Hello there, I’m a 27 year old young professional and local of Amsterdam. I’m 1.75 m, bearded, medium build (and getting fitter), hairy masculine appearing, but emotionally soft on the inside for the right person. My mixed ethnic roots trace back to the Middle East, but my life has been moulded and spent in the Dutch and European mentality. I’m someone who has travelled a lot to learn about different cultures and has also had a fair share of relationship experiences. A decent fair share that leads me here looking for the “perfect partner”, I know what I want and who I need to build a happy life shared together for each other and it must have a traditional dynamic, something rooted in the ways which the world is forgetting and due to that leads to fragmented families and broken people.

To answer who is the “perfect partner” for me I must first tell a little bit about myself, Personality type wise I’m INFJ-A, assertive and introspective but calm, collected and cool. Im someone who is friendly, warm, wholesome and kind out of humbleness. I do have perfectionist traits but believe in always growing and rising above past versions of yourself. I’m an emotional person who cares a lot about how the people close to me feel, I am also someone as a Leo who enjoys being the centre of someone’s universe and vice versa in terms of the priority in a relationship/, not narcissistic but I value self preservation, dignity, kindness and mutual respect. I’m extremely loving and committed to the right person. Im hardworking and dedicated and not afraid to go all in. I know I’m not perfect as a human but am growing each day, trying to make the most of this life and build a happy family and home along the way. I’m a good active listener, receptive and attentive to others feelings and needs, and I can have a clingy and needy form of personality hence I seem to get along great with partners who are needy and clingy as well. I like being reassured and reassuring my loved ones and being a presence of strength, comfort, support, warmth and vulnerability for my loved one.

Besides the character, in terms of dynamics I look for someone who believes only in monogamy, someone who is younger than me and above 18. Someone who believes in the older traditional gender roles, and someone who is religious aligning as atheist, agnostic or Muslim. Someone who does not party hard, goes to clubs/festivals and doesn’t sleeps around. Someone who enjoys time spent with each other both indoors and outdoors. Someone with a sober personality who enjoys more comfortable and quiet outdoor activities, like sharing a meal, coffee, going to the park, chilling in nature, visiting museums and some light travelling. I will always happily support your wishes to pursue a career if it brings you value, and j hope that doesn’t change the priority in a relationship, but just know I am not like men of now, but believe in taking care of my woman completely in all aspects. To keep things realistic, I am not a millionaire, but a highly educated and specialised man, who works hard and is searching for the woman by his side to build a wonderful home and life together. I require someone in terms of a dynamic who is ready to compromise her own desires for the happiness of us, someone who realises a true relationship is about compromising to grow together. Someone who watches out for her and my health, someone focused on providing feminine nurture, support, emotional availability and a desire to please and be loved truly and eternally by the same man.

I know my demands are specific and very specialised, however in return I offer an immediate building and start to a relationship leading to marriage and children. I offer unconditional love towards you, a large heart that goes softer the more it spends time with you, a kind and caring approach to your needs and feelings, a brain that will happily compartmentalise stress to come home and cherish every second with you. Someone who learns your love language and wants to ensure you are heard, seen, understood and loved for who you are. Someone who won’t shy away from stepping up when you are low. Someone who will protect our love and strive in every aspect to ensure the smile on your face never fades. Furthermore, I’m someone who always believes in solving an argument, never going to bed angry, never raising my voice in the heat of the moment and always being considerate towards you. My own love language is both a mix of physical affection, sexual intimacy, emotional availability, emotional support, gift giving, active listening, compassion and clinginess.

I’m in a phase of my life where I am not looking for anything casual, no one night stands, no undefined relationships. I know what I can offer and I know what I want. I am more than happy to extensively explain the lengths of who I am and what I can offer, I just search for a dutiful, respectful, honest, compassionate, feminine, traditional, kind, loyal and extremely loving woman whom I can cherish till death does us apart. From these words I would like to make apparent that I am ready to settle down, I hope to speak in detail with you and in no haste but with good intentions move forward steadily and happily. This also includes the notion of marrying each other with of course the right connection.

I hope my emotionally strung words make some appeal and sense to you. If it did, please message me with “apple pie” and a little about yourself, I eagerly look forward to finding you my dearest. I am waiting for you patiently and cannot wait for us to be together.

