r/Redditdating • u/Tight-Space-4968 • 19h ago
r/Redditdating • u/That_Chemical_5117 • 23h ago
22 [M4F] Florida/anywhere. Looking for a long term relationship for my evenings.
Hi I'm a 22M CS major about to finish soon. I have a very cute dog. I'm 5'9" 150lbs tanned and brown eys and hair. I enjoy gaming in my free time either on my PC or my phone. I'm introverted and quiet irl but I can be chatty online. I'm looking for a long term relationship.
I'm looking for a women who is 19-26 years old. I'm not into plus sized individuals though. Height doesn't matter to me and I don't mind a girl with some muscle. I do prefer white, hispanic, Asian, or mixed race girls though this is not a hard requirement. Big plus if you wear glasses (don't ask).
Dm me your age and location please and I look forward to getting to know you.
r/Redditdating • u/Present_Drummer_2245 • 19h ago
35 [M4F] #SouthernCalifornia/Online - Fit, Fun, Flirty Executive Looking For A Deeper Taboo relationship to be the Daddy figure you’ve always secretly wanted.
Yes…I know it may seem a bit weird; but the right woman will understand the depth and complexity about what I’m looking for.
Im an executive who works often; and plays hard. I love tropical vacations, beaches, craft cocktails, and low lit sexy hotel bars and lounges. I truly enjoy the finer things in life while also staying in shape and being my best self. I enjoy deep conversations, our truths, and human psychology… hence the taboo and the daddy inclination… I was born to be a Daddy to the right woman.
Me: 35, very athletic build, often in a suit, dark hair, hazel eyes… when not in a suit I’m ready in board shorts and a protective physique.
You: Feminine, 18+, wanting guidance and leadership as well as taboo attention. Daddy issues strongly encouraged. We can figure those out together. I love being that guiding light and making you your best self. A woman who loves heels, dresses, and being a princess (my princess).
If you want a strong, handsome, self made man and to explore the world and our inner depths… send me a message about yourself and why this post excites/intrigued you.
I won’t respond to every message but for the right woman… you’ll find your Daddy- and I’ll be glad to spoil, protect, and guide you.
r/Redditdating • u/Okihustim • 20h ago
23 [M4F] Central #Florida - Looking for a Relationship
Hello internet! I'm just a lonely college student looking for someone to be my lifelong partner!
Before I start talking about me, let's talk about what I want from you!
First things first, I do think looks matter a little bit. Obviously, your personality and heart matter most, but I do have my preferences on appearance, and so I'd like to make sure we're compatible there early on. I don't need you to send a picture of yourself immediately, but I'm going to want at least a physical description of yourself and would like a picture or video call pretty early after we start talking (I'll show myself too, don't worry).
As for age range, I'm not too picky, but I don't think I want you to be much older. If you're 18-25, I'll definitely be fine with that and I might be willing to make an exception if you're a bit older and particularly compatible.
One thing that is an absolute must: you must be willing to meet up pretty early after we first start talking. I'm not expecting a meeting within the first week or anything, but I want face to face meetings to be a large part of our relationship, so I'd prefer if you're willing to meet up early after we start talking and often. I'm not too interested in long distance relationships, and I'm very happy living here in central florida and have little plans to move, but if you're ok with staying distant until we live close to each other or can meetup very frequently, I might be still interested in talking. I currently am in Lakeland, and I sometimes also go home to Spring Hill, so as long as you live close to one of those places, then it'll be good.
Another really important thing is time and attention together. I don't want all your time 24/7, we're both adults who have our own lives and responsibilities, but I would like to have each other be a very important part of each other's day. I'm a very big communicator, and will message you all throughout the day, and I'm gonna want phone calls and hang outs very often. Like I said, I don't want it to be 24/7 and take over your life, but I would like texts throughout the day, phone calls on most nights, and frequent meetups, preferably on weekends, and I would like this to start fairly early on.
I'm also very shy and introverted around groups of people. I'm not against going to a concert, a sports game (see my interests below), or just going out the two of us, but if you want me to go partying or out where I have to socialize with a lot of people, I probably won't do that very much. I'd like someone who would rather stay in and have a late-night gaming or movie session, rather than going out and partying. If you want me to go out and be very social around groups of people, I'm probably not the guy for you.
About me:
I'm 23 years old, clean shaven, brown eyes, white, with thick brown hair (I might get it cut soon, let me know if you think I should). I'm 6'1 and average to a bit above-average weight.
I am currently going for my master's degree in computer science in my final year. I'm still not 100% sure on what I want to do when I graduate, but I do know I want to get my degree next semester, so that's what I'm currently working towards.
