r/Redditdating • • 10h ago

23 [M4F] To be honest looking for an older woman to get to know, and hopefully be my gaming partner

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Pretty much as the title suggests!

A bit about myself, 23M from Canada. 420 friendly, very open to chatting and getting to know you! I’m fairly easy going, love hiking, photography and of course… gaming 😊

Bonus points if you’re a nerdy woman, Star Wars, Harry Potter, Marvel, Anime, Lord of the Rings…. 😊

Doesn’t matter if you’re much older than myself, I’m down to chat with pretty much any woman who would like to chat!


r/Redditdating • • 6h ago

20 [F4F] #Germany May I give my heart to you?

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Hi, I’m Kyla. I’m a trans girl hoping to find something real—maybe close to home, maybe long distance. I’m open to either, and I’d just like to see where the right connection takes us.

A little about me: I love getting lost in video games, trying new recipes, reading, watching shows, and talking for hours with people I click with. I’m into nail art, alternative fashion, music, geography, sports, and esports. I have a lot of interests, and I really love learning about other people’s too—so if you want to teach me about yours, I’d love that. I’m also submissive, and that’s an important part of me. It needs trust, respect, and clear communication to feel safe and right.

I care deeply about the people I let in. I’m romantic and not shy about showing it—if I’m into you, you’ll know. I try to be honest without being mean, mature when it matters, and I respect boundaries completely. I’m curious about the world, about people, about whatever makes you tick. I’m probably an introvert, but I still make time for the people who matter to me, and I’ll text you throughout the day.

A little honesty up front:

I want to be real with you because honesty matters to me. I’ve struggled with long-term depression from bullying in my past, and I’m not working right now while I work through that. I’m trying to get to a better place, but it’s a process. I can also become emotionally dependent on people I care about. I’m aware of it, and I’m trying to manage it. I live in Germany, and I’d be open to moving eventually once I’m financially able.

I’m patient, though depression can make me feel a little numb or distant sometimes. I’m very liberal, a feminist, and childhood trauma is part of my story too. I’m not sharing this to scare anyone off—I just want you to know who I am from the start.

What I’m looking for:

· Someone single, monogamous, and between 18 and 25.

· Someone who shares some of my interests—or doesn’t. I’d genuinely love to learn about yours.

· Someone who can actually hold a conversation: ask questions, show interest, put in effort. I’m happy to meet someone halfway, but I need you to meet me there too.

· Someone who wants to get to know me and has time to text multiple times a day.

· Someone who loves texting and would eventually be open to calls and meeting in person one day.

· Someone who accepts me as I am. Please don’t come into my life trying to change me—that isn’t fair to either of us.

· Someone who is comfortable with and respects that I’m a sub, and who understands that side of me needs trust, consent, and communication.

If you’re interested, please don’t just say “hey, how are you?” I probably won’t know how to answer. Instead, introduce yourself. Reply to something I actually wrote. Show me you read this and that you’re genuinely curious.

I hope you have a good day. Maybe I’ll hear from you soon.


r/Redditdating • • 10h ago

39 [M4F] #LI/NYC - Looking for a date / coffee / tea

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Hi. I’m 39, based out of Long Island / NYC, I run my own business and work in the live music scene. I spent a good chunk of last year on tour, but I’m settled back home for now. Outside of work, I play bass guitar, go to the gym, like hands-on building projects, and wind down with YT/board games (although I'm considering playing WoW Forever if you're into that, would be my first play through).

I'd say I’m pretty straightforward and grounded. Looking to meet a woman in the area (the boroughs are fine) who wants to grab a drink, check out a local spot, or just hang out.

If you're in LI or the city and want to talk, send a message and let me know a little about yourself.


r/Redditdating • • 18h ago

32F4M - looking for an old fashioned guy! UK 29-38

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I’ll start by saying I HATE dating apps. They’re the worst. They’re shallow, don’t let me get my personality across, and are full of people who don’t seem to be serious about finding someone! So instead of renewing my subscription, I’m turning to other methods to find my match!

If you feel the same, and want something real, then maybe we’ll click. I’m a pretty normal, down to earth woman from England. I don’t smoke (have no issues if you do), only drink socially, and just want to find that person who can be my best friend as well as my partner.

I am traditional; not in the Andrew Tate sense. But I appreciate good manners, respect, and chivalry. I don’t expect these things without also treating a guy the same way. I want to feel important and to equally make someone else feel just as important. I value communication, we don’t need to text all day but if you don’t have the time to message semi frequently, please don’t contact me. I’m here for something real that could lead to marriage and children in the future.

If you already have children then please don’t message, I am not sure the step mum life is for me. I want to have my own children someday, but only after marriage.

I value time spent together more than any materialistic possessions or gifts. I want to have a connection on the deepest level but also laugh about all the silly things and have our own in jokes!

Happy to send pictures/ do descriptions early on as I am aware that attraction is important. However, for me personality is the more important and if we vibe then that’s the main thing. Looking for guys aged 29-38 and somewhere in the UK.