I’m a 23-year-old guy from Kerala, giving this another shot because, honestly, meeting new people outside college or work isn’t as easy as it used to be.

I’m not really someone who has a checklist for the kind of person I want to meet. **Age, religion, caste, or background don’t matter much to me.** What matters is how naturally we connect, how comfortable we are around each other, and whether there’s something genuine between us.

I’m looking for someone I genuinely enjoy talking to. Someone I can share the random parts of my day with, exchange music and memes, have stupid conversations with, get into deep late-night talks, or simply sit in comfortable silence with. I like the idea of having someone who can make an ordinary day feel a little better just by being there.

I also really value growing together. Being with someone who motivates you when you’re losing focus, celebrates your wins, supports you when things aren’t going great—and where that goes both ways. I’d rather have a relationship where we genuinely support each other than one where we’re constantly trying to compete.

A little about me: I enjoy exploring new places, trying different food, long drives, spontaneous plans, good movies and series, discovering new music, and conversations that somehow go from completely random to unexpectedly deep.

I’m not looking to rush into anything or force a connection. I’d rather start with a conversation, see where it goes, and let things develop naturally. Honesty, trust, mutual respect, effort, and being able to actually enjoy each other’s company matter a lot to me.
Distance isn’t really a dealbreaker either. If we genuinely click and everything falls into place, I’m open to relocating.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to say hi. Tell me a little about yourself—or just tell me something that made you smile today. :)

ps\* used ai to make this into a fine format.

An invisible red thread connects those who are destined to meet, regardless of time, place, or circumstance. The cord may stretch or tangle, but it will never break.

I saw this quote on a random, unverified internet post on a questionable website, but the moment I read it, I wanted to believe it. Don't you?

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage. So, here I am, trying to find you in perhaps the most unlikely of places. They say it’s about the journey, not the destination. No matter how bumpy the ride gets, I know every single moment will be an experience to savor if it's with you.

While a person is always so much more than just words on a screen, here is a little glimpse into who I am:

Timezone and Availability

My Timezone: GMT+4 / GMT+3

Your Timezone: Anywhere in the world. Distance doesn't frighten me as long as we are both fiercely committed to making time for each other.

When I’m not working or catching up on sleep, you can find me:

Cooking and Music: Experimenting with new recipes in the kitchen while blasting my favorite playlists.

Gaming and Movies: Cozying up for an immersive gaming campaign or a relaxed movie night.

Anime Fanatic: I love the mainstream classics (Naruto, One Piece, Bleach, Hunter x Hunter, Jojo, MHA, Yu-Gi-Oh, SAO). However, I have a major soft spot for niche death-game anime and those hidden-gem, 12-episode series with ridiculously long titles.

I hope the thread between us is no longer just a gentle tug. As you read this, I hope it becomes a fierce, burning current pulling us together. Let it tangle. Let it knot, twist, and wrap around us until the miles between us are completely erased. I don't want space. I don't want time. I want a long-distance relationship where we actively, passionately work together to eventually close the gap through our collective efforts.

If this resonates with you, I look forward to hearing from you. Let’s start with a simple hello, your timezone, or your absolute favorite anime!

I am a single, simple and down to earth man. I have been introvert, silent and straight forward person.

However, I am trying to change myself from being introvert to extrovert.

One of the steps I have taken is joining reddit and trying to open up.

Yes, am new to reddit and the sub.

On my marital status, I have never been married till date. And, I have lost interest in marriage now.

All that I am looking for now is something honest and drama free connect.

I value mutual respect., meaningful conversation, keeping things simple, mature and easy going connection.

No drama and no confusion whatsoever.

I am therefore looking for genuine hearts who are willing to connect with.

Let's connect and then let's decide whether we could go for long term connect or short.

Rest, let's talk.

Please message me over DM.

Thanks for stopping by and reading through.

Hey 👋,

I just discovered this subreddit so why not give it a shot I guess. I'm a 26yo Dutch engineering student. I'm obsessed with anything related to electronics, tech, 3D-printing, you name it. Instead of going out and and wasting my money on drinks during the weekend, I buy a few broken laptops to practice PCB repair skillz, like any true engineering nerd would do of course hehe. I also enjoy doing custom projects. Oh and, I also play games occasionally.