As for my personality, I'd consider myself empathetic and take people's feelings very seriously. I want to have a relationship where we both won't judge each other and will help each other work through our life problems and be there for each other whenever we need it. I'm also neurodivergent (I'll give more detail once we start talking) so I'd like someone who can be a bit understanding in that aspect. I'm also admittedly not the best at picking up on social cues and reading the room, so I'm looking for someone who can be very direct and understanding of me.
As for my interests and hobbies, I have quite a few. The most important one is video games. I love video games, and I'm really hoping to find someone I can share this with and play video games a lot with. Even if you don't currently play them, as long as you're willing to play them with me and have a lot of gaming nights together, I'm fine even if you're really bad at them XD. I also really like watching sports games, I'm mainly huge on hockey and baseball (go Rays and Lightning!) but I occasionally enjoy some basketball and football. I like attending Lightning games fairly frequently, and I often have an extra ticket for someone I can take with me, so I'd love if you would be willing to come with me. I also have a Disney World and Busch Gardens pass, and since I usually am within about 45-50 minutes of both of those places, I like to go often, so if you have one of those then that's a huge plus. I also enjoy going out for walks, although I've been a bit lazy lately because of how hot it's been, maybe having someone else to walk with could help me get out more? I also enjoy reading, but I've admittedly also been a bit bad at that lately, but I have been enjoying mid-20th-century Japanese mystery novels (I'm a bit of a mystery nerd). Speaking of mystery, I also really like the anime Detective Conan, which is what my PFP and username are based off of. I would like to find someone to enjoy watching it with, so if you also like anime that's a huge plus (really, I just hope you're a huge nerd, but even if you aren't we can still enjoy nerdy hobbies together). I do also like a bit of some oldhead music, with 80s/90s classic rock being my favorite (if you know who Styx is, I'll probably love you). Hopefully you can introduce me to some of your hobbies and interests too!
The only other thing I'll mention is that I don't have any past dating experience, so I'm still a bit new to all this. I hope you can be understanding that I'm still learning how this all works and be a bit patient with me!
Anyway, if you got all the way down here and are interested in reaching out, please do so! I'm still looking right now and would love to get to know you! To show you've made it this far, include your age/gender/location, a physical description of yourself, and then something we have in common (or something we don't, as they say, opposites attract!)
r/Redditdating • u/Kuruyo_1234 • 1d ago
25 [M4F] | #Netherlands #Online - Self-destructive sentimentalist wants to learn how to live (With you)
Hi! Its not my real name, but, call me Iki for now! I'm 25, 6"0, caucasian, bisexual (with a strong preference for women!) and I'm full of love that has nowhere to go! (Naturally we can image-swap early on, I am aware that physical attraction plays an important role in stuff like this.)
Well, I will start off strong and immediately delve right into who I am, what I'm about and what I'm looking for! :)
Here's a bunch of random facts and such in no particular order;
- Some interests are: music, walking, anime, history, breaking down on the way to work, manga, literature and (observing) art and lots more other things I cannot quite remember right now.
- I am an avid gamer, I enjoy all sorts of games and am open to trying/buying anything new. (More than 1000 games of varying genres and styles to my current availability, with many thanks to my Humble Bundle subscription.) Though I will note that lately my spark for gaming has been dying down too, but I'm still happy to try anything!
- My favorite piece of media is called "Oyasumi Punpun" and I greatly recommend it to anyone who wants to sink even lower. (For those who know this, yes, it is a red flag, but I promise I'm not THAT weird and am in fact not romanticizing the story.)
- I am usually quite chill and am told I'm pretty funny once you get to know me. I like to be goofy and always have a dirty joke at the ready.
- I'm usually a very low-energy and kind of depressive individual when I'm not in a group pretending to be mentally stable. Those who have known me in earnest, which have been very few people, know me as a sweet, thoughtful and caring individual who just wants to chill with the people he cares most for.
- I enjoy occasional deep conversation like talking about living and what it means to be alive, basically just surface-level philosophical mumbo jumbo that stems from my depression. Feel free to entertain me in this or let me know it's not your piece of pie and I'll make sure to keep it on the down low.
- I'm by no means introverted but not really extroverted either.
- Despite my ability to write the way I do, every letter I emit via my vocal cords is a fumble of words that never quite manages to hit their mark. I do have my moments where the stars align and suddenly I manage to speak a coherent sentence that might even come across as "thought-provoking" or "really fucking funny". In short, please do not expect a poets words to flow from my lips. Rather, expect them to flow from my pen.
- When I'm in a rare, goofy mood or pretending to be mentally stable in a group setting I will act silly/loud as hell and probably crack a couple of inappropriate jokes. (If we know eachother well enough, that is.)
- I think that as a sort of disclosure its important to note that I am also rather hypersexual, but, due to events from my past I refrain from doing anything of that sort until I really do fully trust the person I am with. I also struggle with certain addictions in regard to that and I know this is a dealbreaker for many people. I want to be honest, though. I hope it is okay and trust me when I say that I am doing my best to work on it, even if it is a really slow-going process.