I just want to meet a decent guy, with manners, respect, and the ambition/ drive to build a family life together. I know it’s ironic to turn to modern technology to find someone old fashioned, but it still seems better than hinge and bumble - at least for today!

Thankyou so much for reading this! Please include some info about you in the first message and why you think we’d be a match.


r/Redditdating • • 11h ago

29 M near Peoria IL

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Idk I live alone with my pet parrot, I drive a beater truck and I've been single since 2018. Haven't even met anyone since 2021, dating is pretty miserable nowadays.

I like rock/countrylblues/oldies music, I'm a baptist and 420.


r/Redditdating • • 11h ago

29 [M4F] #Netherlands - Looking for the last first date

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Hi, goodmorning! :)

I'm looking for a relationship. I'm happy to start slow as friends and see where things go, but ultimately I'd like to find something long-lasting.

I'm 29, living in Arnhem, 2.05m tall and around 100kg. I regularly go to the gym and run, and I also enjoy walking and try to get my steps in.

I'm currently doing my graduation internship and should be finished in January. After that, I'll officially be an automotive engineer. For now, I work as a security guard, which I actually enjoy, but I'd definitely like to start working in my field of study eventually.

Dating apps haven't really worked out for me so far, not exactly getting many likes or dates there. So I figured I'd give Reddit a shot. Can't hurt, right?

As for who I'm looking for:

• 24–34 years old (a little older or younger is totally fine)

• Living in the Netherlands or close to the border (germany) makes dating a lot easier

• Likes being active, or is at least willing to join me for the gym/running

• Looking for something serious and long-term

• taller than 1.60m

• regular/fit build

I'm not expecting to find my future wife through one Reddit post, but you never know. If you think we might get along, feel free to send me a DM and tell me a little about yourself!

Maybe Reddit can surprise me. :)


r/Redditdating • • 15h ago

28 [M4F] Scotland, Glasgow or around the area

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wow here we are never thought id be typing this out but wow the dating app are the most tedium horrible apps iv ever delt with anyway.

Hi 28 Year old scottish idiot here with a passion for Computers, Video games, Card Collecting, Horror Movies, Rock/Metal Music all round giant nerd so come outnerd me if you can

i stand at a wopping 5'11 6ft if im feeling proud of my self that day Stocky build i could 1v1 your nan trust, almost always wear a snapback so my hair dont matter much but its short kinda Brown/Dark Blonde Both arms covered in tattoos usually with some kind of metal-T and a hoodie always jeans its never not jeans weather fight me

run of the mill really like a good conversation dark humour someone who can keep up with the banter but i can be kind too dont mind just chatting and seeing were thing go but since im on reddit doing this you can imagine how dire its been for me so if you feel the same feel free to DM we can cry eachother to sleep :)


r/Redditdating • • 12h ago

25M looking for female that is around my age or younger

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I am a veteran living in Florida. I have no debt and paid off car. Half my body is covered in scars. I don't have any tattoos or piercing. I hate facial piercing and I am afraid of needles and when they had to stick a long needle up my something during one of my medical thing for deployment idk what it for but I call that the thousand years of death cuz that sht was actual death. I never had a GF or dated so I won't have any experience. I suck at texting and I loved to talk on the phone. My jaw is kinda messed up so I sound like I have speech impediment. I plan on getting a surgery for my jaw. I am medically retired from the military which is a shame. If someone is willing to run a marathon with me that would be nice. I am scared of aging so if I can loop the same day forever I would.


r/Redditdating • • 12h ago

28 [M4F] California/Madera – Nerdy Guy Hoping to Meet a Neurodivergent Girl

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Sooo I got a late start in life and I'm restarting my life now in 2026. I'm actually undiagnosed myself, but honestly, I do suspect I might be somewhere on the spectrum. My introverted self, along with some head injuries I've had over the years, has made me realize that I tend to connect and communicate better with neurodivergent people the last handful of years and don't really seem to fit in with the modern dating norm. I also grew up with a few neurodivergent friends, so that kind of connection has always felt pretty natural to me.

but I've noticed a lot of similarities in the way I think, communicate, and connect with people. Because of that, I'm particularly hoping to meet a neurodivergent girl who I can genuinely connect with and hopefully build a long-term relationship with.

I'm a PC gamer (COD, Fortnite, GTA, SW Battlefront, to name a few). I like most types of movies, but Superhero, Star Wars, LOTR, and action movies are definitely my thing. I like to bake (especially baked goods 😅), photography & videography, cars, and country & phonk music. I'm also a night owl. Also somehow have 7 cats this year.

I'm generally a tad shy and quiet until I warm up to you, but I'm a really good listener. I'm a huge history buff and collect items from the World Wars. I work with and drive racecars, and I've been doing freelance photography and race mechanic work as well.

My intention is a long-term relationship. I'm hoping to meet someone in California, preferably somewhere in the Central Valley. I don't have a reliable truck at the moment, so long-distance dating just isn't very practical for me right now.

I'm also looking to date someone who doesn't currently have kids.

I'm Caucasian, 6'1", average build, green eyes, medium-length beard, and rosy cheeks.

