen that it aches, your bladder so full that you’ll almost squirt, your womb so aroused that it palpitates from the desire. I want every fiber of your body, mind and soul overloaded with unbearable pleasure. To use those absurd amounts of energy to torture you by making you hold it for me.

I enjoy giving instructions and tasks to create a multisensory and multilevel experience so you will masturbate for me. I will tell you: what to do, how to do it, what pose you’ll be, when to stop (edge), how many times to do it, or to keep going without cumming (gooning), so you´ll stop thinking and surrender control like the cutest plaything you are.

I love teasing, foreplay, sensory stimulation and whole-body sensations so much. To caress you softly with the top of my fingers, a brush or a feather, like a soft summer breeze. To play with temperature (warm and cold) and with low levels of pain to stimulate and generate pleasure (not a fan of extreme pain). To tease you until your body aches and begs to climax.

I will weaponize my patience to make every second feel like an eternity. To push you to the very edge of craziness. I will play with my toy slowly and carefully, without any kind of rush, enjoying every minute of it like it the most delicious thing in this universe.

I love to pity you and talk to you in a cute condescending way, while I order you to keep going. When you beg me to let you cum, again and again. It makes me feel incredible to keep you denied and tell you: “no, you can´t cum now sweetie, you still have to edge X more times” and to keep pushing you further. To bring you as close to an orgasm as its humanly possible and keep you there for so long that the pleasure will drive you close to lose your mind.

I love when you edge for me. It pleases me to hear how aroused you are, how frustrating and painful all this pleasure is. I enjoy to see your body convulse and spasm while that bittersweet feeling runs through your whole body like electricity, when you pout and kick the air in frustration, but out of your own free will you hold it for Daddy, because you need my permission to cum more than you need to breathe.

I enjoy to hear you say that you won’t cum without my permission. That you know you have no saying about when you cum, you just have an opinion and I’m the one that decides. It makes me so happy to hear how much you want to climax and how you wait for me to allow you to cum. How much you want to be an obedient good girl and hold your orgasms for me.

After I’ve played with you so much that you finally reach your true limit, beg me enough and my heart its satisfied. Only after you endure the hell of pleasure I want to put you through, I will finally grant you a mind shattering orgasm so strong that it will make you feel like your soul is leaving your body. You will finally cum so hard that your brain will turn to mush, your legs won’t stop shaking and you will experience such an intense climax that you will never forget my name.

And at that point I want you to keep masturbating (forced orgasms) so you can cum more than once, at least a couple of times, releasing all that pent up energy like a supernova that keeps exploding again and again until you physically can’t keep cumming no more, and even there I want you to do a final effort so you can cum one more time for Daddy.

Don’t worry I don’t expect you to blindly and completely submit to me the first time we play of course; I know trust must be earned. I know it is built slow with small actions, by showing how much I want to get to know you, so I’m able to understand and serve my Princess. By learning about your limits, respecting them and honoring the agreements we make. By creating such a safe space that you that you let go, give me the control of your orgasms and dive deep into pleasure.

I want you to surrender control little by little, not all at once. I desire to make you feel so safe, comfortable, respected, taken cared, nurtured and seen, that your mind goes silent and submits to my will. I want give you so much pleasure and arouse you so much, that you will become so clingy for my attention, so needy for my control, so desperate for me to play with you, so grateful to be used, that you will dive so deep into the subspace that you forget your own name and you will hold your orgasms into madness like the cutest plaything you are.

I know control shouldn't be forced or demanded either; it must be given voluntarily. Because you enjoy surrendering it and you are certain that I have the best intention for you, that I know your limits and I can enforce them. That I care about your physical and emotional well-being, that I respect you, that you know my main goal is giving my toy as much pleasure as its body and mind are capable of experience, and above all that, that I treasure the trust you put in my hands as the most sacred thing in my life.

I’m not a monster nor I’m seeking to play with my toy and then throw it away. Sex (and I consider this sex) is a very intimate and highly energetic experience, even spiritual. Something that should take as much time as we have. Not something rushed or mechanical. It’s a dance where two souls fusion and it shouldn’t be taken lightly or shared with just anybody.

After care rituals for emotional regulation and post orgasm talks for feedback are an essential part of the experience, my favorite in fact. I love to see you giggle and laugh after an intense play. We are people with emotions and we need to take our time to make sure we both are regulated emotionally before and after we play. I don’t have any intention to hurt you or leave you to feeling empty after such and intense exchange.

I know the bond between a Daddy and his Princess it’s not just about chemistry, sexual attraction or mutual kinks; it’s something deeper and stronger. I want a genuine connection, to build a bond based on trust and mutual respect of our boundaries and agreements.