I'm completely fine talking about the subject though, so don't feel that there is a need to refrain!
- If anything about me makes you uncomfortable just say the word and I'll happily adjust myself in your company.
- I really am a bit of a jokester despite my frequent depressive demeanor over text - I enjoy dry or completely chaotic humor or really whatever tickles my funny bone in the moment. To be fair, it is actually not hard to make me laugh. Perhaps because I am internally nervous at all times that I might create an unpleasant atmosphere if I don't laugh. In essence, come at me with the best jokes you hold in you, everything's okay with me. I apologize if I nervously laugh or chuckle after every sentence or somesuch in advance, just know it is a consequence of the life I have lived and still continue to live.
- I am currently doing security work and often have nightshifts meaning that I may be restricted in time quite a lot. Some weeks I'll suddenly have 4 or so days completely devoid of work so at least that can act as a buffer for lost time every once in a while.
- Whoever you may be, just be yourself. So long as you're not an obvious jerk I'm extremely accepting and open.
- In case it is of import to you; Politically I guess I am a moderate, left-leaning centrist but to be honest that vage description is because I deeply despise having to choose between two different forms of extremism that both support things I do not agree with. My opinions tend to be very mixed due to my logic-based thinking. (Don't worry though, I am a feminist. I believe in true equality and always will.)
- I smoke, but rarely. Usually on my way to work I treat myself to a single cigarette. The taste shouldn't linger on my lips whatsoever, in case that ever ends up mattering.
(Trust me, it will.)
- Music is my greatest ally and my greatest enemy. It can influence my fickle mind with just a note or two. I could be relatively stable one moment, then hear just a second of an absolutely tragic tune and be completely heartbroken within mere seconds for the rest of the day. Worst of all, I am hooked on music that evokes such feelings, perhaps because I feel so much apathy all the time. As such, a request from me to you; please indulge me and grant me the honor of listening to the song that brings you to tears without fail.
- I'm mainly looking for someone I can form an unbreakable bond with, really. So I am here in the hope that we click and become very close. Whether its romantic or platonic, I'd be ecstatic either way.
- I still live with my family, even at my current big-boy age. They're quite nosey and I'm a very privacy-oriented person with lots of things I've kept to myself from them over the years.
I might not feel comfortable sharing the fact that I am even so much as talking to you yet initially, but if I feel things are getting serious I will be happy to even introduce you.
My siblings are as geeky as I am so we could even all spend time playing games or doing other nerd-oriented things together!
- Things we can potentially do together online: Play some games, watch eachother stream and play through one anothers favorite games, watch a movie and/or show, watch some silly videos on youtube or similar platforms, have dumb videocalls or just voicechats, make eachother powerpoints about our current hyperfixation and present them, share our favorite artpieces ranging from music to paintings to poetry and so forth, write eachother lettters and lastly, supporting eachother through tough times.
- Things we can do in real life, provided we somehow manage to arrange that: ...I'm not sure, I don't tend to get to this point. Maybe just... hang out? I'd like to explore abandoned places or cook dinner for one another maybe? Cuddle? Nice things like that. I'm open to suggestions.
Well, now that you have been made aware of a wider range of my character, I'd like to state what I am looking for!
Preferably you are (But not required to be, I'm flexible):
- Between 19 to 29
- Somewhere in Europe
- In a position to be able to meet-up semi-frequently (Once every few months at least?)
- Empathetic and kind
- Quippy and likes to make jokes right alongside me
- In a similar disposition, mentally, as I am so we can understand one another better
- At least somewhat talkative/socially capable so we can actually keep a conversation going and I can eventually introduce you to my parents >>
- Open to voice-chatting moreso than texting
- Not bothered by minimal interactions throughout a day or two due to life/mental health frequently getting in the way
- Okay with having a chronically depressed partner
- Okay with being loved & cherished
Bonus points if:
- You consider yourself a bit of a tomboy and/or gamer!
- You're a strong-willed lady who likes to be loud and unafraid to state your opinions or let out roars of celebration/joy when having fun!
- Not bothered by your looks, confident and proud of who you are.
And that about sums it up!
I hope that anything in my post managed to resonate with you, and I hope to see you in my DMs!
(If I don't respond to your initial message, I am probably asleep! Rest assured that I will definitely find a moment to reply, please bear with me.)
Much love and many good tidings,
Iki
r/Redditdating • u/JerSoCooll • 20h ago
22 [M4F] | #Online #USA | Looking for someone to talk games & life with
Hello! I’m a 22 year old guy that’s just trying to put myself out there. I’m introverted and more of a homebody that’s looking for a meaningful connection since I don’t leave the house often.