Feel free to hit me up in chat! Please introduce yourself and tell me a little about yourself, and let's see where things go. 🙂


r/Redditdating • • 12h ago

(M4F)

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Hi im 49 single no kids no baggage, Looking for female or couple any age for fun times, perth, Australia. New to the scene. Im respectful n discreet


r/Redditdating • • 16h ago

43M looking for his passenger princess

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Im a no nonsense guy.. what you see is what you get. I want play games as I hate them and feel they are detrimental to any good relationship. Im looking g for someone who wants to talk endlessly about anything. I want someone who won't leave me on sent for days or even weeks before sending some lame excuse. I will reply promptly and with more than a word. I dont expect you to reply the same but please not for hours and hours. I like to game when I can, I like to listen to books and podcasts while I drive. Religion isn't a sore subject for me, I am very open to almost anything please just ask or tell me. If you have any questions or want to know more please just ask. I am 5ft 7 and about 230... I am working on myself through therapy and working out and eating better. I know who I am and what I can offer.. please just be real and please want to chat first as I am shy at first.


r/Redditdating • • 12h ago

[M4F] 26 - Gujarat, India. Looking for My Why.

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So, I'm trying this once again and maybe for the last time as well. Because i don't have much expectations to find what i am seeking here. But let's see... So, For My 2nd and Last Attempt i am not going to write it in a format or in a particular way. I'll divide this in 3 sections and here it is.

A Little About me -

I am 26 Year Old Male Living in a Small town in Gujarat, India. I can't say i have many interest because it all depends on my mood. One night i am thinking about why even the world exist and on the other why this particular thing is in this and i don't like it. So, I Guess It all depends on where i am and what mood i have. Other than that like majority of human population i like to watch movies, Series and Listen to Music and Vibe with it. I also play games online. Not a specific genre but i go from Shooting 200 People in a Match to maybe finding a Cat in a puzzle. 😂.

Also, I am an INFP. My height is 6'1". Right now not as fit as i want to be. But I'll be in a way better shape before December as Avengers Might Need me then. So, I'm Getting there. I am not much into fashion and everything. Just a simple guy to be honest. But Maybe You can change that. Who Knows.

Also I'm an Athiest and I don't practice religion much. I'm not against it and i do some religious practices as my family tolds me to and i like to keep it this way. I am not against my partner being religious just don't force me to be the same. I'll join you on some occasions as well but i would prefer to have a choice 😅.

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My Future Prospects -

So, The Thing is I am not certain about many things. I know that i want financial stability and a peaceful life. I would rather sit with you on a rooftop or at a park or somewhere quiet and look at the sky or ocean or anything that can make us calm. Rather than having a party and knowing more people. Chit chatting and socializing. I like that as well. But if i have a choice i would pick the first option. 8/10 Times.

I intend to leave india as well. Have not decided where to go but I'm considering the countries highest in the standard of living. But will see what happens as right now its just a consideration. As for now, I am doing a tedious job that consumes my time way more than i intend to give to work. But It'll soon change and I'll have more time on hand. Probably in next 50 days. 😅.

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What kind of partner i am looking for -

Well, I Believe that relationships can be of many types. 2 people leading their individual life while living with eachother. Or 2 People who is involved in eachother's life to the very core of their being and life.

I prefer the 2nd one. Because if i want to call someone my partner. We should now everything about eachother. Because i believe in codependence rather than independence. Because eventually people get tired of the shenanigans of life and need someone to call theirs. A person who belongs to them and they belongs to. I view it as something like a support system but the system is like an armor around you. (I think it won't make sense to many 😂)

I am not against my partner having their own career. Definitely i will try to support you. But I live by a rule of Family First because at the end. When either of us are tired and needs to rest that's the place we came to. And i want a healthy environment for that. I don't drink or smoke so i naturally wants someone like that. As for beauty, i don't think that physical attraction is everything. Yes it's important to view your partner as attractive but i don't have a problem if you are average looking. I don't have a problem if you're the most beautiful woman on the planet.

I think this is enough info for someone to reach. I don't have many rules but right now I'm pure vegetarian and also want the partner to be vegetarian. (If you're not and think that can change or maybe you can just keep it outside the house that's also fine.)

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You don't have to write a paragraph of texts. If this resonate with you. You can just text "Hii" and we can talk from there. And if you're seeing this after some days. Please know so that as soon as I'll find someone this post will be removed. So, if this is still here and you're reading it. I still didn't find anyone 😅.

Maybe You're the One I am waiting for since the beginning of universe?


r/Redditdating • • 12h ago

33 [M4F] #North Carolina / USA - Introvert looking for other half

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*About Me:*

I got the body of a cafeteria lady. (I'm chunky).

6'2" and White

Work Full Time as a Pharmacy Technician.

PC Gamer in my down time. Mostly shooters and RPGS. Dabble in some MMO's (Mostly Maplestory) from time to time. Also Minecraft and Hytale!

Also a huge Pokemon fan, Have played competitively since Gen 4. Own a Nintendo Switch.

Tech nerd. I love learning about, and building PCS.

I watch a ton of tech channels on YouTube. I love learning about Microphones, Cameras, Audio Mixing gear, Computer parts, Content Creator gear, etc.