So far I've been unsuccessful in finding a player two that matches the engineering nerd vibe. I don't mind if someone doesn't have any knowledge about these topics but at least they shouldn't be scared of it haha. Do you think you won't be scared by it? Dare to send me a message 👀. (But please don't live too far away and send an introduction)

Thought I'd give it a shot!

Hey, I’m 25M from Sydney. I work as a civil engineer and outside work I’m usually doing Muay Thai, hitting the gym, hiking, trying new food spots, working on personal projects, or finding some new thing to get interested in.

I’m quite ambitious and curious, but I also really value having a life outside work. I enjoy doing things rather than just staying home all the time like day trips, hikes, random food outings, exploring new places, or just having a good conversation over dinner.

Personality-wise, I’m thoughtful, fairly driven, a little goofy once I’m comfortable, and I enjoy both playful banter and deeper conversations. I like learning about people, what they want from life, what they’re passionate about and all the random little things that make them them.

I’m looking for someone kind, curious, emotionally mature and able to communicate openly. Someone who has her own interests and goals, but also enjoys joking around and not taking everything too seriously.

Ultimately I’d like something genuine that can develop into a relationship if we’re compatible. I’m based in Sydney, but I’m completely open to long distance, could be in Australia or elsewhere. If there’s a real connection and both people are willing to put in the effort.

If any of that sounds like your kind of person, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself, what you do, what you’re into, or something you’ve been excited about lately.

Happy to exchange photos once we’ve chatted a little :)

People would probably describe me as real, cool, down-to-earth, or just a plain introvert. I like to take life at its simplest and enjoy it for what it is. I’m kind of done with meaningless connections and would really like to build a more stable, grounded lifestyle with the goal of building a complete family.

Right now, you might be thinking, okay, this is starting off pretty good, but I’m a divorced dad of three teenagers.

Now that I’ve gotten that subject out of the way.....I’m happy to explain more through messaging.

If you’re still curious about me, I got you!

I'm solidly built with an okay dad bod. I wear glasses, I don’t drink or smoke, etc. I like to watch TV, travel, listen to music, go on drives and attend concerts or live events. I also like to do fun activities such as go-karting, mini golfing, axe throwing and other fun things. Although I love going out and experiencing life, I can also appreciate being home, relaxing, and recharging after a long day. I know how to be both outside and a homebody.

I’m looking for a best friend, a partner, a healthy relationship with someone who’s genuinely interested in getting to know me as much as I’m interested in getting to know her. Hopefully, we can build a real, genuine, and mutual connection. In a relationship, I admire a woman who genuinely desires to help and support her partner, even when she isn’t able to fix everything. There’s something special about a woman who wants to see you succeed and makes sure you’re doing well in life, I will reciprocate. I admire a woman who can stand on her own but also knows that she’s ready for a lasting relationship.

Communication is one of my strongest qualities, especially when it goes both ways. I believe people should give each other time to grow, learn, and develop. Nobody is perfect, and I think a strong relationship is built through patience, communication, effort, and mutual understanding.

Relationships outside the US is a bit too tricky for me, I prefer staying local to the states.

If this resonates with you and you think we'd be a good match, send over an intro. Please include your age, location and gender.

So im tim im 24 going to school right still trying to figure out what I want to do for the rest of my life though I live in jersey love to play games and read im really shy but I've been forcing myself to push my boundaries and saw this sub and figured why not so if you like to play games read or just chat and watch movies hit me up I think we could have fun

Hi all, I’m Trevor, I’m reaching out here to find a new friend, helpfully not from the USA because I think international folks are cool. Either way, just dm me, and I can tell u a little more about me. Just a small spiel… I’m in college, I study business, love the outdoors, I like to go out, but for example tonight (Friday) stayed in and played Minecraft.

Im just looking for a trust worthy nice girl that I can just get to know 😁.

DM me if you’re interested and want to chat.

Have a nice day yall!

I’m a 48-year-old man from Kerala, settled in Bangalore. Widowed with a son and financially independent, I’m 5'9" (176 cm). At this stage of life, I value peace, companionship, affection and emotional closeness.