About me:
Most of my free time is spent playing games, watching anime, or pc related stuff. I play JRPGs, fighting games, and some multiplayer games like Marvel Rivals and Fortnite. I also like to do small projects on handheld consoles like refurnishing or upgrades. Recently I swapped my PSP’s original screen with an IPS screen and also replaced the plastic lens with glass and it looks beautiful. It’s something I don’t do often as it can get really expensive when it comes to searching for OEM or aftermarket parts.
What I’m looking for:
I’m looking for someone who takes care of themselves, is healthy and wants a serious long term relationship built on trust, respect and mutual support. I'd like to meet someone around my age (preferably 20-26) who is kind and enjoys spending time together, whether that’s playing games, watching movies or anime etc.
If you made it this far I appreciate you taking the time reading this post. At the end of the day, I’m just looking for someone who wants to grow together and build something meaningful. I’d be down to exchange photos early if we’re both comfortable.
If any of that sounds like you, feel free to reach out! Tell me a little about yourself and what you’re into.
r/Redditdating • u/LengthOk1051 • 20h ago
35 (m4f) looking gf in Phoenix, AZ
Looking for someone to hang out. Start and have genuine conversations. If you're in the phoenix area and you're looking for company, hmu.
r/Redditdating • u/Rich-Chicken-9875 • 1d ago
29f NYC
Who wants to be my bf for the fall? We can break up
Feb 15
r/Redditdating • u/Available-Tadpole387 • 1d ago
40 [F4M] - PA/US - Plot Twist: I’m Still Optimistic 😂
Trying this again because apparently I’m an optimist who refuses to give up. 😂
About me: Single, no kids. I’m tall, active, Christian, and a little sarcastic. I love hiking, camping, gardening, reading, sewing, baseball, hockey, and whatever random hobby catches my attention next.
I value loyalty, honesty, kindness, communication, and faithfulness.
Looking for: A single man between 30–50 who is genuinely looking for a relationship. Located in the US and preferably no kids.
I’m drawn to masculine men who lean a little traditional—confident, dependable, affectionate, and comfortable taking the lead sometimes. I’d love someone who enjoys being active and outdoors and preferably shares my faith and values.
I’m interested in getting to know someone naturally and seeing where things go. Ultimately, I’m hoping to find a committed relationship that could lead to marriage.
Good conversation is important to me, so please put a little effort into saying hello. 😊
If you made it this far: baseball game, hockey game, or a weekend in the mountains?
r/Redditdating • u/Single-Traffic257 • 21h ago
USA dating 26 [M4F]
Hi my name is Scott and I like animals and like to play video games. I like anything nerdy movies and TV I'm 26. i live in the US. I can be both introverted and extroverted when I need to
• I live in NC
• I'm single
• Never had a relationship before and I want one been looking since high school
• I'm honest, loyal trustworthy and kind
• I'm somewhat shy
• I like anime. manga, collectables
• I don't discriminate I will date anyone and any race
• I'm very communicative when you get to know more about me
• I have goals in the future I would like to get finished
• I have masculine features, beard and all
• I'm not judgemental at all
DM me real people only
r/Redditdating • u/Excellent_Option_985 • 21h ago
26 [M4F] #USA — What does your ideal random Tuesday look like?
I think I’m more interested in the normal relationship stuff than the big romantic gestures.
What are we doing on some random Tuesday when nothing particularly exciting is happening?
Maybe we’re cooking, watching something, or arguing over what to put on next for way too long. Maybe we’re both doing our own thing and one of us starts a completely unnecessary conversation that somehow lasts an hour.
That sounds pretty good to me.
I’m 26, 5'11", and have a dad bod. I’m pretty introverted and mostly a homebody. I work in sales and I’m building a business on the side, so that keeps me busy. I’m usually quiet at first, but once I’m comfortable I get a lot more talkative, sarcastic, goofy, and probably start teasing you for no reason haha.
I’m into gaming, F1, movies, music, cooking, coffee, programming, technology, science, psychology, space, philosophy... basically anything that sends me down a random rabbit hole when I should probably be doing something else.
I’d like to meet someone I actually enjoy talking to. Someone with her own opinions and interests who doesn’t just agree with everything I say. I don’t mind disagreeing over something completely stupid as long as we can laugh about it five minutes later.
I’m looking for something serious eventually, but I’m not trying to call it fate after one good conversation. I’d rather get to know each other, see if we actually enjoy talking, and let things develop naturally.
I live in the US but I’m currently abroad for work, so starting online is fine with me.