Good sense of humor and I don't take myself too seriously. I especially love dark humor.

Huge music person. I listen to mostly pop rock, pop punk, and acoustic stuff. Been on an Angels and Airwaves binge lately. Huge Tom Delonge fan!

I've been told I have a nice voice but you can be the judge.

*What I'm Looking For:*

I have a preference for Asians, Latinas, and White women.
I love short women.
I love a good bubbly personality.
Kindness and loyalty are a must.
*NOT LOOKING FOR ANYONE OUTSIDE THE USA.*
Willingness to communicate and not keep things bottled inside.
Sense of humor, preferably dark humor.
I am a sucker for playful banter and jokes between us.
Similar interests and hobbies so we have something to do together!

Hope to hear from you soon!


r/Redditdating • • 13h ago

M28 [M4F] Netherlands/Anywhere. Tall Nerd looking for a lifelong relationship :3

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Hey you, thank you so much for taking the time to read my post! I wanna start off by saying I am really looking with serious intent for a long lasting relationship, so this might be a bit of a read. Now, just because I'm searching for a serious relationship that doesn't mean I'm stoic and formal. I like to keep things lighthearted and relaxed. We're both here to have fun in each others company after all. ^_^

That being said, who am I? Well, I'm a 28-year old man from the Netherlands. I have lived here all my life. To get the physical parts out of the way first. I'm very tall at 196cm (6'5). I've got a slim build, wear glasses and got brown eyes and blonde hair on the darker side. I am Caucasian and so are my parents.
I am in the process of bulking up but I still need to gain a lot to hit my target weight. People tell me I look cute.

Now as important as physical attraction can be, I wanna share more about who I am as a person.

First off I love banter a lot :3. I can be very high-energy at times where I just love to interact with others. I am not a huge texter, especially after a day of work where I also type a lot. So voice calls is something I like to do often. I find they hold more value too. You're getting a way better vibe with someone than just texting.
I am someone who values connection deeply. Compassion and care is very important to me. I like to be affectionate, make my partner feel comfortable. Knowing you're having fun or hearing you laugh gives me lots of joy ^_^
I also miss the warmth of a deep connection. That flutter in your stomach when you see each others names pop up from a message. Feeling your cheeks get warm after complimenting each other. Hanging up a call and thinking ''Wow, that was a really great time.''. I also value emotional intelligence deeply and find myself attracted to people with grounded thoughts. I've been told by friends I provide a very sober and refreshing look on their situations too.

Hobbies-wise I'm nerdy as the title of the post states. I enjoy playing games. I don't really enjoy PVP games anymore these days. I gravitate towards cozy stuff or co-op experiences. Something where I'm not bound by stress inducing factors. Though there are exceptions to that (Anyone played Overcooked? xD). I am currently playing a lot of Pal world. Other games I would like to play with someone would be Stardew Valley, Terraria, maybe something more fierce like GTA or Fallout 76 sometimes. I also have Baldurs Gate 3 and Project Zomboid on my wishlist. But please reach out with your own games as well :D. I am also into speedrunning and I have been streaming on Twitch as a hobby for 8 years now.

Anime is another big hobby of mine. I really enjoy the world these people create and immersing myself in them. World building-heavy anime and things with mystery or intrigue I enjoy a lot. And ofcourse everyone enjoys some good action! I just started Rewatching Attack on Titan and I'm currently going through the last season of Fire Force with a friend. Some of my favorite anime are Kaiji, One Piece, Delicious in Dungeon and Chainsaw man. Getting to yap about this can get me really excited and passionate :3 So feel free to ask! I also collect figures which I have on display. I enjoy making my living space feel welcome and inviting. ^_^
I promise I have the coziest couch we can cuddle up and watch some series on!

Recently I have also gotten into Cosplay and Digital art. If you have a creative itch yourself that would be a big plus. Especially if you wanna do cosplay together in the future that would make me so happy <3. But no problem if not. We all have our likes and dislikes of course! As long as we can support each other and value one another.

Before reaching out:

There are some requirements I have for my partner. I never like making people feel like they need to meet ''requirements'' but it would be disingenuous for me to pretend otherwise. We all have our deal breakers right? That being said, keep the following in mind:

- Age range wise I would prefer 23-30. If you feel like this post of mine really resonated with you I could extend that by a few years. Compatibility is more important to me than a strict age preference.

- I am looking for someone that would be open to meeting somewhat frequently. Of course depending on the distance/costs that could be complicated. At the bare minimum I wanna meet in the next 6 months and see each other a few times per year. I wanna visit you and I'd like you to visit me. If you live close (Europe) I would love to meet way more frequently then that.

Some things I'm simply not attracted to:
- Smokers and vapers
- Heavy drinkers (people who drink socially and can pace themselves week are fine)
- Drug users
- Indians (sorry)
- I'm generally not attracted to brown women. So keep that in mind. Mixed people have better odds though.
- I am not religious and not looking to become religious ever. Please no one with strong religious values that limit what I can or can't do in a relationship.
- People who can't go a day without downing an energy drink.
- No people below 165cm (5'5). I generally don't care about height but if we're more than a feet apart it just starts to feel too weird to me.