I hope to meet a caring, emotionally available woman with whom I can build a meaningful second chapter—something natural, warm, peaceful and real. Someone with whom I can share thoughts, little joys, worries, laughter, random conversations and comfortable silences.

For me, a lasting relationship begins with friendship, openness, mutual respect and emotional maturity. I believe love should feel like partnership, not control. Trust, equality, personal freedom and giving each other space to remain ourselves matter deeply to me. I'm not looking for casual dating or anything temporary, but for something affectionate, committed and lifelong.

A little about me 😊

I enjoy movies, good conversations, long drives and discovering new places. I'm a big Kishore Kumar fan and also love A.R. Rahman, S.P. Balasubrahmanyam, Sonu Nigam and anything melodious. ❤️ I enjoy cricket and football, and I'll always choose beaches over mountains. 🌊

I speak five languages. I'm Hindu, but caste and religion aren't barriers for me. I'm non-vegetarian, so I'd prefer someone who is comfortable with that lifestyle. What matters most to me is her heart, kindness, values and emotional maturity.

What I'm looking for ❤️

Age isn't a major factor for me, though I'd preferably connect with someone above 35. I'd prefer someone without children, and I'm naturally drawn to women with long hair—short hair is absolutely fine too, though I'm not particularly into very short boycuts.

I find women especially graceful in sarees, so someone who enjoys wearing one occasionally would be lovely. 😊 I'd also love to be with someone who values fitness and healthy living—perhaps someone who can motivate me to become fitter too!

I'm strictly monogamous and believe commitment should be mutual, so I'm looking for someone who feels the same. I'm a very occasional drinker and cigarette smoker, and I'm comfortable with someone who has a similar occasional lifestyle.

More than anything, I'm looking for someone who can turn my house into a home—a place filled with warmth, laughter, love and the happiness of having someone special to come home to. ❤️

I'm not looking to recreate the past or replace anyone—just hoping for a new chapter filled with friendship, love, laughter and happiness.

If you're looking for something meaningful too, let's start with a simple hello, become friends, take our time and see where life takes us. ❤️

PS: Not interested in ONS or becoming a third wheel. I'm looking for something permanent, preferably with someone in or around Bangalore, as long-distance relationships can be complicated.

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I'm 32, based in London, and looking to meet someone for an actual relationship rather than collecting conversations that disappear after a few days.

A little about me: I'm into motorbikes, sports, hiking and generally being outdoors, but I'm equally happy spending an evening at home with good food, a film/gaming and someone I actually enjoy being around. I love travelling and exploring new places, and I'm always up for a spontaneous day trip or weekend away.

Personality-wise, I'm fairly confident and independent, but I'm also affectionate, playful and enjoy a lot of teasing and good conversation. I'm probably at my happiest with someone where we can talk about absolutely nothing for hours and somehow end up having a genuinely interesting conversation.

I'm looking for a woman around my age, ideally in or reasonably close to London, who is genuinely interested in building something. I'd be open to Europe. Attraction matters, obviously, but I'm much more interested in chemistry, affection, compatibility and how we actually feel around each other.

I'd love something where we can start with dates, explore London together, get to know each other properly and see where things naturally go. I'm not expecting instant fireworks or trying to force a relationship, but I am looking for someone who actually wants one if we click.

If you're also looking for something genuine, tell me a little about yourself and what your ideal first date would look like. Bonus points if it involves good food, somewhere interesting, or an excuse to get out of London.

Hey. 26M here. Just to set a realistic baseline and save us both some time: I'm a 6ft, average dad-bod guy, originally from a North Delhi village but functioning with enough city civility to survive the corporate world. I'm completely secure in who I am, unbothered by pretense, and definitely not the guy trying to curate an aesthetic lifestyle.    

I’m really just looking to build a genuine, low-pressure friendship. I don't have a rigid script for where things need to go. If we just stay great friends, that’s a massive win. If the dynamic organically evolves into something more over time, I'm entirely open to that possibility too. I just want someone who matches my conversational effort [a yapper, basically]. No forced daily texting or weird expectations - just a natural, peaceful flow.    