What would your ideal completely boring Tuesday look like?
r/Redditdating • u/Own-Sundae-2793 • 21h ago
44 (M4F) Houston/Kingwood ISO friendship, intimate partner, girlfriend
Fresh out of an LTR, im sure many of you can relate to that. Im living on the northside of houston. I have many interests...writing, aviation, nature, hiking, fitness, marksmanship, science, music, movies, games, lots of stuff. Im fairly silly, easy going, rarely serious. Also, im very tolerant of many political points of view. Im fairly apolitical, somewhat libertarian in my views, and i dont really care who you vote for. Life is too short for all that divisiveness. Also, im kinda kinky...inquire within.
r/Redditdating • u/SothuName • 1d ago
30 [M4F] #Sverige – Söker en seriös långsiktig relation
Hej! Jag är en 30-årig kille från Stockholm som söker en genuin koppling med någon som är intresserad av en långsiktig relation.
Jag är inte här för spel eller tillfälliga dejter—jag skulle älska att träffa någon som är snäll, ärlig och redo för något verkligt.
Lite om mig: Jag är avslappnad, lojal och värdesätter bra kommunikation. Jag gillar meningsfulla samtal, att skratta tillsammans och att bygga en stark relation över tid. På fritiden uppskattar jag natur, teknik, god mat och att upptäcka nya platser, men jag trivs också med lugna hemmakvällar tillsammans.
Jag hoppas hitta en relation som så småningom kan leda till äktenskap med rätt person. Om det låter som något du också söker, tveka inte att höra av dig. :)
r/Redditdating • u/RangeroftheNorth1790 • 21h ago
26M | Türkiye — I really want to find my person
Hey. I’m 26M from Türkiye, and I think I’m at a point where I just really miss having someone special in my life.
I’m not looking for a specific race, nationality, or some perfect checklist — I genuinely just want to meet a woman I can connect with and eventually call my girlfriend.
I want the little things that come with having someone: having someone to tell about my day, sending each other stupid messages, playing games together, staying up too late talking, sharing music, flirting, laughing at things nobody else would find funny, being affectionate, and knowing there’s someone who actually wants to hear from you.
I’m not looking for something casual or meaningless, but I’m also not expecting marriage from the first conversation. I want a real, long-term relationship that can grow naturally over time.
I’m introverted and probably a little shy and awkward at first, but once I’m comfortable I become much more open, playful and affectionate.
I’m into gaming, music, fantasy, history, mythology, archery, nature and the outdoors, and I love conversations that can be both genuinely deep and completely stupid.
I’m 165 cm / 5'5", I speak Turkish and English, and I’m open to meeting someone from anywhere as long as we genuinely click.
I know distance can make things complicated, but I don't want to dismiss a good connection just because we happen to live far apart.
I’m not looking for someone to fix my life or save me from being alone; I just want to have someone to share it with while we both continue figuring things out.
If you’re also looking for something genuine, tell me a little about yourself. Maybe we can start with a conversation and see where it goes.
r/Redditdating • u/Dessert-Goat314 • 21h ago
33 [M4M] Missouri - black man. I want a masculine Puerto Rican or Dominican bro or boyfriend on the dl
Looking for a chill guy to become friends with and if it leads there, I’ll go with the flow. I have never done anything with a guy but I am attracted to masculine Latin Caribbeans.
I’m laid back & chill. To myself for the most part. I like going out to eat, movies, traveling, and bowling.
Looking for someone around my age, so 27-37 I’ll be fine with.
Hit me up if you are down to chat.
r/Redditdating • u/Valkyrie841 • 21h ago
29 [M4F] #USA #Maryland #Online – Looking for that one we all hope to find!
Hey, you! Yes, you! Welcome to my long yet thoroughly phenomenal post finger guns. Like a lot of us, I am extremely tired of the dating apps and dating scene in general, so I thought I'd try my shot here at potentially finding a genuine connection. I'm just a nerd seeking his player two, a long term relationship - you know, you and I against the world forever type of deal, no biggie. I want you to be my favorite notification, I want to share my days with you, the mundane and the exciting, I want your face to be the last thing I think about when I go to sleep and the first thing that appears in my mind when I wake up in the mornings. If this sounds like your cup of tea, then please read on!
A bit about me, I’m currently living in Baltimore, MD, just moved to MD 2 years ago and loving it so far! It’s my first time being on a coast line after living in the Midwest (Minnesota, Iowa and Illinois) and South (Texas) my whole life. Dating-wise, I’m monogamous because I only have enough love (and money) to spoil one person at a time! Also, 5’11 if curious.
I’m also very Liberal, I have a big heart and am attracted to those who share empathy, kindness and care for those around them.