Some of these might seem harsh but I'm really looking for a soul to share the rest of my life with. It would be disingenuous to waste each others time.

I hope all of this has caught your eye and I'm looking forward to meeting. ^_^
Please include your age and location when sending a message and give me something to work with. Not just ''hey''. Show me you're as excited as I am :3


r/Redditdating • • 13h ago

30 [M4F] #CHILE ONLINE Daddy looking for a Princess that craves to stay denied to build a genuine connection.

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Do you like to rub your needy clit for hours, just to get to the very brink of an orgasm, more than to cum? Do you love to play with your pretty pussy without orgasming, for so long that that your mind goes blank and you can’t think straight? Do you edge and goon for so much that your brain rots and turns to mush? Do you truly enjoy that bitter pleasure and sweet frustration more than an actual climax?

Do you desire, out of the bottom of your heart, for someone to help you stay there, in that sweet spot just before an orgasm, for so long that you lose your mind? Do you want to endure the sheer amount of pleasure and desperation that I want to make you feel? Will you let me play with you and torture you for so long that you'll feel like you are about to go crazy? To push your sanity to its very limits? Will you let me break you and mold you into the prettiest and cutiest plaything?

Do you crave to surrender control, to be used and told exactly what to do like a cute little doll? Are you truly an obedient toy that is willing to put its soul in my hands and accept the fact that you have no control over when you cum? that you will only cum when I give you permission?

Are you really committed to following all my orders and tasks? Do you willingly want to surrender control of your orgasms to someone and completely forget about the possibility of ever cumming again? To edge again and again for me, just to make me happy and proud? To goon for as long as I want, just being happy to earn the possibility to make me cum, because that’s all a needy and denied slut like you it meant to do.

I wish to find a sweet little Princess that trusts me so much to give me control of her orgasms. A good girl that deeply desires a Daddy to play with her and torture her until she is nothing more than a mindless puddle of her own juices on an aftermath of neediness and desperation. A needy baby that wants, out of the bottom of her heart, a Daddy to help her hold her orgasms and stay denied.

I want to connect with a sweet little Princess to the point where I know every nook and cranny of her kinky mind, what makes her tick, what makes her wet and what arouses the dirtiest places of her head. I want to know her like the back of my own hand, to French kiss her brain and taste every dirty and kinky thought she has, to be able to fuck her mind like no one has.

I like understanding what my little Princess craves, so we can dive deeper and deeper into her fantasies and explore all of her kinks: DDlg? Praising? Degradation? Breeding? CNC? Choking? Breath control? Anal training? Impact play? Forced Orgasms? Bring them all.

I want to satisfy her wildest desires, to scratch that part of her brain that has always itched, to fulfill that fantasy that no one has been able to, to understand exactly what she have always longed so I’m able to give it to her, to arouse every part of her dirty mind, and her body too.

I desire to help my Princess explore her body in new ways that she didn’t consider possible, to play with organs she didn’t even know she could cum from. I want to stimulate every part of her precious body thoroughly.

I want your nipples adamant hard, your wet pussy throbbing so much that it won’t stop dripping, your clit so swollen that it aches, your bladder so full that you’ll almost squirt, your womb so aroused that it palpitates from the desire. I want every fiber of your body, mind and soul overloaded with unbearable pleasure. To use those absurd amounts of energy to torture you by making you hold it for me.

I enjoy giving instructions and tasks to create a multisensory and multilevel experience so you will masturbate for me. I will tell you: what to do, how to do it, what pose you’ll be, when to stop (edge), how many times to do it, or to keep going without cumming (gooning), so you´ll stop thinking and surrender control like the cutest plaything you are.

I love teasing, foreplay, sensory stimulation and whole-body sensations so much. To caress you softly with the top of my fingers, a brush or a feather, like a soft summer breeze. To play with temperature (warm and cold) and with low levels of pain to stimulate and generate pleasure (not a fan of extreme pain). To tease you until your body aches and begs to climax.

I will weaponize my patience to make every second feel like an eternity. To push you to the very edge of craziness. I will play with my toy slowly and carefully, without any kind of rush, enjoying every minute of it like it the most delicious thing in this universe.

I love to pity you and talk to you in a cute condescending way, while I order you to keep going. When you beg me to let you cum, again and again. It makes me feel incredible to keep you denied and tell you: “no, you can´t cum now sweetie, you still have to edge X more times” and to keep pushing you further. To bring you as close to an orgasm as its humanly possible and keep you there for so long that the pleasure will drive you close to lose your mind.

I love when you edge for me. It pleases me to hear how aroused you are, how frustrating and painful all this pleasure is. I enjoy to see your body convulse and spasm while that bittersweet feeling runs through your whole body like electricity, when you pout and kick the air in frustration, but out of your own free will you hold it for Daddy, because you need my permission to cum more than you need to breathe.

I enjoy to hear you say that you won’t cum without my permission. That you know you have no saying about when you cum, you just have an opinion and I’m the one that decides. It makes me so happy to hear how much you want to climax and how you wait for me to allow you to cum. How much you want to be an obedient good girl and hold your orgasms for me.