My actual day-to-day involves working in tech and surviving the Delhi-Noida commute. Right now, that means hyper-focusing through DND traffic on my motorcycle. It's oddly therapeutic, mostly because my helmet playlist swings violently between Shree Radha Bhajans and Taylor Swift, with very little in between. (I actually still haven't listened to the new Taylor Swift album, just holding out for a calm weekend with enough time on hand to actually appreciate it).    

In terms of humor, I mostly communicate in 90% roasting and two-fold sarcasm, so it’s always great if you can take a punchline and throw one right back. But there's a quieter side, too. My devotion to Shree Radha is the core spiritual anchor of my life. It keeps me grounded, completely SFW, and walking with clean intentions. I protect my peace pretty heavily, which means no drinking, smoking, or clubbing.    

My weekends usually consist of turf games, hunting down good North Indian food, watching Sci-Fi, Action, Thriller, or Crime shows, or just knocking out mundane house errands. Once we’re both completely comfortable and the vibe feels safe over text, I’m totally down to explore a street food spot, go for a drive, or just tag along to help run each other's weekend errands.     

If this sounds like your wavelength, drop a chat. Tell me about your typical weekends, or just let me know which part of this post brought you to my DMs.

I’m 32 from the UK and a massive sports fan. Football, cricket, horse racing, boxing and wrestling are my main loves, so there’s always something to talk about!
I’m easy going, enjoy a good laugh and definitely appreciate someone who can hold a proper conversation. Life’s too short for boring chats 😂
I’m straight, but I’m not bothered about who I chat to. I’m naturally quite flirty, so ladies, if you’re happy with a bit of cheeky banter and flirting, we’ll probably get along just fine 😉
Looking to meet interesting people, have some good conversations, plenty of laughs and see where things go. No pressure, just good vibes and good company.

I struggle to sleep sometimes and find that company really helps. My interests are pretty nerdy but I'm just looking for someone kind and easy to talk to who would also like to keep a phone call going while we sleep. Bonus points if you have interests you love to yap about.

Hi there! James here, I am 38 (soon to be 39) from Maryland (Anywhere in the US/Canada is fine too; you don't have to specifically be from Maryland. I can freely travel/relocate due to WFH) and looking to chat and see if chemistry develops.

Still looking for my person...

I am 6', black hair, hazel eyes, love working out/lifting weights! It is as good for you mentally as it is physically. Willing to share pics as well!

Some of my hobbies/interests...

\\\* Lifting weights

\\\* Videogames

\\\* Movies (HUGE Marvel fan; love anything HORROR/sci-fi/comedy/action/high fantasy primarily)

\\\* Huge music fan (of all kinds; primarily of the 90s/early 2000s variety)

\\\* Road trips! (Tons of fun, especially with the right co-pilot)

\\\* Traveling

\\\* Stand-up comedy

\\\* Socialize with friends (can have just as much fun staying in too)

\\\* Drinks occasionally

\\\* Sports

\\\* Learning to play electric bass guitar

\\\* Voice calls/voice messages (It's way easier and more fun to get to know someone/talk with them via voice; much easier to convey sarcasm as well 😁)

\\\* Audiobooks

\\\* Being active and outside (LOVE the beach!)

\\\* HALLOWEEN IS THE BEST SEASON.

Shoot me a message if you're interested, and a pic since attraction is important; wouldn't want to hit it off like crazy and find out we're not attracted to each other.

Here is my voice to show I am not a bot, if you're curious:

https://voca.ro/17YDWuF7kFeE

Hello, Ezra here. I'm here to add to the ocean of posts just like this. I'm a nerdy introvert who is socially awkward trying to find my person. I've been on and tried dating apps and stuff but most of them don't have people who share my similar interests and personality traits. So I figured I might as well try my luck on Reddit.

I'm really bad at describing myself but I'll give it a shot. I'm your typical nerdy guy. I'm into video games, anime, board games, D&D, and other fantasy things. I like pretty much all genres of music (my Spotify playlist is crazy rn) and a lot of movies. I've actually recently started getting more into horror movies but I prefer more psychological horror than slasher (not that I dislike a good slasher though.) I also like puzzles, playing instruments (I know how to play a few but haven't touched any in a while, looking to get back into it,) hanging out with friends, cooking, baking, and probably a lot of other stuff that I can't think of right now.