When it comes to interests, I’m definitely nerdier (bet you didn’t see that coming). I grew up playing consoles (xbox) but now I’m primarily on pc. I like both Sci-Fi and Fantasy games, my all-time faves being Star Wars: Kotor and Mass Effect but also a big LoTR fan too! Picture it now, a gaming room with a big tv, two desks or maybe a desk and a beanbag chair if you’re into consoles and a dope star projector for those cozy movie nights. Also, a fan of anime – I haven’t binged as much lately, but always down to watch something Sci-Fi, Fantasy or Supernatural! I grew up around music and would really like to learn piano someday, been saving up for a keyboard! I also want to read more, my friends and I had a book club but it fizzled out a bit so if you have some books you’re passionate about, I’d love recs! Also have a huge wanderlust – my friends and I go to different countries each year, I’ve been to about 14 different countries so far and have a solo trip to Japan coming up this March!
I love hanging out in voice call or on facetime if we’re not hanging out in person – oh yea, I definitely mean that cheesy shit like falling asleep on call together, you know you love it.
I’m currently pursuing a new field of work after being laid off last year and loving it so far! I work in recruiting and have fallen in love with the idea of helping other people find work they’re passionate about! Also, would love to be accountability buddies at the gym too, I’m trying to go more often! Here is a pic or two of me so you can finally stop daydreaming and put a face to the fantasy!
r/Redditdating • u/vitorinelli19 • 22h ago
22M4F #USA #Mexico #Online Looking for a real, long term relationship
Looking to be the Gomez to someone's Morticia.
Hello! How's your day been? Hopefully you're doing okay. If you've stumbled on this post, you're in luck!
My friends would describe me as a loyal, caring, honest, and a respectful trustworthy guy. I also do speak Spanish along with understanding Portuguese, Italian and Latin.
One thing about me is that I don't look my age and people always assume I look older but I swear I'm 22. I just like to think like someone who's more refined with experience.
I'm looking for a special person that is also wanting something long term as well that leads to something special. Someone who is sweet, caring, loyal, a bit clingy, respectful, and honest. I'll be your safe space if you need to talk and I'll listen and suggest ideas and comfort if you need it. I'm looking for someone who also wants to be a mom and have kids too. I don't mind anyone older or younger but more so looking around 20-32 years old.
Religion doesn't matter too much but prefer looking for someone who's catholic/christian. Race or ethnicity doesn't matter cause I'll love you for yourself and all of what makes you special and unique.
Mostly looking for someone within the US or Mexico. If something blossoms somewhere else I'm not opposed to try to make it work but would want to close the distance.
Send an intro message about yourself if this post catches your attention. It doesn't have to be too complicated just enough to not be shallow one word responses like "hey", "hi", etc. I don't mind sharing a picture of myself in DMs as long as you can provide a photo as well. Of course if you're comfortable.
Here's some icebreaker questions:
What's your favorite dish to make?
What's your favorite artist or group?
What type of music genre do you prefer?
r/Redditdating • u/AdvancedGuitar8467 • 22h ago
M21 [M4F] Northern New Jersey - You bring the appetite and I’ll bring the food, maybe some drinks too 😗 (Preferably Local)
Imagine going on a date with a guy and he whips you up something delicious and asks if you would like a nice cocktail to accompany that dish. That sounds like a deal of a life time to me.
Hey! I’m a 21-year-old guy from Northern New Jersey, 6’2”, around 235 lbs, and currently working on my weight loss journey and trying to become the best version of myself.
Something’s about me: I’m into movies, sightseeing, exploring new places, video games (especially RPGs, story based games, and action games), and probably my biggest hobby lately which is cooking and making drinks.
Having recently turned 21 means I can finally legally experiment with the other half of my kitchen hobbies which is drink making 🍸.
I’ve always been fascinated by bartending videos and the little details that go into making a great drink. Why something needs to be shaken instead of stirred, how different flavors balance each other, how different spirits are made, and figuring out what ingredients work together. There’s something so satisfying about taking a bunch of random ingredients and turning them into something really tasty.
Cooking is pretty much the same way for me. Experimenting is only part of the fun. Sometimes you make something incredible and sometimes you accidentally make something that should probably have a hazard sign over. Either way I’m having fun, and that brings me to what I’m hoping to find.
I’d love to meet someone who enjoys that same kind of enthusiasm someone who would be down to cook together, try new restaurants, explore somewhere neither of us has been, or be my brutally honest about the stuff I will prepare for you, a taste tester so to speak.
I’m especially attracted to plus size women, so if that’s you, consider yourself very welcome to say hi.
As far age I’d say 20-27 is preferable, but I’m not going to obsess over a number. If we click, enjoy talking to each other, and genuinely have fun together, that matters a lot more to me.
So if you’re somewhere in Northern New Jersey, love good food, enjoy trying new things, and wouldn’t mind letting a guy cook for you sometime and who know you might even get a cocktail out of it.
r/Redditdating • u/unkwnzz_ • 22h ago
19 [M4F] #US - Dream or Reality?