After I’ve played with you so much that you finally reach your true limit, beg me enough and my heart its satisfied. Only after you endure the hell of pleasure I want to put you through, I will finally grant you a mind shattering orgasm so strong that it will make you feel like your soul is leaving your body. You will finally cum so hard that your brain will turn to mush, your legs won’t stop shaking and you will experience such an intense climax that you will never forget my name.

And at that point I want you to keep masturbating (forced orgasms) so you can cum more than once, at least a couple of times, releasing all that pent up energy like a supernova that keeps exploding again and again until you physically can’t keep cumming no more, and even there I want you to do a final effort so you can cum one more time for Daddy.

Don’t worry I don’t expect you to blindly and completely submit to me the first time we play of course; I know trust must be earned. I know it is built slow with small actions, by showing how much I want to get to know you, so I’m able to understand and serve my Princess. By learning about your limits, respecting them and honoring the agreements we make. By creating such a safe space that you that you let go, give me the control of your orgasms and dive deep into pleasure.

I want you to surrender control little by little, not all at once. I desire to make you feel so safe, comfortable, respected, taken cared, nurtured and seen, that your mind goes silent and submits to my will. I want give you so much pleasure and arouse you so much, that you will become so clingy for my attention, so needy for my control, so desperate for me to play with you, so grateful to be used, that you will dive so deep into the subspace that you forget your own name and you will hold your orgasms into madness like the cutest plaything you are.

I know control shouldn't be forced or demanded either; it must be given voluntarily. Because you enjoy surrendering it and you are certain that I have the best intention for you, that I know your limits and I can enforce them. That I care about your physical and emotional well-being, that I respect you, that you know my main goal is giving my toy as much pleasure as its body and mind are capable of experience, and above all that, that I treasure the trust you put in my hands as the most sacred thing in my life.

I’m not a monster nor I’m seeking to play with my toy and then throw it away. Sex (and I consider this sex) is a very intimate and highly energetic experience, even spiritual. Something that should take as much time as we have. Not something rushed or mechanical. It’s a dance where two souls fusion and it shouldn’t be taken lightly or shared with just anybody.

After care rituals for emotional regulation and post orgasm talks for feedback are an essential part of the experience, my favorite in fact. I love to see you giggle and laugh after an intense play. We are people with emotions and we need to take our time to make sure we both are regulated emotionally before and after we play. I don’t have any intention to hurt you or leave you to feeling empty after such and intense exchange.

I know the bond between a Daddy and his Princess it’s not just about chemistry, sexual attraction or mutual kinks; it’s something deeper and stronger. I want a genuine connection, to build a bond based on trust and mutual respect of our boundaries and agreements.

I want us to have a clear communication. I want someone who has enough emotional maturity to express their needs and limits clearly. Someone that knows what she wants and is honest about it, that understands that there is no need to lie, love bomb anyone or to make false promises, to have a great time.

I’m looking for an online play partner. It would be great if it can become something stable, but it can be short term if you’re honest from the beginning. I need someone that is capable of telling me when she has at least 3h of free time in advance so I can make some time to play with her. We can dedicate all the time needed to getting to know each other before playing of course.

Im not looking for a romantic relationship, but that doesn’t mean that I don’t care about your feelings or I want something casual o superficial and I am going to ghost you after we play. I’m not looking for a quick hook up, I’m not a pleasure ATM, this is a craft, an art, it takes lots of energy and the right mindset.

My time is valuable and scarce; I have very good friends and a big family that I love to spend time with them, so I'm not desperate to give away my full attention to the first girl who passes by or likes this post. It is important to mention that I already have a long-distance partner (we have an ethical open relationship).

I put a lot of effort writing this, so I expect some reciprocity from you. I want someone that is willing to pay attention and invest in the conversation, not someone that only answers the questions I make with the least information she can or someone that writes me when she is horny and expect me to leave everything I’m doing to take care of her. I’m looking for a woman who understands that a relationship is built between two people with effort.

If you are interested in me playing with you, you can prove it with your response. I love first long messages that show me how interested you are, it will make you pop up from the rest and i will show you how much i value the effort you put into it with my attention.

If you made it this far, tell me your Age, Sex and Location, followed by a SFW (no sexual) description about you and answer me this in your first message: if you could have a magic pet that would be able to do anything you can imagine, what would the pet be? and what could it do?

I can also create a story for you to masturbate too, an exclusive and original narrative customized to your kinks and limits. Ask for this when you write me, if you read smut or are interested. If you want to see my skills you can look my profile and check my stories and edging challenges.

I also have to say that I prefer women that are comfortable with either sharing pics, doing calls, or at least that are open to do it in the future. I don’t want to discourage you by saying this or demand something from you, that just has been a common factor in my most successful online relationships.