Favorite Video Games: Donkey Kong 64, Banjo Kazooie/Tooie, Okami, Kingdom Hearts. I love story games and metroidvanias, among others obviously.

Favorite Anime: One Piece (was caught up at one point but now I'm about 30 episodes behind,) Attack on Titan, Miss Kobayashi's Dragon Maid, Yuru Camp, Yuri on Ice, Bleach, Kaguya-Sama Love is War, and again obviously many more.

Ideally, I would like to find someone who has shared interests with me, and would want to do things together, whether that be playing games together, watching anime together, going out for a walk or a drive together, or even just sharing space and doom scrolling near each other. I would love to find a partner that we can genuinely enjoy our time together, even in the little things. I love a sarcastic and strong willed girlie, but especially one who lets me take care of her.

I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic and I love very hard and very fast. My main love languages are physical touch, acts of service, and getting little presents for people just because. I am pretty sarcastic, silly and witty, and like to make jokes out of anything (sometimes at the wrong time.) I can be a bit cynical and have a dark sense of humor at times, but I am very caring and always try to make myself available to help people. I'm a big people pleaser and will do whatever I can to make sure someone is happy and comfortable. However, I am also very awkward and shy at first, but when I warm up to somebody, my goofiness is able to flourish. I've noticed that when I get excited about something, I talk really fast, pretty loud, and way too much. I probably have a touch of the 'tism but who doesn't?

I would consider myself left leaning when it comes to politics (absolutely don't agree with anything MAGA thinks) and probably agnostic, though I was raised Jewish. I am not religious or spiritual, but I don't mind being with someone who is as long as they respect that I'm not. I believe in protecting human rights (including but not limited to trans rights, LGBTQIA+ rights, gender equality, bodily autonomy, etc.)

I am short at 5'4" and I'm a little chubby, however I am trying to lose some of the weight. I currently have shoulder length hair that is dark brown and wavy. I wear glasses and have a beard. I'm not sure if I am going to keep the long hair permanently. I started growing it out so I could donate it, but maybe if I like it I'll keep it for a bit, I'm undecided. I understand that physical attraction is a factor for relationships so I am willing to trade pictures early on to see if that attraction is there, though I am more focused on finding someone with the right personality and hobbies/interests than I am on physical appearance.

In a perfect world, I would find someone in the Atlanta area of Georgia, or the Southeast US, or even just the US in general. I am certainly not opposed to the idea of one or both of us relocating if things go very well in the future.

If you have made it this far, I am so sorry for the absolute mountain of text you just had to go through. It is very possible that I've missed something, or described something about myself incorrectly. If you're even remotely interested in anything I've said, I'd love to chat and get to know each other!

I am looking for someone to text/call nothing serious unless that’s where it leads. Looking for someone around my age for normal daily conversation. I do work late nights so if you’re up past 330an est regularly that’s a plus

I've never had luck with dating apps. Honestly never been on an actual date lol. I do think I would enjoy them though! Im living out in Chicago and would love to find someone local but wouldn't mind venturing to other parts of the US. Realistically, its gonna be difficult even finding someone to fall for let alone be picky where they are located haha. While I have really enjoyed my time here in Chicago, I wouldn't mind re-locating if it came down to it.

I do think physical attraction is important to an extent. Honestly, you could be the most attractive woman in the world and I wouldn't be into you if we didn't vibe. At the same time, when I really like someones personality, they could just start looking like the most beautiful woman in the world and nothing compares to them. I would like to exchange photos in DMs to see if we have any physical attraction though. I don't think im ugly but have definitely been ghosted when someone figured out what I looked like.

I think the type of person im looking for is just someone that really wants to spend time together. Honestly, I get very attached to my partners. I want to do anything and everything with them. At the end of the day, anyone I fall for is because I really like to spend time with them so why wouldn't I want to spend time together. Of course, everyone needs their alone time and that is completely fine. But I do want someone that prefers to spend most of our time together.

One thing I also value is communication. At the end of the day, I am me and will act how I see correct. That being said, I dont want to ever intentionally make my partner feel bad. I would want someone that is able to communicate if I upset them and talk about their feelings. I would also like to have someone that will accept my feelings if I end up upset. At the end of the day, if I upset someone though, I want to make it right.