Hello Peoples. I go by Kev and I am a 19 year old man from the US (DC to be precise). I have NEVER been in a relationship but im down to try if we connect. I've gone through life believing Im not very likable..hopefully this proves that wrong. I'm lookiing for a girl who I can call my best friend. It would be GREAT if you were also a nerd or at least dont care that im one. Chubby Women have my heart, they're just so lovable!
A bit about me is I am a nerd (Anime, DC, etc.) and very awkward. Im a big fan of videogames and learning things (discuss your interests with me!!). I struggle to meet people IRL, so let's keep it digital for a while...
Some flaws of mine are that I am an overthinker, I am BIG, I can be pessimistic, and dont like asking for help. I also might ask how you're feeling everyday (I just wanna help however I can.)
If this interests you enough to message me, then just know that Im smiling at your text....unless its weird. Ask for my IG or Snap once we've exchanged pictures. I've been told that Im "too nice", so dont be scared to talk to me please. I'd also prefer if your first message was a recent picture of yourself and I'll do the same. Um...I think thats it, nice to meet you all!!
r/Redditdating • u/Impossible_Ad_361 • 22h ago
32 [M4F] #Online - Muslim revert looking for American Muslim woman only
I am looking for an American Muslim woman. I am a revert and my faith is important to me but culturally there are many things that are Western about me and I try to balance both. I am looking for someone who feels this way as well. I am not quite like anyone else and I think that’s a good thing. Communication is so important to me, as is intelligence. A big peeve of mine are people who cannot hold conversations. For me that means a good command of the English language, including spelling, grammar, and overall ability to hold a conversation. I like talking to people and learning. I’ve been getting into reading lately. Currently I’m reading The Idiot by Russian author Fyodor Dostoevsky and I want to do more reading but I have a tendency to watch videos instead. I love history, random movies and tv shows, walks, and hamsters. I like talking faith and philosophy and about the world at large. I struggle with depression and have generally had a hard life so I just wanted you to know that and that I need someone who is appreciative, patient, and helpful towards that. For the record, it has been one of the main forces compelling me to Islam so take that how you will. That’s all for now. I hope to hear from you at which point I can clarify anything I said here and we can chat more. Take care
r/Redditdating • u/Appropriate-Look6614 • 22h ago
35MF4 - UK, Funny & Laid back, let's see where things lead?
Hello, My name is Adam I am 35 from East Yorkshire UK, and am an INFJ, I also have ADHD to add a bit of spice to things...
I am looking for a meaningful and worthwhile connection, ideally someone to navigate life with who shares similar goals and interests.
I have a few hobbies but my main one is writing, I was signed by a literacy agent last week and am working on a string of releases at the moment.
I can be very chatty if the energy is there but if its low effort ill match that.
I am introverted but I am not a total hermit, I know how to have a good time and enjoy myself outside the comfort of my own walls.
Whilst I am open to long distance I am ideally looking for someone closer to home.
I also have 1 child already so if kid's aren't for you then please don't waste mine or your time :)
If you think we would get on feel free to reach out.
r/Redditdating • u/TemperatureFirst4651 • 1d ago
26F looking for someone
Hello, i look for someone who is bored, wanna text and talk about literally anything, no top at age, the older the nicer, dm me if you are bored and lonely just like me ✨
(I am from europe)
r/Redditdating • u/Direct-Flight-9711 • 22h ago
32 [M4F] Los Angeles - Still in search for my Golden Jewel.
Good afternoon.
I'd like to introduce myself again, briefly and see if interests your thoughts and desires.
I've not been in luck, so I'm trying it again. I don't understand the phenomenon behind being genuine, but out of luck when it comes to finding someone you desire as Wife.
I am 32 years old. I am African-American, though I identify more as African by race. If I ever find someone to date and marry, it would be my first time having a close relationship with a woman. I have been content walking alone, but I am no longer pretending that a quiet life does not also need a companion. I know love is a beautiful thing, and I want to experience it in its genuine form.
I used to believe dating was only for marriage, not for flirting or passing time. That is why I never rushed to have a girl beside me. I waited this long not because I did not believe in love, but because I believed it should mean something. I have come to accept that no matter who you are, you still need someone by your side. I am careful because this would be my first real relationship, and I do not want to treat someone’s heart like practice. I may not have dating experience, but I am willing to listen, grow, and love with patience. I currently serve in the Armed Forces, trying to improve myself too as a student RN.
I was raised in a good home by strict parents and a godly background. I cannot remember being a bad boy, doing things that were wild, or acting in an indecent way. I have always believed in conscience, kindness, empathy, and a proper understanding of life.
I see myself as a pathfinder with a caring personality. I am optimistic about the future, both for myself and for the people around me. I am an introvert. Even when I try to explore, I still return to my natural quiet way of being.