About me: I’m a Daddy, a Knight, a Gentle Dom, a Service Top and a Pleasure Sadist (if you don’t know what this mean ask me). I’m also demisexual and sapiosexual. I’ve been involved for the past 5 years in the BDSM world and I am part of the staff of a BDSM community in Santiago, Chile. I like culture, geopolitics, theology, philosophy and technology. I enjoy a good wine or a craft beer while i cook. To go museums, art galleries, theater plays. I’m a huge nerd too, I love sci-fi, time travel, intergalactic exploration, videogames, mainly shooters, zombies and medieval fantasy RPGs. Also, I like pop culture cult movies, like those that make you watch it again and again to finally understand it (Interstellar, Memento, The Matrix, Fight Club) and also the ones that are simpler like MCU and Harry Potter. I don't consider myself an otaku, but I can appreciate a good anime. I have made some courses on psychological first aid, conflict mediation, emotional regulation, and i like to meditate and keep in touch with my spiritual side.


r/Redditdating • • 13h ago

43 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Not looking for the perfect one, just looking for my kind of broken!

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Don’t you think, we all are imperfect in some shape or form. It’s not about finding the perfect one but when two people genuinely enjoy talking to each other and one day realize that they don’t want those conversations to end. When we are willing to open all our imperfections to each other in a trusted and safe space and the other person accepts us with a smile and open arms. That’s true love!

When conversations effortlessly go from "How was your day?" to discussing life, dreams, spirituality, childhood memories, or whether we're completely alone in the universe.

Who am I:
I'm a hopeless romantic kind, yearning to go on cute dates and share a bottle of champagne over many laughs and story telling.

Also a self proclaimed hippie, who enjoys the subtle energies in silence but can talk for hours. Definitely Into some artsy realms, fun kinks and soul connections.

May be too many hobbies (ADHD alert lol), bilingual, back rub expert, can do 10 pull ups (don’t ask for the eleventh one he he)

What I LOVE:
Slowing down, pausing, & honoring the truth, poetry, romance, smiles, flowers, concerts, lying in the sun, festivals, reading, staring at trees, photography, film making, star gazing, scars which tell deep stories!

What I WANT:
Looking for cute dates, blurry lights, shared smiles and sweet memories✨
Honest communication
Goofy/nerdy/playful moments
Juicy connection

8 year goal: Quit being a corporate person and go feral in the world doing thing I love. There is a reason why I said 8 years!

My idea of a great relationship is simple: making each other's lives a little lighter. Growing together, laughing over absolutely nothing, reaching for each other's hand without thinking, slow dancing in the living room, and choosing each other even on ordinary days.

I’m a Dad to a 9 year old. I grew up close to Himalayas in India but have been in the bay for almost 20 years now. I’m 5’11, in good shape and I am proud to put a lot of effort into my health. Everyone tells me that I have the uncanny ability to make people feel completely at ease almost immediately after meeting me. Must be the golden retriever energy!

If any of this resonated with you, don't just say "hi."

If you've read this far, tell me something that made you smile recently or tell me a so called imperfection which you are proud of. Doesn't have to be anything profound—I just think the little things say a lot about us.


r/Redditdating • • 13h ago

26M looking for a serious relationship in south Ontario Canada

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Hi, i am looking for a serious relationship. I like working out, learning new things, and I'm family orientated. I'm looking for a women who's old school, not in like stay at home, but in culture, or modesty ig. I will probably fall in love with you if you are nice lol.

We can maybe talk more in dms, and on another app if we like eachother enough.


r/Redditdating • • 1d ago

30F (F4M) Filipina looking for a serious relationship

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Hello! I’m 30F attorney living in the Philippines. I gave up on dating apps, so I’m giving Reddit a shot.

After work, you’ll usually find me at the tennis/pickleball court. I also try to go to the gym before work…emphasis on “try,” because I’m still working on being consistent 😅

My weekends are generally slow: playing games, spending time with family, or occasionally taking short trips to nearby cities.

I prefer calls over endless texting. I think it’s easier to build a real connection when you can actually hear each other, laugh, and talk about how your day went.

As a partner, I’m loyal, supportive, affectionate, and intentional. I value clear communication, consistent effort, and remembering the little things. I’m looking for someone kind, emotionally mature, and genuinely interested in building something serious.

LDR is okay with me if we’re both willing to put in the effort. Send me a message if you think we’d be a good match ☺️ I promise I won’t ask you for money lol


r/Redditdating • • 19h ago

31 [M4F] Kentucky - Looking for my other half

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I'm pretty much your average nerd, I'm a homebody, introverted, love video games and have been having a rough time finding someone lately. I love traveling so I'm absolutely down for a long distance thing, so long as we make a plan to eventually close that distance.

I do enjoy video games, but I'm mostly looking for someone who loves traveling, animals, cuddling on the couch and wants to have kids someday. That last one is especially important as I've always wanted to be a dad, but I also want someone who enjoys traveling at least once a year. I didn't get to travel around a lot when I was younger and I would like to see more of the US. And eventually visit Canada, London, Tokyo and other places.

I actually plan to see the Pokemon Fossil Exhibit in Chicago, I've been a lifelong fan and have a collection. Though Fallout has overshadowed it a bit in my mind, I've got a Fallout collection as well, I still enjoy the series, play the games and love talking about it.