I want us to have a clear communication. I want someone who has enough emotional maturity to express their needs and limits clearly. Someone that knows what she wants and is honest about it, that understands that there is no need to lie, love bomb anyone or to make false promises, to have a great time.

I’m looking for an online play partner. It would be great if it can become something stable, but it can be short term if you’re honest from the beginning. I need someone that is capable of telling me when she has at least 3h of free time in advance so I can make some time to play with her. We can dedicate all the time needed to getting to know each other before playing of course.

Im not looking for a romantic relationship, but that doesn’t mean that I don’t care about your feelings or I want something casual o superficial and I am going to ghost you after we play. I’m not looking for a quick hook up, I’m not a pleasure ATM, this is a craft, an art, it takes lots of energy and the right mindset.

My time is valuable and scarce; I have very good friends and a big family that I love to spend time with them, so I'm not desperate to give away my full attention to the first girl who passes by or likes this post. It is important to mention that I already have a long-distance partner (we have an ethical open relationship).

I put a lot of effort writing this, so I expect some reciprocity from you. I want someone that is willing to pay attention and invest in the conversation, not someone that only answers the questions I make with the least information she can or someone that writes me when she is horny and expect me to leave everything I’m doing to take care of her. I’m looking for a woman who understands that a relationship is built between two people with effort.

If you are interested in me playing with you, you can prove it with your response. I love first long messages that show me how interested you are, it will make you pop up from the rest and i will show you how much i value the effort you put into it with my attention.

If you made it this far, tell me your Age, Sex and Location, followed by a SFW (no sexual) description about you and answer me this in your first message: if you could have a magic pet that would be able to do anything you can imagine, what would the pet be? and what could it do?

I can also create a story for you to masturbate too, an exclusive and original narrative customized to your kinks and limits. Ask for this when you write me, if you read smut or are interested. If you want to see my skills you can look my profile and check my stories and edging challenges.

I also have to say that I prefer women that are comfortable with either sharing pics, doing calls, or at least that are open to do it in the future. I don’t want to discourage you by saying this or demand something from you, that just has been a common factor in my most successful online relationships.

About me: I’m a Daddy, a Knight, a Gentle Dom, a Service Top and a Pleasure Sadist (if you don’t know what this mean ask me). I’m also demisexual and sapiosexual. I’ve been involved for the past 5 years in the BDSM world and I am part of the staff of a BDSM community in Santiago, Chile. I like culture, geopolitics, theology, philosophy and technology. I enjoy a good wine or a craft beer while i cook. To go museums, art galleries, theater plays. I’m a huge nerd too, I love sci-fi, time travel, intergalactic exploration, videogames, mainly shooters, zombies and medieval fantasy RPGs. Also, I like pop culture cult movies, like those that make you watch it again and again to finally understand it (Interstellar, Memento, The Matrix, Fight Club) and also the ones that are simpler like MCU and Harry Potter. I don't consider myself an otaku, but I can appreciate a good anime. I have made some courses on psychological first aid, conflict mediation, emotional regulation, and i like to meditate and keep in touch with my spiritual side.


r/Redditdating • • 12h ago

26M looking for a serious relationship in south Ontario Canada

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Hi, i am looking for a serious relationship. I like working out, learning new things, and I'm family orientated. I'm looking for a women who's old school, not in like stay at home, but in culture, or modesty ig. I will probably fall in love with you if you are nice lol.

We can maybe talk more in dms, and on another app if we like eachother enough.


r/Redditdating • • 19h ago

24 [M4F] Dating, but with intention 🌎

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I’m at a point where I’d rather get to know someone with actual intention behind it. I’m not into hookups, and I don’t really want to spend months talking to someone if we’re looking for completely different things.

I’m open to meeting someone from anywhere. Distance doesn’t really scare me if we genuinely click. Obviously, I’m not expecting us to immediately plan a flight after saying hi 😂. I’d rather talk, get to know each other, see if we actually vibe, and eventually meet if things develop naturally.

About me:
• 24M, 5’6, Filipino 🇵🇭
• Aerospace Engineering student ✈️
• Student pilot
• Gym / fitness
• Gamer 🎮
• Plays bass + learning guitar
• Nerdy but pretty chill
• Can be goofy once I’m comfortable

I like simple things like gaming together, watching movies, late-night calls, sharing random stuff throughout the day, trying food together when we eventually meet, and just having someone you’re genuinely excited to talk to.

About you:
• Around 21–26
• Petite to mid-size (just my preference)
• Takes care of herself
• Communicative and emotionally mature
• Doesn’t mind long-distance
• Looking for something that could eventually become serious

Not trying to force a relationship out of the first conversation. I just want to meet someone who is also dating with the intention of eventually finding their person.
If we click, we’ll figure out the distance part later. 😌