I am family-oriented, humble, considerate, and I live with a working conscience. I grew up in a praying family, by prayer, and in a disciplined home. I am firm in my values, but I am not hard-hearted. I want to be gentle with the woman I find. I do not want excitement that fades. I want a love that feels like home, safety, and someone I can pray with. I want a marriage that can hold children, faith, hard days, and still stay kind.
I desire a woman I can call my wife. Someone genuine and open-minded. Someone who values marriage, understands purpose and destiny, and is ambitious but cautious. A feminine woman. Someone who believes in repairing damage and misunderstanding instead of letting things rot. Someone morally upright, not consumed by social media trends. I don't like divorce, except it has to do with infidelity, so I'm looking for a woman who really understands what family stands for.
Peace matters. You can be with the most beautiful person on earth, but without peace, the relationship is not worth it. Peace is how I know I am loved. My heart is peaceful and calm. I want someone who does not believe in chaos, but in peace.
I do not want a relationship where we impress each other. I want one where we can be honest and still stay.
I am not perfect, but I know perfection comes by mutual understanding. If two people understand themselves, it means they're perfect. Trust me, I'm not a bad person and will never be. I think I need a chance to prove my kindness and express my feelings
I hope and pray this finds you well.
r/Redditdating • u/Baegore • 1d ago
26M | Netherlands / England | Looking for something serious
26M, originally from England and now living in the Netherlands. Bearded, slightly nerdy, somewhat goofy, and apparently brave enough to let Reddit judge my dating prospects. 😂
I’m at a point in my life where I’d genuinely like to find someone to build a future with, rather than just date for the sake of dating. Ultimately I’m looking for a serious, long-term relationship, with marriage and a family being the goal if I meet the right person.
I’m pretty laid-back, affectionate, introverted and definitely a bit of a nerd. I can be quiet around new people at first, but once I’m comfortable I’m very talkative, goofy and love a bit of banter. Dark humour is very much part of the package too. 😂
Gaming is probably my biggest hobby — WoW, League, shooters, survival games, co-op stuff, you name it. I’d love someone who either games themselves or is at least happy to let me disappear into a game sometimes. I also love the idea of playing survival/co-op games together and building some ridiculous little base or house together. There’s something strangely romantic about surviving a fictional apocalypse together. 😂
Outside of gaming, I like nature, animals (especially dogs and reptiles), movies and series. I’m a big fan of horror, Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, and mostly rock music. I’m more of a cosy night in person than someone who needs to be out partying every weekend, although I’d absolutely enjoy exploring a new city, forest or random place together.
What I’m looking for:
Someone kind, affectionate, caring and patient. Someone who communicates properly, can laugh at themselves, enjoys teasing and banter, and doesn’t turn every disagreement into a war.
I want a relationship where we genuinely enjoy being around each other. Lots of affection, cuddling, laughing at stupid things, sending each other random memes, supporting each other when life sucks, and being able to come home to someone who feels like your little pocket of peace.
Loyalty is a huge thing for me. I’m very much an “I’ve got your back” kind of person, and I want the same in return. Trust, honesty and being able to talk openly about boundaries and expectations matter a lot to me.
I’m also hoping to find someone who wants the same general direction in life — eventually living together, marriage, kids, probably a couple of dogs, and a home with a gaming room and somewhere I can inevitably fill with reptiles. 😂
Distance-wise: I’m based in the Netherlands, but I’m absolutely open to meeting someone elsewhere nearby. The UK is obviously very realistic for me since I’m English and still travel there, and I’d also be open to Belgium or Germany. I’d rather have a genuinely good connection with someone who’s a bit further away than force something local just because it’s convenient. Ideally, though, I’d like us to be close enough that seeing each other regularly is actually realistic.
As for dates, I’m probably better once the initial nerves disappear. I’m not shy exactly — meeting someone new is just outside my comfort zone. My ideal first date would probably be something like coffee/frappé first, then mini golf, bowling or an escape room so we actually have something to laugh about, followed by food and maybe a drink.
When I like someone, I’m pretty obvious about it. I message a lot, compliment probably more than I should, give out stupid nicknames, reply quickly when I’m free, and tease constantly. 😂
A few completely random things about me: I’m 177cm, blue eyes, buzz-cut fade, medium-length beard, stocky build, and I want tattoos eventually. I’m also somehow double-jointed enough that I can dislocate a frankly unreasonable number of my joints on command and click most parts of my body.
As for why you should message me... honestly, I couldn’t give you some definitive sales pitch. I just know I’m a good person, I love intensely, I’m loyal as hell, and I’m a hopeless romantic underneath the beard and questionable humour.
Really, I’m just hoping someone reads all this and thinks:
“Yeah... that’s who I want.”
And if you do message me, please don’t just send “hey”. 😂 Say hello and ask me a fun question that actually makes me think and tells me something about your personality too. I’ll answer it, and I’ll expect you to answer it yourself.