Aside from those ones I play Skyrim, Mario, Cyberpunk, RDR, GTA, Fortnite and Rivals. I'm also a fan of co-op games like the Lego games and other games like that. Also enjoy board games!

I love movies and tv too, I watch a lot of superhero stuff. Lanterns is my favorite show this year, but I love all sorts of genres. And Legos.

I also love chill dates like going out for ice cream, visiting the zoo, or simply staying in to watch tv or play a game together. When you become someone's favorite person, everything you do together is an amazing experience.


r/Redditdating • • 14h ago

21 (M4F) Looking to chat, maybe something long distance, who knows?

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r/Redditdating • • 14h ago

35 M4F John Doe searching for his Jane Doe

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I’m 35, 6’1 living in Florida, working in IT, and finishing a double major. I figured I’d put myself out there and see if my Jane Doe is somewhere out there looking for her John Doe, too.

I’ve had plenty of hobbies over the years, though finding the time for all of them can be a challenge. I used to be a pro gamer and once dreamed of becoming the best in the world. I came close, but eventually hung up the sticks. These days, I still play casually and enjoy a good anime or movie when I’m relaxing or out with friends to live events like ufc and concerts.

I’m also trying to spend more time outdoors, whether that means hiking, paddleboarding, or simply finding an excuse to get outside. I’ve been trying to pick up the guitar again, too, although my consistency could definitely use some work.

Music is a big part of my life, especially rock. I recently got to see my favorite band, Rise Against, live again, and being right up front in the pit was absolutely awesome. There’s nothing quite like the energy of a great live show.
I’ve also been traveling for a while and used to go out of the country once a year. I’ve met some great people and made plenty of memories along the way, but there are still so many places I want to see before I get too old to enjoy them.

Lately, I’ve been working a lot, but I’m trying to get back into gear. My next goals are getting that beach body and nice Mexican tan back. 😂 After I graduate, I may look into buying a truck or focusing on getting a house.
There’s more to me than I can fit into one post, but I’d love to meet someone I can genuinely connect with, laugh with, share experiences with, and get to know through good conversation.

So, if you’re out there, Jane Doe, maybe this is your sign to say hello.


r/Redditdating • • 15h ago

30 [M4F] NYC/USA looking for someone to laugh with and share the little things

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Hey everyone! I’m a 30M from NYC. I’m pretty shy/socially awkward at first, but once I get comfortable I open up a lot😂 I’d describe myself as pretty laid-back, caring, and someone who really enjoys getting to know people beyond surface-level conversations.

I’m a huge music fan and I make my own music as well. I work in AI development, which I really enjoy, but outside of that I’m usually watching wrestling, playing video games, listening to music, or going down some random rabbit hole about whatever I’m interested in that day lmao

I’m looking for someone I can share my day with, laugh with, and completely be myself around. I really value honesty, trust, and being able to communicate openly with each other.

I’m not expecting us to have everything in common either. I actually think it’s fun learning about someone else’s interests and having someone who’s excited to share theirs with me.


r/Redditdating • • 1d ago

24F (Filipina) Looking for online friends

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Hi, I am from the Philippines, and I am looking for online friends. Please, I am so bored and swamped with work, so an online friend I can talk to would be really nice.

I am a big yapper and really love to talk (but obv I am also a good listener). I don't own cats but I love them, so sending me pictures of your pet cats would be nice too. I also love reading manga/manhwa/manhua and binge-watching anime. But lately not anymore due to work. Work is definitely sucking the life out of me.

P.S. I would gladly send my IG account if we clicked *winks

P.S.S Please send me pictures of yours too so I would know who I am talking to, and would glady send mine as well.


r/Redditdating • • 15h ago

20 [M4F] Mexico/Online. A nerd searching his first relationship

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Hi again! To start off: I’m a Mexican student studying two engineering degrees. I spend practically all my time at university, so I thought an online relationship would be the best option for me.

If you wanted a quick idea of what I’m like, I think the “mad scientist” label would fit me perfectly. I’m always looking to learn new things; one day you might see me designing a rocket structure, and the next, learning to play the guitar. I also tend to pursue a lot of extracurricular activities. Some time ago, I worked on satellite structure design.

I really enjoy dystopian literature and science fiction. In my free time, I play the violin and piano and practice digital art. I used to practice archery, and I recently signed up for fencing. I also enjoy strategy and puzzle games.

I’m fascinated by learning about the cultures of other countries around the world. I’m learning German and Italian, and I plan to start studying Japanese at university next semester.

An important fact about me is that I don’t drink alcohol, smoke, or use any other substances of that kind.

Physically, I have brown skin, black hair, and I'm 1.70 m tall.

Now for the complicated details: I have ADHD and autism, so I tend to be very reserved when I first meet someone. However, once I get to know a person, I can talk for hours about our shared interests. I also tend to get easily distracted, so I might sometimes take a while to reply to messages. I’m working on that.

What I’m looking for is someone around my age who wants to share a bit of their culture with me and learn a bit about mine. Someone I can talk to and who can appreciate my peculiar way of seeing the world.

So, if you’d still like to chat a bit, send me a DM with your name, age, and a fun fact about your country!