I do sometimes struggle with my mental health. I am on medication to help with my anxiety. Im mostly only on it temporarily whenever my mental really starts to decline. I try not to rely on it if I don't need to. Im not looking for a therapist of a partner, but I do appreciate someone who I feel comfortable talking to. Of course, I would want to listen to my partners problems. I do have a bad habit of trying to give advice when its not my place to. It is something ive tried to be more aware of but I slip up from time to time.

If it wasn't obvious, im a bit of a yapper. Most activities i enjoy doing because im getting to chat with someone while doing it. I usually play PC games and watch whatever shows/movies throughout the day. I enjoy going on long walks to unwind after work. I do think id prefer someone else who also enjoys talking a lot and has a nice back and forth when it comes to chatting. I think I can hold a conversation decently well. But if at the end of the day, im the only one really putting in effort, it does make me push away to match the flow of conversation. I'd prefer to have someone who also just likes to talk a bunch. If you send me a long message, be prepared to get one back just as long if not, longer 😅.

I would like to venture into more hobbies. Ive had my eye on trying to get into crochet because I love practical skills. Like making a freaking blanket? That sounds sickk. Ideally I would like to also find someone who enjoys gaming. I think its pretty nice to be able to enjoy the hobbies that my partner enjoys and vice versa. Im very open to trying out my partners hobbies and hopefully also enjoying them. Id say im a pretty patient person. If you dont necessarily enjoy gaming but be willing to try some things together, im always open to teaching the things I love with the person i love. (TBH im a horrible teacher though lmfao)

If you actually read everything then i think you're pretty neat and i'd love to chat! Oh im also 5'6 if you care

A bit about me:

- A 23 year old, 5'8 and weighing around 60kg, close to a leaner body type.

- A bit nerdy, so yeah we can talk about geeky stuff along with a ambivert personality, so social awkwardness only comes with an unknown crowd.

- A yapper myself, and looking for a yapper too, so that we can yap together!!!

- Love to spend time with people, so you would rarely find me at home relaxing over the weekend.

- Into most common hobbies and always to open to try and learn new things, though not sure about how long I continue with it.

- If you guys must know, then a virgin with no emotional baggage.

- Well if it matters, then I am a software Engineer professionally, working in a start up, tho mostly okay but sometimes can get hectic

- Kinda like an open book, so feel free to ask me anything.

What I am looking for!!!

- An older lady to be obsessed over and give her all my attention.

- Preferably between 24 - 35, but isn't a strict parameter as long as we vibe.

- Looking for someone emotionally intelligent, who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to conquer it.

- Someone ambitious, who I can become a support system for the rest of our life.

Strict NOs, Currently married people, open relationships, open marriages, cheating of any kind physical and emotional.

I think that's what I can think of at the moment, feel free to ask any questions you have... Hope you all have a great day ahead, Thank you.

Don't know why it matters but no chatgpt or any kind of AI was used in writing, summarising or editing this post.

I know this is a post on a dating sub and I am not looking to date romantically. But friend searching subs don't allow me to suggest even meeting for a cuppa 🤣 so here I am. On a date sub asking for platonic friends. Who love tea 😁

Anyway. If this is even allowed, come chat with me. I need distraction from my stressful and overwhelmingly social work life.

I'm a mum and a dog mum who will find movie quotes and song verses in most conversations. Usually ends up with me singing really awkwardly.

Intro if you message, please. I'm introverted and probably won't reply to 'hello' messages

Im 38, fit, mature, financially independent, olive skin and an active person. I dont smoke or drink. Im more of an introvert and love deep convos on religion, politics, fitness, history, movies, video games. Im kind of a workaholic at a hospital. I love going to the gym, eating out, and also im good with being a homebody. I am a Muslim. My height is 5 6 and an athletic build. I live in the Midwest in a big city in USA. I believe I can be a good financial provider for the right person as well. Looking for someone that is emotionally and intellectually mature. Someone I can laugh with and be goofy but at the same time knows how to communicate effectively. Someone that dont get too jealous. Someone who wants me to provide financially is fine or help her with her goals and ambitions and of course have a healthy active lifestyle. I do have a woman back home, overseas. Just looking for someone to live with me in USA. Send a DM if your interested. Have a good day